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He Is Asking For Financial Help Barely A Week After by Nobody: 8:53am On Oct 11, 2019
I met this new guy. It's long distance and we say we want to make things work. He will visit soon according to him. But he is asking for financial help barely after one week. Last week I sent him 2k for fuel, now he is asking for another money. He said he will bring it when coming next week. I am disappointed.
This is the reality women now has to face, how come it's during the time we met you're suddenly broke? Yet it is the women that are gold diggers. He isn't the first person, more women just need to speak out as much as the guys are complaining about girl asking for financial help barely into a new relationship.
Update; now begging for sub money shocked I don't know what is wrong with some guys of nowadays. No dignity
Friday morning rants cry

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Re: He Is Asking For Financial Help Barely A Week After by ifyalways(f): 8:59am On Oct 11, 2019
This country hard no be small cheesy E don reach like this ? cheesy cheesy cheesy

Men asking for 2K and recharge card? Local love now comes with a price. Nne i dont envy todays youngsters looking for love but using my church mind, tell him to come chop congo overnight to earn the money. Jk cheesy

On a serious note, dont give him any more money. Tell him you dont have or ask him first before he asks you.

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Re: He Is Asking For Financial Help Barely A Week After by donbachi(m): 9:01am On Oct 11, 2019
God never complained....so stop complaining.afterall,u asked GOD for him.

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Re: He Is Asking For Financial Help Barely A Week After by Abfinest007(m): 9:01am On Oct 11, 2019
maybe he just want to test u but after this one and he ask for money know d guy is a broke ass

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Re: He Is Asking For Financial Help Barely A Week After by LewsTherin: 9:03am On Oct 11, 2019
Guys are trying to collect what girls have been collecting for eons. It's all gender equality na.




/s

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Re: He Is Asking For Financial Help Barely A Week After by patani(m): 9:05am On Oct 11, 2019
ifyalways:
This country hard no be small cheesy E don reach like this ? cheesy cheesy cheesy

Men asking for 2K and recharge card? Local love now comes with a price. Nne i dont envy todays youngsters looking for love but using my church mind, tell him to come chop congo overnight to earn the money. Jk cheesy

On a serious note, dont give him any more money. Tell him you dont have or ask him first before he asks you.

Hmmmm Chop congo to earn money...This guy don suffer...He is practically reduced to male prostitute hahahahaha....Lazy men everywhere

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Re: He Is Asking For Financial Help Barely A Week After by sunnychibs(m): 9:06am On Oct 11, 2019
Ofcourse.





Women said they want gender equality,

So,i don't see anything wrong in a man asking his girlfriend for financial help since 'anything a man can do,a women can do better'.

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Re: He Is Asking For Financial Help Barely A Week After by sisisioge: 9:07am On Oct 11, 2019
grin grin grin

Please don't ever do that again...don't biko.

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Re: He Is Asking For Financial Help Barely A Week After by saucecode(m): 9:15am On Oct 11, 2019
rockstarB:
I met this new guy. It's long distance and we say we want to make things work. He will visit soon according to him. But he is asking for financial help barely after one week. Last week I sent him 2k for fuel, now he is asking for another money. He said he will bring it when coming next week. I am disappointed.
This is the reality women now has to face, how come it's during the time we met you're suddenly broke? Yet it is the women that are gold diggers. He isn't the first person, more women just need to speak out as much as the guys are complaining about girl asking for financial help barely into a new relationship.
Friday morning rants cry
Swear say you neva ask financial help from man within two weeks of knowing him before? cheesy

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Re: He Is Asking For Financial Help Barely A Week After by Nobody: 9:23am On Oct 11, 2019
Looks like you have poor taste in men.

That is going by your previous threads on one bf or the other.

You will soon be used as a case study on how women age faster than men. Keep killing yourself with man-troubles.

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Re: He Is Asking For Financial Help Barely A Week After by mamajj17(f): 9:51am On Oct 11, 2019
My dear, forget him as soon as possible, move on dear, yours would surely locate you! This guy in Question will keep coming bk for more! He is a Narcissist, this is how they are undecided

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Re: He Is Asking For Financial Help Barely A Week After by Nobody: 9:54am On Oct 11, 2019
saucecode:

Swear say you neva ask financial help from man within two weeks of knowing him before? cheesy
Never! Not even after months sef

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Re: He Is Asking For Financial Help Barely A Week After by jeff1607(m): 9:54am On Oct 11, 2019
when a lady makes such demands no one sees anything wrong in it.

they tag you broke or stingy, roles are reversed now see the lashing

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Re: He Is Asking For Financial Help Barely A Week After by Nobody: 10:00am On Oct 11, 2019
AntiBrutus:
Looks like you have poor taste in men.

That is going by your previous threads on one bf or the other.

You will soon be used as a case study on how women age faster than men. Keep killing yourself with man-troubles.
Unfortunately I don't know "why always me" but I am sure I am not alone in this kind of scenerio. Pls know that we haven't even met, it's totally different from my ex

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Re: He Is Asking For Financial Help Barely A Week After by ireneidiva(f): 10:02am On Oct 11, 2019
mamajj17:
My dear, forget him as soon as possible, move on dear, yours would surely locate you! This guy in Question will keep coming bk for more! He is a Narcissist, this is how they are undecided
Are you sure you know the meaning of 'narcissist'?

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Re: He Is Asking For Financial Help Barely A Week After by jeff1607(m): 10:02am On Oct 11, 2019
rockstarB:
I met this new guy. It's long distance and we say we want to make things work. He will visit soon according to him. But he is asking for financial help barely after one week. Last week I sent him 2k for fuel, now he is asking for another money. He said he will bring it when coming next week. I am disappointed.
This is the reality women now has to face, how come it's during the time we met you're suddenly broke? Yet it is the women that are gold diggers. He isn't the first person, more women just need to speak out as much as the guys are complaining about girl asking for financial help barely into a new relationship.
Friday morning rants cry

Sis have you ever wondered why you keep meeting the same type of guys (the collecting or ripping off type)?

plus I suggest you stop bringing personal stuff here

but again it's your choice

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Re: He Is Asking For Financial Help Barely A Week After by mamajj17(f): 10:10am On Oct 11, 2019
ireneidiva:

Are you sure you know the meaning of 'narcissist'?

Why not?
Re: He Is Asking For Financial Help Barely A Week After by mamajj17(f): 10:12am On Oct 11, 2019
ireneidiva:

Are you sure you know the meaning of 'narcissist'?
Do yr research and read more about them....They are User! They mostly need a Supplier to their needs!

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Re: He Is Asking For Financial Help Barely A Week After by saucecode(m): 10:28am On Oct 11, 2019
rockstarB:

Never! Not even after months sef
Okay then, maybe he should have waited months before asking. Stupid boy

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Re: He Is Asking For Financial Help Barely A Week After by Nobody: 11:15am On Oct 11, 2019
ifyalways:
This country hard no be small cheesy E don reach like this ? cheesy cheesy cheesy

Men asking for 2K and recharge card? Local love now comes with a price. Nne i dont envy todays youngsters looking for love but using my church mind, tell him to come chop congo overnight to earn the money. Jk cheesy

On a serious note, dont give him any more money. Tell him you dont have or ask him first before he asks you.
I taya
Re: He Is Asking For Financial Help Barely A Week After by Nobody: 1:46pm On Oct 11, 2019
rockstarB:

Unfortunately I don't know "why always me" but I am sure I am not alone in this kind of scenerio. Pls know that we haven't even met, it's totally different from my ex

You are not alone. They are rampant, way more than men would love to admit. They hide under the cover of needing your "support" when they are down. Yours is how much? I had one ask for 400k to cover the logistics fees of a project he claimed would net millions. I no even answer am.

They target women that have jobs with low responsibilities. The older you are, the better- as you might be desperate to get a horseband.

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Re: He Is Asking For Financial Help Barely A Week After by Iogobenz(m): 1:58pm On Oct 11, 2019
ifyalways:
This country hard no be small cheesy E don reach like this ? cheesy cheesy cheesy

Men asking for 2K and recharge card? Local love now comes with a price. Nne i dont envy todays youngsters looking for love but using my church mind, tell him to come chop congo overnight to earn the money. Jk cheesy

On a serious note, dont give him any more money. Tell him you dont have or ask him first before he asks you.
Come make I chop your Congo,you no gree.You say na for tinubu undecided
Champagne life,candles,hotels(my cape Verde offer is still up).Infact,it will be a weekend worth your time.
Nne adim capable cool

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Re: He Is Asking For Financial Help Barely A Week After by saucecode(m): 2:04pm On Oct 11, 2019
AntiBrutus:


You are not alone. They are rampant, way more than men would love to admit. They hide under the cover of needing your "support" when they are down. Yours is how much? I had one ask for 400k ti cover the logistics fees of a project he claimed would net millions. I no even answer am.

They target women that have jobs with low responsibilities. The older you are, the better- as you might be desperate to get a horseband.
Na so cheesy
Only 400k? When you could have easily given him 1million without blinking. grin
Na your car he want you to sell to raise the money abi

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Re: He Is Asking For Financial Help Barely A Week After by cococandy(f): 2:19pm On Oct 11, 2019
Don’t write him off just yet but thread with caution.
If your refusal to give him money at this time will drive him away, then you know that’s what he’s there for.

You also have to decide what you want in a relationship and what your goals are. If you’re interested in marriage and let’s assume that he is too, the possibility that you will bear the financial responsibilities of that home is not far fetched.

Not a bad thing if you both are on the same page.

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Re: He Is Asking For Financial Help Barely A Week After by Pharaoh4rin(m): 2:20pm On Oct 11, 2019
ireneidiva:

Are you sure you know the meaning of 'narcissist'?

I taya oo

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Re: He Is Asking For Financial Help Barely A Week After by Pharaoh4rin(m): 2:23pm On Oct 11, 2019
AntiBrutus:


You are not alone. They are rampant, way more than men would love to admit. They hide under the cover of needing your "support" when they are down. Yours is how much? I had one ask for 400k to cover the logistics fees of a project he claimed would net millions. I no even answer am.

They target women that have jobs with low responsibilities. The older you are, the better- as you might be desperate to get a horseband.

Tho badt gan
Re: He Is Asking For Financial Help Barely A Week After by ahnie: 2:27pm On Oct 11, 2019
Funny thread grin



Hilarious comments cheesy cheesy

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Re: He Is Asking For Financial Help Barely A Week After by Nobody: 2:45pm On Oct 11, 2019
Pharaoh4rin:


Tho badt gan

Lol. Them full Abuja. grin

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Re: He Is Asking For Financial Help Barely A Week After by Nobody: 2:51pm On Oct 11, 2019
Iogobenz:
Come make I chop your Congo,you no gree.You say na for tinubu undecided
Champagne life,candles,hotels(my cape Verde offer is still up).Infact,it will be a weekend worth your time.
Nne adim capable cool

Small boy. Our GYLF is eran agba. Comot and face your laneangry

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Re: He Is Asking For Financial Help Barely A Week After by Acidosis(m): 2:54pm On Oct 11, 2019
That 2k you sent to him for fuel was used to "on - gen" when his real girlfriend visited for fvcks.

How can a broke man burn 2k fuel money for nothing? E "on - gen" to do wetin?

If that 2k fuel money could not produce enough money for him to stop collecting from you, then you're in a one-chance relationship.

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Re: He Is Asking For Financial Help Barely A Week After by Iogobenz(m): 2:57pm On Oct 11, 2019
ornicus:


Small boy. Our GYLF is earn agba. Comot and face your laneangry
What is earn agba?
Besides,she knows I am no small boy wink
Abi ify?

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Re: He Is Asking For Financial Help Barely A Week After by Iogobenz(m): 2:57pm On Oct 11, 2019
Acidosis:
That 2k you sent to him for fuel was used to "on - gen" when his real girlfriend visited for fvcks.

How can a broke man burn 2k fuel money for nothing? E "on - gen" to do wetin?

If that 2k fuel money could not produce enough money for him to stop collecting from you, then you're in a one-chance relationship.

What if na to fuel e camry undecided

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