Marry both of them shapaly

Ladylite:


LOL, boss at 35 hope you are very rich o.

Why will you be so childish to speak of body assets when money can do it.

Anyway, even after sex and pregnancy the body shape can be changed.

So stop making a life decision on a temporary matter.

You need to also pray because marriage is spiritual, you need to know that you will only have a good marriage if you are you marry a lady for who she will be and not for who she currently is.


People change ooo.

It's well with you

Who she would be and not whom she currently is. And people change. FACT. I'm taking this to the bank first thing tomorrow lady

NwaAmaikpe:




You are 35years old and you think you can wake up one day and marry a girl you didn't date simply because your English is good enough to analyse them.

You don't know that no one fully understands women because they are like a giant enclopaedia with several torn pages.

If a man who dated his wife for 9 years before marrying her still doesn't understand her, imagine what it will be for a person whose only knowledge of his wife is from a brotherzone distance.

You don't even know if her 'down-below' smells,
You don't know if hairs grow inside her nostrils,
You don't know if she wears padded bra

The good thing is that you know that they are not your 'spec' but you are willing to endure.

My only advice.
Just pick one of them and marry. Life expectancy in Nigeria is 53years, so your time is ticking away.
But get ready for another bitter breakup; this time, in marriage.

Because you didn't learn anything.

One thing I like most about all ur comments I used to read is the fact that you say things as it is without sugar coating it. You say what you feel irrespective of whether people like it or not. I respect you bro

NwaAmaikpe:




You are 35years old and you think you can wake up one day and marry a girl you didn't date simply because your English is good enough to analyse them.

You don't know that no one fully understands women because they are like a giant enclopaedia with several torn pages.

If a man who dated his wife for 9 years before marrying her still doesn't understand her, imagine what it will be for a person whose only knowledge of his wife is from a brotherzone distance.

You don't even know if her 'down-below' smells,
You don't know if hairs grow inside her nostrils,
You don't know if she wears padded bra

The good thing is that you know that they are not your 'spec' but you are willing to endure.

My only advice.
Just pick one of them and marry. Life expectancy in Nigeria is 53years, so your time is ticking away.
But get ready for another bitter breakup; this time, in marriage.

Because you didn't learn anything.

Na wa o Bros



But full encyclopedia with several tons pages is a very funny illustration. You and your foul mouth

Felixalex:
Guys please I need ur help.... one babe asked for 1000 likes here for her n two of her best friends to have a foursome with me. She asked for 1000 retweets on twitter but I'm not active on twitter.. please don't let me down guys.

The only thing I can tell you is to find a girlfriend
You are too young to be scam because of p****y

idom101:


Thank you for your advice. In our dealings daily she is someone who is not disturbed by anything.
she is very jovial and lively too.

Seek spiritually to get the answers you seek. What you see today can be a perfectly projected illusion. Everyone presents the best not truest versions of themselves to other people. There's need to have more details than what you have as they both are complete strangers to be honest. To know them, you need to date them both and observe. Settle for the one you can cope with her flaws a life time. If you've waited 34years, wait one year to make the right choice by using this period to date. Otherwise seek pastoral counsel

idom101:
Hello everyone,
it's really my first time to ask for help here.

I will be 35 20 days from today and I intend to get married very soon, but after a bitter break up more than 1 year ago, I finally make up my mind to love again but I am caught up in between two lovely women.

Note: I am not dating any of this girls but they are my friends and wonderful people character wise.

I have known the first one since childhood, she has turn out to be an amazing young girl always supportive when I need her, living with her I know I will definitely be very happy in my marriage but she is less of a goal oriented person, which means I will have to work more, she is more of an extrovert also very loyal.

The second girl is very okay character wise, very submissive and is great goal getter, marrying her means I will do less for us to achieve our goals but she is more of an introvert, she is this kind of girl that can keep to her self, and she very loyal too

both of them outwardly does not carry the body I would like but inwardly they are amazing people. both of them support my vision in life so well.

Please marriage expert in the house help me, as I don't want to make mistake in my marriage. I am still praying but I feel I need to also find a way out.

which of this girls would you chose to marry and why?

matured advice are welcome.

thanks

lol, at your age, you ought to have lots of sweet ladies waiting and praying for you to pick them as wife.


You guys surprise me a lot. How can you be 35yrs and not have like 3 - 5 gorgeous ladies you are dating seriously to pick a wife from, na wa oh.


Unless things aren't going well financially which if that's the case I pray for God to bless your endeavor.

But if things are going on well with you financially and you are not dating at least 3 super gorgeous ladies u can pick a wife from, then something is definitely wrong with you.


Lastly, don't marry any lady you didn't date intimately for at least 2 years in today world to avoid marrying another guy's fuckmate, you better grow up!!

How can you even think of marrying a lady u have not bleeped or attempted to Bleep and maybe discovered that she is confirmed virgin with hymen in tact and she didn't stop u but you decided to stop as a way of respecting her dignity

Don't make mistake of marrying any non virgin lady u didn't Bleep, if she says she is a virgin, to show her loyalty and passion for u, she must submit herself to u to see the hymen with your two eyes, if not, don't marry..stop allowing ladies to be using u guy's head

NwaAmaikpe:




You are 35years old and you think you can wake up one day and marry a girl you didn't date simply because your English is good enough to analyse them.

You don't know that no one fully understands women because they are like a giant enclopaedia with several torn pages.

If a man who dated his wife for 9 years before marrying her still doesn't understand her, imagine what it will be for a person whose only knowledge of his wife is from a brotherzone distance.

You don't even know if her 'down-below' smells,
You don't know if hairs grow inside her nostrils,
You don't know if she wears padded bra

The good thing is that you know that they are not your 'spec' but you are willing to endure.

My only advice.
Just pick one of them and marry. Life expectancy in Nigeria is 53years, so your time is ticking away.
But get ready for another bitter breakup; this time, in marriage.

Because you didn't learn anything.

Mumu. A wasted sperm.

idom101:
....

This op is more confused than confusion itself.
You're not even dating any of them, you don't even know if they'll turn your proposal down or maybe they're in serious relationship already but here you are hallucinating. Anyway, maybe u just want to trend ni. When you're ready to settle down, you know what to do.

ednut1:
35 still dey confused. Nawa

Just read the content sef. Funny enough the lady who seems goalless might become a serial entrepreneur tomorrow just if she find out what she has passion for and turn it into a money making venture. The op sef no serious. @Op hope you look like Denzel Washington o, this one u saying they don't have body physique u like

hmmm

NwaAmaikpe:




You are 35years old and you think you can wake up one day and marry a girl you didn't date simply because your English is good enough to analyse them.

You don't know that no one fully understands women because they are like a giant enclopaedia with several torn pages.

If a man who dated his wife for 9 years before marrying her still doesn't understand her, imagine what it will be for a person whose only knowledge of his wife is from a brotherzone distance.

You don't even know if her 'down-below' smells,
You don't know if hairs grow inside her nostrils,
You don't know if she wears padded bra

The good thing is that you know that they are not your 'spec' but you are willing to endure.

My only advice.
Just pick one of them and marry. Life expectancy in Nigeria is 53years, so your time is ticking away.
But get ready for another bitter breakup; this time, in marriage.

Because you didn't learn anything.

This guy is a fool

Which of these two women do you think can give you better kids? That's the only thing that will stay after you're gone.

AwkaetitiBabe:
E dey happen.

When did u stop being?

MedicH:


When did u stop being?

Cum again?

idom101:
Hello everyone,
it's really my first time to ask for help here.

I will be 35 20 days from today and I intend to get married very soon, but after a bitter break up more than 1 year ago, I finally make up my mind to love again but I am caught up in between two lovely women.

Note: I am not dating any of this girls but they are my friends and wonderful people character wise.

I have known the first one since childhood, she has turn out to be an amazing young girl always supportive when I need her, living with her I know I will definitely be very happy in my marriage but she is less of a goal oriented person, which means I will have to work more, she is more of an extrovert also very loyal.

The second girl is very okay character wise, very submissive and is great goal getter, marrying her means I will do less for us to achieve our goals but she is more of an introvert, she is this kind of girl that can keep to her self, and she very loyal too

both of them outwardly does not carry the body I would like but inwardly they are amazing people. both of them support my vision in life so well.

Please marriage expert in the house help me, as I don't want to make mistake in my marriage. I am still praying but I feel I need to also find a way out.

which of this girls would you chose to marry and why?

matured advice are welcome.

thanks

bro why coming here for things like marriage, people here will give u wrong advise and thrash u join, then they said i should sell my car as scrap because of partial burn one year don waka the car is still bouncing, well, on top of ur matter follow ur mind, ur instinct can't fail u. Good luck.

He who finds a good wife finds a good thing

MedicH:
Which of these two women do you think can give you better kids? That's the only thing that will stay after you're gone.

Or can take care of the kids when he's gone? Anyways, there's no manual for being a mother. We simply naturally enter the role and play it good with varying degree.

idom101:



that's hardcore but thanks

Why thank him? There is no sense in this gibberish he spat out. You would surely know the type of girl that can pad her boobs, so if you sleep with her to know her pussy smell and it smells bad, you just slept with her for nothing which is another case of use and dump and she go curse hell out of you. If you love a girl, no matter the problem she has,after sleeping with her after marriage,as long as it doesn't contradict whatever she told you about herself, then you solve the problem with her. Those that taste their wives pussy before marrying her usually end up not respecting and trusting her and in turn another problem entirely to the marriage. Tasting pussies around in the name of testing which is good is only endangering you to STDs and you know they're numerous these days and condoms fail,even some fit catch person with condom sef

NwaAmaikpe:




You are 35years old and you think you can wake up one day and marry a girl you didn't date simply because your English is good enough to analyse them.

You don't know that no one fully understands women because they are like a giant enclopaedia with several torn pages.

If a man who dated his wife for 9 years before marrying her still doesn't understand her, imagine what it will be for a person whose only knowledge of his wife is from a brotherzone distance.

You don't even know if her 'down-below' smells,
You don't know if hairs grow inside her nostrils,
You don't know if she wears padded bra

The good thing is that you know that they are not your 'spec' but you are willing to endure.

My only advice.
Just pick one of them and marry. Life expectancy in Nigeria is 53years, so your time is ticking away.
But get ready for another bitter breakup; this time, in marriage.

Because you didn't learn anything.

/

53-35 = 18.

So you mean oga has only 18 productive years left? That's assuming Boko Haram, herdsmen, SARS, assassins, armed robbers, ex-gfs, policemen, accident, kinsmen, frenemies, poverty, etc don't get him before then.

/

Marriage no be by force

AwkaetitiBabe:
Cum again?

Lol pls. You said some ppl can be confused even at 35. It's true really and it's ok to be confused. Nobody is born with all the answers. What matters most is the age at which u get answers to ur most pertinent questions and the op should have known this before now.

Very simple if only u can use theory x and y if u don't no ask me how ok

MedicH:



Lol pls. You said some ppl can be confused even at 35. It's true really and it's ok to be confused. Nobody is born with all the answers. What matters most is the age at which u get answers to ur most pertinent questions and the op should have known this before now.

. You right.

why not seek the presence of God, because with God all things are possible. when you seek the presence of God, he will reveal to you the woman he has prepared for you via dreams

ednut1:
Last last na 43 years you go marry. We know your type

Funny but true.

healthserve:




Who she would be and not whom she currently is. And people change. FACT. I'm taking this to the bank first thing tomorrow lady

Yimu

franchasng:
lol, at your age, you ought to have lots of sweet ladies waiting and praying for you to pick them as wife.


You guys surprise me a lot. How can you be 35yrs and not have like 3 - 5 gorgeous ladies you are dating seriously to pick a wife from, na wa oh.


Unless things aren't going well financially which if that's the case I pray for God to bless your endeavor.

But if things are going on well with you financially and you are not dating at least 3 super gorgeous ladies u can pick a wife from, then something is definitely wrong with you.


Lastly, don't marry any lady you didn't date intimately for at least 2 years in today world to avoid marrying another guy's fuckmate, you better grow up!!

How can you even think of marrying a lady u have not bleeped or attempted to Bleep and maybe discovered that she is confirmed virgin with hymen in tact and she didn't stop u but you decided to stop as a way of respecting her dignity

Don't make mistake of marrying any non virgin lady u didn't Bleep, if she says she is a virgin, to show her loyalty and passion for u, she must submit herself to u to see the hymen with your two eyes, if not, don't marry..stop allowing ladies to be using u guy's head

rather than submit herself, he can take her to nearby clinic for a virginity test. That's what guys are doing now since nobody knows the mileage of these non-virgins. Because most non-virgins end up sleeping with their exes that have slept with them before after marriage. A friend of mine that has once even aborted for his ex is been invited by his ex even though she's married.
Non virgins are too dangerous to marry these days o.
https://theinfong.com/im-married-3-kids-still-sleep-ex-disvirgined-20years-ago-woman-cries/

AwkaetitiBabe:
Yimu

Babe how you dey?

idom101:



Bro the fact is everyone can't be you, and you can't be me, I ask for a simple advice not to be bash

I have seen people married and separated, I don't want same that why i seek genuine advice. Leave the age out if it, if you can't help then don't worry. Thank you

u deserve to be bashed at 35yrs u still lookin for the one with yur spec of body shape. Go for the introvert.

just do tumbutumbu or toss a coin

..or berra still, marry dem two

if u ain't satisfied, wait till the 3rd woman shows up

marry d 2 na