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Potential cheat or actual CCheat.u still generalize men as cheats. .how far can u validate such generalizationquote author=Sandra8 post=82708472]

[/b]Potential and actual cheats are two different words[b]. your actions dear will determine which category you will fall under but so you are happy dear, You aren't a cheat OK baby [/quote]

healthserve:
Noticed. I give up on you. You're a class act Rebel You earned it

that was my nickname

Sandra8:
Only God can judge that one babe

Hmmm

Blackivy29:
that was my nickname

I feel the energy oozing out of your comment. Enjoy the fun. It'd your " time/age ".. Enjoy lots of fun being young, pretty and intelligent

Tenshades:
Hmmm

You knew that now babe

Sandra8:
You knew that now babe

Sandra8, I no b babe o... I be dicck owner o...
Just talking from wetin my eyes don see.

Sandra8:
why men cheat is a complicated question that needs answering. It is important to note that men cheat for various reasons so a single answer cannot exhaust the question.

Men though cheat for various underlying factors, know this factors and PREVENT a potential cheater from cheating on you. I believe in prevention being better than cure.

P. S: Women should realize that men find us ALLURING in all our different shapes and sizes and colors too. It takes a strong willed man with self control to withstand the urge of his testosterone to cheat. So therefore all men are liable to cheat.

Women should realize that for most boys to transition to a Man they believe they must sleep with a woman. That reasoning alone pushes small boys barely up to 15 years to start wooing girls around, seeking love but in a guise to have sex (this is where he first learns how to cheat by lying about his true feelings) . And for a man to transition to THE MAN, he must be an expert in getting girls and sleeping with them. This drives a man to increase his body count to get bragging rights and sexual prowess than his peers (this is what drives most men to start cheating).

Another factor is the fact that men are very curious beings. They like to explore. Men wants to know what it feels like to be with a dark babe, a fair babe, a slim babe, a curvy babe, a busty babe etc. It's not fair I know but don't weep yet.

I'll take this two factors for now and show how we can exploit the loop holes in their reasoning.

Always try to ascertain a man's body count before you try to settle for him. It will save you headaches with cheating. There are two major ways to find out. Direct and indirect methods. You ask him directly his body count, guys will generally increase their body count by as much as 5 girls to make their resume look good (so try deleting at least 5 extra partners from the figure he gives you) or indirect method by ascertaining from his looks, wealth, social influence how many ladies he could have attracted and dated in the past. I prefer this method.
This information is very useful in knowing a cheat or potential cheat. If he has a large body count and he is below 25 years, girlfriend run he is just a f*ck boy and still a cheat. But if he has a large body count and is in his 30's chances are he WAS a cheat and a f*ck boy. But note he is still a potential cheat. Alpha males appeal to me as a lady, and all alpha males are potential cheats so caution has to be applied before settling with one.
A guy without any body count or a low body count usually have no game. But are still potential cheats, so never settle for them for body count reasons alone.

And knowing men are naturally curious, wanting to explore all the shapes and sizes women comes in, to keep him in check ensures you milk his resources (money and time). With extra or loads of money men can easily cheat on you.
With excess free time men can also cheat on you, so rob him of one or the two if possible and he will have two options. Stay with you or break up with you to go and cheat outside. A man who truly loves you will pick the former, he will stay with you. He doesn't mind investing his money in his woman because he sees you guys having and sharing a future together, he won't even mind spending loads of his time with you (time he would normally spend cheating on you).
So here is how to not get played by men.

Stay tuned for more.

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Funmmyastic
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Walahi any lady that takes this advice to heart don jonse! Try milking a guy that wants to settle down of his money in the guise of keeping him from cheating, wo he il see u as too expensive n not thinking about planning for the future. Hmmm Bobo go grow wings eh! Come fly away as far as possible from u.

emonis88:
Walahi any lady that takes this advice to heart don jonse! Try milking a guy that wants to settle down of his money in the guise of keeping him from cheating, wo he il see u as too expensive n not thinking about planning for the future. Hmmm Bobo go grow wings eh! Come fly away as far as possible from u.

Ladies are smarter than this analysis of yours dear. I can't spell everything out here, they pick hints and understand dear. So worry not

Sandra8:
I like your post dear. I wish men are that honorable but the reality is far different. I hope you find such a man

the broke and ugly ones are such men..

Sandra8:
To everyone their comprehension. Ladies know I'm right dear. Love you

So u mean a man who has bedded as many ladies as possible is an alpha male? Babe if na exam u don fail woefully.

LUST! LUST!! LUST!!! And more LUST.

emonis88:
So u mean a man who has bedded as many ladies as possible is an alpha male? Babe if na exam u don fail woefully.

Thank God you are not my examiner babe

Funmmyastic:
Lol,that's not my picture.

Ha! You don make me de salivate. Anyway, I appreciate your sincerity.

Sandra8:
Ladies are smarter than this analysis of yours dear. I can't spell everything out here, they pick hints and understand dear. So worry not

And u ve forgotten that there r copy cats that even copy name, class, and matriculation number. Any sane woman studies her man and knows what he likes and what he doesn't yes but it also works the other way. Y do think some men complain about the kind of friends their women keep? Cus they ve seen something so don't think that men don't also study women before settling with one.

Sandra8:
To everyone their comprehension. Ladies know I'm right dear. Love you

so you know men more than men? That's how you get played.

Cheating on its own is a choice. It goes far beyond the respect and self-control. It requires a whole lot of commitment.

Moreso, there is no justifiable reason to cheat in any relationship. If you aint getting what you want, feel or think you deserve, call it QUIT!

emonis88:
And u ve forgotten that there r copy cats that even copy name, class, and matriculation number. Any sane woman studies her man and knows what he likes and what he doesn't yes but it also works the other way. Y do think some men complain about the kind of friends their women keep? Cus they ve seen something so don't think that men don't also study women before settling with one.

That's your cup of coffee to drink dear. Can't help with that

Mires:
Ha! You don make me de salivate. Anyway, I appreciate your sincerity.

But some guys says the lady is ugly.

Seventy7kings:
so you know men more than men? That's how you get played.

I know the Game and I'm good at it babe. Don't test me

Sandra8:
Thank God you are not my examiner babe

AHH! God know say if I be ur examiner u don get carry over for major course be that o! Imagine guy weh get body count na alpha male? Those weh get money come be wetin beta male? Lol! And mind u not all rich guys cheat! Dey learn for class now. Make u no fail exam o!

emonis88:
AHH! God know say if I be ur examiner u don get carry over for major course be that o! Imagine guy weh get body count na alpha male? Those weh get money come be wetin beta male? Lol! And mind u not all rich guys cheat! Dey learn for class now. Make u no fail exam o!

Word

MrBrownJay1:
Take what I wrote to understand men instead of using your failed assumptions to think you understand someone who is physically different than you in EVERY POSSIBLE WAYS

As I late posted earlier.... African men cheat because african women have NO VALUE in African society. FACT!

Haba!


I beg to disagree bro... Cheating has nothing to do with African women value... A man who will cheat will definitely cheat even if he gets married to the daughter of Bill Gates

Sandra8:
Don't be so tense babe. Love you

Tensed, haha me not, proove the bolded

Sandra8:
That's your cup of coffee to drink dear. Can't help with that

Sey no be u go carry firewood weh wet wan come put fire take am cook? E no go fit catch fire o!

emonis88:
AHH! God know say if I be ur examiner u don get carry over for major course be that o! Imagine guy weh get body count na alpha male? Those weh get money come be wetin beta male? Lol! And mind u not all rich guys cheat! Dey learn for class now. Make u no fail exam o!

I'm not learning from you babe, I'm down like this

emonis88:
Sey no be u go carry firewood weh wet wan come put fire take am cook? E no go fit catch fire o!

With my perfect nails, I don't do that babe

Proudlyngwa:
Tensed, haha me not, proove the bolded

Prove you are man enough to handle me babe

Blackivy29:
i like this
Men who cheat lack self restraint. Honestly forget this manipulation stuff, he will still most likely cheat. If he's liable or you dont trust him then end things. Any man that keeps me at the edge of my seat aint worth it. I want to believe i can leave my man with a naked woman alone. If i cant, if he gives me that community dick vibe then he can swerve. No room for heartbreak nor stress.

testing your man by leaving him alone with an unclad woman and expecting him not to react is like leaving a fish in front of a cat and expecting the cat not to eat it...any men will definitely fall except he is impotent

healthserve:
Word

My guy make we educate these ladies weh jam the bad boys amongst men, and think they fit do sweeping generalization with the small they don see. They go come become over assuming because they r attracted to the bad boys not knowing say na the bad guy dey get sweet mouth pass.

Mere Men

Sandra8:
Good you read through again . Those ladies then are their own problem.

my experience back then had made me understand that women don't value faithful guys...so why bother to be faithful when there are ladies ready to spread their legs with a little or no fee?

emonis88:
My guy make we educate these ladies weh jam the bad boys amongst men, and think they fit do sweeping generalization with the small they don see. They go come become over assuming because they r attracted to the bad boys not knowing say na the bad guy dey get sweet mouth pass.

Babes you guys are blocking my view, can you guys please shift