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I'm In Love With A Friend To A Lady I Asked Out Recently by Adamumd(m): 4:00pm On Sep 27, 2019
I met a lady recently on fb, she live close to my area so we got chatting and I stylishly asked her out, we booked a date and she asked i wait for her close to my house, she came with a very friendly, jovial, nice and beautiful friend of hers, actually her friend stay in my area and I needed a house so I told them and the friend to my crush asked that if I want she will give me her place because she's rounding up her program soon.

She asked if it's okay let's go to see her place and I followed them, on getting home she went to the kitchen and made some delicacy I've not had in a long time,l and served with a chilled drink. Wow I wonder what ve been missing and thought to myself "so if am this lady's bf this is what I ll be enjoying".

She is jovial, friendly, very homely and everything I want in a woman. I thought of it and i lost interest in the crush of mine I followed to her friend's place, she started acting jealous and asking if I like her friend, her friend jokingly asked if I have a gf and I said no and she was like wow she's single too. Infact a call came in and I asked my crush if that's her bf but she cut the call and came to answer me that no it's not and that she's serious she doesn't have a bf.

I knew somehow is she is interested in me just like my initial crush that am just meeting too but this my previous crush was just acting a bit jealous, cutting our conversations and the friend to my initial crush said i shouldn't worry we ll see on a good day and talk better. I left without collecting her number, I wanted to ask but I felt my previous crush ll feel bad but I only told the friend I ll get her number from my previous crush and she said okay. I got home and chatted the previous crush am no more interested in to give me her friend's number but she refused, I persuaded her and she gave me but am feeling she ll spoil the whole thing out of jealousy or her friend might not want to give me a chance if she discover her friend is interested in me. please what do you guys advise I do??

I really like her friend for something very serious, damn!! She's too cool, homely and nice for a wife, ve had similar experience where two friends i didn't ask any of them out yet got jealous and there both said there don't want the other one's trouble, i lost two of them just like that and this one again.
Re: I'm In Love With A Friend To A Lady I Asked Out Recently by Davash222(m): 4:08pm On Sep 27, 2019
So, with chilled soft drink and a plate of food, you just lose focus Na because of your type dey make pocohantas and co dey insult us for here.

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Re: I'm In Love With A Friend To A Lady I Asked Out Recently by Adamumd(m): 4:26pm On Sep 27, 2019
Davash222:
So, with chilled soft drink and a plate of food, you just lose focus Na because of your type dey make pocohantas and co dey insult us for here.
Oga she's beautiful, homely, jovial, friendly and good, read again please..

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Re: I'm In Love With A Friend To A Lady I Asked Out Recently by JONNYSPUTE(m): 4:31pm On Sep 27, 2019
Check yourself very well. Are you in love or in lust.Don't imprison your sef for a plate of delicious meal and a bottle of soft drink.

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Re: I'm In Love With A Friend To A Lady I Asked Out Recently by JONNYSPUTE(m): 4:34pm On Sep 27, 2019
Adamumd:

Oga she's beautiful, homely, jovial, friendly and good, read again please..
.. Nawa o. How come you noticed all these qualities in her? Thought you ve just met her.?It seems you are a real man?

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Re: I'm In Love With A Friend To A Lady I Asked Out Recently by Firstorderwizard(m): 4:37pm On Sep 27, 2019
Adamumd:
I met a lady recently on fb, she live close to my area so we got chatting and I stylishly asked her out, we booked a date to see yesterday but we could not so today he asked i wait for her close to my house and behold she came with a very friendly, jovial, nice and beautiful friend of hers, actually her friend stay in my area and I neede ld a house so I told them and the friend asked that if I want she will give me her place because she's rounding up her program soon, then she asked if it's okay let's go let me see her place and I followed them, on getting home she served me a chilled soft drink, went to the kitchen and made some delicacy I've not had in a long time, wow so if am this lady's bf this is a good he kinda food I ll be enjoying, i thought of it immediately i lost interest in the crush of mine I followed to her friend's place, she started acting jealous and asking if I like her friend, her friend jokingly asked if I have a gf and I said no and she was like wow she's single too. I knew the friend somehow is interested in me but this my previous crush was just cutting our conversations, she now said i shouldn't worry we ll see on a good day and talk.. I left without collecting her number, I wanted to ask but I felt my previous crush ll feel bad but I only told the friend I ll get her number from my previous crush and she said okay. I got home and chatted the previous crush am no more interested in to give me her friend's number but she refused, please what do you guys advise I do??
I really like her friend for something very serious, damn!! She's too cool, homely and nice for a wife

What a coincidence! I was just contemplating opening a thread with similar topic. My babe is dying for me while I'm dying inside for her best friend. I'm seriously confused.

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Re: I'm In Love With A Friend To A Lady I Asked Out Recently by ouzo1(m): 4:38pm On Sep 27, 2019
Bros u dey confuse I swear down...
Re: I'm In Love With A Friend To A Lady I Asked Out Recently by Trimque2k1(m): 4:43pm On Sep 27, 2019
Adamumd:
I met a lady recently on fb, she live close to my area so we got chatting and I stylishly asked her out, we booked a date to see yesterday but we could not so today he asked i wait for her close to my house and behold she came with a very friendly, jovial, nice and beautiful friend of hers, actually her friend stay in my area and I neede ld a house so I told them and the friend asked that if I want she will give me her place because she's rounding up her program soon, then she asked if it's okay let's go let me see her place and I followed them, on getting home she served me a chilled soft drink, went to the kitchen and made some delicacy I've not had in a long time, wow so if am this lady's bf this is a good he kinda food I ll be enjoying, i thought of it immediately i lost interest in the crush of mine I followed to her friend's place, she started acting jealous and asking if I like her friend, her friend jokingly asked if I have a gf and I said no and she was like wow she's single too. I knew the friend somehow is interested in me but this my previous crush was just cutting our conversations, she now said i shouldn't worry we ll see on a good day and talk.. I left without collecting her number, I wanted to ask but I felt my previous crush ll feel bad but I only told the friend I ll get her number from my previous crush and she said okay. I got home and chatted the previous crush am no more interested in to give me her friend's number but she refused, please what do you guys advise I do??
I really like her friend for something very serious, damn!! She's too cool, homely and nice for a wife
you just don't know what you really want yet..

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Re: I'm In Love With A Friend To A Lady I Asked Out Recently by blesskewe(f): 4:49pm On Sep 27, 2019
cheesy grin grin
That's y I would N. E. V. E. R take my friends on my date

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Re: I'm In Love With A Friend To A Lady I Asked Out Recently by Ucheamani(m): 4:55pm On Sep 27, 2019
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Firstorderwizard:


What a coincidence! I was just contemplating opening a thread with similar topic. My babe is dying for me while I'm dying inside for her best friend. I'm seriously confused.
Re: I'm In Love With A Friend To A Lady I Asked Out Recently by jieta: 5:51pm On Sep 27, 2019
Adamumd:
I met a lady recently on fb, she live close to my area so we got chatting and I stylishly asked her out, we booked a date to see yesterday but we could not so today he asked i wait for her close to my house and behold she came with a very friendly, jovial, nice and beautiful friend of hers, actually her friend stay in my area and I neede ld a house so I told them and the friend asked that if I want she will give me her place because she's rounding up her program soon, then she asked if it's okay let's go let me see her place and I followed them, on getting home she served me a chilled soft drink, went to the kitchen and made some delicacy I've not had in a long time, wow so if am this lady's bf this is a good he kinda food I ll be enjoying, i thought of it immediately i lost interest in the crush of mine I followed to her friend's place, she started acting jealous and asking if I like her friend, her friend jokingly asked if I have a gf and I said no and she was like wow she's single too. I knew the friend somehow is interested in me but this my previous crush was just cutting our conversations, she now said i shouldn't worry we ll see on a good day and talk.. I left without collecting her number, I wanted to ask but I felt my previous crush ll feel bad but I only told the friend I ll get her number from my previous crush and she said okay. I got home and chatted the previous crush am no more interested in to give me her friend's number but she refused, please what do you guys advise I do??
I really like her friend for something very serious, damn!! She's too cool, homely and nice for a wife
just put your self in your crush position and tell us how you will feel.

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Re: I'm In Love With A Friend To A Lady I Asked Out Recently by Offpoint: 5:54pm On Sep 27, 2019
Esau of our time...



All those we are fed up of now were once all your described.

Ya infatuated niccur...

But some guys matter tire me. You fall on Fb with miss A, you met Miss A in reality with her friend and suddenly you fall for Miss A friend.
Tomorrow if you sight Miss A Friend- Friend who's got more attractive look and cook better you'll still fall.


Your heart has no control and guidance.

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Re: I'm In Love With A Friend To A Lady I Asked Out Recently by Nobody: 6:07pm On Sep 27, 2019
It's obvious you in lust,you prefer the second girl because she is more attractive nd tomorrow if that your new crush should bring a friend that is more attractive you will dump her ass also nd the circle continues.

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Re: I'm In Love With A Friend To A Lady I Asked Out Recently by JONNYSPUTE(m): 6:14pm On Sep 27, 2019
Offpoint:
Esau of our time...



All those we are fed of now were once all your described.

Ya infatuated niccur...

But some guys matter tire me. You fall on Fb with miss A, you met Miss A in reality with her friend and suddenly you fall for Miss A friend.
Tomorrow if you sight Miss Friend- Friend who's got more attractive look and cook better you'll still fall.


Your heart has no control and guidance.
.. Lol@ Esau.He fell in love because of a plate of food. Hahahahaha.

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Re: I'm In Love With A Friend To A Lady I Asked Out Recently by Adamumd(m): 5:40am On Sep 28, 2019
Pettyprincess:
It's obvious you in lust,you prefer the second girl because she is more attractive nd tomorrow if that your new crush should bring a friend that is more attractive you will dump her ass also nd the circle continues.
She's not only attractive but homely, more decent than my crush, she is jovial, kindhearted and cooks well. The exact kind of woman ve been looking for while the one i initially had a crush on is just a lazy ass, that kind of woman that would suck a nigga dry and has nothing to offer, i really wish you can understand my whole point since you re a woman.
Re: I'm In Love With A Friend To A Lady I Asked Out Recently by Adamumd(m): 5:41am On Sep 28, 2019
JONNYSPUTE:
.. Lol@ Esau.He fell in love because of a plate of food. Hahahahaha.
Till you meet a beautiful woman who cooks well and is very homely, we all ve different priorities, some of you guys want a flashy girl with flashy nails, Brazilian hair, jumping from one restaurant club to the other but i only asked for little, just a beautiful homely woman who cooks well and that's the kind of wife I want.
Re: I'm In Love With A Friend To A Lady I Asked Out Recently by Adamumd(m): 5:43am On Sep 28, 2019
Offpoint:
Esau of our time...



All those we are fed up of now were once all your described.

Ya infatuated niccur...

But some guys matter tire me. You fall on Fb with miss A, you met Miss A in reality with her friend and suddenly you fall for Miss A friend.
Tomorrow if you sight Miss A Friend- Friend who's got more attractive look and cook better you'll still fall.


Your heart has no control and guidance.
It has oo.. Till you see this girl and compare her with the one i initially had a crush on then you ll understand, bros i don't Bleep around, am just cut in this web for the first time.
If i can't have that lady then I ll just forget the initial crush because I don't even like her again.
Re: I'm In Love With A Friend To A Lady I Asked Out Recently by Adamumd(m): 5:45am On Sep 28, 2019
jieta:
just put your self in your crush position and tell us how you will feel.
I
Re: I'm In Love With A Friend To A Lady I Asked Out Recently by Adamumd(m): 5:46am On Sep 28, 2019
jieta:
just put your self in your crush position and tell us how you will feel.
I ll feel bad but you see that's life, we toast women and they refuse and we feel bad anf move in atimes too. she couldn't hide how jealous she was when i was flowing with her friend and she saw that i concentrated on her friend more, she ll come and lock her hands in mine to send a message to her friend but trust me i ll take style and remove it.
Re: I'm In Love With A Friend To A Lady I Asked Out Recently by Adamumd(m): 5:48am On Sep 28, 2019
Firstorderwizard:


What a coincidence! I was just contemplating opening a thread with similar topic. My babe is dying for me while I'm dying inside for her best friend. I'm seriously confused.
Lols, what do we do now my colleague or how did you handle yours? I don't want to loose her but am scared my initial crush ll scatter everything out of jealousy and annoyance. We ve not started dating but I toasted her before seeing this her friend, ve not committed any crime na
Re: I'm In Love With A Friend To A Lady I Asked Out Recently by Adamumd(m): 5:50am On Sep 28, 2019
blesskewe:
cheesy grin grin
That's y I would N. E. V. E. R take my friends on my date
Just make friends with more uglier people and you ll be no worries grin grin
Re: I'm In Love With A Friend To A Lady I Asked Out Recently by Callertunez: 5:54am On Sep 28, 2019
Easu, hope you are selling the right birth right o.. gringrin
.
Anyway, no time. As long as it's not because of soft drink and food... cheesycheesy
Re: I'm In Love With A Friend To A Lady I Asked Out Recently by Adamumd(m): 5:59am On Sep 28, 2019
Callertunez:
Easu, hope you are selling the right birth right o.. gringrin
.
Anyway, no time. As long as it's not because of soft drink and food... cheesycheesy
Bros there's a way you ll like a lady and then soft drink and food again ll make you love or like her more.
Such a lady know the route to a man's heart, that's just it.
Re: I'm In Love With A Friend To A Lady I Asked Out Recently by themaestro08(m): 6:01am On Sep 28, 2019
Terrible write up! Brush up on your grammar, it will save you from further embarrassment.

Anyway, one life skill you should learn is contentment. Be contented with what you have however it is. A bird in hand is......?

Am pretty sure there are tons of ladies out there who are way better than your crush Friend. So you will go about hopping from woman to another. It
doesn't makes sense.

Remember nobody is perfect.
Re: I'm In Love With A Friend To A Lady I Asked Out Recently by Callertunez: 6:02am On Sep 28, 2019
Adamumd:

Bros there's a way you ll like a lady and then soft drink and food again ll make you love or like her more.
Such a lady know the route to a man's heart, that's just it.
no be lie, but make e no be like say your first crush could be sold for that.. cheesycheesy
Re: I'm In Love With A Friend To A Lady I Asked Out Recently by Firstorderwizard(m): 6:21am On Sep 28, 2019
Adamumd:

Lols, what do we do now my colleague or how did you handle yours? I don't want to loose her but am scared my initial crush ll scatter everything out of jealousy and annoyance. We ve not started dating but I toasted her before seeing this her friend, ve not committed any crime na

I'm seriously confused bro,I just pity my gal anytime I think of taking a step towards wooing her friend.she has really sacrificed a lot for me.
I really want to wife her but my heart is some where else.
I'm really working on my emotions any way.
Re: I'm In Love With A Friend To A Lady I Asked Out Recently by Adamumd(m): 6:32am On Sep 28, 2019
themaestro08:
Terrible write up! Brush up on your grammar, it will save you from further embarrassment.

Anyway, one life skill you should learn is contentment. Be contented with what you have however it is. A bird in hand is......?

Am pretty sure there are tons of ladies out there who are way better than your crush Friend. So you will go about hopping from woman to another. It
doesn't makes sense.

Remember nobody is perfect.
OK thanks English Messaih, i ll brush up on my grammar, mind you i wrote this in a rush and am sure everybody understands what I wrote but am always open to corrections so it's very okay. Thanks Prof.

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Re: I'm In Love With A Friend To A Lady I Asked Out Recently by Adamumd(m): 6:39am On Sep 28, 2019
Firstorderwizard:


I'm seriously confused bro,I just pity my gal anytime I think of taking a step towards wooing her friend.she has really sacrificed a lot for me.
I really want to wife her but my heart is some where else.
I'm really working on my emotions any way.
Well you should try and work it out though i won't advise you settle down with a woman out if pity, though we should also caution our hearts and emotions sometimes not to just fall for just anybody, the thing now is your babe won't take it funny if she finds out you re cheating and maybe not just that but you re cheating with her friend or you asked her friend out.
Re: I'm In Love With A Friend To A Lady I Asked Out Recently by femi4: 6:42am On Sep 28, 2019
Adamumd:
I met a lady recently on fb, she live close to my area so we got chatting and I stylishly asked her out, we booked a date and she asked i wait for her close to my house, she came with a very friendly, jovial, nice and beautiful friend of hers, actually her friend stay in my area and I needed a house so I told them and the friend to my crush asked that if I want she will give me her place because she's rounding up her program soon.

She asked if it's okay let's go to see her place and I followed them, on getting home she went to the kitchen and made some delicacy I've not had in a long time,l and served with a chilled drink. Wow I wonder what ve been missing and thought to myself "so if am this lady's bf this is what I ll be enjoying".

She is jovial, friendly, very homely and everything I want in a woman. I thought of it and i lost interest in the crush of mine I followed to her friend's place, she started acting jealous and asking if I like her friend, her friend jokingly asked if I have a gf and I said no and she was like wow she's single too. Infact a call came in and I asked my crush if that's her bf but she cut the call and came to answer me that no it's not and that she's serious she doesn't have a bf.

I knew somehow is she is interested in me just like my initial crush that am just meeting too but this my previous crush was just acting a bit jealous, cutting our conversations and the friend to my initial crush said i shouldn't worry we ll see on a good day and talk better. I left without collecting her number, I wanted to ask but I felt my previous crush ll feel bad but I only told the friend I ll get her number from my previous crush and she said okay. I got home and chatted the previous crush am no more interested in to give me her friend's number but she refused, I persuaded her and she gave me but am feeling she ll spoil the whole thing out of jealousy or her friend might not want to give me a chance if she discover her friend is interested in me. please what do you guys advise I do??

I really like her friend for something very serious, damn!! She's too cool, homely and nice for a wife, ve had similar experience where two friends i didn't ask any of them out yet got jealous and there both said there don't want the other one's trouble, i lost two of them just like that and this one again.
You see food....you change direction. See a man being captured by food....his strength is small in the days of adversity

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Re: I'm In Love With A Friend To A Lady I Asked Out Recently by themaestro08(m): 6:52am On Sep 28, 2019
Adamumd:

OK thanks English Messaih, i ll brush up on my grammar, mind you i wrote this in a rush and am sure everybody understands what I wrote but am always open to corrections so it's very okay. Thanks Prof.
Am not a prof. The manner you replied show your level of intelligence.

All good. Not surprise.
Re: I'm In Love With A Friend To A Lady I Asked Out Recently by Peterosky(m): 7:09am On Sep 28, 2019
Op kindly go for your crush friend after all it is not your fault that she showed up with a more beautiful friend. This will teach so many girls a lesson.

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