Bonatheripper:

Ok.
But stop Miseducating others

he is telling the fact bro, it destroys the penis bro,giving you E.D

Masturbation is not your problem we all masturbate.



I do masturbate too but I'm not addicted to it sometimes I can go 2-3 months without it and sometimes I can go straight for 3 Days.

What I think you need is self control .And Don't feel bad about it.

donstan18:
You just have to accept the fact that marriage can't stop masturbation.

Precisely... Same way marriage can't stop philandering or womanizing.

Just like other forms of addiction, the way to stop is to seek rehabilitation or go "cold turkey" ( Latter is harder, but effective).

I swear I dey vex with everybody that commented on this thread including myself.

@OP, what is the difference between masturbating and having sex with your wife? Both of the time you will still cum.

What is the difference of having sex with a woman everyday or 4days a week and masturbating everyday or 4days a week?

I used to be like you, thinking masturbation is wrong and all those thought, Walahi you will only have peace when you accept that masturbation is also a way of life.

Even God’s plan is for us to masturbate or how do you explain the fact that we can stimulate ourself to cum? You think God don’t know what he’s doing.

The oldest act ever known to man is masturbation. you should be worried about your wife not liking sex and devote time to discuss things with her about that and stop bothering on masturbation or porn.

2blockus:
Hello friends although this may sound strange to some person but it's the truth.

I started masturbating when I was 15 and I did it until I grew up and I feel is better than having girls that will take all my time and money.

fast forward I got a job and I pray to God to help stop this practice, another thought came to me that I should marry @ 27 so I can stop this act which I did and got married to a lovely wife.

At the first month I feel it will work not until one day my wife refuse me sex that made me to get angry I just pray to get to the office on time so I can help my self.

this was how it started and now I can't remember the last I had sex with her. infact it took us 10 month before she could conceive and people thought she had problem but I know the cause.

please I need a matured advice as she have caught me severally doing it in the restroom and I was just ashamed of myself.

note i still watch porn but not much shaaa.

Instruction on how to cure masturbation!

Delete all nude pictures and porn videos from your phone.



You will read Bible for 1 hour everyday and pray 30 mins between the hours of 9pm to 10:30pm.

You will summarize whatever you have read and submit to me every night.

You are reading the book of Roman first, then move to, 1st and 2nd Peter, Ephesians and Phillipian, then to 1 and 2nd Corinthians, then 1,2nd and 3rd John and finally Hebrew before you start all over again.

One chapter per day. You can also read it with different version of Bible.

You can use multiversion Bible or devotional Bible from Google playstore.

Pick your jotter and write down whatever you gain from the Bible reading.

You will pray with whatever you wrote down from the bible verses you read with respect to healing from masturbation and lust..

You will write down what you gained in your hotter before 11pm.

You will sleep immediately after the prayer and jotting.

No more night browsing.

If you follow this strictly, your victory is sure.

Hallelujah!

Note : On no account should you miss the Bible reading and prayer any day.

It's like a drug, once you miss a day before you are totally healed, you will start again.

Amarabae:
Untamed premarital sexual habits.
Go to mountain of fire for deliverance

STFU

You have an extremely serious problem 2blockus

You have to stop the 2 habits of watching porn and masturbation. I have been in your shoes. You just have to stop.

My worry is you may not have the a "good" reason to stop

I am a Jehovah's Witness and if I wanted to remain clean in Jehovah's eye, I just had to stop. Love for Jehovah was the primary motivator. Also knowing he sees everything I do made it more urgent.

My cousin introduced me to porn when I was going through a serious depression and instead of telling him I was not interested, I couldn't care less attitude borne out of depression made me watch it to the end. Before long, I started watching it on my phone and became hooked.

I reported myself to the elders. They discussed with me, read the scriptures and prayed for me. However they didn't go far enough.

I later on my home stopped watching porn only to return to it years later. I again opened up to one of the elders when he inquired whether I still watch porn. This time, the elders handling it were very tough. Asked extremely probing questions and I felt very embarrassed answering. Wanted to know what types of porn I watched. Thanks God I never watched child porn. I'm not the lying type.

I've stopped porn but an elder warned that it is very addictive and that it is a battle I must be vigilante about. Masturbation and porn go hand in hand.

You can start by deleting all porn from your phone. Also your wife access to your "history". Anyone who watches porn deletes history. That will be a telltale sign to your wife that you've been misbehaving.

You need to stop it. Sexually starving your wife may make her commit adultery. She might consider it grounds to do so. You'll be too ashamed for word to get out why you're sexually starving your wife.

Better sit up and saved your marriage and stop committing adultery with yourself

GuyWise:
Your wife is the problem here because she knowing fully well about your condition and still refuse you entering her honey well is an act of wickedness.


You guys going upto weeks without sexual intercourse speaks volume of the fact that your wife is seeing someone else or she too is a MASTURBATOR (just that she's being to careful for you not too see her doing it)


I LOVE MASTURBATION AND I DON'T THINK I AM QUITTING ANYTIME SOON NOT EVEN WHEN I AM MARRIED..... I love to masturbate.


Secondly "If you want to enjoy masturbation don't do it with porn, just use your imagination, you will last longer and enjoy the beautiful act"

Chai
This is the reason u don't seek advice on Nairaland

First of all ur name sef na another problem on its own

dalongjnr:
Meet ur wife and tell her that you are a mastubator.
Be open minded about it.
2.meet you pastor and tell him so that he should pray for you.
3.Meet a counselor or psychotherapist and discussed the issue.
4.Don't stay alone in an enclosed place.
5.Meet the eldest man in your village to allow you be or else u will be 60yrs and be doing the same thing.

All those people u mention probably might be on the same verseline crew.
The list loooooonnnnng

2blockus:
Hello friends although this may sound strange to some person but it's the truth.

I started masturbating when I was 15 and I did it until I grew up and I feel is better than having girls that will take all my time and money.

fast forward I got a job and I pray to God to help stop this practice, another thought came to me that I should marry @ 27 so I can stop this act which I did and got married to a lovely wife.

At the first month I feel it will work not until one day my wife refuse me sex that made me to get angry I just pray to get to the office on time so I can help my self.

this was how it started and now I can't remember the last I had sex with her. infact it took us 10 month before she could conceive and people thought she had problem but I know the cause.

please I need a matured advice as she have caught me severally doing it in the restroom and I was just ashamed of myself.

note i still watch porn but not much shaaa.

Mastubation is demonic you need to seek spiritual help. That’s the only solution. Meet a a deliverance pastor for help

dalongjnr:
Meet ur wife and tell her that you are a mastubator.
Be open minded about it.
2.meet you pastor and tell him so that he should pray for you.
3.Meet a counselor or psychotherapist and discussed the issue.
4.Don't stay alone in an enclosed place.
5.Meet the eldest man in your village to allow you be or else u will be 60yrs and be doing the same thing.

Why bring pastor into this? There is nothing wrong with mastubarting.

Kingpinukecy:
A lot of people have given their opinion, mine is not far different from there's.

First of all I will say that Marriage can never stop masturbation.U can only stop it if u have made up ur mind set to stop it.

but it cannot jux stop all of a sudden, its jux like wen u r addicted to drinking alcohol or smoking, u can stop it gradually.

1)I can say wenever u have the urge for it, jux try to keep ur self busy with anytin with that ur mind will be busy as well. it's only wen u r less busy u think of evil things. Jux as the adage says an idle mind is d devils workshop, And u will try to carry out what ur mind is telling u.

2)I will also advice u to stay away or stop watching porn movies,because it will boost ur urge to alwz think of having sex okay.

3) Explain to ur wife ur problem. u can even tell her that it's because u made up ur mind to stop the dirty act, that's y u married her.

That she should consider or reason with u. And stop starving u of sex wen u need it. I know she might not be in the mood wen u r in d mood. but she can be of help to ur problem in the short run.

but y should a woman even think of starving her husband they belong to each other already
civilization sure has it toll on the black race
in the olden days woman no go try such evil act

2blockus:
Hello friends although this may sound strange to some person but it's the truth.

I started masturbating when I was 15 and I did it until I grew up and I feel is better than having girls that will take all my time and money.

fast forward I got a job and I pray to God to help stop this practice, another thought came to me that I should marry @ 27 so I can stop this act which I did and got married to a lovely wife.

At the first month I feel it will work not until one day my wife refuse me sex that made me to get angry I just pray to get to the office on time so I can help my self.

this was how it started and now I can't remember the last I had sex with her. infact it took us 10 month before she could conceive and people thought she had problem but I know the cause.

please I need a matured advice as she have caught me severally doing it in the restroom and I was just ashamed of myself.

note i still watch porn but not much shaaa.

It will surprise you she watches more porn than you

Wow

2blockus:
Hello friends although this may sound strange to some person but it's the truth.

I started masturbating when I was 15 and I did it until I grew up and I feel is better than having girls that will take all my time and money.

fast forward I got a job and I pray to God to help stop this practice, another thought came to me that I should marry @ 27 so I can stop this act which I did and got married to a lovely wife.

At the first month I feel it will work not until one day my wife refuse me sex that made me to get angry I just pray to get to the office on time so I can help my self.

this was how it started and now I can't remember the last I had sex with her. infact it took us 10 month before she could conceive and people thought she had problem but I know the cause.

please I need a matured advice as she have caught me severally doing it in the restroom and I was just ashamed of myself.

note i still watch porn but not much shaaa.

True or False ?

Keep praying, you will stop the habit.

Masturbation is very immoral and should be avoided by any one that wants to live upto Bible’s standard.

I was once a masturbator, I know how it feels.
I was helped by one of Jehovah’s Witnesses.
I suggest you get in contact with them, I know they will be of great help.

GuyWise:
Your wife is the problem here because she knowing fully well about your condition and still refuse you entering her honey well is an act of wickedness.


You guys going upto weeks without sexual intercourse speaks volume of the fact that your wife is seeing someone else or she too is a MASTURBATOR (just that she's being to careful for you not too see her doing it)


I LOVE MASTURBATION AND I DON'T THINK I AM QUITTING ANYTIME SOON NOT EVEN WHEN I AM MARRIED..... I love to masturbate.


Secondly "If you want to enjoy masturbation don't do it with porn, just use your imagination, you will last longer and enjoy the beautiful act"

i really have hope with some people,

Okoroawusa:
You started late sef...me I started 12 n still do masturbate...


It's no big deal

Plenty people won't make heaven 4 this Nairaland so

Maturation isn't a sin.. Infact it's encouraged in Europe..


Instead of being a pervert.. Masturbate

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Ok but he said it has been weeks

GuyWise:
Your wife is the problem here because she knowing fully well about your condition and still refuse you entering her honey well is an act of wickedness.


You guys going upto weeks without sexual intercourse speaks volume of the fact that your wife is seeing someone else or she too is a MASTURBATOR (just that she's being to careful for you not too see her doing it)


I LOVE MASTURBATION AND I DON'T THINK I AM QUITTING ANYTIME SOON NOT EVEN WHEN I AM MARRIED..... I love to masturbate.


Secondly "If you want to enjoy masturbation don't do it with porn, just use your imagination, you will last longer and enjoy the beautiful act"

na wao, see human being.

GuyWise:
Your wife is the problem here because she knowing fully well about your condition and still refuse you entering her honey well is an act of wickedness.


You guys going upto weeks without sexual intercourse speaks volume of the fact that your wife is seeing someone else or she too is a MASTURBATOR (just that she's being to careful for you not too see her doing it)


I LOVE MASTURBATION AND I DON'T THINK I AM QUITTING ANYTIME SOON NOT EVEN WHEN I AM MARRIED..... I love to masturbate.


Secondly "If you want to enjoy masturbation don't do it with porn, just use your imagination, you will last longer and enjoy the beautiful act"

the heavenly race,u sure say u follow dey runam at all?

Very bad somtin.terrible.

2blockus:
Hello friends although this may sound strange to some person but it's the truth.

I started masturbating when I was 15 and I did it until I grew up and I feel is better than having girls that will take all my time and money.

fast forward I got a job and I pray to God to help stop this practice, another thought came to me that I should marry @ 27 so I can stop this act which I did and got married to a lovely wife.

At the first month I feel it will work not until one day my wife refuse me sex that made me to get angry I just pray to get to the office on time so I can help my self.

this was how it started and now I can't remember the last I had sex with her. infact it took us 10 month before she could conceive and people thought she had problem but I know the cause.

please I need a matured advice as she have caught me severally doing it in the restroom and I was just ashamed of myself.

note i still watch porn but not much shaaa.

Have you tried gay? Call a man to chook it in your nyash

God bless you.

Bonatheripper:
I started when I was 13.
I'm about 3times that now and I stil enjoy masturbation.
Seriously why do people even think masturbation is a much bigger sin than fornication?
Is not the same semem u release?

Why do people think constant masturbation makes u ejaculate faster while constant fornication makes u learn how to last longer?

People are seriously crazy.
Masturbation helps u save money, saves u from STD, saves u from unwanted pregnancies and babbies, saves u from breaking girls hearts.

Masturbation is a blessing.

Fornication was condemned by God.

Anyone who thinks fornication is better than masturbation is an idiot who wants to feel less guilty with what he or she is doing.
People sha are weird

I can tell you vividly... your wife masturbate aswell.... you guys are yet to find the nympho keys around each other... get ready for alot of things... Girlfriends involved. ... with

The only thing that can stop it is when you see a lady who can cure your sex imagination and that will be another wahala in your marriage ooo.


However, you can quit if you Tell God and let him punish you if go back... the fear of that alone will cure your crase. Lol

blackpanthar:


The major problem is NOT porn... though PORN is an addiction you have to stop

THE MAJOR PROBLEM IS LACK OF TRANSPARENCY BETWEEN YOU AND YOUR WIFE

You seem to have married a sexual misfit... guys who have ever been victims of masturbation are meant to marry women with very HIGH LIBIDO so that they can be distracted from the act...

She was supposed to always look for new ways to seduce you and try new things in BED... she is supposed to be kinky and open to sex any day and any time...

I am NOT saying you married wrong... am saying you didnt tell her about your addictions and your HIGH sexual drive.
You both need to see a counselor and a sex therapist.

If this is not checked early, you wont desire your wife sexually anymore... and that is where CHEATING STARTS...

your wife cheated on you by refusing you sex... MARRIAGE MEANS, HER BODY IS YOURS... and your BODY is hers...

lemme stop here

What are the characteristics of a woman with high libido? I need one, too!

jclassiq:


You seem to be quite uninformed at the subject matter. I currently suffer from the issue being discussed due to excessive masturbation. Not to mention reduction in sperm quality and quantity.

Sha be careful is all.

follow the thread below. Read from page one to the current page. infact before you get to the middle you'll develop this willpower to fight that you'll even be amazed.

https://www.nairaland.com/5223408/masturbation-quitting-challenge-thread

KrazzyAndy:
mehhhn i dont know bout y'all but porn in question have finish my life
growing up was very rough and i went through a lot of emotional trauma cause i was raped twice by my uncle ex fiancee and my neighbour and both of them are atleast 10 years older than me so cause of the very bad experience i almost lost my self, i'm also dealing with extreme low self esteem nobody knows am dying inside cause i'm always smiling and helping others in times of crisis...now look at me 18+ and still masturbating....please you guys above me saying is cool and everything
it's NOTTTTT....this shiii is causing me serious pains....some times i might go days but once it is going to 2 weeks....problem tii deyy well i thankGod for my life right now i just gained admission into the uni so i probably wont have time for such again....now i'm gonna drop my own 2kobo on howw to manage porn....there are just 3 ways to manage your addiction
1)always pray bout it cause masturbating is not physical but spiritual
2)make sure you get yourself always BUSY!! cause i don't know if you're cursed or something that you have a goal let say gettiing good grades or making money that you will na go to one corner in your house or somewhere very private to masturbate ok let say you have the money and you are always less busy get a playstation or a laptop play online games if you dont like that you can sign up for gymclasses or better still have your own gym inside your house excercise a lot just do thing that will fix you mind on something other than porn
3)lastly we're human beings and body no be firewood so get yourself a gf to be precise a girl that can give you sex even you dont ask trust me you will kill the vibe of anything porn in your life
so guys please masturbation is bad porn is bad try to stay off it and see how happy and pleased with yourself you will be

follow the thread below. Read from page one to the current page. infact before you get to the middle you'll develop this willpower to fight that you'll even be amazed.

https://www.nairaland.com/5223408/masturbation-quitting-challenge-thread