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Boy move on!!! She's probably found somene else, even if not, your respect is gone and you'll forever worship her punanee

BigJoe19:
Abeg leave her alone, you thinking you can't find another girl better than her is false, you both acted wrong, so if she can't come back it's a loss for her.

Find another girl and enjoy your life, no time for stupid annoying girls.

That is what I have resolved to do

Canada2021:
That is what I have resolved to do

Very good. In your next relationship, create your standard and let your girlfriend know you deserve respect.

IceColdVeins:
Boy move on!!! She's probably found somene else, even if not, your respect is gone and you'll forever worship her punanee

I will heed to this advice even though it will be difficult

That she slapped you back should speak volumes.
IMO, any girl who can do that would definitely do same even in her matrimonial home. To prevent further embarrassment I'd advice you let her be. But If you still hope she can change, give it another try

BigJoe19:
Very good. In your next relationship, create your standard and let your girlfriend know you deserve respect.

I don't think I will want to put myself in this position again. I am scared of dating.

Canada2021:
Good Morning Nairalanders, I know I deserve your reproach and insults but please help a brother out.

I have been dating my gf for 3 years now. I met her in my final year in school and ever since then we have been together, though we have minor issues but we make up.

She came to visit me for some few days because of the close proximity of my House to her place of work. I made sure i pampered her and treated her nice. I noticed that she speaks to me anyhow lately, I have been keeping my cool.

She closes from work around 6pm, so last night I called to find out where she was and d way she responded was quite rude, telling me that i am adding to the holdup stress. I called her again to find out where she was and she still gave me the same attitude.

She came home around 9pm, I was expecting her to apologize for the way she spoke to me rudely on d phone. She just walked in without even saying hello, picked up her phone and pressed it for almost 30 minutes, picked up her brush and was on her way to the bathroom when I accosted her. I asked her if she feels i am a fool because i have been bearing her excesses, the next thing that came out from her mouth was that I am really a fool.

At that point I lost my temper and slapped her, she retaliated and it resulted in a fight. I tried begging her later in the night but she said it's over. she left my house this morning and she blocked me online and tru calls.

I am a very calm person and not violent but I just lost it yesterday, I dont want to lose her. I just wished I had acted different.

please i need ideas to apologize to her because she said she will report me to the police if she sees me around her.

Truth be told,she has lost interest in you...Probably she has another guy.

Just recently i tested the love of my girlfriend,by doing something that would have ended the relationship,but she forgave me after 24hrs

Dshocker:
Truth be told,she has lost interest in you...Probably she has another guy.

Just recently i tested the love of my girlfriend,by doing something that would have ended the relationship,but she forgave me.

I actually feel the same way but she should have acted matured and told me point blank

Canada2021:
I hope so bro because na dis babe i wan marry. I have given up alot for us to be together

As a man you are supposed to know when a girl doesn't want you anymore....Bros move on,there are billions of girls out there

Canada2021:
I hope so bro because na dis babe i wan marry. I have given up alot for us to be together

The mistake people(men and women) make is giving out a lot just to keep their partners happy.

NOTE: Where your happiness comes from depends on when it will end.

Whenever you are in a relationship (unmarried), always remember one fact, never give up anything good just to please your partner, what is sweet today may become bitter tomorrow. (Have it in mind that people change with time.)

...and OP, stop saying you can't live without her because in 5 years time, either after marriage or not you would look at her one day and feel you wasted your time with her.
There are wonderful ladies everywhere who will make you feel stupid for saying such words if you date them. You will discover that many are miles ahead her in character and all.

Finally, your girlfriend has been looking for a way to break off either for someone who is telling her sweet words or because she feels your relationship is not taking her anywhere.
She only needed you to make a mistake so she can leave with a clear conscience while the load is dropped on your head.

Relax your head and know that no one is indispensable, including you OP.

kingkakaone:
The mistake people(men and women) make is giving out a lot just to keep their partners happy.

NOTE: Where your happiness comes from depends on when it will end.

Whenever you are in a relationship (unmarried), always remember one fact, never give up anything good just to please your partner, what is sweet today may become bitter tomorrow. (Have it in mind that people change with time.)

...and OP, stop saying you can't live without her because in 5 years time, either after marriage or not you would look at her one day and feel you wasted your time with her.
There are wonderful ladies everywhere who will make you feel stupid for saying such words if you date them. You will discover that many are miles ahead her in character and all.

Finally, your girlfriend has been looking for a way to break off either for someone who is telling her sweet words or because she feels your relationship is not taking her anywhere.
She only needed you to make a mistake so she can leave with a clear conscience while the load is dropped on your head.

Relax your head and know that no one is indispensable, including you OP.

Thank you very much for this matured comment

Dshocker:
As a man you are supposed to know when a girl doesn't want you anymore....Bros move on,there are billions of girls out there

That is true

Too many weak niggaz this days

Thank God that the real men are here finally.
op forget about most of the comments on the first page of this thread and focus on the second page all you need to do is there.

chris20000:
Thank God that the real men are here finally.
op forget about most of the comments on the first page of this thread and focus on the second page all you need to do is there.

Thank you bro

Canada2021:
I hope so bro because na dis babe i wan marry. I have given up alot for us to be together

Herein lies your problem. You gave too much and now you are desperate. Bro, take a chill pill and learn to control your emotions.

Brother you should never raise your hand on a woman even if she over provoke you , if you said she has been good for 3 years why the sudden change. You not married to her yet and she stay with you , am not telling you to beg her but try to to know what make her change and work on that because all they aren’t much loyal woman out there and that’s d fact .

AwkaetitiBabe:
You dont force people to be with you. If the feeling ain't truly mutual, they'll act up sooner or later.

Or mayb she's on her period and experiencing mood swing! That's a possibility. You can wait it out and see if she calms down. No pressure though

Your first paragraph make sense but the second one no follow at all.

do the following and watch her crave for ur attention like a boss.
1. play reverse psychology on her(stop calling her)
2. after the above, get urself as many ladies as possible and rub it nn her face
3. improve urself financially and sexually
4. if she eventually comes back, dnt stalk her and let her see u as a guy with many options

Dshocker:
Truth be told,she has lost interest in you...Probably she has another guy.

Just recently i tested the love of my girlfriend,by doing something that would have ended the relationship,but she forgave me after 24hrs

Nonsense, I truly hope she tests you with something more awful than what you did, let's see if you'll forgive her after 12hrs.

My brother man, apply ubunja style, las las you go dey ok.

seanwilliam:
do the following and watch her crave for ur attention like a boss.
1. play reverse psychology on her(stop calling her)
2. after the above, get urself as many ladies as possible and rub it nn her face
3. improve urself financially and sexually
4. if she eventually comes back, dnt stalk her and let her see u as a guy with many options

Thank you very much bro

Canada2021:
Bro i was really annoyed when she insulted me and thing be say she dey point finger for my face.

Girl wey you and she no get fight called you a fool because you asked her why she dey do yamayama. Just let her know that you need to talk and she snubs... well no p. just let her go and promise ya self that she's never coming back again not even as an olosho.

Do you want to end up begging your wife for her wrong?

If yes marry her.

If no let her go.

firstolalekan:
Are you really a fool?

Just like that, you don run dey react anyhow.
No be so dem dey catch woman o

U fuk up big time...

The guy na monumental fool. Nna Ehn!!!!! Hakwanu Full Fledged man like am go dey mumu because of woman

Canada2021:
Good Morning Nairalanders, I know I deserve your reproach and insults but please help a brother out.

I have been dating my gf for 3 years now. I met her in my final year in school and ever since then we have been together, though we have minor issues but we make up.

She came to visit me for some few days because of the close proximity of my House to her place of work. I made sure i pampered her and treated her nice. I noticed that she speaks to me anyhow lately, I have been keeping my cool.

She closes from work around 6pm, so last night I called to find out where she was and d way she responded was quite rude, telling me that i am adding to the holdup stress. I called her again to find out where she was and she still gave me the same attitude.

She came home around 9pm, I was expecting her to apologize for the way she spoke to me rudely on d phone. She just walked in without even saying hello, picked up her phone and pressed it for almost 30 minutes, picked up her brush and was on her way to the bathroom when I accosted her. I asked her if she feels i am a fool because i have been bearing her excesses, the next thing that came out from her mouth was that I am really a fool.

At that point I lost my temper and slapped her, she retaliated and it resulted in a fight. I tried begging her later in the night but she said it's over. she left my house this morning and she blocked me online and tru calls.

I am a very calm person and not violent but I just lost it yesterday, I dont want to lose her. I just wished I had acted different.

please i need ideas to apologize to her because she said she will report me to the police if she sees me around her.

Bros, forget all this ya long talk. For someone who ya claim to be ya Erinma to begin dey do anyhow like dis, two things are involved.
1. It's either, there's someone else who is willing to offer more than what you bring to the table, Financially, Sexually and otherwise
Or
She is tired of you, and wants to move on. Either way, you should take it in your stride and be the man , afterall you have a phallus dangling between ur thighs.
As a rule of thumb, never ever allow your feelings for a member of the opposite sex becloud your sense of reasoning. You should learn to show people that in as much as they are important, you can also do without them without batting an eyelid. It's called "Reverse Psychology" , shit works like charm for me, and it should do miracles for you too.
In between, abeg no dey do like mumu, ur mumu don do. I no dey yab u ooo, na advice I dey advice you.

he no easy o,bt wat is d nature of her job

macho44:
Bros, forget all this ya long talk. For someone who ya claim to be ya Erinma to begin dey do anyhow like dis, two things are involved.
1. It's either, there's someone else who is willing to offer more than what you bring to the table, Financially, Sexually and otherwise
Or
She is tired of you, and wants to move on. Either way, you should take it in your stride and be the man , afterall you have a phallus dangling between ur thighs.
As a rule of thumb, never ever allow your feelings for a member of the opposite sex becloud your sense of reasoning. You should learn to show people that in as much as they are important, you can also do without them without batting an eyelid. It's called "Reverse Psychology" , shit works like charm for me, and it should do miracles for you too.
In between, abeg no dey do like mumu, ur mumu don do. I no dey yab u ooo, na advice I dey advice you.

Thank u bro

jerry1234567890:
he no easy o,bt wat is d nature of her job

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Canada2021:
Good Morning Nairalanders, I know I deserve your reproach and insults but please help a brother out.

I have been dating my gf for 3 years now. I met her in my final year in school and ever since then we have been together, though we have minor issues but we make up.

She came to visit me for some few days because of the close proximity of my House to her place of work. I made sure i pampered her and treated her nice. I noticed that she speaks to me anyhow lately, I have been keeping my cool.

She closes from work around 6pm, so last night I called to find out where she was and d way she responded was quite rude, telling me that i am adding to the holdup stress. I called her again to find out where she was and she still gave me the same attitude.

She came home around 9pm, I was expecting her to apologize for the way she spoke to me rudely on d phone. She just walked in without even saying hello, picked up her phone and pressed it for almost 30 minutes, picked up her brush and was on her way to the bathroom when I accosted her. I asked her if she feels i am a fool because i have been bearing her excesses, the next thing that came out from her mouth was that I am really a fool.

At that point I lost my temper and slapped her, she retaliated and it resulted in a fight. I tried begging her later in the night but she said it's over. she left my house this morning and she blocked me online and tru calls.

I am a very calm person and not violent but I just lost it yesterday, I dont want to lose her. I just wished I had acted different.

please i need ideas to apologize to her because she said she will report me to the police if she sees me around her.

Bro u should be happy the respect less relationship is over but respect is always "reciprocal ". In life people leave for better ones to come and stay. Everyone is priceless,special and unique but replaceable infinitely.

jagaban002:
Brother you should never raise your hand on a woman even if she over provoke you , if you said she has been good for 3 years why the sudden change. You not married to her yet and she stay with you , am not telling you to beg her but try to to know what make her change and work on that because all they aren’t much loyal woman out there and that’s d fact .

this one na confirm rubbish.
My guy that I spent so much time explaining to him why the notion " on no account should you hit a woman" is rubbish and he kept arguing with me almost killed his girlfriend when she destroyed all his properties because he was toasting another babe. Nobody is above beating. The things girls will do to you when they know you have that mindset is completely unspeakable. Don't think they'll feel you're romantic, they just see you as a fool.
No girl close to me can ever call me a fool playfully, not even the popular big head, ode and all other nonsense you guys take from girls. I don't insult people at all so don't think I will take any rubbish from you