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Re: How Can I Cut This Guy Off Without Hurting His Feelings? by Ugosample(m): 12:47pm On Oct 10, 2019

Pettyprincess:
Geez!!! I am 21!!!
Hw is 21 years old lady a small girl?

acruakjy a 21 year old has not seen much

so technically even though your body is matured
you are still inexperienced

the entire post you put up there prove it.

@Pocohantas
better come and knock sense into someone's head

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Re: How Can I Cut This Guy Off Without Hurting His Feelings? by Nicoddemus(m): 12:55pm On Oct 10, 2019

Pettyprincess:
Please it seems you are a moderator
Please help me delete this thread
I regret seeking advice here

Don't worry you can go to a white forum also and import a foreign advice grin

but when the guy finish moulding you angry

don't come back here o undecided

Re: How Can I Cut This Guy Off Without Hurting His Feelings? by fk002: 1:06pm On Oct 10, 2019

Pettyprincess:
He has also
All the money he has spent on me is more than 300k, without adding visa processing nd traveling cost
Nd i never asked him for a dime,he did it himself
Bt if i start explaining everything you won't still understand
That guy is genuine!!! People are just mad because he is white!!!
Bt one day i hope to share my story here weather it turns out good or not!!

Ayyya!!!!

I reserve my comment. You dunno warris going on

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Re: How Can I Cut This Guy Off Without Hurting His Feelings? by djfabmusik(m): 1:07pm On Oct 10, 2019

Pettyprincess:
We see once in a blue moon because he is not living in Africa
He is also helping me me in every possible way
Nd he doesn't pressure me for sex because he want me as partner nd mould me fully.
Moreover why the rush?not every guy has Nigerian mentality!!

which wan is Nigerian mentality? where in the world men don't ask girls for sex? can you compare the rape incident in european countries to nigeria?

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Re: How Can I Cut This Guy Off Without Hurting His Feelings? by xson: 1:13pm On Oct 10, 2019

Abeg sb should ep me tell sb where d near sb that is near sb to tell sb that is very close to dat o-l-o-s-h-o to her to go bliip herself iiiiiiiidiet

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Re: How Can I Cut This Guy Off Without Hurting His Feelings? by Peaceagain: 1:14pm On Oct 10, 2019

OP, let me lend my voice on this your matter. From my point of view, you like this Naija guy but you are saving him for later when you are like 28 years and unmarried and then you will be the one bugging the guy with calls and texts etc. The foreign guy you are dating now is confusing you but let me tell you 'all that glitters is not gold' and 'the grass is not alway green on the other side' so choose wisely. Remember, you are not the only Girl in the world. The competition is fierce now. What you call trash is another babe's treasure. Chop brain!!!

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Re: How Can I Cut This Guy Off Without Hurting His Feelings? by djfabmusik(m): 1:15pm On Oct 10, 2019

I experience this shit this year, and i had to leave when i discovered she is not interested. madam tall handsome guy ur eyes go clear later. you think that guy is a fool to wait for 4 good years before asking u out.

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Re: How Can I Cut This Guy Off Without Hurting His Feelings? by kinzation(m): 1:20pm On Oct 10, 2019

Lamanii22:
Hehehehe... I'd keep on touch
In**

good girl

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Re: How Can I Cut This Guy Off Without Hurting His Feelings? by DeeCherry(f): 1:26pm On Oct 10, 2019

Pettyprincess:
There is this guy i met on 2go long time ago when i was fourteen years old, we exchanged contact and since then we have been talking and he did usually call me everyday just to hear my voice,he is way older than i am.

After sometime we lost contact, and we reconnected back on facebook and we started talking since then, he has always told me he likes me blah blah but still waiting till i am mature enough.

So when i clocked 18, he told us to meet which i agreed and we actually met at a bar and he finally told me about his feelings physically and said he would love us to date but i declined because i actually had no feelings whatsoever for him but i said we can be friends.

So since then he has been calling me every single day, everyone in my family knows him because of his constant call and one day he told me he is at our area that he would love to see me i actually agreed even if i never wanted because people at my area will think i am dating this guy and i know he is not my type moreover after my first (unserious) bf that cheated on me because i didn't give him chochie i decided never to date Nigerian guy no more, but this guy that is crushing on me will not let me go.

After that first visit he now wants to turn to it to routine to always visit me whenever he is in Lagos which i am not comfortable with but i dont know how to tell him because he is really nice caring and has been there for me financially when i needed him but still it doesn't change my feelings.

Nw i gat a serious bf, although he is not Nigerian but he is also caring, honest, nice, very handsome and very tall and those are the features i like a guy to possess, especially I love when a guy is very tall because i am petite AKA portable
ND this non Nigerian guy has already talked to my mum and my mum seems to like him a lot although they couldn't speak well because my mum not so fluent in English.

So this guy crushing on me still wants to be visiting me again after i told him i have gotten a boyfriend but he insisted that he will still visit me which i told him okay.

So later he called me that he is almost at my area but b4 he could call me later i quickly blocked his number, he has probably called me many times with his number but later he called me with another number but the moment i had his voice i pretended as if the connection was really bad and we actually didn't see that day.

I know what i did was bad which i have been feeling quilty of bt i dnt wanna give him false hope that we can still date.

So later he sent me a message on whatsapp asking if i blocked his number which i deny because he would be really hurt if i had told him the truth.

Even after denying i blocked his number he has been calling me with another number and my boyfriend got to know this guy nd told me to tell him the truth bt i can't because i know it will very hurtful for him.

Nw i need advice on how i can let this guy to know my bf doesn't want him to be disturbing me with calls or try to visit me no more without his feelings getting hurt.

I only need mature advice!!!

I don't think someone that waited that long for you, would want to hurt you.
You said you got no feelings for him, but you take his money? That's so not cool o!
You only ended up sending him wrong signals.

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Re: How Can I Cut This Guy Off Without Hurting His Feelings? by s4cs: 1:32pm On Oct 10, 2019

Pettyprincess:
I gave me willingly,nd i asked because i was broke nd had no boyfriend then
But since then i never collected anything from him no more,my bf do usually send me money nw.

you seriously need a reorientation

Re: How Can I Cut This Guy Off Without Hurting His Feelings? by Tolani1122(m): 1:33pm On Oct 10, 2019

Babe, the guy in abroad might be Deceiving you.besides you are to decide for yourself baby , small girl like you and and Mr lover Nigerian guy

Re: How Can I Cut This Guy Off Without Hurting His Feelings? by Davesaves(m): 1:35pm On Oct 10, 2019

Pettyprincess:
He has also
All the money he has spent on me is more than 300k, without adding visa processing nd traveling cost
Nd i never asked him for a dime,he did it himself
Bt if i start explaining everything you won't still understand
That guy is genuine!!! People are just mad because he is white!!!
Bt one day i hope to share my story here weather it turns out good or not!!

na small pikin de worry u nne.. Las Las u will grow up to face the reality.. just be carefull

Re: How Can I Cut This Guy Off Without Hurting His Feelings? by Davesaves(m): 1:39pm On Oct 10, 2019

[quote author=LadyHal1 post=83002160][/quote]my dear, luv is a feeling u can't control.. once it hits u, ur head will just be tuninonionnnn

Re: How Can I Cut This Guy Off Without Hurting His Feelings? by Ademoore07(m): 1:40pm On Oct 10, 2019

Anndrew:
chochie=pucy=Toto=vagina

Lol

Re: How Can I Cut This Guy Off Without Hurting His Feelings? by bns4eva: 1:49pm On Oct 10, 2019

Hmm from what I can say is just that, this girl is very young and she is novice.
Number 1..: why marriage is your priority now? What level are you in the univ? Why not face your studies first and focus on your career.

Number 2 why do you want to marry white guy, the guy is seriously sending you all the money because he need you seriously for some reasons known to him, once you are in his house, you are helpless and he's free to do anything to harm you.
UK, USA is better than his country o, a lot of racism
Come think of it yourself, why would he be spending so much on you to come to him? Why not firstly come to Nigeria to do traditional wedding with you?
Aha sister don't let your parents crying over you..
Please and please, am begging you..
At 21 as a female you are yet to be admitted into univ /poly.
My younger sister just graduated from oau at 19yrs.
I won't deceive you , you don't know what you are doing o

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Re: How Can I Cut This Guy Off Without Hurting His Feelings? by Nobody: 1:54pm On Oct 10, 2019

bns4eva:
Hmm from what I can say is just that, this girl is very young and she is novice.
Number 1..: why marriage is your priority now? What level are you in the univ? Why not face your studies first and focus on your career.

Number 2 why do you want to marry white guy, the guy is seriously sending you all the money because he need you seriously for some reasons known to him, once you are in his house, you are helpless and he's free to do anything to harm you.
UK, USA is better than his country o, a lot of racism
Come think of it yourself, why would he be spending so much on you to come to him? Why not firstly come to Nigeria to do traditional wedding with you?
Aha sister don't let your parents crying over you..
Please and please, am begging you..
At 21 as a female you are yet to be admitted into univ /poly.
My younger sister just graduated from oau at 19yrs.
I won't deceive you , you don't know what you are doing o

Who told you that i am not studying?
You think I'm so daft to that extent?
So because i wanna further my education somewhere else means i can't be an undergraduate?
If you know nothing just don't go into conclusion!!!

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Re: How Can I Cut This Guy Off Without Hurting His Feelings? by Progress62(m): 1:58pm On Oct 10, 2019

people like you made me to hate love and relationship. you are wicked, sorry it is offensive

Re: How Can I Cut This Guy Off Without Hurting His Feelings? by maya007: 2:12pm On Oct 10, 2019

Anyone that's still here dragging with this smally is just wasting dere precious time the girl is still very young and naive...baby girl pls run along and follow ur heart ok dont disturb we adults with this kinda childish post next time and pls stop replying everyone trying to force ur points or reasons on dem use that energy to read ur books ok...

Re: How Can I Cut This Guy Off Without Hurting His Feelings? by bns4eva: 2:14pm On Oct 10, 2019

[quote author=Pettyprincess post=83011658]Who told you that i am not studying?
:DYou think I'm so daft to that extent?
]So because i wanna further my education somewhere else means i can't be an undergraduate?
If you know nothing just don't go into conclusion!!!

Your English is wonderful.. grin

No worries I trust you, you will be an undergraduate grin

Re: How Can I Cut This Guy Off Without Hurting His Feelings? by donMIG(m): 2:18pm On Oct 10, 2019

U don't like him yet u take sh!Ts from him
I beg if any girl is not Into me she had beta not take anything from me... Lemmi jeje go n give it to someone who will
D guy sef is a blockheaded nigga
He even had time to ask if u blocked him
Before u block me I have already deleted ur number sef
No time
Niggas always never hesitate to delete them b|tches number n save urself a great deal of stress like this one collection moni yet comin here to post garbage
U sound like those kind of girls that ain't hungry n I respected u for that but wen u mentioned that u accepted his financial assistance all my respect for u wen straight to hell
Tell a nigga wat he need to know I beg n good luck wit ur non-nigerian bf hunt!

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Re: How Can I Cut This Guy Off Without Hurting His Feelings? by Jaybnjamin(m): 2:21pm On Oct 10, 2019

My only problem is why you choose to drop the above gibberish over on a Nigerian site knowing fully well you hate our mentality. Why not contact your new found guy to help you out with a suitable polish site to ask your questions.
Well your intent its obvious, you just wanted to irk the reactions of Nigerian guys and it hurts that yoy are getting it but not in a good way obviously.
Ndi polish boyfriend...
Nah the spineless diccckhead killing himself over you I dey pity. And no be say you are even above average for beauty.

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Re: How Can I Cut This Guy Off Without Hurting His Feelings? by Kingsteve(m): 2:44pm On Oct 10, 2019

Polish men wey dey flood UK to do menial jobs, and ready to work at a lower rate than the Brits.
If to say na man from UK, US, Norway or any Scandinavian country, Germany, Holland, France, or even Belgium, I don't think you would have seen so many negative comments.

But Poland?
Their people leave en masse to other European countries seeking for cheap labour.

Don't get too excited yet!
Anyway, good luck!

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Re: How Can I Cut This Guy Off Without Hurting His Feelings? by Newguyhere: 2:55pm On Oct 10, 2019

Kingsteve:
Polish men wey dey flood UK to do menial jobs, and ready to work at a lower rate than the Brits.
If to say na man from UK, US, Norway or any Scandinavian country, Germany, Holland, France, or even Belgium, I don't think you would have seen so many negative comments.

But Poland?
Their people leave en masse to other European countries seeking for cheap labour.

Don't get too excited yet!
Anyway, good luck!

that polish dude is definitely gonna peddle her pussy for cash bro
mark my words!!
I just hope the foolish girl listens

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Re: How Can I Cut This Guy Off Without Hurting His Feelings? by aminusodiq(m): 3:00pm On Oct 10, 2019

with all d comments I've read here ... as in I can categorically tell u day... Nairaland is full of mad fellows.... laffin out lourld

Re: How Can I Cut This Guy Off Without Hurting His Feelings? by MrNipplesLover(m): 3:20pm On Oct 10, 2019

Ebenaba:
With your wealth of experience, you can't be 18 ma'am....
Anyway, I stopped at 2go

if she don reach 18, e go be recent.

na small girl.

Re: How Can I Cut This Guy Off Without Hurting His Feelings? by Nobody: 3:26pm On Oct 10, 2019

Kingsteve:
Polish men wey dey flood UK to do menial jobs, and ready to work at a lower rate than the Brits.
If to say na man from UK, US, Norway or any Scandinavian country, Germany, Holland, France, or even Belgium, I don't think you would have seen so many negative comments.

But Poland?
Their people leave en masse to other European countries seeking for cheap labour.

Don't get too excited yet!
Anyway, good luck!

Who told him i am dating him because he is from Poland?
I know about Poland economy,so you in no shoe to tell me this!!!
At least having a polish passport can take me to more than 162 countries including your favorite European countries without visa nd i can live nd work in any EU country as a normal citizen!!
Moreover if i was thinking about my selfish gain i will only be interested in swiss guy from Switzerland because so far they have better economy!!!

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Re: How Can I Cut This Guy Off Without Hurting His Feelings? by PreyingMantis(m): 3:30pm On Oct 10, 2019

Pettyprincess:
Lol you must be stalking my post enough to know i am dating a polish
Anyways he is best guy any lady will ask for
Always interested in my future nd i literally know everything about him!!
We have been together for a year now
So i dnt think any of what you mentioning exist!!
Nd Poland is in Central Europe not Eastern!!!

mumu

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Re: How Can I Cut This Guy Off Without Hurting His Feelings? by bns4eva: 3:34pm On Oct 10, 2019

Pettyprincess:
Who told him i am dating him because he is from Poland?
I know about Poland economy,so you in no shoe to tell me this!!!
At least having a polish passport can take me to more than 162 countries including your favorite European countries without visa nd i can live nd work in any EU country as a normal citizen!!
Moreover if i was thinking about my selfish gain i will only be interested in swiss guy from Switzerland because so far they have better economy!!!

See what the polish guy don inject in this one brain.
Now you don dey confess small small

Re: How Can I Cut This Guy Off Without Hurting His Feelings? by Kingsteve(m): 3:35pm On Oct 10, 2019

Pettyprincess:
Who told him i am dating him because he is from Poland?
I know about Poland economy,so you in no shoe to tell me this!!!
At least having a polish passport can take me to more than 162 countries including your favorite European countries without visa nd i can live nd work in any EU country as a normal citizen!!
Moreover if i was thinking about my selfish gain i will only be interested in swiss guy from Switzerland because so far they have better economy!!!

Smart girl!
Oya na...carry go, nothing do you!
Once more...
Good luck!

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Re: How Can I Cut This Guy Off Without Hurting His Feelings? by Mstick: 3:40pm On Oct 10, 2019

My advice? Go around this forum and see the crop of "men" we've this days, men that think women are sub humans, most of them see nothing wrong in sex with an underage, most of them on this thread have no jobs or life, they come here screaming TEAM FOREIGN WOMEN but are splitting hair because a woman is doing same.

OP they're good and bad people in every country, if this man will give you a better life GO FOR IT! See them saying polish people are doing menial jobs as if Nigerians aren't doing same.

Nigerian men also traffic, murder and rape women so don't take whatever bile they spill.

My cousin left an American man and married a Nigerian because of this emotional blackmail and "one day one day e go better" bulls hit today she's in Mbiama selling fresh fish and regretting.

Pettyprincess:
Who told him i am dating him because he is from Poland?
I know about Poland economy,so you in no shoe to tell me this!!!
At least having a polish passport can take me to more than 162 countries including your favorite European countries without visa nd i can live nd work in any EU country as a normal citizen!!
Moreover if i was thinking about my selfish gain i will only be interested in swiss guy from Switzerland because so far they have better economy!!!

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Re: How Can I Cut This Guy Off Without Hurting His Feelings? by maxdozie(m): 3:48pm On Oct 10, 2019

This story is just plain lies and rubbish!

Dating Polish guy ni

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