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Re: Closed by 24kmagic: 7:09pm On Sep 26, 2019
babyfaceafrica:
I am really disappointed in OP....see as small gal play am like ludo...ayam in tears now!!

No be small boy him him be?
Him say she senior am with one year
Re: Closed by Ufedolove: 11:08am On Sep 29, 2019
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Re: Closed by Ufedolove: 11:14am On Sep 29, 2019
She was comely treated by my family. We even cooked her a special and welcome meal. My siblings were all over her etc. She had a great time at my place.
Re: Closed by HolyTitus(m): 11:59am On Sep 29, 2019
Ufedolove:






THE GIRL CAME AROUND AS PLANNED

I took her for a night walk, and while we were doing some random discussions about personalities and how we both are improving on ourselves, she quickly told me that I'm too commanding for her liking. She said although she likes it, but now could I have commanded her to be my girlfriend? As in who says "be my girlfriend" and expect the girl to say yes? "Anyways, lemme not talk further, go work on yourself" she added.

I smiled in my mind cos I remember saying that, just like I remember also saying it in another way. I immediately understood that she was playing me. In her little mind, she has put me in that hanging position expecting me to still pick myself up and ask her out later. (I think she's used to it)

All my reply was "hmmm, really?"

As if nature was with me, it started drizzling which ensured that we took our discussions to a dry place. I then suggested that we go inside the car. (Trust me, I had it all planned. Had it not rained, I would have still said to go inside the car cos of cold. Lol)

Inside the car, we talked some cheap talks and then we started our usual smooch before we finally went inside the house.

I noticed that she had one suspicious call one time she was taking her bath. Also, she quickly grabbed her phone from my front when she thought I was going to reach for it.. (swears, it was not even in my mind cos the girl was flushed from my mind already). Very unlike her though.

Even so, she kept on hinting me that we are going to continue when school resumes.

I've made up my mind already and nothing does she know about it and little did she know that I was just willingly dancing to her song.

Thank you all for your advice. I appreciate everybody. It's just stressful quoting all of you.



No thanks jare - we must keep being rooted to our bro code; no matter the situation - if we no help awa fellow brother in dire need of help; wetin we gain..... I'm just glad you're finally doing things the way it supposed to have been done. You can add this to your games - Never be too sweet for them, else they will eat you at every slight opportunity they see.

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Re: Closed by Ufedolove: 12:17pm On Sep 29, 2019
HolyTitus:
Never be too sweet for them, else they will eat you at every slight opportunity they see.

Thanks a bunch. Sweetness stopped that very moment I lead her to the park yesterday.

She dunno what's going on
Re: Closed by Drshobz(m): 12:41pm On Sep 29, 2019
Ufedolove:



Thanks


I really want to. I already feel humiliated. My heart, please heed to my words!


its time for u to give her less attention
infact send less and never directly ask a woman to be your gf

from hence forth don't call her
and even if she calls back don't pick it
and her to feel what u have been feeling

look for harddon post on Dating grill
Re: Closed by Ridbreezy9: 3:19pm On Sep 29, 2019
Ufedolove:


Bro m a ladokite also and also on IT...I can't just believe u didn't understand you are being played from the onset what shez tryna do is that she sees a good character and true love in you and doesn't wanna leave you for another girl and the reason shez not giving in to you is that financially you ain't OK to the people coming to her...you know how we are being oppressed by GBoys at school na

Brother just play along with her and find yourself a new signing and shock after after sometime like BBnaija eviction.



THE GIRL CAME AROUND AS PLANNED

I took her for a night walk, and while we were doing some random discussions about personalities and how we both are improving on ourselves, she quickly told me that I'm too commanding for her liking. She said although she likes it, but now could I have commanded her to be my girlfriend? As in who says "be my girlfriend" and expect the girl to say yes? "Anyways, lemme not talk further, go work on yourself" she added.

I smiled in my mind cos I remember saying that, just like I remember also saying it in another way. I immediately understood that she was playing me. In her little mind, she has put me in that hanging position expecting me to still pick myself up and ask her out later. (I think she's used to it)

All my reply was "hmmm, really?"

As if nature was with me, it started drizzling which ensured that we took our discussions to a dry place. I then suggested that we go inside the car. (Trust me, I had it all planned. Had it not rained, I would have still said to go inside the car cos of cold. Lol)

Inside the car, we talked some cheap talks and then we started our usual smooch before we finally went inside the house.

I noticed that she had one suspicious call one time she was taking her bath. Also, she quickly grabbed her phone from my front when she thought I was going to reach for it.. (swears, it was not even in my mind cos the girl was flushed from my mind already). Very unlike her though.

Even so, she kept on hinting me that we are going to continue when school resumes.

I've made up my mind already and nothing does she know about it and little did she know that I was just willingly dancing to her song.

Thank you all for your advice. I appreciate everybody. It's just stressful quoting all of you.



Re: Closed by Ridbreezy9: 3:19pm On Sep 29, 2019
Bro m a ladokite also and also on IT...I can't just believe u didn't understand you are being played from the onset what shez tryna do is that she sees a good character and true love in you and doesn't wanna leave you for another girl and the reason shez not giving in to you is that financially you ain't OK to the people coming to her...you know how we are being oppressed by GBoys at school na

Brother just play along with her and find yourself a new signing and shock after after sometime like BBnaija eviction.
Ufedolove:






THE GIRL CAME AROUND AS PLANNED

I took her for a night walk, and while we were doing some random discussions about personalities and how we both are improving on ourselves, she quickly told me that I'm too commanding for her liking. She said although she likes it, but now could I have commanded her to be my girlfriend? As in who says "be my girlfriend" and expect the girl to say yes? "Anyways, lemme not talk further, go work on yourself" she added.

I smiled in my mind cos I remember saying that, just like I remember also saying it in another way. I immediately understood that she was playing me. In her little mind, she has put me in that hanging position expecting me to still pick myself up and ask her out later. (I think she's used to it)

All my reply was "hmmm, really?"

As if nature was with me, it started drizzling which ensured that we took our discussions to a dry place. I then suggested that we go inside the car. (Trust me, I had it all planned. Had it not rained, I would have still said to go inside the car cos of cold. Lol)

Inside the car, we talked some cheap talks and then we started our usual smooch before we finally went inside the house.

I noticed that she had one suspicious call one time she was taking her bath. Also, she quickly grabbed her phone from my front when she thought I was going to reach for it.. (swears, it was not even in my mind cos the girl was flushed from my mind already). Very unlike her though.

Even so, she kept on hinting me that we are going to continue when school resumes.

I've made up my mind already and nothing does she know about it and little did she know that I was just willingly dancing to her song.

Thank you all for your advice. I appreciate everybody. It's just stressful quoting all of you.



Re: Closed by Ufedolove: 7:50pm On Sep 29, 2019
Ridbreezy9:
Bro m a ladokite also and also on IT...I can't just believe u didn't understand you are being played from the onset what shez tryna do is that she sees a good character and true love in you and doesn't wanna leave you for another girl and the reason shez not giving in to you is that financially you ain't OK to the people coming to her...you know how we are being oppressed by GBoys at school na

Brother just play along with her and find yourself a new signing and shock after after sometime like BBnaija eviction.

Abi ooo
I've understood her game.

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