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Re: When Asked "Are You A Virgin?" How Did You Feel? by Kaycee7(m): 5:05pm On Sep 11, 2019
pocohantas:
What na? lipsrsealed
Nothing. Just pointing out the sense in that statement.
Re: When Asked "Are You A Virgin?" How Did You Feel? by Nobody: 5:14pm On Sep 11, 2019
pocohantas:
This isn't about being smart though. I will answer because I just want to answer and I have no regrets for all my knacks.

However, I will begin to question the mental condition of the guy in question.

It is a really silly question to ask and any guy that goes about asking such should take stock of his life.


You did not ask how she is doing in school, you did not ask her goals, books she has read or any sensible question. You rush straight to her vagina. Since he wants to know more about my vagina than me, I will indulge him.
Nothing is silly about that question !
It's part of a process of getting to know a girl you're dealing with.
Every girl rather should be proud to say she is a virgin ,and a messed up society as ours right now,doesn't change the ancient landmark that virginity should be the pride of any young woman our there,except some cases like where rape and it likes are involved.

At your last paragraph,for a guy to ask you such question,you must have known each others for a long time or there about.
No guy will just walk up to a lady & start asking her if she is a virgin or not,that's what's silly & rude,the situation & not the question itself.
Re: When Asked "Are You A Virgin?" How Did You Feel? by Nobody: 5:17pm On Sep 11, 2019
pocohantas:
Trust me, I can see how much you jump on my posts with the aim of provoking me.

You are still crawling, I am already roller-skating. I have more comebacks than your spermcells, but you can be my guest- only that you will be ignored henceforth.
more comeback than your spermcells,good one grin
pocohantas:
Trust me, I can see how much you jump on my posts with the aim of provoking me.

You are still crawling, I am already roller-skating. I have more comebacks than your spermcells, but you can be my guest- only that you will be ignored henceforth.
more comeback than your spermcells,good one
Re: When Asked "Are You A Virgin?" How Did You Feel? by Nobody: 5:20pm On Sep 11, 2019
funmisticqueen2:
has he treated an STI before. That usually shuts them up
That's the one right there.
Re: When Asked "Are You A Virgin?" How Did You Feel? by pocohantas(f): 5:20pm On Sep 11, 2019
GLYCOLYSISS:
Nothing is silly about that question !
It's part of a process of getting to know a girl you're dealing with.
Every girl rather should be proud to say she is a virgin ,and a messed up society as ours right now,doesn't change the ancient landmark that virginity should be the pride of any young woman our there,except some cases like where rape and it likes are involved.

At your last paragraph,for a guy to ask you such question,you must have known each others for a long time or there about.
No guy will just walk up to a lady & start asking her if she is a virgin or not,that's what's silly & rude,the situation & not the question itself.
More reason you should keep shut. So many guys ask that question without knowing the girl in question. Except you own a vagina in your spare time, you should allow women speak. Okay?

Ancient landmark indeed. Why don't you go back to hunting in the bushes and bringing home the spoils like your fore-fathers did.

So, after puncturing it, worse by a community prick- she becomes "prideless" ba? Nonsense and glycolisiss.
Re: When Asked "Are You A Virgin?" How Did You Feel? by Nobody: 5:46pm On Sep 11, 2019
pocohantas:
Trust me, I can see how much you jump on my posts with the aim of provoking me.

You are still crawling, I am already roller-skating. I have more comebacks than your sperm cells but you can be my guest- only that you will be ignored henceforth.
O finish mii !!

Re: When Asked "Are You A Virgin?" How Did You Feel? by Nobody: 5:46pm On Sep 11, 2019
pocohantas:
More reason you should keep shut. So many guys ask that question without knowing the girl in question. Except you own a vagina in your spare time, you should allow women speak. Okay?

Ancient landmark indeed. Why don't you go back to hunting in the bushes and bringing home the spoils like your fore-fathers did.

So, after puncturing it, worse by a community prick- she becomes "prideless" ba? Nonsense and glycolisiss.
Are you done ?

I repeat, no guy meets a girl for the first time & go straight to asking her if she is a virgin or not,unless very little exceptional cases.
And to that little cases,I agree it's silly & rude to be asking a woman you just met her virginity state.

You could put out many examples as you want to,but it still won't change the state ,that virginity should be one of the greatest things a young woman should take pride in,unless some cases of sexual molestation,even if our society have gone to the dogs.
You don't have to agree with me ,which I really don't mind.

It doesn't make her "prideless", but if obviously sent a message to anyone she is dealing with,to understand what he is going into,love her for who he met her as,or go exactly after who he wants, a virgin.
Every guys dream is to marry a virgin,you can't change that,even the most sexually active guys out there knows that a virgin is the goal.


Is that all you got ? Insults ?

Smiles...

Take care.
Re: When Asked "Are You A Virgin?" How Did You Feel? by pocohantas(f): 5:49pm On Sep 11, 2019
GLYCOLYSISS:
Are you done ?

I repeat, no guy meets a girl for the first time & go straight to asking her if she is a virgin or not,unless very little exceptional cases.
And to that little cases,I agree it's silly & rude to be asking a woman you just met her virginity state.

You could put out many examples as you want to,but it still won't change the state ,that virginity should be one of the greatest things a young woman should take pride in,unless some cases of sexual molestation,even if our society have gone to the dogs.
You don't have to agree with me ,which I really don't mind.

It doesn't make her "prideless", but if obviously sent a message to anyone she is dealing with,to understand what he is going into,love her for who he met her as,or go exactly after who he wants, a virgin.
Every guys dream is to marry a virgin,you can't change that,even the most sexually active guys out there knows that a virgin is the goal.


Is that all you got ? Insults ?

Smiles...

Take care.
The contradictions grin

Anyway, Nairaland, I introduce to you, the spokesperson of EVERY GUY.

We are talking of billions of men in the world.

Clap for yourself bro...you are the future.
Re: When Asked "Are You A Virgin?" How Did You Feel? by Babawon1: 5:51pm On Sep 11, 2019
Ayotemide:
You would find one in the same mental dimension as you also.
looks like being a virgin is a problem to u.
Re: When Asked "Are You A Virgin?" How Did You Feel? by Nobody: 5:52pm On Sep 11, 2019
pocohantas:
The contradictions grin

Anyway, Nairaland, I introduce to you, the spokesperson of EVERY GUY.

We are talking of billions of men in the world.

Clap for yourself bro...you are the future.
Contradictions ?

Is that all you got ?

OK..
Re: When Asked "Are You A Virgin?" How Did You Feel? by Babawon1: 5:55pm On Sep 11, 2019
GLYCOLYSISS:
Are you done ?

I repeat, no guy meets a girl for the first time & go straight to asking her if she is a virgin or not,unless very little exceptional cases.
And to that little cases,I agree it's silly & rude to be asking a woman you just met her virginity state.

You could put out many examples as you want to,but it still won't change the state ,that virginity should be one of the greatest things a young woman should take pride in,unless some cases of sexual molestation,even if our society have gone to the dogs.
You don't have to agree with me ,which I really don't mind.

It doesn't make her "prideless", but if obviously sent a message to anyone she is dealing with,to understand what he is going into,love her for who he met her as,or go exactly after who he wants, a virgin.
Every guys dream is to marry a virgin,you can't change that,even the most sexually active guys out there knows that a virgin is the goal.


Is that all you got ? Insults ?

Smiles...

Take care.
I know a guy who had many gf he date, but there is one S.U among them he never do rubish with, we notice he's keeping her for marriage while bleeping the other.
Re: When Asked "Are You A Virgin?" How Did You Feel? by pocohantas(f): 5:59pm On Sep 11, 2019
GLYCOLYSISS:
Contradictions ?

Is that all you got ?

OK..
Stop asking if that is all I have got and tell me how you can conveniently speak for EVERY GUY. Billions of men.

Who exactly are you? Let that be your next reply biko.
Re: When Asked "Are You A Virgin?" How Did You Feel? by pocohantas(f): 6:02pm On Sep 11, 2019
Babawon1:
I know a guy who had many gf he date, but there is one S.U among them he never do rubish with, we notice he's keeping her for marriage while bleeping the other.
We all know someone that fits the example we want to give. I also know a guy who is a church guy, but he married a slay queen. We all expected him to marry a church sister like him. Tell me about another guy you know?
Re: When Asked "Are You A Virgin?" How Did You Feel? by Nobody: 6:11pm On Sep 11, 2019
Babawon1:
I know a guy who had many gf he date, but there is one S.U among them he never do rubish with, we notice he's keeping her for marriage while bleeping the other.
That's guys for you.
A guy can date anything that have pussy,big ass and Boobs for dating & boyfriend/girlfriend sake.
He don't care if she is a virgin,guys prefer them non virgin self at these stage,because of the emotion and whatnot that comes with dating a virgin girl.

But when it comes to marriage ?
The priority changes.

Virginity signifies purity,self control & virtuousness,that's why most girls gets pissed off when asked if they are virgins ,because most are not.

Of course,guys do the deflowering, but most cases,the same guys still go out searching for virgins when it comes to a very serious relationship that will most likely going to lead to marriage.

Who takes a girl serious that he have fuvked over & over again huh Done different kind of sex position on her pussy ..
The girl end up taking postinor tablet every now & them after the sex,even go as far as committing abortion for the guy & you think the guy is that stupid & dumb to make you the mother of his kids huh

Guys are not stupid,but most women will never learn.
Re: When Asked "Are You A Virgin?" How Did You Feel? by pocohantas(f):
Lots of women are not virgins, but they keep marrying everyday...to guys.

Same way the virgins will marry.

NL posts won't change that.
Re: When Asked "Are You A Virgin?" How Did You Feel? by Nobody: 6:24pm On Sep 11, 2019
princfred:
Is salvaged commodity free? Atlaest pay in installments.
lol but whatever u pay is not a rip off. just imagine a retired prostitute is expecting an unfortunate man to come pay dowry. whaddaya meanhuh
Re: When Asked "Are You A Virgin?" How Did You Feel? by Ayotemide(f): 6:30pm On Sep 11, 2019
Babawon1:
looks like being a virgin is a problem to u.
I don't deal with shallow minded individuals who think having an hymen is a qualification for marriage. I can't see how the biological process of fucking is the reason some guy thinks I am wife material.

Don't engage me in needless banter tori olorun. Goodluck on your Hymen search.
Re: When Asked "Are You A Virgin?" How Did You Feel? by Nobody: 6:30pm On Sep 11, 2019
GLYCOLYSISS:
Virginity signifies purity,self control & virtuousness,that's why most girls gets pissed off when asked if they are virgins ,because most are not.

Of course,guys do the deflowering, but most cases,the same guys still go out searching for virgins when it comes to a very serious relationship that will most likely going to lead to marriage.

Who takes a girl serious that he have fuvked over & over again huh Done different kind of sex position on her pussy ..
The girl end up taking postinor tablet every now & them after the sex,even go as far as committing abortion for the guy & you think the guy is that stupid & dumb to make you the mother of his kids huh

Guys are not stupid,but most women will never learn.
of course, you will then run around sharing your dick because if you actually get the virtuous holy untouched virgin, after all your years of fking around, she will just not be able to do anything for you.

i know of a lady who married as a virgin who was very very bitter. she was saying she should have had fun in school, since she had saved herself for a dog who was still running around fking university girls

Good luck sha. unless you get a village girl, the chicks no dey smile anymore.
Re: When Asked "Are You A Virgin?" How Did You Feel? by Laurene: 6:33pm On Sep 11, 2019
vickyhow:
In DJ Cuppy's Voice;

U Honest!
U Smart!
I Appreciate that.
dj Khaled actually
Re: When Asked "Are You A Virgin?" How Did You Feel? by Nobody: 6:36pm On Sep 11, 2019
pocohantas:
Stop asking if that is all I have got and tell me how you can conveniently speak for EVERY GUY. Billions of men.

Who exactly are you? Let that be your next reply biko.
Every woman's dream is to get married to a man that's doing well in life.
"Doing well" here, in life, can be subjectively,but at least he should be able to pay the bills & take care of his beautiful family.
Do you find that difficult to believe ?

What does that information about women relationship to men when it comes to marriage tells you ?

Do I speak for every woman out there with my assertion above ?

You learn ,when you listen.
Poco, you can't change men psych when it comes to virgins and non virgins.

To men out there,no matter how bad & randy they are,virgin still signifies purity,self control & virtuousness to us,and that's their goal for a serious relationship.

Of course,guys deflower the girls that became non virgins today,but unfortunately, a guy ,when it comes to a very serious relationship or marriage, they go out there and search for a virgin,though other qualities are still desirable.

Even if the lady is from a poor background and probably not doing well in life,but is a virgin, a guy can do anything to get to establish something serious with her.

For dating & merry sexual pleasure ?
Guys even prefer them not virgins,because of the emotions & attachment that comes with most virgins,unless in extreme cases like rape.

Does it mean non virgins don't have self control & are not virtues ?
Won't it be stupid for me to say they can't possess those qualities ?

But certainly they have lost that sexual purity.
And to a man,that ( sexual purity) means everything.
Your 21 century ideology changes nothing when it comes to men desire for virgins.
What's just playing out is a situation of when the desirable becomes unavailable or very very scarce, the available becomes an option.

So,when a man ask you if you're a virgin or not after getting to know you ,he ,most cases,mean business with you.
Re: When Asked "Are You A Virgin?" How Did You Feel? by pocohantas(f): 6:37pm On Sep 11, 2019
GLYCOLYSISS:
Every woman's dream is to get married to a man that's doing well in life.
"Doing well" here, in life, can be subjectively,but at least he should be able to pay the bills & take care of his beautiful family.
Do you find that difficult to believe ?

What does that information about women relationship to men when it comes to marriage tells you ?

Do I speak for every woman out there with my assertion above ?

You learn ,when you listen.
Poco, you can't change men psych when it comes to virgins and non virgins.

To men out there,no matter how bad & randy they are,virgin still signifies purity,self control & virtuousness to us,and that's their goal for a serious relationship.

Of course,guys deflower the girls that became non virgins today,but unfortunately, a guy ,when it comes to a very serious relationship or marriage, they go out there and search for a virgin,though other qualities are still desirable.

Even if the lady is from a poor background and probably not doing well in life,but is a virgin, a guy can do anything to get to establish something serious with her.

For dating & merry sexual pleasure ?
Guys even prefer them not virgins,because of the emotions & attachment that comes with most virgins,unless in extreme cases like rape.

Does it mean non virgins don't have self control & are not virtues ?
Won't it be stupid for me to say they can't possess those qualities ?

But certainly they have lost that sexual purity.
And to a man,that ( sexual purity) means everything.
Your 21 century ideology changes nothing when it comes to men desire for virgins.
What's just playing out is a situation of when the desirable becomes unavailable or very very scarce, the available becomes an option.

So,when a man ask you if you're a virgin or not after getting to know you ,he ,most cases,mean business with you.
Yawns... Reality will always be different

Re: When Asked "Are You A Virgin?" How Did You Feel? by Thegamingorca(m): 6:38pm On Sep 11, 2019
pocohantas:
Yawns... Reality will always be different
lipsrsealed
Re: When Asked "Are You A Virgin?" How Did You Feel? by Laurene: 6:41pm On Sep 11, 2019
Thegamingorca:
Ha...lol! This is savagery
you are a disgrace to all men
Re: When Asked "Are You A Virgin?" How Did You Feel? by vickyhow(m): 6:42pm On Sep 11, 2019
Laurene:
dj Khaled actually
Thnkz for ur timely correction!
Re: When Asked "Are You A Virgin?" How Did You Feel? by Nobody: 6:43pm On Sep 11, 2019
ornicus:
of course, you will then run around sharing your dick because if you actually get the virtuous holy untouched virgin, after all your years of fking around, she will just not be able to do anything for you.

i know of a lady who married as a virgin who was very very bitter. she was saying she should have had fun in school, since she had saved herself for a dog who was still running around fking university girls

Good luck sha. unless you get a village girl, the chicks no dey smile anymore.
Are you done ?

Virgin girls are still the goal, take it or leave it !
Even if the world decide to burn to ash,it changes nothing !
And not even you story will change men desire for virgin girls.
Re: When Asked "Are You A Virgin?" How Did You Feel? by Fountainofyouth(f): 6:44pm On Sep 11, 2019
The narrative here is "marry a virgin" and yet non virgins keep getting married, so who are the ones marrying them? Aliens? Some mentals here will say they are "beta guys aka weakling", yet they have the best marriage ever, to them viginity defines a successful marriage, not knowing that a successful marriage knows no hymen, lol
Re: When Asked "Are You A Virgin?" How Did You Feel? by Nobody: 7:03pm On Sep 11, 2019
Lol..
Someone is giving a narrative of how non virgins are getting the best marriage while some virgins are having a miserable one.
If you're a virgin,don't fall for that bullshit !
Women will always desire a rich guy even if they know of the high rate of divorce among the rich when compared to the poor.

Does that stop women from desiring the rich guys ?
But when it comes to men & desire for virgin girls,they start bringing up stupid stories here & there to brainwash gullible ladies that they envy are still virgins.


Virginity is more than the hymen,always remember that.

Virgin girls is still the goal even if the world decide to go naked & walk unclad in the street !
Re: When Asked "Are You A Virgin?" How Did You Feel? by izzou(m): 7:08pm On Sep 11, 2019
GLYCOLYSISS:
Every woman's dream is to get married to a man that's doing well in life.
"Doing well" here, in life, can be subjectively,but at least he should be able to pay the bills & take care of his beautiful family.
Do you find that difficult to believe ?

What does that information about women relationship to men when it comes to marriage tells you ?

Do I speak for every woman out there with my assertion above ?

You learn ,when you listen.
Poco, you can't change men psych when it comes to virgins and non virgins.

To men out there,no matter how bad & randy they are,virgin still signifies purity,self control & virtuousness to us,and that's their goal for a serious relationship.

Of course,guys deflower the girls that became non virgins today,but unfortunately, a guy ,when it comes to a very serious relationship or marriage, they go out there and search for a virgin,though other qualities are still desirable.

Even if the lady is from a poor background and probably not doing well in life,but is a virgin, a guy can do anything to get to establish something serious with her.

For dating & merry sexual pleasure ?
Guys even prefer them not virgins,because of the emotions & attachment that comes with most virgins,unless in extreme cases like rape.

Does it mean non virgins don't have self control & are not virtues ?
Won't it be stupid for me to say they can't possess those qualities ?

But certainly they have lost that sexual purity.
And to a man,that ( sexual purity) means everything.
Your 21 century ideology changes nothing when it comes to men desire for virgins.
What's just playing out is a situation of when the desirable becomes unavailable or very very scarce, the available becomes an option.

So,when a man ask you if you're a virgin or not after getting to know you ,he ,most cases,mean business with you.
When I see a virgin, I only respect them for how they have kept themselves that long.

That's the least of my requirements in a relationship/marriage

If I need a virgin, I'll go to the interior villages in my state, or better still go to Northern Nigeria and marry a 13 year old uneducated girl

A non-virgin with a good heart and character will make a good wife

A virgin with a bad character is never to be married.


You guys should stop making yourselves sound funny.... But then, it's your opinion


I still respect it
Re: When Asked "Are You A Virgin?" How Did You Feel? by pocohantas(f): 7:11pm On Sep 11, 2019
izzou:
When I see a virgin, I only respect them for how they have kept themselves that long.

That's the least of my requirements in a relationship/marriage

If I need a virgin, I'll go to the interior villages in my state, or better still go to Northern Nigeria and marry a 13 year old uneducated girl

A non-virgin with a good heart and character will make a good wife

A virgin with a bad character is never to be married.


You guys should stop making yourselves sound funny.... But then, it's your opinion


I still respect it
I am a virgin, refurbished virgin. With good character. I can cook too, I bring a lot to the table.

How far na?
Re: When Asked "Are You A Virgin?" How Did You Feel? by izzou(m): 7:13pm On Sep 11, 2019
pocohantas:
I am a virgin, refurbished virgin. With good character. I can cook too, I bring a lot to the table.

How far na?
How's the mileage?

Low Abi? cool
Re: When Asked "Are You A Virgin?" How Did You Feel? by pocohantas(f): 7:16pm On Sep 11, 2019
izzou:
How's the mileage?

Low Abi? cool
A little over 200,000miles. But I have changed transmission once. Did repainting job and some tuning. I am more like a kit car now.
Re: When Asked "Are You A Virgin?" How Did You Feel? by Fountainofyouth(f): 7:16pm On Sep 11, 2019
GLYCOLYSISS:
Lol..
Someone is giving a narrative of how non virgins are getting the best marriage while some virgins are having a miserable one.
If you're a virgin,don't fall for that bullshit !
Women will always desire a rich guy even if they know of the high rate of divorce among the rich when compared to the poor.

Does that stop women from desiring the rich guys ?
But when it comes to men & desire for virgin girls,they start bringing up stupid stories here & there to brainwash gullible ladies that they envy are still virgins.


Virginity is more than the hymen,always remember that.

Virgin girls is still the goal even if the world decide to go naked & walk unclad in the street !
@emboldened, kindly expantiate on what you mean by it is more than the hymen, Cos the dictionary/Google says it is never having sexual intercourse, as in diick breaking the hymen, so school me pls.
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