fykes:

Ur wife married u bcoz u said u will give her a car? U even willed a shopping plaza BUILT BY UR MOM, to ur wife??
Dude if ur mom ever gave birth to girls, u have completely embarrassed all ur sisters...u probably married someone u should have dated or even fvcked and moved on.

And alpha male will never will an inherited property to a wife let alone girlfriend. An alpha will never promise a bitch a car so she can marry him.

Na @op do himself. A perfect example of a simp. Nansense and MissGhosted

funmisticqueen:
You don't know his history, check his previous threads and you will understand what i am talking about

What fucking history? Should he bribe someone to be with him?

GreatResearcher:
We did a documented agreement

Yes. A documented agreement In quote "Factoring in all possible outcomes"

The agreement was something like "Things you stand to gain and what you're in for" it wasn't a dos and don't type of agreement. I didn't have time to think of all these things

Raydans:


Yes. A documented agreement In quote "Factoring in all possible outcomes"

GreatResearcher, I am yet to see what the term alpha male has to do with your condition. To be sincere, you are a weak man and swallowing red pills would have done you a lot of good. If you don't know who an alpha male is, stop using the term. You need to come back to your senses, get some spine, and start setting standards in your marriage. You saw a lot of red flags and made some mistakes yet you think there is some problem with alpha males?

GreatResearcher:
selling the properties is a red flag to me. Victorian is super religious. I can't deal with that.

I got this feeling the girl is not running away.
Maybe she needs some time alone. Because we have really stressed ourselves in qurrales.

Haba, you don't know the game your wife is playing on you. You are her insecurity tampon. People that will take advantage of you will always be in existence but it left for you to have wisdom and understanding.

funmisticqueen:
Na wa o. Be the mature one in the marriage, look after your mental health, quickly reconcile and get her pregnant

Abeg abeg, reconcile keh? Advise OP to get her pregnant, then start acting up. Two can play the game.

I actually created the thread to advise men who think they have the "mumu button" and can press it on any lady. I came to tell them that life on the other side (marriage) is different.


But the thread turned out to be something else.

Martinez39:
GreatResearcher, I am yet to see what the term alpha male has to do with your condition. To be sincere, you are a weak man and swallowing red pills would have done you a lot of good. If you don't know who an alpha male is, stop using the term. You need to come back to your senses, get some spine, and start setting standards in your marriage. You saw a lot of red flags and made some mistakes yet you think there is some problem with alpha males?

GreatResearcher:
She hasn't sold shopping plaza old don't misunderstand my post. She sold a car I gave her. though. She asked me when the rent expiring. I told her that occupants of the plaza renew their rents every Feb. She then told me that she would sell off the plaza that she can't manage it. I told her she can't. She said the plaza belongs to her and she can do what she likes with her property. I told her that plaza was my mom property and selling it is not allowed.

We are just having miss understanding and it's normal for couple to disagree.
People calling me mumu pls

You are bigger than a mumu.

GreatResearcher:
y are u ladies like dis? all d same. if i didnt gv her all i prmsd same u ladies il talk. yes, i prmsd i wil gv a lady tins if we marry. but sellin it wasnt d plan

Wait o, you’re still defending yourself?

GreatResearcher:
She is a cool person and nice to be with. Just that we disagree most times concerning things. For example, she wants us to relocate to Lagos

After the clear signs, you still think this about her. Women don't marry for love, they marry their best options and they marry for financial security. You are currently being ruthlessly gold digged and your wife is cashing in on you to be her insecurity tampon. She is doing this ruthlessly and love is not in her equation. You have to throw love in the gutters and start thinking with your head. Make heart a material of cold steel and start thinking.

Las las, if she maintains her stubbornness, kick her out of the marriage. No woman is special, indispensable, and irreplaceable. They are just another human being. She gains way more from you than you gain from her, you are the price. One quality of alpha males is that they can easily see and acknowledge these red flags and are a ever ready to severe a toxic and unproductive relationship. I could have adviced you in details but no time.

If you want to talk in details and get some advice, drop your number and I would contact you through WhatsApp. I am free today. It pays to have common sense and swallow the red pill.

GreatResearcher:
My mentality about life, women in particular, changes the moment I got married. I've read some articles here and seen 'THE ALPHA MALE DUDES' been schooled here by their mentors. I want to say this, 'life on the other side (marriage) is a different ball game'. I'd hav droped a piece of advice here for the 'ALPHA MALE DUDES' but let them learn from experience. I realized, a lesson learned from experience is more valuable and retentive.

Hahahaha. That's why it's always nice to marry a good woman.

GreatResearcher:
I actually created the thread to advise men who think they have the "mumu button" and can press it on any lady. I came to tell them that life on the other side (marriage) is different.


But the thread turned out to be something else.

Alpha males don't have the mumu buttons of any lady. We red pill men just understand women and we never make ourselves available to manipulation. We don't love.

GreatResearcher:
The agreement was something like "Things you stand to gain and what you're in for" it wasn't a dos and don't type of agreement. I didn't have time to think of all these things

That is where you blew it up. She is someone you hardly know, this is naija and should have taken your time to think ahead and put in consideration and into contract of the marriage. This is life and people change.
By now you won't have to complain because there are penalties.

GreatResearcher:
y are u ladies like dis? all d same. if i didnt gv her all i prmsd same u ladies il talk. yes, i prmsd i wil gv a lady tins if we marry. but sellin it wasnt d plan

They are all like that regardless of religion, whether or not they believe in god, country, race, political affiliation, etc. Immediately she still demanded a new car after a car gift, you should have known that your wife is a gold digger and she is using you as an insecurity tampon. You shouldn't have wired that money even though you promised her a car. The money you have foolishly given to her will be pocketed by her and you will still be the one to provide and pay for everything. You really need the red pill. I wish men would stop following girls to shame ubunja, lukui, myself, iLegend, etc. and listen to what we have to say.

eni4real:
Are you talking about fibroid or babies?? C'mon!

No, i am talking about embryos from opportunistic, unworthy omega males. Cannot afford to bring such into the world

Martinez39:
Alpha males don't have the mumu buttons of any lady. We red pill men just understand women and we never make ourselves available to manipulation. We don't love.

Leave OP jare. He entered into a contract and added emotions. Only a fool uses emotions in business. You fell for her, or you just want what you can’t get? It’s cause she’s playing your own mumu button, that’s why you’re here complaining and still defending her. You have no trait of an Alpha male. I’m pretty sure your wife would be suffering die hard if it was me. Destroy your stupid emotions. Both love and hate. If you’re not a natural at lack of empathy, there are drugs you can take to cut off emotions from you life (I won’t advise you to take them though.)

Bottom line is that you should play this game as good as she’s playing. If you have sisters, transfer your mom’s plaza to them for the time being. Wreck yourself, and manipulate that idiotic wife of yours. Ah ah, how will a man of over 30 years be acting like one teenager who mistakenly fell in love? Just accept that she’s using you.

I’m sure you won’t listen shall. When you’re gaming a person sometimes, you feel that the person can’t game back. That’s your issue. I also think that your trust is the reason why you can’t see clearly. A relationship built on lies will last as long as you can keep pumping the lies. A pathological liar never runs out of lies. You need to learn more boss. If you’re in for a contract wedding, then act like it’s a business where you’re trying to exploit your competitor. If she must sell the plaza, then you must have her will something much more greater to you first. Devalue the thing after getting it. Push the part you took off to your trusted friend and family (family especially), and then file for a divorce. That way, you guys will have 50/50 and the part you took off from the property she willed you.

You signed a contract without checks and balances. It can still be rectified shall. There are many ways to kill a rat. I can give you advise on sucking that idiot dry if you want. You’ll however be able to watch someone cry to death without helping if you want to do this. If you can watch someone cry to death without helping when you can, then I’d be happy to help you in getting this property you left victorian for . I don’t mean to say you’re going to kill her o. I just mean to say that you might traumatize her and possibly yourself.

There’s nothing alpha about you. There’s nothing alpha about me. You were played, I can’t be played, especially in business.

GreatResearcher:
The agreement was something like "Things you stand to gain and what you're in for" it wasn't a dos and don't type of agreement. I didn't have time to think of all these things

uncle if you gave her something, it is left for her to do what she likes with it. that is the essence of a gift/will. Since it is a contract, better get her pregnant ASAP and divorce, or is there something you arent telling us.

Psalm2423:


Leave OP jare. He entered into a contract and added emotions. Only a fool uses emotions in business. You fell for her, or you just want what you can’t get? It’s cause she’s playing your own mumu button, that’s why you’re here complaining and still defending her. You have no trait of an Alpha male. I’m pretty sure your wife would be suffering die hard if it was me. Destroy your stupid emotions. Both love and hate. If you’re not a natural at lack of empathy, there are drugs you can take to cut off emotions from you life (I won’t advise you to take them though.)

Bottom line is that you should play this game as good as she’s playing. If you have sisters, transfer your mom’s plaza to them for the time being. Wreck yourself, and manipulate that idiotic wife of yours. Ah ah, how will a man of over 30 years be acting like one teenager who mistakenly fell in love? Just accept that she’s using you.

I’m sure you won’t listen shall. When you’re gaming a person sometimes, you feel that the person can’t game back. That’s your issue. I also think that your trust is the reason why you can’t see clearly. A relationship built on lies will last as long as you can keep pumping the lies. A pathological liar never runs out of lies. You need to learn more boss. If you’re in for a contract wedding, then act like it’s a business where you’re trying to exploit your competitor. If she must sell the plaza, then you must have her will something much more greater to you first. Devalue the thing after getting it. Push the part you took off to your trusted friend and family (family especially), and then file for a divorce. That way, you guys will have 50/50 and the part you took off from the property she willed you.

You signed a contract without checks and balances. It can still be rectified shall. There are many ways to kill a rat. I can give you advise on sucking that idiot dry if you want. You’ll however be able to watch someone cry to death without helping if you want to do this. If you can watch someone cry to death without helping when you can, then I’d be happy to help you in getting this property you left victorian for . I don’t mean to say you’re going to kill her o. I just mean to say that you might traumatize her and possibly yourself.

There’s nothing alpha about you. There’s nothing alpha about me. You were played, I can’t be played, especially in business.

See this omega male giving advice

Martinez39:
They are all like that regardless of religion, whether or not they believe in god, country, race, political affiliation, etc. Immediately she still demanded a new car after a car gift, you should have known that your wife is a gold digger and she is using you as an insecurity tampon. You shouldn't have wired that money even though you promised her a car. The money you have foolishly given to her will be pocketed by her and you will still be the one to provide and pay for everything. You really need the red pill. I wish men would stop following girls to shame ubunja, lukui, myself, iLegend, etc. and listen to what we have to say.

All women are not the same tho. But the bad ones covers the majority. As a man you must put on your armour of sensitivity to detect them bad from the good. As such you won't have to hurt the good ones in the process while avoiding the bad ones

funmisticqueen:
See this omega male giving advice

Lol. Terminology disgraced you there. You should’ve said beta at least if you meant to make a point. Nwanne, which one is omega? Please go for third service so you can receive sense.

Stop disgracing female beings.

GreatResearcher:
I actually created the thread to advise men who think they have the "mumu button" and can press it on any lady. I came to tell them that life on the other side (marriage) is different.


But the thread turned out to be something else.

Sir, you clearly don't get it. You lay the foundation of your marriage base on material things and lies. In other words, you set a trap for yourself. You are caught by your own trap and you are now looking for a way to blame it on something else.
You better get yourself together before she sends you to your village.

GreatResearcher:
we never dated. met few months, seen twice b4 marriage. d third time of seein was on weddin day

d truth is dis:. der is no link connection ur Alpha male ur saying nd Wt ur goin Tru in just 1mnth of ur marriage.

u were bored of living alone in ur aprtment as a bachelor and u just wanted a woman dt u want to kip as compny/roommate in DT huz wit u. It's NOT a wife u were seeking bt a roommate.

ow cn you see sm1 just twice prior to wifing her. You made a damaging approach to the process of knowing sm1.

No mata ow strong ur desire is for a life partner, der are process dt shud proceed and ur satisfied wit bfor u take dt big bold step of marrying sm1.

The kind of love u presented nd served her right frm the start was conditional nd most women will quickly clinch to such kind of love . Conditional LOVE

It is painful ur wife is capitalizing on ur generosity. Your the one dt brot dis upon urself. You have not entered yr2 of ur marriage and she is already taking ur peace.
Nevertheless, u can still repair ur new marriage.
Immediately chng ur style of expressin love to dt woman . Stop usin material things to buy her love. You shud know by now dt no mata wt u buy or give a lady, it won't satisfy her.

Get to know her anew nd redirect ur love on her as a person and nt on stuffs u do give her. Der are intrinsic attributes she may have dt may make u happy.

Be firm nd resolute in deciding ow u wnt ur marriage shud go or else dt woman will end up controlling you in DT huz. Bin firm dos nt mean u shud be wicked or violent towards her.

God will be ur peace in DT ur home in Jesus name .

All the elders in d huz shud plz come in .

Psalm2423:


Lol. Terminology disgraced you there. You should’ve said beta at least if you meant to make a point. Nwanne, which one is omega? Please go for third service so you can receive sense.

Stop disgracing female beings.

Stop displaying your ignorance and find out what, alpha, beta, gamma, delta, theta and omega means. If that one is too hard for you, read on heirachy of a wolf/ werewolf pack. Be shouting alpha male up and down without knowing the meaning

gerizzim:



d truth is dis:. der is no link connection ur Alpha male ur saying nd Wt ur goin Tru in just 1mnth of ur marriage.

u were bored of living alone in ur aprtment as a bachelor and u just wanted a woman dt u want to kip as compny/roommate in DT huz wit u. It's NOT a wife u were seeking bt a roommate.

ow cn you see sm1 just twice prior to wifing her. You made a damaging approach to the process of knowing sm1.

No mata ow strong ur desire is for a life partner, der are process dt shud proceed and ur satisfied wit bfor u take dt big bold step of marrying sm1.

The kind of love u presented nd served her right frm the start was conditional nd most women will quickly clinch to such kind of love . Conditional LOVE

It is painful ur wife is capitalizing on ur generosity. Your the one dt brot dis upon urself. You have not entered yr2 of ur marriage and she is already taking ur peace.
Nevertheless, u can still repair ur new marriage.
Immediately chng ur style of expressin love to dt woman . Stop usin material things to buy her love. You shud know by now dt no mata wt u buy or give a lady, it won't satisfy her.

Get to know her anew nd redirect ur love on her as a person and nt on stuffs u do give her. Der are intrinsic attributes she may have dt may make u happy.

Be firm nd resolute in deciding ow u wnt ur marriage shud go or else dt woman will end up controlling you in DT huz. Bin firm dos nt mean u shud be wicked or violent towards her.

God will be ur peace in DT ur home in Jesus name .

All the elders in d huz shud plz come in .

https://www.nairaland.com/4994807/female-atheist-needed-relationship-must/11#75749515

Read this thread to get an idea of what is going on

nuelsam click the link

Raydans:

All women are not the same tho. But the bad ones covers the majority. As a man you must put on your armour of sensitivity to detect them bad from the good. As such you won't have to hurt the good ones in the process while avoiding the bad ones

This is the problem with men. They arrogantly think they can spot good women and perfectly detect the NAWALTs in the society. They forgot that our species has produced, from both men and women, top spies and Oscar winning actors.

GreatResearcher:
selling the properties is a red flag to me. Victorian is super religious. I can't deal with that.

I got this feeling the girl is not running away.
Maybe she needs some time alone. Because we have really stressed ourselves in qurrales.

damn..... U still blinded by the illusion called "love"

nuelsam:
damn..... U still blinded by the illusion called "love"

Trust me, it is not love. let me quote you on his previous thread

Psalm2423:


Leave OP jare. He entered into a contract and added emotions. Only a fool uses emotions in business. You fell for her, or you just want what you can’t get? It’s cause she’s playing your own mumu button, that’s why you’re here complaining and still defending her. You have no trait of an Alpha male. I’m pretty sure your wife would be suffering die hard if it was me. Destroy your stupid emotions. Both love and hate. If you’re not a natural at lack of empathy, there are drugs you can take to cut off emotions from you life (I won’t advise you to take them though.)

Bottom line is that you should play this game as good as she’s playing. If you have sisters,...

There’s nothing alpha about you. There’s nothing alpha about me. You were played, I can’t be played, especially in business.

Despite all the signs he has seen and reported, he still wrote that his wife is cool and nice to be with.

GreatResearcher:
I actually created the thread to advise men who think they have the "mumu button" and can press it on any lady. I came to tell them that life on the other side (marriage) is different.


But the thread turned out to be something else.

don't mind these omega males, what is the way forward now. IT is going to take time for it to sink in that she married an aethist amongst other things you're learning about each other. Give her time cool off and strategise. Two of you need space, especially as you don't know each other too well. Take it easy,she can't last out forever.

Martinez39:
Despite all the signs he has seen and reported, he still wrote that his wife is cool and nice to be with.

Because she most likely is. Do you believe in God?

Martinez39:
This is the problem with men. They arrogantly think they can spot good women and perfectly detect the NAWALTs in the society. They forgot that our species has produced, from both men and women, top spies and Oscar winning actors.

All women are not the same bro. I've met a few.
I personally have an innate sixth sense. If you are trying to manipulate me. I detect and avoid you. And if you require to be taught a lesson. Its game on for me. Two can always play the game.