serosa:
So i was watching a movie earlier today.
The couples just got married and it was their wedding night.
Something happened and the woman was not in the mood but the man argued that they must have sex since its their wedding night.
And besides they havent had sex before.

So my question is that is it a must a couple have sex on their wedding night.
Can they not have it on other night.
And is no sex before marriage an excuse to have sex on the wedding night.

It’s not compulsory. It’s a movie. Contrary to popular belief a lot of people don’t have sex on their wedding night.

I don't think I will make love to my wife on the wedding night.
After all the arrangement, dancing and making sure everything is in order I don't think I will have the strength for sex na straight to sleep.
Sex can wait next time.

I will tell you to simply trace your steps back home and collect all my rice, zobo, and drinks that you made me waste on top your head.


Even if I'm not ready to fvck, the dick must enter the Congo that night in order to exercise my conjugal right.

respect80:
I will tell you to simply trace your steps back home and collect all my rice, zobo, and drinks that you made me waste on top your head.


Even if I'm not ready to fvck, the dick must enter the Congo that night in order to exercise my conjugal right.

Ahh

@Op, it isn't a must they do it that night.
They have all the time in the world to do it.

serosa:
So i was watching a movie earlier today.
The couples just got married and it was their wedding night.
Something happened and the woman was not in the mood but the man argued that they must have sex since its their wedding night.
And besides they havent had sex before.

So my question is that is it a must a couple have sex on their wedding night.
Can they not have it on other night.
And is no sex before marriage an excuse to have sex on the wedding night.

if she decides not to ever be in the mood, I will jejely look for the person in the mood. Whether married or still dating

kense88:
if she decides not to ever be in the mood, I will jejely look for the person in the mood. Whether married or still dating

Thats unfair.

A very funny and insightful thread

dami9ja:


It’s not compulsory. It’s a movie. Contrary to popular belief a lot of people don’t have sex on their wedding night.

I will be one of the few people that doesn't have sex on their wedding night, as in won't i be tired? Even the next three days will be on probability not certain, it depends on my activities like settling of hired stuff, going back to thank the in-laws as my tradition, a lot of works to do that the thought and urge for sex go disappear. After all we don dey do am before that day

Wuraola01:
@Op, it isn't a must they do it that night.
They have all the time in the world to do it.

Where have you been?

Osyxcel:


Where have you been?

Lol. Been busy with school and exams.

Done! So, I'm back

Wuraola01:



Lol. Been busy with school and exams.

Done! So, I'm back

Glad to have you back.

All the best with your exams.

Osyxcel:


Glad to have you back.

All the best with your exams.

Amen. Thank youu

MrBrownJay1:


That's another matter...I would wait but I know many men who have no issue with menses and would just lay a towel on the bed and mount that babe mercilessly.

must you add the word mercilessly.

serosa:


But its her decision you going further might result to rape

Young girl, you better throw away that mentality now. When you are married, there is nothing like "your decision" anymore.
Either you loving dissuade him (and pray that he understands) or you just do it for his sake

ITbomb:

Young girl, you better throw away that mentality now. When you are married, there is nothing like "your decision" anymore.
Either you loving dissuade him (and pray that he understands) or you just do it for his sake

Okay thanks

serosa:



But its not by force now maybe she isnt in the mood and besides she will be teird.

She should not be married abeg.

saintneo:
She should not be married abeg.

Why cant she .
Its a matter of choice.

I’m married and no we didn’t make love that night, we were too tired after d long day, there was an after party too. It’s something u will do for a lifetime, why rush it? Besides the first time after the wedding has to be special cos it’s heralding a new beginning. It’s better to say sweet things to each other, cuddle and sleep. Wake up strong in the morning and make good love. This is experience talking. Peace

mayim:
I’m married and no we didn’t make love that night, we were too tired after d long day, there was an after party too. It’s something u will do for a lifetime, why rush it? Besides the first time after the wedding has to be special cos it’s heralding a new beginning. It’s better to say sweet things to each other, cuddle and sleep. Wake up strong in the morning and make good love. This is experience talking. Peace

Thanks alot

serosa:



Thanks alot

U welcome