NwaNimo1:


Marry both....one will eventually let you down.

InvertedHammer:
53-35 = 18.

So you mean oga has only 18 productive years left? That's assuming Boko Haram, herdsmen, SARS, assassins, armed robbers, ex-gfs, policemen, accident, kinsmen, frenemies, poverty, etc don't get him before then.

legba1:
Bro....why limit your wife expectations to those two alone....bikonu..broaden your horizon pls...theres more to it than all you just mentioned....and am serious

idom101:
Hello everyone,
it's really my first time to ask for help here.

I will be 35 20 days from today and I intend to get married very soon, but after a bitter break up more than 1 year ago, I finally make up my mind to love again but I am caught up in between two lovely women.

Note: I am not dating any of this girls but they are my friends and wonderful people character wise.

I have known the first one since childhood, she has turn out to be an amazing young girl always supportive when I need her, living with her I know I will definitely be very happy in my marriage but she is less of a goal oriented person, which means I will have to work more, she is more of an extrovert also very loyal.

The second girl is very okay character wise, very submissive and is great goal getter, marrying her means I will do less for us to achieve our goals but she is more of an introvert, she is this kind of girl that can keep to her self, and she very loyal too

both of them outwardly does not carry the body I would like but inwardly they are amazing people. both of them support my vision in life so well.

Please marriage expert in the house help me, as I don't want to make mistake in my marriage. I am still praying but I feel I need to also find a way out.

which of this girls would you chose to marry and why?

matured advice are welcome.

thanks

MrBrownJay1:
If you can't make up your mind (at 35yrs old) about which one you desire more to marry then I am sorry to say that you have no business thinking of getting married to ANYONE.

idom101:
Hello everyone,
it's really my first time to ask for help here.

I will be 35 20 days from today and I intend to get married very soon, but after a bitter break up more than 1 year ago, I finally make up my mind to love again but I am caught up in between two lovely women.

Note: I am not dating any of this girls but they are my friends and wonderful people character wise.

I have known the first one since childhood, she has turn out to be an amazing young girl always supportive when I need her, living with her I know I will definitely be very happy in my marriage but she is less of a goal oriented person, which means I will have to work more, she is more of an extrovert also very loyal.

The second girl is very okay character wise, very submissive and is great goal getter, marrying her means I will do less for us to achieve our goals but she is more of an introvert, she is this kind of girl that can keep to her self, and she very loyal too

both of them outwardly does not carry the body I would like but inwardly they are amazing people. both of them support my vision in life so well.

Please marriage expert in the house help me, as I don't want to make mistake in my marriage. I am still praying but I feel I need to also find a way out.

which of this girls would you chose to marry and why?

matured advice are welcome.

thanks

ednut1:
false. Pastors chris oyakilome and his wife were born again . How market today Okotie and iginla nko. God give u wife my foot. The bible says he who finds a wife. Its ur job to find wife not spiritual pple

adeyemi91:
How sure are u they were born again?? How did u know they took it to God before marrying their wives?? Did u read where I stated "that he trusts n believes"?. The likes of Adeboye, Oyedepo, Kumuyi n other men of God are there to be used as references. Based on all I've seen in marriages, I stand on my word, LET GOD CHOOSE FOR YOU. Thank you.

healthserve:


Babe how you dey?

AwkaetitiBabe:
I'm good

Asour:



I don't know them too. No one does. But you are opting for the easy way— Predicting based on hindsight.

Hindsight is always easy. So God forbid, if any of the above you see as successful (whom by the way I respect) experience marital hitches, do they become Not born again too.

No matter how saintly one is, if your partner abruptly changes, your marriage is doomed.
No successful marriage is the making of ONE person.


By the Way I believe in prayers. But the attitude that if a Marriage fails then God Automatically wasn't involved is untrue. WHY? Because people change.
God grants freewill too for these changes.

Man at best is a Man oh!

God help us.

Ladylite:


LOL, boss at 35 hope you are very rich o.

Why will you be so childish to speak of body assets when money can do it.

Anyway, even after sex and pregnancy the body shape can be changed.

So stop making a life decision on a temporary matter.

You need to also pray because marriage is spiritual, you need to know that you will only have a good marriage if you are you marry a lady for who she will be and not for who she currently is.


People change ooo.

It's well with you

Abcruz:



A certain young man married a young woman because he felt his partner will change her character after the union unfortunately she didn't and the man regretted his decision.

A woman married hoping that her husband will not change but she was surprised to have met a good pretender after their union.

Look before you leap because marriage is a lifetime institution.

midnighter:


Lol dont mind him! we have a lot of extreme variables that skew the data in Nigeria...you have to take into account socio-economic status before calculating anything

I would really love to see the person behind that handle.... how can one person's head contain the madness of the entire population for goodness' sake

healthserve:




Marriage is no longer a lifetime contract. The moment a partner pretends to get married to and changes during the contract, right there the contract terminates. Mi o ra ye oshi

Abcruz:


From the beginning it was never intended to be so and should not be slogan in this generation.

healthserve:




You cum dey vex for me ni?

idom101:
Hello everyone,
it's really my first time to ask for help here.

I will be 35 20 days from today and I intend to get married very soon, but after a bitter break up more than 1 year ago, I finally make up my mind to love again but I am caught up in between two lovely women.

Note: I am not dating any of this girls but they are my friends and wonderful people character wise.

I have known the first one since childhood, she has turn out to be an amazing young girl always supportive when I need her, living with her I know I will definitely be very happy in my marriage but she is less of a goal oriented person, which means I will have to work more, she is more of an extrovert also very loyal.

The second girl is very okay character wise, very submissive and is great goal getter, marrying her means I will do less for us to achieve our goals but she is more of an introvert, she is this kind of girl that can keep to her self, and she very loyal too

both of them outwardly does not carry the body I would like but inwardly they are amazing people. both of them support my vision in life so well.

Please marriage expert in the house help me, as I don't want to make mistake in my marriage. I am still praying but I feel I need to also find a way out.

which of this girls would you chose to marry and why?

matured advice are welcome.

thanks

NwaAmaikpe:




You are 35years old and you think you can wake up one day and marry a girl you didn't date simply because your English is good enough to analyse them.

You don't know that no one fully understands women because they are like a giant enclopaedia with several torn pages.

If a man who dated his wife for 9 years before marrying her still doesn't understand her, imagine what it will be for a person whose only knowledge of his wife is from a brotherzone distance.

You don't even know if her 'down-below' smells,
You don't know if hairs grow inside her nostrils,
You don't know if she wears padded bra

The good thing is that you know that they are not your 'spec' but you are willing to endure.

My only advice.
Just pick one of them and marry. Life expectancy in Nigeria is 53years, so your time is ticking away.
But get ready for another bitter breakup; this time, in marriage.

Because you didn't learn anything.

idom101:
go and download the movie "plus one" you'll find the answer

idom101:
Hello everyone,
it's really my first time to ask for help here.

I will be 35 20 days from today and I intend to get married very soon, but after a bitter break up more than 1 year ago, I finally make up my mind to love again but I am caught up in between two lovely women.

Note: I am not dating any of this girls but they are my friends and wonderful people character wise.

I have known the first one since childhood, she has turn out to be an amazing young girl always supportive when I need her, living with her I know I will definitely be very happy in my marriage but she is less of a goal oriented person, which means I will have to work more, she is more of an extrovert also very loyal.

The second girl is very okay character wise, very submissive and is great goal getter, marrying her means I will do less for us to achieve our goals but she is more of an introvert, she is this kind of girl that can keep to her self, and she very loyal too

both of them outwardly does not carry the body I would like but inwardly they are amazing people. both of them support my vision in life so well.

Please marriage expert in the house help me, as I don't want to make mistake in my marriage. I am still praying but I feel I need to also find a way out.

which of this girls would you chose to marry and why?

matured advice are welcome.

thanks