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Re: Guys: Please Calm down!!! by MiVida(m): 8:11pm On Sep 08, 2019
Blackivy29:
Who's?
lol... I asked you first please, who's fault is it?
Re: Guys: Please Calm down!!! by Nobody: 8:14pm On Sep 08, 2019
MiVida:
lol... I asked you first please, who's fault is it?
embarassed i dont know. Will you enlighten me?
Re: Guys: Please Calm down!!! by MiVida(m): 8:17pm On Sep 08, 2019
Blackivy29:
embarassed i dont know. Will you enlighten me?
pretence... Of course you won't know who's fault it is and since you don't, I don't know either... You won't hear it from me. tongue
Re: Guys: Please Calm down!!! by Nobody: 8:28pm On Sep 08, 2019
MiVida:
pretence... Of course you won't know who's fault it is and since you don't, I don't know either... You won't hear it from me. tongue
Its an individual's choice. Dont expect me to say men. Cause its not. Neither womens. Personally im not a die hard fan of marriage.
Re: Guys: Please Calm down!!! by MiVida(m): 8:36pm On Sep 08, 2019
Blackivy29:
Its an individual's choice. Dont expect me to say men. Cause its not. Neither womens. Personally im not a die hard fan of marriage.
lol.. I'm not even a fan.

I have a story embarassed
Re: Guys: Please Calm down!!! by Nobody: 8:44pm On Sep 08, 2019
MiVida:
lol.. I'm not even a fan.
I have a story embarassed
Would you like to share?
im just more career oriented
Re: Guys: Please Calm down!!! by Nobody: 8:46pm On Sep 08, 2019
Adasun:
f^cking pussies is one of da purpose of men,dats why u came with an attach di~k.
kingdoms has gone to war because of pussies. a wise man prays for self- control.
Re: Guys: Please Calm down!!! by MiVida(m): 9:04pm On Sep 08, 2019
Blackivy29:
Would you like to share?

im just more career oriented
I was once in that bondage called love... It broke me, I was made an ex or should I say "dumped" for the first time, its complicated my dear, sometimes I felt God wanted to punish me for leaving my first love over someone I dreamt of before seeing. I mean, I dreamt getting married to her before seeing her friend request the next day and I thought it was a sign she's the one... How wrong n I was embarassed
Re: Guys: Please Calm down!!! by Nobody: 9:07pm On Sep 08, 2019
MiVida:
I was once in that bondage called love... It broke me, I was made an ex or should I say "dumped" for the first time, its complicated my dear, sometimes I felt God wanted to punish me for leaving my first love over someone I dreamt of before seeing. I mean, I dreamt getting married to her before seeing her friend request the next day and I thought it was a sign she's the one... How wrong n I was embarassed
tales by moonlight
Re: Guys: Please Calm down!!! by Nobody: 9:09pm On Sep 08, 2019
MiVida:
I was once in that bondage called love... It broke me, I was made an ex or should I say "dumped" for the first time, its complicated my dear, sometimes I felt God wanted to punish me for leaving my first love over someone I dreamt of before seeing. I mean, I dreamt getting married to her before seeing her friend request the next day and I thought it was a sign she's the one... How wrong n I was embarassed
I dont know what to type. Hope your wounds heal. Thats life for you. How do you dream of getting married before you see the friend requesthuh
Re: Guys: Please Calm down!!! by MiVida(m): 9:11pm On Sep 08, 2019
Blackivy29:
I dont know what to type. Hope your wounds heal. Thats life for you. How do you dream of getting married before you see the friend requesthuh
exactly why I said it's complicated.


Hope you're doing fine BTW?
Re: Guys: Please Calm down!!! by Nobody: 9:17pm On Sep 08, 2019
MiVida:
exactly why I said it's complicated.


Hope you're doing fine BTW?
Not that complicated. Mime's worse. Someone broke my heart, i broke his. Met someone else who wasted no time reopening sore wounds. I added him back as my friend on fb today. I've moved on. Still doesnt make him any less of an idiot to me.

Im okay. Accepted the fact relationships aint for me
Re: Guys: Please Calm down!!! by MiVida(m): 9:22pm On Sep 08, 2019
Blackivy29:
Not that complicated. Mime's worse. Someone broke my heart, i broke his. Met someone else who wasted no time reopening sore wounds. I added him back as my friend on fb today. I've moved on. Still doesnt make him any less of an idiot to me.

Im okay. Accepted the fact relationships aint for me
wow... That's much.

Listen, I left all social media cos of this girl I left my first love for, I mean all social media networks, had not a single female friend, did a lot of stupid things yeh and yet, I can't get back fully on my feet since then. There was a time she was ill, I sucked out muccus from her nose lol, that's one of the stupid things I did for love and yet, she couldn't see I was Legit and went on to cheat on me and rub it on my face... While my first love cried say and night wishing we never got apart. I'm a mess my dear.


All I do now when it brings me down is write songs... That's what makes me feel better.
Re: Guys: Please Calm down!!! by mrblessed(m): 9:29pm On Sep 08, 2019
carter009:
Check ur mail...
You must have assumed she is blind not to see the mail. Stop dishing out unnecessary insult to a bimbo.
Re: Guys: Please Calm down!!! by Nobody: 9:32pm On Sep 08, 2019
MiVida:
wow... That's much.

Listen, I left all social media cos of this girl I left my first love for, I mean all social media networks, had not a single female friend, did a lot of stupid things yeh and yet, I can't get back fully on my feet since then. There was a time she was ill, I sucked out muccus from her nose lol, that's one of the stupid things I did for love and yet, she couldn't see I was Legit and went on to cheat on me and rub it on my face... While my first love cried say and night wishing we never got apart. I'm a mess my dear.


All I do now when it brings me down is write songs... That's what makes me feel better.
You stated that and you had broken up with her i wanted to ask why. That was sweet. I guess at times we dont appreciate love when its shown to us. But when the love we give is taken for granted we feel sad and alone.
To feel better, i write stories. Once wrote a deep poem for him after we split. He mocked it and it hurt. But i've moved on.
Re: Guys: Please Calm down!!! by MiVida(m): 9:46pm On Sep 08, 2019
Blackivy29:
You stated that and you had broken up with her i wanted to ask why. That was sweet. I guess at times we dont appreciate love when its shown to us. But when the love we give is taken for granted we feel sad and alone.
To feel better, i write stories. Once wrote a deep poem for him after we split. He mocked it and it hurt. But i've moved on.
looks like you have more balls than I can ever have... Shame on me embarassed

I didn't actually break up with my first, I just left her, in the sense that I stopped picking her calls, stopped talking to her without saying a single word cry

Till date, I still can't face her.. I avoid her cause I feel very guilty. Worst part is, she's now married cry
Re: Guys: Please Calm down!!! by Nobody: 9:56pm On Sep 08, 2019
MiVida:
looks like you have more balls than I can ever have... Shame on me embarassed

I didn't actually break up with my first, I just left her, in the sense that I stopped picking her calls, stopped talking to her without saying a single word cry

Till date, I still can't face her.. I avoid her cause I feel very guilty. Worst part is, she's now married cry
Sad. Forget what they. To me love is more bitter than sweet. I wont judge, i've done worse.
besides wont say i have more balls. Truth is im a coward. When the boat is shaky i jump off. Too good at saying goodbyes i guess.
I feel teary. To be honest i havent moved on completely. I hear a sad sond and i break down. I hurts to be betrayed. And its betrayal only when you gave the traitor not only your love but trust and loyalty.

for my first time at love, it was a complete mess. Regret everything.
Re: Guys: Please Calm down!!! by carter009(m): 10:02pm On Sep 08, 2019
Lol, are you guys having issues?
mrblessed:
You must have assumed she is blind not to see the mail. Stop dishing out unnecessary insult to a bimbo.
Re: Guys: Please Calm down!!! by daharry(m): 7:08am On Sep 09, 2019
chenzen:
are u that broke? answer the question...
Of course,i'm broke.Right now i just finished the remaing cassava flakes at home..lemme fast till i get a new supply
Re: Guys: Please Calm down!!! by Omar09(m): 7:31am On Sep 09, 2019
chenzen:
O yes ... tis' a big deal... Treasure it if she does give it to u... and if she doesn't, dont curse...
Why, because her number fit gimme conne? Bro you really need to see what a real pussy is for you to stop worshipping it. Which one again be treasure ordinary number? Odikwa egwu
Re: Guys: Please Calm down!!! by Omar09(m): 7:33am On Sep 09, 2019
daharry:
The way you sound i won't be suprised if the person behind this moniker is a female.
Btw the only number i would treasure from a lady is her ATM card pin number...shey you get?
Ah swear. Nothing more nothing less
Re: Guys: Please Calm down!!! by Omar09(m): 7:33am On Sep 09, 2019
chenzen:
I live for more... I m too busy
Virgin boy.
Re: Guys: Please Calm down!!! by MiVida(m): 7:52am On Sep 09, 2019
Blackivy29:
Sad. Forget what they. To me love is more bitter than sweet. I wont judge, i've done worse.
besides wont say i have more balls. Truth is im a coward. When the boat is shaky i jump off. Too good at saying goodbyes i guess.
I feel teary. To be honest i havent moved on completely. I hear a sad sond and i break down. I hurts to be betrayed. And its betrayal only when you gave the traitor not only your love but trust and loyalty.

for my first time at love, it was a complete mess. Regret everything.
it isn't easy handling heart break, I remembered the last words my first love said before she gave up on my coming back, she said "James your silence is breaking my heart, please take my calls I beg you cry if you say my life is full of regrets, I'd say YES IT IS, cos I left someone who did absolutely nothing wrong to me, someone who truly loved me, someone who actually misses talking to me everytime, she's into music as well as I am, got aroused when around her a whole lot of times and she'll notice and would ask me to come close but as someone I wanted to marry, I'd tell her let's do it at the right time babe and she'd smile n give me a hug... I remembered the day her dad walked in on us alone in the house and didn't even act like something was inappropriate, he reached out to me for a handshake n asked about my family n everyone n his daughter escorted me out.... All my promises to her, I FAILED HER COMPLETELY! cry cry cry


Good morning from this side embarassed
Re: Guys: Please Calm down!!! by Barzinime(m): 10:33am On Sep 09, 2019
Has it been crooked for you? huh huh
chenzen:
we need to get it straight...grin
Re: Guys: Please Calm down!!! by Adasun(m): 12:10pm On Sep 09, 2019
chenzen:
kingdoms has gone to war because of pussies. a wise man prays for self- control.
yeah,especially you,u need dat prayer.
Re: Guys: Please Calm down!!! by Nobody: 8:51pm On Sep 09, 2019
last week Friday, a girl I know from the neighborhood pulled my nipples, not once but thrice. apparently she confessed that she is always staring at my chest and nipples anytime I wear any body hugging shirt. I resisted her obviously from pulling it but she outsmarted me, even wanted me to pull hers if I felt like.

now my point is there is no general rule to how you relate with the opposite sex. as long as the person is above the age of consent just ensure what ever you do meets the approval of who you are doing it too. and OP ladies don't usually tell you what to do or what not to do, just study her body language and know if she is comfortable with whatever you are doing. if she isn't into it stop without her saying anything, I believe her body language will have spoken volumes already.
Re: Guys: Please Calm down!!! by AfroKnight: 10:28pm On Sep 09, 2019
Blackivy29:
grin Chenzen defender of the fairer sex.
“Fairer sex” is a term rooted in patriarchy. Interesting that you are not offended by it.
Re: Guys: Please Calm down!!! by Nobody: 2:17pm On Sep 11, 2019
AfroKnight:
“Fairer sex” is a term rooted in patriarchy. Interesting that you are not offended by it.
You didnt understand what i was doing?
Re: Guys: Please Calm down!!! by Nobody: 8:20pm On Oct 15, 2019
MiVida:
I really doubt they do...
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