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Re: How Can I Cut This Guy Off Without Hurting His Feelings? by Lamanii22(f): 10:23pm On Oct 09, 2019
Pettyprincess:

No he never asked of any of my nudes
Most white guys i gave talked with they ask me of my nude the very beginning of our chat bt he never did nd we together for a year now
Infact he told me girls that send him nude are
whores nd used hoes
We actually planning to be together fully next year by applying for student visa
He has really helped me alot both financially nd mentally
Bt because he is white people think his intentions are not pure.


You really gotta be careful b... I don't fancy white men myself I used to see them as serial killer or something worse.. You know ever since that danish man killed one artist and her daughter at banana island, my thinking about them changed.. But if you trust him fine... Pray about it...

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Re: How Can I Cut This Guy Off Without Hurting His Feelings? by Lamanii22(f): 10:25pm On Oct 09, 2019
awwfar:
aunty,so u think that girl dey intelligent with the nonsense she typed up there?


Lol I'm just giving an opinion... I as well said something else might have attracted him to her...

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Re: How Can I Cut This Guy Off Without Hurting His Feelings? by Nobody: 10:28pm On Oct 09, 2019
Newguyhere:


The same line of reasoning can be applied to handsome guys too.
Why would a handsome, tall, Caucasian guy, go for a not so attractive female negro?
It sounds fishy.
I just hope it's not what I'm thinking.
Post me pictures a average Caucasian lady!!
That's the problem with Nigerian guys
What you find not attractive,other race really prefer them more
Check this picture for example
This girl even not pretty as i am bt still gat a attractive white bf that loves her alot!!nd she is from kenya

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Re: How Can I Cut This Guy Off Without Hurting His Feelings? by Nobody: 10:34pm On Oct 09, 2019
Lamanii22:



You really gotta be careful b... I don't fancy white men myself I used to see them as serial killer or something worse.. You know ever since that danish man killed one artist and her daughter at banana island, my thinking about them changed.. But if you trust him fine... Pray about it...
Anyone could be killer irrespective of their race
I hope you have also read news of about some Nigerian men that murdered their wifes?

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Re: How Can I Cut This Guy Off Without Hurting His Feelings? by Nobody: 10:38pm On Oct 09, 2019
Lamanii22:



Lol I'm just giving an opinion... I as well said something else might have attracted him to her...
admit it, you just trying to be nice.. cos I had to check her out again to be sure of what other things might attract a real matured guy.. and there's none

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Re: How Can I Cut This Guy Off Without Hurting His Feelings? by Nobody: 10:38pm On Oct 09, 2019
Newguyhere:


take a look at this lady's chest and your chest, undecided see how beautifully curved she is, compared to you.
You both are not even in the same league when it comes to looks.
She is way prettier and presentable in my opinion.
You look underage and sort of scrawny looking
Lol,i am showing the picture i want you all to see
If you see me in other pictures you really gonna be doubting if I'm the same person
Nd take note not every guy is obsessed with extremely curvy girls,they just call them fat!!!
White guys prefer petite girl nd bit curvy with innocent nd feminine look

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Re: How Can I Cut This Guy Off Without Hurting His Feelings? by kinzation(m): 10:43pm On Oct 09, 2019
Lamanii22:


Lool guy... You're smart


lol
smartness does it


I'm shy
follow me joor....

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Re: How Can I Cut This Guy Off Without Hurting His Feelings? by seanwilliam(m): 10:47pm On Oct 09, 2019
well after going through her posts, it is safe to conclude that she is a troll and a monger, stop wasting ur intellect to advise her

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Re: How Can I Cut This Guy Off Without Hurting His Feelings? by seanwilliam(m): 10:48pm On Oct 09, 2019
kinzation:

lol smartness does it

I'm shy follow me joor....
baba no dey fall hand na

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Re: How Can I Cut This Guy Off Without Hurting His Feelings? by GerraMeh74(m): 10:50pm On Oct 09, 2019
lilmax:
I don't understand, the man you chat with dey type "k"?

"Your second number z not going"?


BLOCK HIM IMMEDIATELY
Guy you wicked!

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Re: How Can I Cut This Guy Off Without Hurting His Feelings? by Emily22(m): 10:51pm On Oct 09, 2019
Newguyhere:


she will eventually regret her actions trust me. By the time that white guy starts peddling her pussy all over the brothels in Europe undecided

Lwkm....bad mouth grin grin grin

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Re: How Can I Cut This Guy Off Without Hurting His Feelings? by Nobody: 10:51pm On Oct 09, 2019
donstan18:
You are still a small girl in her Hoe-Phase.

With time, reality and body go start to dey tell you, after the non-Nigerian guy is done with you.

He might even be the person behind the white guy's account.
wisdom

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Re: How Can I Cut This Guy Off Without Hurting His Feelings? by Nobody: 10:51pm On Oct 09, 2019
Fountainofyouth:



grin I don't think he's a mature guy, if he is then she did right by blocking him, I have no patience for people who replies me with "k".


k

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Re: How Can I Cut This Guy Off Without Hurting His Feelings? by Nobody: 10:52pm On Oct 09, 2019
seanwilliam:
well after going through her posts, it is safe to conclude that she is a troll and a monger, stop wasting ur intellect to advise her
Say whatever you comfortable with
I will surely go nd post it on reddit or quora nd get reasonable advice from matured people not from kids like y'all
You think i am so jobless to the extent of cooking up a story to prove what really?

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Re: How Can I Cut This Guy Off Without Hurting His Feelings? by Emily22(m): 10:52pm On Oct 09, 2019
Newguyhere:


young girl, what makes you think that a high quality Caucasian male will move with a poorly educated third world lady such as yourself?
have you seen polish girls? They are way more attractive and of higher quality than you.
That guy certainly has an ulterior motive or he is just messing with your feelings.
I can swear his parents won't even allow him to marry a third world lady undecided


Aswear...u av bad mouth o...see as I dey laff

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Re: How Can I Cut This Guy Off Without Hurting His Feelings? by RexTramadol1: 10:53pm On Oct 09, 2019
lilmax:
I don't understand, the man you chat with dey type "k"?

"Your second number z not going"?


BLOCK HIM IMMEDIATELY




I hate that K with passion

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Re: How Can I Cut This Guy Off Without Hurting His Feelings? by kinzation(m): 10:53pm On Oct 09, 2019
seanwilliam:
baba no dey fall hand na
See me o..lol

I dey shoot my shot o.
besides I like her
Re: How Can I Cut This Guy Off Without Hurting His Feelings? by Onyi90(m): 10:53pm On Oct 09, 2019
Pettyprincess:
There is this guy i met on 2go long time ago when i was fourteen years old, we exchanged contact and since then we have been talking and he did usually call me everyday just to hear my voice,he is way older than i am.

After sometime we lost contact, and we reconnected back on facebook and we started talking since then, he has always told me he likes me blah blah but still waiting till i am mature enough.

So when i clocked 18, he told us to meet which i agreed and we actually met at a bar and he finally told me about his feelings physically and said he would love us to date but i declined because i actually had no feelings whatsoever for him but i said we can be friends.

So since then he has been calling me every single day, everyone in my family knows him because of his constant call and one day he told me he is at our area that he would love to see me i actually agreed even if i never wanted because people at my area will think i am dating this guy and i know he is not my type moreover after my first (unserious) bf that cheated on me because i didn't give him chochie grin i decided never to date Nigerian guy no more, but this guy that is crushing on me will not let me go.

After that first visit he now wants to turn to it to routine to always visit me whenever he is in Lagos which i am not comfortable with but i dont know how to tell him because he is really nice caring and has been there for me financially when i needed him but still it doesn't change my feelings.

Nw i gat a serious bf, although he is not Nigerian but he is also caring, honest, nice, very handsome and very tall and those are the features i like a guy to possess, especially I love when a guy is very tall because i am petite AKA portable grin
ND this non Nigerian guy has already talked to my mum and my mum seems to like him a lot although they couldn't speak well because my mum not so fluent in English.

So this guy crushing on me still wants to be visiting me again after i told him i have gotten a boyfriend but he insisted that he will still visit me which i told him okay.

So later he called me that he is almost at my area but b4 he could call me later i quickly blocked his number, he has probably called me many times with his number but later he called me with another number but the moment i had his voice i pretended as if the connection was really bad and we actually didn't see that day.

I know what i did was bad which i have been feeling quilty of bt i dnt wanna give him false hope that we can still date.

So later he sent me a message on whatsapp asking if i blocked his number which i deny because he would be really hurt if i had told him the truth.

Even after denying i blocked his number he has been calling me with another number and my boyfriend got to know this guy nd told me to tell him the truth bt i can't because i know it will very hurtful for him.

Nw i need advice on how i can let this guy to know my bf doesn't want him to be disturbing me with calls or try to visit me no more without his feelings getting hurt.

I only need mature advice!!!
You are really petty indeed. The only matured advise available hear is to tell him the truth as ur spec said. Unless u are immature.

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Re: How Can I Cut This Guy Off Without Hurting His Feelings? by ruggedtimi(m): 10:53pm On Oct 09, 2019
ur english good sha ...18yrs you already get ex

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Re: How Can I Cut This Guy Off Without Hurting His Feelings? by akmath: 10:53pm On Oct 09, 2019
Don't worry he has seen this post and he will let you be.

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Re: How Can I Cut This Guy Off Without Hurting His Feelings? by nextstep(m): 10:54pm On Oct 09, 2019
TLDR... too long didn't read... angry
Why am I even commenting sef... I should go inside and sleep... mosquitos too plenti...

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Re: How Can I Cut This Guy Off Without Hurting His Feelings? by Edusouls(m): 10:54pm On Oct 09, 2019
You ain’t a Good girl, you’re are smart liar, a deceiver and a slow poison if that Guy knows what he is loving and wants to date he would regret it, spoilt girl..

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Re: How Can I Cut This Guy Off Without Hurting His Feelings? by sacx: 10:55pm On Oct 09, 2019
Oga Se.un should do and put age clause on this site. Which kind yeye story be this? grin

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