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emonis88:
My guy make we educate these ladies weh jam the bad boys amongst men, and think they fit do sweeping generalization with the small they don see. They go come become over assuming because they r attracted to the bad boys not knowing say na the bad guy dey get sweet mouth pass.

I dey follow your comments. I dey with you 10000%

Sandra8:
With my perfect nails, I don't do that babe

Well perfect nail or not no stop the idiom weh I put down for u, if u understand u go see oil take chop yam.

Youngpo413:
my experience back then had made me understand that women don't value faithful guys...so why bother to be faithful when there are ladies ready to spread their legs with a little or no fee?

Babe that is not the essence of my post

emonis88:
Well perfect nail or not no stop the idiom weh I put down for u, if u understand u go see oil take chop yam.

Elder

healthserve:
I dey follow your comments. I dey with you 10000%

3 gbosa! For u Jare!

emonis88:
Well perfect nail or not no stop the idiom weh I put down for u, if u understand u go see oil take chop yam.

Love you but seriously yam? I get your little proverbs but they alike old school babe. Kisses

healthserve:
I dey follow your comments. I dey with you 10000%

You can go hold your solidarity stand over at the next post dear we Full here ok

Sandra8:
You can go hold your solidarity stand over at the next post dear we Full here ok

No offence ma. Na beg I beg you Ma

healthserve:
No offence ma. Na beg I beg you Ma

Then behave babe . I'm watching

Funmmyastic:
But some guys says the lady is ugly.

I am sure their sister(s) are not as beautiful as the lady.

Sandra8:
Then behave babe . I'm watching

I'm signing out now ma. No more visit to any of your threads

NiRfreak:
Women no get sense o..lols. See theory.

Awon ode, the only reason why we cheat is because nature does not understand the word cheat, nature wants us to fvck as many cunt as possible and fill the earth....Any other theory is bullshit created by man and his ego.

Being loyal to a woman is not a virtue...its societal and religious bullcrap. A woman doesn't deserve a man's sexual loyalty. In fact, a woman can not satisfy the primal libido of a man..u guys should deal with it.

If u like practice all the theory in the world, a mans libido is not to be tamed..cry all u want..ko kan aiye..we will fvck as many pvssy as we want.

I can only reduce the pvssy I fvck based on personal principle and discretion, not cos of one woman...na my dick una one control? How will I tell Abraham, Moses, Issac, Jacob, David, Solomon, and all the kings of Israelites that only one woman monopolised my diick? just imagine it... You all should stop being stupid, And those Bible personages I listed up there are men of God and I will follow in their foostep by fucking as many as they did... though I no get strength of Solomon sha, but I go try my best

That is why the black man has been unable to invent anything worthy of emulation because all his thought are channeled toward sex and populating the Earth...(the average life cycle of a black man is to work to get money to woe and sleep with as many women as possible and what ever is left is use to feed his children that is if for the responsible ones) They have a very high sexual sex drive, so they have little time to deep think about inventing something or how to solve problem a plaguing the world. So we do not blame African men because that is how they have been programmed as a human being

Sandra8:
why men cheat is a complicated question that needs answering. It is important to note that men cheat for various reasons so a single answer cannot exhaust the question.

Men though cheat for various underlying factors, know this factors and PREVENT a potential cheater from cheating on you. I believe in prevention being better than cure.

P. S: Women should realize that men find us ALLURING in all our different shapes and sizes and colors too. It takes a strong willed man with self control to withstand the urge of his testosterone to cheat. So therefore all men are liable to cheat.

Women should realize that for most boys to transition to a Man they believe they must sleep with a woman. That reasoning alone pushes small boys barely up to 15 years to start wooing girls around, seeking love but in a guise to have sex (this is where he first learns how to cheat by lying about his true feelings) . And for a man to transition to THE MAN, he must be an expert in getting girls and sleeping with them. This drives a man to increase his body count to get bragging rights and sexual prowess than his peers (this is what drives most men to start cheating).

Another factor is the fact that men are very curious beings. They like to explore. Men wants to know what it feels like to be with a dark babe, a fair babe, a slim babe, a curvy babe, a busty babe etc. It's not fair I know but don't weep yet.

I'll take this two factors for now and show how we can exploit the loop holes in their reasoning.

Always try to ascertain a man's body count before you try to settle for him. It will save you headaches with cheating. There are two major ways to find out. Direct and indirect methods. You ask him directly his body count, guys will generally increase their body count by as much as 5 girls to make their resume look good (so try deleting at least 5 extra partners from the figure he gives you) or indirect method by ascertaining from his looks, wealth, social influence how many ladies he could have attracted and dated in the past. I prefer this method.
This information is very useful in knowing a cheat or potential cheat. If he has a large body count and he is below 25 years, girlfriend run he is just a f*ck boy and still a cheat. But if he has a large body count and is in his 30's chances are he WAS a cheat and a f*ck boy. But note he is still a potential cheat. Alpha males appeal to me as a lady, and all alpha males are potential cheats so caution has to be applied before settling with one.
A guy without any body count or a low body count usually have no game. But are still potential cheats, so never settle for them for body count reasons alone.

And knowing men are naturally curious, wanting to explore all the shapes and sizes women comes in, to keep him in check ensures you milk his resources (money and time). With extra or loads of money men can easily cheat on you.
With excess free time men can also cheat on you, so rob him of one or the two if possible and he will have two options. Stay with you or break up with you to go and cheat outside. A man who truly loves you will pick the former, he will stay with you. He doesn't mind investing his money in his woman because he sees you guys having and sharing a future together, he won't even mind spending loads of his time with you (time he would normally spend cheating on you).
So here is how to not get played by men.

Stay tuned for more.

Cc
Funmmyastic
Guest007
Seun

The truth is women are better cheat. Period

Sandra8:
Babes you guys are blocking my view, can you guys please shift

Now person dey block ur view, well we were only trying to educate the myopic view of ur post to make u understand the broader scope so u don't go putting all men in a box or two. Well make we still dey elaborate for you.

I trust my self. But women cheat also.

emonis88:
Now person dey block ur view, well we were only trying to educate the myopic view of ur post to make u understand the broader scope so u don't go putting all men in a box or two. Well make we still dey elaborate for you.

You can stand over at the next post and elaborate dear , let me breath

omoharry:
That is why the black man has been unable to invent anything worthy of emulation because all his thought are channeled toward sex and populating the Earth...(the average life cycle of a black man is to work to get money to woe and sleep with as many women as possible and what ever is left is use to feed his children that is if for the responsible ones) They have a very high sexual sex drive, so they have little time to deep think about inventing something or how to solve problem a plaguing the world. So we do not blame African men because that is how they have been programmed as a human being

See as u dey let African men down. So that is how u would describe even the men close to u.

Tyakukwe:
The truth is women are better cheat. Period

All cheating men are learning when compared with cheating women in terms of cheating. A woman can be in your front, yet be cheating somewhere in Congo at the same time

Mires:
I am sure their sister(s) are not as beautiful as the lady.

Okay.

healthserve:
All cheating men are learning when compared with cheating women in terms of cheating. A woman can be in your front, yet be cheating somewhere in Congo at the same time

Speaking from experience?

Funmmyastic:
Speaking from experience?

I've always been around ladies who were very comfortable to share their " ish " with me. Many, so many

To all the ladies: people (both genders) are naturally predisposed to promiscuity. Why? The short answer is genetic diversification: both need their genes to survive and the best way is to "put your eggs in several baskets".

The realities of human society - having to work hard to provide for offspring - resulted in the arrangement where a man wants to be sure he is sweating for only his own seed. In addition, a pregnant or nursing woman was vulnerable for a few years and could not - on her own - provide for all her needs, and so needed to be in a situation where a partner would provide for her. Thus the institution of marriage became a formalized arrangement to address these concerns, where the ideal is for one man, one woman. We as societies have drummed that message into our heads - in folk tales, music, religion, etc.

However, the fact remains that our natural disposition is to seek multiple partners. Promiscuity is doing what nature has designed us to do, but because society has developed to say it's a no-no, it's called "cheating". So rather than asking why men are men, perhaps it's healthier just to accept that men are men (and women are women, as we shall see in the last paragraph).

The main reason a woman feel cheating is bad is because of the risk of losing access to the resources she's being provided with. Modern society has made it possible for women to work and provide for their household, but it hasn't been the case for millennia. Another woman usually meant reduced resources for her children, and competition with a rival for basic needs. Modern women may deny this, and use the façade of religion, love, and morality to denounce it, but underlying all of that is the basic instinct for financial (resource) stability.

Now, to address what I feel is a one-sided accusation, there have been many well-researched reports that up to 30% of children are born to households where the man is not the biological father. These statistics only refers to cases where the woman admitted to the infidelity. We don't have statistics for unreported cases, or where the woman took the deception to her grave.

To recap: cheating happens in both genders; there is a biological basis for it; we feel it's bad because it hurts the chances for survival for us and offspring.

healthserve:
All cheating men are learning when compared with cheating women in terms of cheating. A woman can be in your front, yet be cheating somewhere in Congo at the same time

Lol, so true. We should also acknowledge their killer move ( CROCODILE TEARS)

Sandra8:
You can stand over at the next post and elaborate dear , let me breath

Well I see say as we dey try make u understand say those guys u dey deal with be the bad boys with sweet mouth na im u dey chase us away say make we no disturb u. Well u can't buy experience with money o! The thing weh go help person small na to listen to the person weh get the experience. I don tell u Sha!

Sandra8:
Prove you are man enough to handle me babe

Alright I have to Ghana Must Go full of shirts 2-iron come over this evening and iron it for me

emonis88:
Well I see say as we dey try make u understand say those guys u dey deal with be the bad boys with sweet mouth na u dey chase us away say make we no disturb u. Well u can't buy experience with money o! The thing weh go help person small na to listen to the person weh get the experience. I don tell u Sha!

I points have been noted in my diary of stories. Thanks for sharing honey. Love you

Tyakukwe:
Lol, so true. We should also acknowledge their killer move ( CROCODILE TEARS)

That's if you ever catch them. One thing though is dip in energy. Any moment there's a dip in energy/attitude/time together forget it, she has either cheated or on her way to or scheming her way to carry out her lusts

Stop trying hard to understand somethings, it would save you a lot of headaches. Just like the question "what do women want"?.

healthserve:
All cheating men are learning when compared with cheating women in terms of cheating. A woman can be in your front, yet be cheating somewhere in Congo at the same time

AHH! Woman weh fit carry another man pikin come give her husband for house say na im get am.

emonis88:
AHH! Woman weh fit carry another man pikin come give her husband for house say na im get am.

truth is many perceive good treatment as weak. The good qualities they yearn for publicly is privately seen as weak. No dropping guards against them
Na. Take it rough, rude and rash is what they get

healthserve:
truth is many perceive good treatment as weak. The good qualities they yearn for publicly is privately seen as weak. No dropping guards against them
Na. Take it rough, rude and rash is what they get

Sandra8:
why men cheat is a complicated question that needs answering. It is important to note that men cheat for various reasons so a single answer cannot exhaust the question.

Men though cheat for various underlying factors, know this factors and PREVENT a potential cheater from cheating on you. I believe in prevention being better than cure.

P. S: Women should realize that men find us ALLURING in all our different shapes and sizes and colors too. It takes a strong willed man with self control to withstand the urge of his testosterone to cheat. So therefore all men are liable to cheat.

Women should realize that for most boys to transition to a Man they believe they must sleep with a woman. That reasoning alone pushes small boys barely up to 15 years to start wooing girls around, seeking love but in a guise to have sex (this is where he first learns how to cheat by lying about his true feelings) . And for a man to transition to THE MAN, he must be an expert in getting girls and sleeping with them. This drives a man to increase his body count to get bragging rights and sexual prowess than his peers (this is what drives most men to start cheating).

Another factor is the fact that men are very curious beings. They like to explore. Men wants to know what it feels like to be with a dark babe, a fair babe, a slim babe, a curvy babe, a busty babe etc. It's not fair I know but don't weep yet.

I'll take this two factors for now and show how we can exploit the loop holes in their reasoning.

Always try to ascertain a man's body count before you try to settle for him. It will save you headaches with cheating. There are two major ways to find out. Direct and indirect methods. You ask him directly his body count, guys will generally increase their body count by as much as 5 girls to make their resume look good (so try deleting at least 5 extra partners from the figure he gives you) or indirect method by ascertaining from his looks, wealth, social influence how many ladies he could have attracted and dated in the past. I prefer this method.
This information is very useful in knowing a cheat or potential cheat. If he has a large body count and he is below 25 years, girlfriend run he is just a f*ck boy and still a cheat. But if he has a large body count and is in his 30's chances are he WAS a cheat and a f*ck boy. But note he is still a potential cheat. Alpha males appeal to me as a lady, and all alpha males are potential cheats so caution has to be applied before settling with one.
A guy without any body count or a low body count usually have no game. But are still potential cheats, so never settle for them for body count reasons alone.

And knowing men are naturally curious, wanting to explore all the shapes and sizes women comes in, to keep him in check ensures you milk his resources (money and time). With extra or loads of money men can easily cheat on you.
With excess free time men can also cheat on you, so rob him of one or the two if possible and he will have two options. Stay with you or break up with you to go and cheat outside. A man who truly loves you will pick the former, he will stay with you. He doesn't mind investing his money in his woman because he sees you guys having and sharing a future together, he won't even mind spending loads of his time with you (time he would normally spend cheating on you).
So here is how to not get played by men.

Stay tuned for more.

Cc
Funmmyastic
Guest007
Seun

this is more funny than I thought.....i man cheat because is woman has not been what he wished for eventually.......... A man stop cheating when he find out that is woman worth no stress for her good deed to him....... Men are good example in relationships.........men don't cheat for the same reason as girls....... Most men treat women according to how she place her self

Sandra8:
I points have been noted in my diary of stories. Thanks for sharing honey. Love you

Me sef love u well well na im make me dey tell o! But eh! Na blue or black pen na im make u take note am down o! No use red pen o! Because of when life weh be the teacher of all of us wan mark o!