Yuneehk:
Usual pattern. Chases you, gets you hooked, small fun, starts withdrawing, all efforts to get things back to how it used to be will be futile and THE END. Congratulations, you're back to being Single Hun and that's the bitter truth.

You mean sex?

@OP, he used you to get over a failed relationship. You have been used okay? Now it's time to move on. Sorry dear.

Nmezor:
Don't beg him any more OP, forget about him.He wasn't really into you in the first place.

Gbam my dear love that, my Sister is not meant to be, move on, though it might be hard! What is yours will certainly locate and find you. Don't give up in LOVE

Nmezor:
Don't beg him any more OP, forget about him.He wasn't really into you in the first place.

Gbam my dear love that, my Sister is not meant to be, move on, though it might be hard! What is yours will certainly locate and find you. Don't give up on LOVE

firstladyp4:
He came at the right time when I needed someone to mend my broken heart from a failed relationship. At first, He was loving, caring and understanding. We were so attached to each other and that made me love him to the core. He is my best friend I love him sooooo much but at a point he began to withdraw from being whom I have known him to be. No more calls, if I complain he will say he is busy and doesn't have airtime and I will send him airtime, I am always the one buying him things and saying sorry in every argument,he will keep singing it to my ear that if I can't cope I should try another. I love him and I will always beg. he always blocks me online and unblock after several pleads. This is really weighting me down but don't know what to do anymore. After this recent argument he told me he wouldn't want to see my appology massage on his phone and blocked me online. What do i do now?Please no insults, I need a sincere advice.

Dear, this isn't love, it's an obsession, i would advise you to stop forcing yourself on him, cry over him for 3 days max, then go out and get a life. create new hobbies, meet new people.

No man should be your emotional crutch, you are too clingy and needy

How does it feel being on the other end of the spectrum?

No. Love isn't by force. pls move on.

Don't beg him anymore. Have some self worth op. God will certainly send someone who will genuinely love you and care for you. These experiences will either make you or mare you but I strongly advice you let it make you stronger. Learn never to give ur heart out fully to someone you not even sure of.

firstladyp4:
He came at the right time when I needed someone to mend my broken heart from a failed relationship. At first, He was loving, caring and understanding. We were so attached to each other and that made me love him to the core. He is my best friend I love him sooooo much but at a point he began to withdraw from being whom I have known him to be. No more calls, if I complain he will say he is busy and doesn't have airtime and I will send him airtime, I am always the one buying him things and saying sorry in every argument,he will keep singing it to my ear that if I can't cope I should try another. I love him and I will always beg. he always blocks me online and unblock after several pleads. This is really weighting me down but don't know what to do anymore. After this recent argument he told me he wouldn't want to see my appology massage on his phone and blocked me online. What do i do now?Please no insults, I need a sincere advice.

You are far better than all what he subjected you to... You deserve better and the one for you will definitely come your way soon.

Acidosis:


You mean sex?

For the "small fun" part? No, I didn't mean Sex totally. Fun could be going out on dates, visiting each other, spending quality time together, doing interesting things generally, etc.
Happy Sunday to you.

firstladyp4:
He came at the right time when I needed someone to mend my broken heart from a failed relationship. At first, He was loving, caring and understanding. We were so attached to each other and that made me love him to the core. He is my best friend I love him sooooo much but at a point he began to withdraw from being whom I have known him to be. No more calls, if I complain he will say he is busy and doesn't have airtime and I will send him airtime, I am always the one buying him things and saying sorry in every argument,he will keep singing it to my ear that if I can't cope I should try another. I love him and I will always beg. he always blocks me online and unblock after several pleads. This is really weighting me down but don't know what to do anymore. After this recent argument he told me he wouldn't want to see my appology massage on his phone and blocked me online. What do i do now?Please no insults, I need a sincere advice.

Ubunja must have "miseducated" him

firstladyp4:
He came at the right time when I needed someone to mend my broken heart from a failed relationship. At first, He was loving, caring and understanding. We were so attached to each other and that made me love him to the core. He is my best friend I love him sooooo much but at a point he began to withdraw from being whom I have known him to be. No more calls, if I complain he will say he is busy and doesn't have airtime and I will send him airtime, I am always the one buying him things and saying sorry in every argument,he will keep singing it to my ear that if I can't cope I should try another. I love him and I will always beg. he always blocks me online and unblock after several pleads. This is really weighting me down but don't know what to do anymore. After this recent argument he told me he wouldn't want to see my appology massage on his phone and blocked me online. What do i do now?Please no insults, I need a sincere advice.

When it's not as if you're being jazzed.... Je ki ori e kpe... Ko ni da fun love... You better wake up and stop allowing your emotions rule you...

firstladyp4:
He came at the right time when I needed someone to mend my broken heart from a failed relationship. At first, He was loving, caring and understanding. We were so attached to each other and that made me love him to the core. He is my best friend I love him sooooo much but at a point he began to withdraw from being whom I have known him to be. No more calls, if I complain he will say he is busy and doesn't have airtime and I will send him airtime, I am always the one buying him things and saying sorry in every argument,he will keep singing it to my ear that if I can't cope I should try another. I love him and I will always beg. he always blocks me online and unblock after several pleads. This is really weighting me down but don't know what to do anymore. After this recent argument he told me he wouldn't want to see my appology massage on his phone and blocked me online. What do i do now?Please no insults, I need a sincere advice.

you are the first Op i have that creates such thread without hiding ur identity. Nice one

This dude is treating you horribly, yet you're saying you love him and will always beg. Are you okay? Please let him go and work on loving yourself. When you love yourself you will know better and want better for yourself.

firstladyp4:
I love him and I will always beg.

kelvinginzie:


Ubunja must have "miseducated" him

the guy started attending ubunja class and c as results dey come out sharp sharp... Hope dose beta male can see that ubunja method works now tell me OP can not misbehave or cheat with the boy friend at All..at OP I can tell u ur boyfriend still loves u e is doing dat just to keep u in check

Yuneehk:
Usual pattern. Chases you, gets you hooked, small fun, starts withdrawing, all efforts to get things back to how it used to be will be futile and THE END. Congratulations, you're back to being Single Hun and that's the bitter truth.

You too get sense. See your face

Zielle:
No. Love isn't by force. pls move on.

And you don't think something motivated his new behavior?

Please don't lie to her. Falsely telling her the dude loves her is only going to strengthen what seems to be her obsession of him.
I pray she lets go of him and works on building a healthy sense of self and most importantly, loving herself b/c it's clear she doesn't.

enesi009:
the guy started attending ubunja class and c as results dey come out sharp sharp... Hope dose beta male can see that ubunja method works now tell me OP can not misbehave or cheat with the boy friend at All..at OP I can tell u ur boyfriend still loves u e is doing dat just to keep u in check

This happens to most of us. When you meet someone new after a failed relationship, it feels like this person is your world. You get engulfed and think this new person is the missing piece in your puzzle. You start to draw strength from this person because of the past pain you have felt. This often happens because we try to make someone the source of our happiness instead of finding happiness with ourselves.
What I wouldn’t understand is why someone would know you have passed through a lot and then show you love only to disappear again.
You can never get the best out of any relationship if you constantly have to beg someone to love you and be with you.
When a man loves you, you know. Once you start to get confused, it’s obvious he’s no longer into you.
I’m not chastising you OP, I’m guilty of the above as well. Stop begging if you can. I pray you find someone deserving soon.

healthserve:


You too get sense. See your face

Like your own

Yuneehk:

For the "small fun" part? No, I didn't mean Sex totally. Fun could be going out on dates, visiting each other, spending quality time together, doing interesting things generally, etc.
Happy Sunday to you.

Thanks for clarifying o.. Happy Sunday to you too my baby girl

do you really love him as you claim or it's just killing your ego to feel like the one trying to revive the relationship?

Mind you, even ladies do exactly what he is doing to you.... It's fun to see how the table turns... Lol

I read somewhere that women don't have feelings... They pick you out of the lot based on your ability to provide or protect her.... So it's more like love based on calculations not feelings....

Just saying...

firstladyp4:
He came at the right time when I needed someone to mend my broken heart from a failed relationship. At first, He was loving, caring and understanding. We were so attached to each other and that made me love him to the core. He is my best friend I love him sooooo much but at a point he began to withdraw from being whom I have known him to be. No more calls, if I complain he will say he is busy and doesn't have airtime and I will send him airtime, I am always the one buying him things and saying sorry in every argument,he will keep singing it to my ear that if I can't cope I should try another. I love him and I will always beg. he always blocks me online and unblock after several pleads. This is really weighting me down but don't know what to do anymore. After this recent argument he told me he wouldn't want to see my appology massage on his phone and blocked me online. What do i do now?Please no insults, I need a sincere advice.

call this person 08181804228 .he has something to discuss with you. thank me later

enesi009:
the guys has just been ubunjalise.. Don't worry e still loves u

So every guy that breaks up with his gf in the relationship world knows ubunja? An online faceless guy? Do you reason at all?

JONNYSPUTE:
Maybe he was blind but now he can see. Miseducation resetting niggars since 1804.

Coming from a married man, this is very petty of you, you have a daughter, a guy may treat her like that....

Hope this helps

Follow your own signature

1StopRudeness:


[b]See...those that said u shouldn’t use another person to heal a broken heart knows what they saying.....doing that means one is filling the empty void from the last relationship with another person...that’s giving the Key of one’e wholeness to a person...that’s not a good move....

Similarly, u are hurting from ur other relationship...this guy is just a high for you, like a cocaine fix...but u don’t know that cos u desperately need to feel good.....
The solution is with you.... break up with this guy now....don’t call him don’t text him, delete his number sharpally...the urge will come to call him...don’t try it..don’t pick his call.. remember this move is not to make him jealous or get back at him...it’s for ur healing process..konji will catch him..he might call u when he remembers he can get u cheap cos u have made him feel he as ur mumu button...don’t pick his call, don’t answer his text....please I beg u...
.you need to become 10/10 again by yourself for yourself......get ur standard happiness operating mode back, the mode not dependent on a person’s call, text, pen!s.....u very inner core self happy mode....don’t let anyone hold the key to ur joy before starting another relationship [/b]

Yuneehk:

For the "small fun" part? No, I didn't mean Sex totally. Fun could be going out on dates, visiting each other, spending quality time together, doing interesting things generally, etc.
Happy Sunday to you.

Happy Sunday to you too

Lamanii22:




When it's not as if you're being jazzed.... Je ki ori e kpe... Ko ni da fun love... You better wake up and stop allowing your emotions rule you...

Ewo ni epe bayi??
Love is sweet if you get the right person!!!
A da fun love

Don't beg him anymore and focus on something important the one that will love you and appreciate truly from the heart will definitely come