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There is this girl I'm madly in Love with, she's not that beautiful but I love her for no specific reason. I've been trying to ask her out since last year but all I've been getting is a no. Sometimes, I try not to talk to her but I find myself with her again..I'm not handsome but ugly is not the word to describe me. I'm really keen on a serious relationship with the girl. Me and her are so close to the point her sisters think we're dating. All she says is she's not ready for another heartbreak or she doesn't have an interest in me. I'm deeply in love and confused.. What can I do to make me stop thinking about her?

go lick some lollipop boy

It's hard but all you have to do is:
FORGET ABOUT HER
HUSTLE HARD AND SMART
PRAY TO GOD
By the time you're loaded, she'll be the one posting "how can I make a guy I once ignored fall in love with me"

Don't mind her she's lying...you're probably what ur moniker says or even worse...that's the real reason

are you sure you are not just interested in licking her lollipop ice cream and then clean mouth and go?she may be seeing that in you and thats why shes saying shes not ready for another heartbreak.most times what people call love, especially guys is nothing but "lust" so ask yourself if what you feel for her is really love? if it is love devoid of sexual interest and gratification. then you can come back here and tell us about how you are madly in love with her.

Aladdin1:
are you sure you are not just interested in licking her lollipop ice cream and then clean mouth and go?she may be seeing that in you and thats why shes saying shes not ready for another heartbreak.most times what people call love, especially guys is nothing but "lust" so ask yourself if what you feel for her is really love? if it is love devoid of sexual interest and gratification. then you can come back here and tell us about how you are madly in love with her.

Sincerely, I love her....I've not really thought of sleeping with her...she's just intelligent and has a way of making me mesmerised whenever I'm around her..

PabloAndreas:
Don't mind her she's lying...you're probably what ur moniker says or even worse...that's the real reason

Lol... I've had relationships with girls anyone won't call ugly and I'm not that rich..so ugly is not a word to describe me

uglyboi:
Sincerely, I love her....I've not really thought of sleeping with her...she's just intelligent and has a way of making me mesmerised whenever I'm around her..

Nobody loves anybody for no reason. You're simply obsessed with some girl and your infatuation will wear off with time.

To be specific with you. You need to keep trying harder. She wants to check if you will never give up. Maybe if you're the type of guy that don't chop and go.

uglyboi:
Sincerely, I love her....I've not really thought of sleeping with her...she's just intelligent and has a way of making me mesmerised whenever I'm around her..

Okay! but dats not love na.you like her personality and charisma.but if you are sure that its "love" then keep telling her how you feel about her. Love always wins through.

Bros, just remain happily stuck in the friend zone at the moment.

OP doesn’t love her, he’s just playing the beta game. It’s also called the sentimental game, “the more you’re told that you can’t get something, the more you want it.” If she had said yes last year, I’m sure you’ll be dating another one by now.

MedicH:
Nobody loves anybody for no reason. You're simply obsessed with some girl and your infatuation will wear off with time.

It hasn't worn off over a year...

tidalstorm:
Bros, just remain happily stuck in the friend zone at the moment.

Lol....

uglyboi:
There is this girl I'm madly in Love with, she's not that beautiful but I love her for no specific reason. I've been trying to ask her out since last year but all I've been getting is a no. Sometimes, I try not to talk to her but I find myself with her again..I'm not handsome but ugly is not the word to describe me. I'm really keen on a serious relationship with the girl. Me and her are so close to the point her sisters think we're dating. All she says is she's not ready for another heartbreak or she doesn't have an interest in me. I'm deeply in love and confused.. What can I do to make me stop thinking about her?

Since you guys are close, give her time to accept the relationship

She must have had a bad relationship in the past and is afraid of having another one

Your pure heart with her will break in for you

Don't rush her keep getting close to her

You need deliverance

Lonewolf98:
It's hard but all you have to do is:
FORGET ABOUT HER
HUSTLE HARD AND SMART
PRAY TO GOD
By the time you're loaded, she'll be the one posting "how can I make a guy I once ignored fall in love with me"