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Sandra8:
why men cheat is a complicated question that needs answering. It is important to note that men cheat for various reasons so a single answer cannot exhaust the question.

Men though cheat for various underlying factors, know this factors and PREVENT a potential cheater from cheating on you. I believe in prevention being better than cure.

P. S: Women should realize that men find us ALLURING in all our different shapes and sizes and colors too. It takes a strong willed man with self control to withstand the urge of his testosterone to cheat. So therefore all men are liable to cheat.

Women should realize that for most boys to transition to a Man they believe they must sleep with a woman. That reasoning alone pushes small boys barely up to 15 years to start wooing girls around, seeking love but in a guise to have sex (this is where he first learns how to cheat by lying about his true feelings) . And for a man to transition to THE MAN, he must be an expert in getting girls and sleeping with them. This drives a man to increase his body count to get bragging rights and sexual prowess than his peers (this is what drives most men to start cheating).

Another factor is the fact that men are very curious beings. They like to explore. Men wants to know what it feels like to be with a dark babe, a fair babe, a slim babe, a curvy babe, a busty babe etc. It's not fair I know but don't weep yet.

I'll take this two factors for now and show how we can exploit the loop holes in their reasoning.

Always try to ascertain a man's body count before you try to settle for him. It will save you headaches with cheating. There are two major ways to find out. Direct and indirect methods. You ask him directly his body count, guys will generally increase their body count by as much as 5 girls to make their resume look good (so try deleting at least 5 extra partners from the figure he gives you) or indirect method by ascertaining from his looks, wealth, social influence how many ladies he could have attracted and dated in the past. I prefer this method.
This information is very useful in knowing a cheat or potential cheat. If he has a large body count and he is below 25 years, girlfriend run he is just a f*ck boy and still a cheat. But if he has a large body count and is in his 30's chances are he WAS a cheat and a f*ck boy. But note he is still a potential cheat. Alpha males appeal to me as a lady, and all alpha males are potential cheats so caution has to be applied before settling with one.
A guy without any body count or a low body count usually have no game. But are still potential cheats, so never settle for them for body count reasons alone.

And knowing men are naturally curious, wanting to explore all the shapes and sizes women comes in, to keep him in check ensures you milk his resources (money and time). With extra or loads of money men can easily cheat on you.
With excess free time men can also cheat on you, so rob him of one or the two if possible and he will have two options. Stay with you or break up with you to go and cheat outside. A man who truly loves you will pick the former, he will stay with you. He doesn't mind investing his money in his woman because he sees you guys having and sharing a future together, he won't even mind spending loads of his time with you (time he would normally spend cheating on you).
So here is how to not get played by men.

Stay tuned for more.

Cc
Funmmyastic
Guest007
Seun

Arrant Nonsense.

Blackivy29:
hi!

Table Shaker

SyberKate:
some men cheat not because they really want to cheat but because another woman has given them an opportunity to cheat.
How can a single lady know a man is married and still go and sleep with him.
Not every time we should keep blaming the men, we women are also responsible for these to our fellow women

Theres free will. There will always be free pussy a man can control himself

Blackivy29:
Theres free will. There will always be free pussy a man can control himself

This gal

healthserve:
Table Shaker

Its fun

Where is my chum chum lilmissfavvy

Funmmyastic:
Wow,you are lucky o,I don't even have a blood brother.We are all girls lol.

Funmi, you look take-away. So sweet

I think it takes a strong willed man not to cheat

The reason why men cheat follows axioms of utility theory of a rational consumer in economics that states ""Averages is preferred to extreme" and " More is better up to the point of satiation".

Funmmyastic:
Wow,this post made fp,Sandra8 keep it up babe.

Thanks love

healthserve:
This gal

We made fp

hartson:
Arrant Nonsense.

You welcome dear, love you

Blackivy29:
We made fp

Noticed. I give up on you. You're a class act Rebel You earned it

Alot of men that cheat either do it as hobby or for payback purpose.

Sandra8:
why men cheat is a complicated question that needs answering. It is important to note that men cheat for various reasons so a single answer cannot exhaust the question.

Men though cheat for various underlying factors, know this factors and PREVENT a potential cheater from cheating on you. I believe in prevention being better than cure.

P. S: Women should realize that men find us ALLURING in all our different shapes and sizes and colors too. It takes a strong willed man with self control to withstand the urge of his testosterone to cheat. So therefore all men are liable to cheat.

Women should realize that for most boys to transition to a Man they believe they must sleep with a woman. That reasoning alone pushes small boys barely up to 15 years to start wooing girls around, seeking love but in a guise to have sex (this is where he first learns how to cheat by lying about his true feelings) . And for a man to transition to THE MAN, he must be an expert in getting girls and sleeping with them. This drives a man to increase his body count to get bragging rights and sexual prowess than his peers (this is what drives most men to start cheating).

Another factor is the fact that men are very curious beings. They like to explore. Men wants to know what it feels like to be with a dark babe, a fair babe, a slim babe, a curvy babe, a busty babe etc. It's not fair I know but don't weep yet.

I'll take this two factors for now and show how we can exploit the loop holes in their reasoning.

Always try to ascertain a man's body count before you try to settle for him. It will save you headaches with cheating. There are two major ways to find out. Direct and indirect methods. You ask him directly his body count, guys will generally increase their body count by as much as 5 girls to make their resume look good (so try deleting at least 5 extra partners from the figure he gives you) or indirect method by ascertaining from his looks, wealth, social influence how many ladies he could have attracted and dated in the past. I prefer this method.
This information is very useful in knowing a cheat or potential cheat. If he has a large body count and he is below 25 years, girlfriend run he is just a f*ck boy and still a cheat. But if he has a large body count and is in his 30's chances are he WAS a cheat and a f*ck boy. But note he is still a potential cheat. Alpha males appeal to me as a lady, and all alpha males are potential cheats so caution has to be applied before settling with one.
A guy without any body count or a low body count usually have no game. But are still potential cheats, so never settle for them for body count reasons alone.

And knowing men are naturally curious, wanting to explore all the shapes and sizes women comes in, to keep him in check ensures you milk his resources (money and time). With extra or loads of money men can easily cheat on you.
With excess free time men can also cheat on you, so rob him of one or the two if possible and he will have two options. Stay with you or break up with you to go and cheat outside. A man who truly loves you will pick the former, he will stay with you. He doesn't mind investing his money in his woman because he sees you guys having and sharing a future together, he won't even mind spending loads of his time with you (time he would normally spend cheating on you).
So here is how to not get played by men.

Stay tuned for more.

Cc
Funmmyastic
Guest007
Seun

Hmmm... This days na women hold flag concerning CHEATING

This is absolute craap ..[/b]all men are potential cheat? ? Seriously?[b]

Spain007:
Hmmm... This days na women hold flag concerning CHEATING

Yes it affects us the most dear

BlueAir:
This is absolute craap ..[/b]all men are potential cheat? ? Seriously?[b]

Yes seriously just don't cheat so you won't be called one dear

Mires:
Funmi, you look take-away. So sweet

Lol,that's not my picture.

u dont know me from jack and u are confident enough to mark me a potential cheat? [/b]What kind of generalization shiit is this and how accurate is it[b]

Sandra8:
Yes seriously just don't cheat so you won't be called one dear

And if I dont cheat does it mean im not a man?

Sandra8:
Yes seriously just don't cheat so you won't be called one dear

Sandra8:
Yes we did babe...

Yeeeeeaaaaahhhhh!

BlueAir:
u dont know me from jack and u are confident enough to mark me a potential cheat? [/b]What kind of generalization shiit is this and how accurate is it[b]

Potential and actual cheats are two different words. your actions dear will determine which category you will fall under but so you are happy dear, You aren't a cheat OK baby

BlueAir:
And if I dont cheat does it mean im not a man?

I'm not questioning your biology dear. You are a man good or bad

Sandra8:
To everyone their comprehension. Ladies know I'm right dear. Love you

You're right dear. Your post sums it all up. A word they say is enough for the wise, so let whomever want to relate relate. Even though I do not support cheating, it is the reality of the world we live in and we must therefore continue to explore ways to find happiness and guarantee the happiness of those around us.

It's unfortunate that men have been really feminized for people to believe this b*******, men are not meant to be tied to one woman nature made it so men are polygamous by nature women are bisexual by Nature. Deal with it.

Nobody is holy... All these babes trying to come out clean have skeletons in their social media cupboards...I no dey fall for dz kind trick.

All the deleted whatsapp chats, fb chats, etc behind their partners' backs.

Hmmm,God is watching ooooo.

Proudlyngwa:
It's unfortunate that men have been really feminized for people to believe this b*******, men are not meant to be tied to one woman nature made it so men are polygamous by nature women are bisexual by Nature. Deal with it.

Don't be so tense babe. Love you

Tenshades:
Nobody is holy... All these babes trying to come out clean have skeletons in their social media cupboards...I no dey fall for dz kind trick.

All the deleted whatsapp chats, fb chats, etc behind their partners' backs.

Hmmm,God is watching ooooo.

Only God can judge that one babe

greenguy:
You're right dear. Your post sums it all up. A word they say is enough for the wise, so let whomever want to relate relate. Even though I do not support cheating, it is the reality of the world we live in and we must therefore continue to explore ways to find happiness and guarantee the happiness of those around us.

Such a darling. Thank you. Kisses