MrHistorian:
Summarily, Wealth, Social hierarchy, Status and accomplishments define a man's attractiveness to the female gender.

A decent physical appearance will be an icing on the cake.

AntiMCU:
Don't agree with everything though.

tensazangetsu20:
This is just so painful to read

MrHistorian:
Summarily, Wealth, Social hierarchy, Status and accomplishments define a man's attractiveness to the female gender.

A decent physical appearance will be an icing on the cake.

karo93:
So what is the moral lesson or action point in all your male n female attraction theories?

I haven't gotten the point anyway. Should women be worshipped as holding the key of choice to the next generation or what?

pansophist:


Example?

pansophist:


Yes, especially when toned. You know, the Justin Bieber look. Less body fat (subcutaneous and visceral), trimmed jawline (triangulated), sparkling white teeth, v-torso,

Come get money and get sense join am, with impeccable diction, humor and sense of style, you go enjoy woman tire

AntiMCU:


Your post implies that the only reason a man should improve himself is to gain female attention.

pansophist:


It seems so, but again, it is expected that readers should understand it in its true context. The romance section is about romance, relationship, and stuff. And yes, nature only cares about survival, so if the only reason you can improve yourself is to gain female attention and have a family, in nature's eyes, you are a success. It is your kids that lives after you, not your career.

AntiMCU:


With the way you framed your write-up, I don't expect marriage to be part of the equation, because I quite agree with you when you brought up the Pareto's principle.

20% or lesser of men are sleeping 80% of women if not more.

In as much as I understand the "context" you're writing from, personal motivations and environmental factors come into place, not just female attention.

pansophist:


Of course. Environmental and societal factors will influence the degree and intensity it is expressed, but the core of the matter is ever relevant. From my experience, in underdeveloped countries, women premium an economically dominant man than your average fine boy. To be handsome as a man and broke in the west will attract women to you (Jeremy Meeks, a convicted model dating a billionaire's daughter come to mind), can't say the same about Nigeria.

AntiMCU:

But it sucks though, which is why I don't really fancy marriage coupled with my background.

The thoughts of a woman being with me because I'm a provider irks me to hell and back.

Still, it's the bitter truth.

pansophist:


How is it painful to read? what is painful here?

TissuePaper:
i've been waiting for ubunja on his how to approach girls article but he's not yet through with that, can u just give me a few tips and wise words on approaching these babies..tnz

pansophist:


Please read the attached. I wrote it some few months ago, it is relevant to your query.

Albeit, it seemed like OP wanted men to worship women as alluded in the thread about females, but he is right. It was during my sophomore that I got to know what the thread described. Lasses preferred mingling with lads above average while not doing anything with those perceived to be worthless. Due to it being an academic environment, these lasses at least accorded respect and mingled with those who topped the class, of which yours truly was a contender. I witnessed the admiration they had for a lad who did well in his first year and how he was deserted when he fumbled afterwards. Furthermore, I realised this theory after reading this article by The Economist and this from Brookings Institute. After reading them, I went on to research papers and since then, my mentality changed, for the better.

Women from time immemorial have always gravitated towards men who are financially capable and I see this daily, like everyday! The entreprise I manage is B2C and through that, I have drawn my conclusion regarding the kind of men a woman follows and vice versa. While I will agree somewhat with the poster in the female thread that opined selection of individuals goes across both genders, it's true according to OP that women have the final say regarding the kind of man she wants. Unfortunately for them, menopause hits them hard but with social liberalism spreading across the land, attitudes are changing. Our mothers have tried but the present generation of ladies are not thinking like them and won't. They will be highly selective than our mothers and ruthlessly so. If nothing happens, there are other options.

On sex, oh! So cheap and easily available (I love how OP linked biology with economics), as a result, the price is low. On average, a pretty (not beautiful) girl gets at least 3 toasters daily and if she needs sex or the sperm, she can get them and even get paid for having sex. Now, with changing social attitudes, it implies any woman can get semen from any man she desires for next to nothing and become a mother! This was unthinkable decades ago. On the brighter side, men who set themselves during their prime will benefit as they will have a throng of beautiful ladies begging for their (males) attention whether he is married or not (yet again, I witness this daily of which the hospitality industry benefits tremendously). Unfortunately for men who don't get to this group, they are left lonely and dejected. Worse still, they become depressed and begin to regret life. In a world where relationships of any kind are transactional, it becomes hard to witness such happening while reminiscing on youthful years. If anyone thinks the world is competitive or resources are scarce, then wait till 2029/2039. (the relationship between war and polygamy. Even though I don't agree entirely with the article)

Well done OP!

zclass:
No atom of wisdom in this write up. Just a load of bull crap

AntiMCU:

Would like to hear your perspective.

zclass:


The focus is women. The write up is teaching us to work hard in order to impress, that's bull shit.
Though he has made some valid statements sha. Fvck is a lot cheaper if you understand the game.
Yes ofcos we all work hard but different, we do it for personal improvement to establish a good reputation and a legacy.
Op wants us to worship women as though they are the reward(trophy) for hard work.
shebi you get my point?

AntiMCU:


You know what?

I perfectly agree with you.

If you scroll up, you'd notice I pointed out the same thing to the Op.

Personal improvement springs up from different motivations and not the need to only impress women.

However, I like the fact that you also acknowledeged some of his valid points.

Cc: pansophist, at this point, I think you should modify some parts of your write up.

tensazangetsu20:
This is just so painful to read