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awwfar:
hmmmn..chronic masturbator spotted, wetin u dey use.. cucumber or soft drink bottle?

Your Head.

YOU SHOULD BE GRATEFUL YOU HAVE HANDS TO MASTURBATE....DON'T QUIT FOR ANY REASON, ITS A BLESSING. AT LEAST SHE NOW KNOWS SHE HAS AN EVER AVAILABLE COMPETITOR � � �. DON'T QUIT WATCHING PORN, ITS A GIFT TO OUR GENERATION. SOMETIMES IT HELPS YOU REALIZE THAT THE WOMAN YOU ARE DYING FOR IS HOGWASH AND NOT WORTH DYING FOR.
WATCH IT IN FRONT OF HER IF YOU GOT BALLZ LIKE ME. IT WILL MAKE HER REALIZE YOUR WORLD DOES NOT REVOLVE AROUND HER ESPECIALLY WHEN ITS A STUNNER LIKE LISA ANN���.

2blockus:
Hello friends although this may sound strange to some person but it's the truth.

I started masturbating when I was 15 and I did it until I grew up and I feel is better than having girls that will take all my time and money.

fast forward I got a job and I pray to God to help stop this practice, another thought came to me that I should marry @ 27 so I can stop this act which I did and got married to a lovely wife.

At the first month I feel it will work not until one day my wife refuse me sex that made me to get angry I just pray to get to the office on time so I can help my self.

this was how it started and now I can't remember the last I had sex with her. infact it took us 10 month before she could conceive and people thought she had problem but I know the cause.

please I need a matured advice as she have caught me severally doing it in the restroom and I was just ashamed of myself.

note i still watch porn but not much shaaa.

You have the solution right there with you.
You don't need a therapist, your wife is the solution, once she can be able to give you sex at anytime with styles that would pop your brain. You will see the masturbation habits of yours would drop drastically

owoshuyi:
First off... Masturbating is a sin.

It is demonic and it is only by being delivered by JESUS you will be able to stop. Give your life to Jesus Christ and you will be saved.

Pray and fast, it will help you also.

And please STOP WATCHING PORN completely, and avoid any magazine, tv shows, etc that show and talk about sex and nudity.

For to be carnally minded is DEATH, but to be spritually minded is LIFE AND PEACE. ROMANS 8: 6

I hate barbarians like you....Hypocrite
And its people like you that rape babies in churches you parade as saints

donstan18:
You just have to accept the fact that marriage can't stop masturbation.

Tell them o! I have heard it severally.
Some even only started it AFTER MARRIAGE!

Bonatheripper:
Keep shut.

I'm a man an I own a dick.
My penis have bin the same for years now.
So if I fornicate once everyday I'll also get erectile dysfunction?
Go and sleep....it's just like saying a girl who gets hard nipples everyday will also get nipples dysfunction.
They're many causes of erectile dysfunction... It is never masturbation.
Masturbation itself makes u last longer on bed cause u already release too often and your sperm bank isn't always filled to the brim which causes delay in ejaculation.


Sugar, excessive beer, drugs like tramadol, old age and some other diet are the root causes of penile dysfunction.
Not masturbation.
I know because I masturbate and fornicate actively

Chairman de chairman. active in both aspect.

Godtschild:
Op, there is nothing wrong in masturbating or watching porn. It depends on how you use the above. I am married, and in marriage it’s not all the time couples are in sync to have sex. I would never force or make my partner feel bad she is not ready to have sex when I am, that’s selfishness. When only one one of us is in the mood, the other helps by MouthAction or aid in masturbation. Sometimes we watch soft porn together to get both of us in the mood. If you have much higher libido than she does, then you don’t have to masturbate alone, she can help you jerk off.

You are an IDIOT

BareFacedLies:
You need to also get girlfriends to help distract you

You are a GOAT

longevity1:
Friend,you need to know that this is a spirit.You need to overcome it.Firstly, you need to agree within yourself to stop it.
Your wife has to play a great role here.
Both of you need to be counselled individually and together.
You guys also need to pray together.
I could offer you counselling, if you wish.
God will help you.
Pastor Tony
08022221860
Thanks

SEE THEM!!!!
THIEVES AND OPPRESSORS OF THE OPPRESSED.
DON'T LET THIS SCAMMER SWINDLE YOU OF YOUR LIFE SAVINGS BIKO

2blockus:
Hello friends although this may sound strange to some person but it's the truth.

I started masturbating when I was 15 and I did it until I grew up and I feel is better than having girls that will take all my time and money.

fast forward I got a job and I pray to God to help stop this practice, another thought came to me that I should marry @ 27 so I can stop this act which I did and got married to a lovely wife.

At the first month I feel it will work not until one day my wife refuse me sex that made me to get angry I just pray to get to the office on time so I can help my self.

this was how it started and now I can't remember the last I had sex with her. infact it took us 10 month before she could conceive and people thought she had problem but I know the cause.

please I need a matured advice as she have caught me severally doing it in the restroom and I was just ashamed of myself.

note i still watch porn but not much shaaa.

There's nothing wrong with masturbation, unless it does affect your job or love life detrimentally. Don't listen to religious-nuts!

If you masturbate because your wife isn't giving you enough sex, sit her down and politely try to discuss it with her.

If she behaves the way she does because she has caught you severally, then explain to her why you do it, and then try to fix the problem. Unfortunately, some people may hate catching their partners masturbating because they feel they're not enough sexually.

A couple can masturbate together to spice up their sex life, and there's absolutely nothing wrong with it. But if you want to do it alone, do it discretely.

Good luck!

LOMBARDY:
The question should be..Why did your wife refuse you sex?? I mean for that long

Is there any justifiable cause?

Xirmuhel:
Please when someone masturbate Is it counted as a sin?

Masturbation is a sin because God didn't create you to have sex with yourself.

Xirmuhel:
Please when someone masturbate Is it counted as a sin?

Masturbation is a sin because God didn't create you to have sex with yourself.

Godtschild:
lol why can’t she if she isn’t in the mood? Couples aren’t in sync all the time. Are you married?

Not in sync for months?

Bull sh1t.

Let's chat on WhatsApp 07039476669

sircrabo:
masturbation is for those that don't have a dedicated Kpekus.

do you know that some people are allergic to peanut and many other things,? ``some people'' are also allergic to pussy, in the sense that moment they have no condom sex with their partner, the reactions is always terrible on their dick. so lack of dedicated kpekus is not all the reason some people masturbate.

Cutehector:
There is no solution to your problem

u need a french kiss from a spitting cobra and a tight embrace from anaconda

Joystark:
Your Head.

No, na rope, idiot na man no be woman. even if u no fit write sensibly, bt at least read reasonably

dalongjnr:
Meet ur wife and tell her that you are a mastubator.
Be open minded about it.
2.meet you pastor and tell him so that he should pray for you.
3.Meet a counselor or psychotherapist and discussed the issue.
4.Don't stay alone in an enclosed place.
5.Meet the eldest man in your village to allow you be or else u will be 60yrs and be doing the same thing.

What if the pastor masturbates too?

judedwriter:
Masturbation is a sin because God didn't create you to have sex with yourself.

well done o angel gabriel, so masturbation na sex.
u jst need to take a break pls try to go offline at least for 10 years, go for rehab. it helps

nnahernest:
Let's chat on WhatsApp 07039476669

can u see where stupidity brought u down to now, u jst keep on messing up urself with unyielding consistency. God wil help u sha 2 recover

2blockus:
Hello friends although this may sound strange to some person but it's the truth.

I started masturbating when I was 15 and I did it until I grew up and I feel is better than having girls that will take all my time and money.

fast forward I got a job and I pray to God to help stop this practice, another thought came to me that I should marry @ 27 so I can stop this act which I did and got married to a lovely wife.

At the first month I feel it will work not until one day my wife refuse me sex that made me to get angry I just pray to get to the office on time so I can help my self.

this was how it started and now I can't remember the last I had sex with her. infact it took us 10 month before she could conceive and people thought she had problem but I know the cause.

please I need a matured advice as she have caught me severally doing it in the restroom and I was just ashamed of myself.

note i still watch porn but not much shaaa.

Bros
I once experienced something similar to yours but in my case we resolved the issue amicably;
Approach her politely let her understand that u love sex very much, and there are various ways of sex not necessarily penetrative, If she is not in the mood for penetrative sex ask her for Mouth Action, dry-hump or even couple masturbation.
If she fail to oblige tell her that u will get sex tou if she wouldn't mine.

#Stop masturbation at all cost#

Okoroawusa:
You think the pastor is not masturbating?
Think again

I couldn't stop laughing after reading this

deltateam:
Is there any justifiable cause?

That's why Am asking the op

notoriousbabe:
I'm suspecting their landlord

I'm just tired of this issue of masturbation i swear.
Reading comments on nairaland would only get one confused. You read a comment that would make you feel yes masturbation is ok, then boom you read another one that makes you feel it Is the worsest thing ever.
What i dont get is that, the hand makes a hole right? Like a vigina, then you Bleep and jerk off as you would when fucking a lady. How then masturbation can lead to ED, PE etc While fornication with a lady does no harm to the D?
Although to be sincere i always feel bad and weak after masturbation and this guilty conscience thing telling me its a sin.

One thing every masturbator has to know is that u can't stop the act outrightly,it takes the grace of God and having a partner you are sexual compatible with.

I have a girlfriend that gives me sex at least twice a week, which totally knocked out the act of masturbation in my thinking. Obviously the girl's libido is higher than mine. Then i had to travel for studies for about 9 months, that's how I resumed the act again though once in a while. Now i'm planning to marry the lady and i think that's the end to masturbation in my life cos i never felt any reason to when I'm with her.

If you are a chronic masturbator pray that God gives u a wife with a very high libido. That's your permanent solution except there is something wrong with you.

Op try arrange the issue with your wife and give her very hot sex any time she mistakenly give u the chance. Trust me she will start craving for it all the time and boom. Your masturbation problem is solved.

Godtschild:
Why do Nigerians always expect the wife to give it to the husband anytime he wants it!!! What about her? Does he give the wife anytime she wants it? Anytime my partner is not in the mood, I get MouthAction. Nobody should be forced to have sex if they are not feeling it. Marriage should be sweet not endured.

Feminist mentality. Are husband and wife the same level in marriage? One is the leader and the other is the follower. I hate this oyinbo mentality

2blockus:
Hello friends although this may sound strange to some person but it's the truth.

I started masturbating when I was 15 and I did it until I grew up and I feel is better than having girls that will take all my time and money.

fast forward I got a job and I pray to God to help stop this practice, another thought came to me that I should marry @ 27 so I can stop this act which I did and got married to a lovely wife.

At the first month I feel it will work not until one day my wife refuse me sex that made me to get angry I just pray to get to the office on time so I can help my self.

this was how it started and now I can't remember the last I had sex with her. infact it took us 10 month before she could conceive and people thought she had problem but I know the cause.

please I need a matured advice as she have caught me severally doing it in the restroom and I was just ashamed of myself.

note i still watch porn but not much shaaa.

Please private chat me for prayers and bible verse and you will overcome it in jesus name.

Orisirisi

2blockus:
Hello friends although this may sound strange to some person but it's the truth.

I started masturbating when I was 15 and I did it until I grew up and I feel is better than having girls that will take all my time and money.

fast forward I got a job and I pray to God to help stop this practice, another thought came to me that I should marry @ 27 so I can stop this act which I did and got married to a lovely wife.

At the first month I feel it will work not until one day my wife refuse me sex that made me to get angry I just pray to get to the office on time so I can help my self.

this was how it started and now I can't remember the last I had sex with her. infact it took us 10 month before she could conceive and people thought she had problem but I know the cause.

please I need a matured advice as she have caught me severally doing it in the restroom and I was just ashamed of myself.

note i still watch porn but not much shaaa.

you go marry because you no wan dey w@nk? Ya dumb