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YOU ARE DEAD DEAD BEFORE THE ACTUAL DEATH THE GIRL WILL PUT YOU THROUGH. CUT THE STRING THAT HOLD YOU AND HER TOGETHER. SHE DOES NOT WORTH IT.

thank you so much for this post, I being dey see Kilimanjaro, I think say na shopping complex like shop rite, I no no say na fast food joint.

pascalexmond:
I have a girlfriend of two years and since we have been dating,I ve been the one taking care of her.

Since we started dating,she has never bought me a gift or spent a kobo on me but I ve been the one buying the gifts, such as phones,clothings,shoes,give her money to make her hair and run other expenses too.

Even when she wants to go out with her friends for a sit out,she demands for money for entertainment,like #5-10k which I oblige her.

Infact,I ve been d one doing all d spending,which I know most guys will never do for 9ja babe as it seem to be magarism.

Just that I like to take care of my woman.

But,I have one big problem with this my girlfriend which is escalating by d day.

Since,I am not d type who is used to moving around with cash,there few times when we re out and we need to buy drinks,snacks, fruits or something for mostly herself & myself rarely,that I ask her for cash within d range of #1-5k.

In a day or two,she will calculate all d monies she spent,including as little as #100-500,asking me to refund her.

She has been doing this in d last two years and it is getting worse and it irritates me and I don't want to confront her to avoid a quarrel,but it still shocks me that she could be so inconsiderate.

Infact,whenever she goes out with my car with fuel in it,she will cruise around town with d car till d fuel guage is on red and don't bother to even buy fuel of #1k.

There was a day d car went off in d middle of d road after she consumed fuel of #5k.

Most times if she exhaust fuel of #3-5k and I ask her to kindly buy #1-2k to top it,she will insist and torment my life until I return d #1-2k to her.

Last Sunday,we went to a resort and I was short of #1,300 of d cash with me to pay d bill of #5,300 as their pos was having network issues and I asked her for d #1,300.

Till this moment,she is asking for the refund of #1,300.,Habaaa!!!!

This is a girl I support with #50k upkeep every month.

My brothers and sisters,this is a girl of 25 I want to marry

I ve just been thinking if her type can make a good wife or even stand by me If in marriage I go broke.

Even to cook is a challenge.

Always a champion of Cold Stone,Kilimanjaro,Tantalizer and so on that she takes pleasure in displaying on her WhatsApp status for d whole world to know what she eats.

And not that she is from a rich home.
They are just managing to survive in their family but she is always running an Audio life on social media with an iPhone x I bought for her.

I am just tired and confused b'cos I love her.

What do I do?

Oga see... petty ladies are no no for any responsible guy ..they push u to the wall...do the needful...leave this lady...

Someone like this will never be supportive..that's the sign....she won't even change forget it...

No matter how rich I become...my lady must support me...if she can't contribute financially...then she must be able to help me manage my funds towards judicious spending not to help me lavish my money...

Dumb her jor....

I keep saying to guys...use ur head not ur heart...use ur logic not ur emotions...when it comes to relationship that tends to lead to marriage.....if she is showing characters that doesn't fit in a good wife..tell her...if she doesn't adjust ...dumb her ass...don't pity them by claiming u love them and u don't want to lose them... nobody is perfect but choose a lady with a befitting imperfections, some pple's imperfections are horrible

Starz825:
Oga see... petty ladies are no no for any responsible guy ..they push u to the wall...do the needful...leave this lady...

Someone like this will never be supportive..that's the sign....she won't even change forget it...

No matter how rich I become...my lady must support me...if she can't contribute financially...then she must be able to help me manage my funds towards judicious spending not to help me lavish my money...

Dumb her jor....

I keep saying to guys...use ur head not ur heart...use ur logic not ur emotions...when it comes to relationship that tends to lead to marriage.....if she is showing characters that doesn't fit in a good wife..tell her...if she doesn't adjust ...dumb her ass...don't pity them by claiming u love them and u don't want to lose them... nobody is perfect but choose a lady with a befitting imperfections, some pple's imperfections are horrible

Good point

pascalexmond:
I have a girlfriend of two years and since we have been dating,I ve been the one taking care of her.

Since we started dating,she has never bought me a gift or spent a kobo on me but I ve been the one buying the gifts, such as phones,clothings,shoes,give her money to make her hair and run other expenses too.

Even when she wants to go out with her friends for a sit out,she demands for money for entertainment,like #5-10k which I oblige her.

Infact,I ve been d one doing all d spending,which I know most guys will never do for 9ja babe as it seem to be magarism.

Just that I like to take care of my woman.

But,I have one big problem with this my girlfriend which is escalating by d day.

Since,I am not d type who is used to moving around with cash,there few times when we re out and we need to buy drinks,snacks, fruits or something for mostly herself & myself rarely,that I ask her for cash within d range of #1-5k.

In a day or two,she will calculate all d monies she spent,including as little as #100-500,asking me to refund her.

She has been doing this in d last two years and it is getting worse and it irritates me and I don't want to confront her to avoid a quarrel,but it still shocks me that she could be so inconsiderate.

Infact,whenever she goes out with my car with fuel in it,she will cruise around town with d car till d fuel guage is on red and don't bother to even buy fuel of #1k.

There was a day d car went off in d middle of d road after she consumed fuel of #5k.

Most times if she exhaust fuel of #3-5k and I ask her to kindly buy #1-2k to top it,she will insist and torment my life until I return d #1-2k to her.

Last Sunday,we went to a resort and I was short of #1,300 of d cash with me to pay d bill of #5,300 as their pos was having network issues and I asked her for d #1,300.

Till this moment,she is asking for the refund of #1,300.,Habaaa!!!!

This is a girl I support with #50k upkeep every month.

My brothers and sisters,this is a girl of 25 I want to marry

I ve just been thinking if her type can make a good wife or even stand by me If in marriage I go broke.

Even to cook is a challenge.

Always a champion of Cold Stone,Kilimanjaro,Tantalizer and so on that she takes pleasure in displaying on her WhatsApp status for d whole world to know what she eats.

And not that she is from a rich home.
They are just managing to survive in their family but she is always running an Audio life on social media with an iPhone x I bought for her.

I am just tired and confused b'cos I love her.

What do I do?

E b like say u no get wetin u wan use money do.abeg,wch work u dey do,give me 500k n i will refund u 1m bfre january..

U dey waste money ontop girl wey no b ur wife,i am sure u b person wey no dey reason him guys sef

I no abuse u.i just dey vex 4 ur mata

Alexaonfleek:

You don't want , just say no or yes �

donaldtruman:
Hmm,those of u saying this story is fake is b'cos u ve not found yourselves in that kind of situation.
There are girls like that o and even worse.They just take advantage of the nice guys that come their way.I ve had encounters with such wicked girls.
The OP shld just man up and get rid of d girl.

Hmm , I have never dealt with such girls sha
But I have heard stories that touch. Lol

tobby20:
You don't want , just say no or yes �

no problem na.lets be friends

Alexaonfleek:
no problem na.lets be friends[[quote author=Alexaonfleek post=83205278]no problem na.lets be friends

Lol just like that , you stay lag

[quote author=tobby20 post=83205605][/quote]yeah I do

I don't understand why everyone is bashing this young man as to why he would buy an iPhone x for his woman or give her 50K monthly. Do you know his income? Money is relative to your income. 500 naira to you might be 5 million naira to someone else. The real problem, I think, is that the girl is either really wicked or not very smart. There are ways she would have gotten the monies back even without the guy relating or realizing that he actually paid for whatever little money he borrowed from her. So like I said its either she doesn't really care about him or she's foolish. We don't know the full details and she may very well think that this guy even spends way less on her than she deserves. I once had a girl who was like this and would never spend even a dime on me and I always paid for everything till I pointed this out and she said she thought African men don't like their women doing things for them (she's Asian). After then she spoilt me so much I felt very guilty for even raising the point because I know she was doing more than she could afford. @ OP Listen to your gut feeling and if you feel she's using you then she is. The story could be fake as well so my comment is based on the assumption that this is true.

pascalexmond:
I have a girlfriend of two years and since we have been dating,I ve been the one taking care of her.

Since we started dating,she has never bought me a gift or spent a kobo on me but I ve been the one buying the gifts, such as phones,clothings,shoes,give her money to make her hair and run other expenses too.

Even when she wants to go out with her friends for a sit out,she demands for money for entertainment,like #5-10k which I oblige her.

Infact,I ve been d one doing all d spending,which I know most guys will never do for 9ja babe as it seem to be magarism.

Just that I like to take care of my woman.

But,I have one big problem with this my girlfriend which is escalating by d day.

Since,I am not d type who is used to moving around with cash,there few times when we re out and we need to buy drinks,snacks, fruits or something for mostly herself & myself rarely,that I ask her for cash within d range of #1-5k.

In a day or two,she will calculate all d monies she spent,including as little as #100-500,asking me to refund her.

She has been doing this in d last two years and it is getting worse and it irritates me and I don't want to confront her to avoid a quarrel,but it still shocks me that she could be so inconsiderate.

Infact,whenever she goes out with my car with fuel in it,she will cruise around town with d car till d fuel guage is on red and don't bother to even buy fuel of #1k.

There was a day d car went off in d middle of d road after she consumed fuel of #5k.

Most times if she exhaust fuel of #3-5k and I ask her to kindly buy #1-2k to top it,she will insist and torment my life until I return d #1-2k to her.

Last Sunday,we went to a resort and I was short of #1,300 of d cash with me to pay d bill of #5,300 as their pos was having network issues and I asked her for d #1,300.

Till this moment,she is asking for the refund of #1,300.,Habaaa!!!!

This is a girl I support with #50k upkeep every month.

My brothers and sisters,this is a girl of 25 I want to marry

I ve just been thinking if her type can make a good wife or even stand by me If in marriage I go broke.

Even to cook is a challenge.

Always a champion of Cold Stone,Kilimanjaro,Tantalizer and so on that she takes pleasure in displaying on her WhatsApp status for d whole world to know what she eats.

And not that she is from a rich home.
They are just managing to survive in their family but she is always running an Audio life on social media with an iPhone x I bought for her.

I am just tired and confused b'cos I love her.

What do I do?

you are a mad man...what do you want us to say?? writing is boldly written on d wall..

Alexaonfleek:
yeah I do

Hmmn great , okay just asking

Lies
You can't be such a fool man
Even if it runs in your lineage

she can't change, I'm in a situation almost similar, this girl is a complete ingrate... planning on a break up very soon

statistics1:
mumu
I know u r lying bt lemme pretend
u dey give am 50k monthly biko
APAMU...

Kudos
Lolz someone is seeing clearly hear oh
I don't want to comment bcuz I know it's all a cock and bull story

Someone is kindly seeking advice. Please people don't rain curses on him before you chip in your piece of advice.

Mister I would advice you to leave that relationship. I believe whatever character she's exhibiting now is what you'll still get in marriage with her.

Nobody can or should be this "mumuish". Anybody, male or female that only takes and takes without giving back, and is even greedy about, it should be done away with.

pascalexmond:
I have a girlfriend of two years and since we have been dating,I ve been the one taking care of her.

Since we started dating,she has never bought me a gift or spent a kobo on me but I ve been the one buying the gifts, such as phones,clothings,shoes,give her money to make her hair and run other expenses too.

Even when she wants to go out with her friends for a sit out,she demands for money for entertainment,like #5-10k which I oblige her.

Infact,I ve been d one doing all d spending,which I know most guys will never do for 9ja babe as it seem to be magarism.

Just that I like to take care of my woman.

But,I have one big problem with this my girlfriend which is escalating by d day.

Since,I am not d type who is used to moving around with cash,there few times when we re out and we need to buy drinks,snacks, fruits or something for mostly herself & myself rarely,that I ask her for cash within d range of #1-5k.

In a day or two,she will calculate all d monies she spent,including as little as #100-500,asking me to refund her.

She has been doing this in d last two years and it is getting worse and it irritates me and I don't want to confront her to avoid a quarrel,but it still shocks me that she could be so inconsiderate.

Infact,whenever she goes out with my car with fuel in it,she will cruise around town with d car till d fuel guage is on red and don't bother to even buy fuel of #1k.

There was a day d car went off in d middle of d road after she consumed fuel of #5k.

Most times if she exhaust fuel of #3-5k and I ask her to kindly buy #1-2k to top it,she will insist and torment my life until I return d #1-2k to her.

Last Sunday,we went to a resort and I was short of #1,300 of d cash with me to pay d bill of #5,300 as their pos was having network issues and I asked her for d #1,300.

Till this moment,she is asking for the refund of #1,300.,Habaaa!!!!

This is a girl I support with #50k upkeep every month.

My brothers and sisters,this is a girl of 25 I want to marry

I ve just been thinking if her type can make a good wife or even stand by me If in marriage I go broke.

Even to cook is a challenge.

Always a champion of Cold Stone,Kilimanjaro,Tantalizer and so on that she takes pleasure in displaying on her WhatsApp status for d whole world to know what she eats.

And not that she is from a rich home.
They are just managing to survive in their family but she is always running an Audio life on social media with an iPhone x I bought for her.

I am just tired and confused b'cos I love her.

What do I do?

Audio money

Are you sure you are her boyfriend?

Alexaonfleek:
yeah I do

tobby20:

with ur face like nairaland emoji

pascalexmond:
I have a girlfriend of two years and since we have been dating,I ve been the one taking care of her.

Since we started dating,she has never bought me a gift or spent a kobo on me but I ve been the one buying the gifts, such as phones,clothings,shoes,give her money to make her hair and run other expenses too.

Even when she wants to go out with her friends for a sit out,she demands for money for entertainment,like #5-10k which I oblige her.

Infact,I ve been d one doing all d spending,which I know most guys will never do for 9ja babe as it seem to be magarism.

Just that I like to take care of my woman.

But,I have one big problem with this my girlfriend which is escalating by d day.

Since,I am not d type who is used to moving around with cash,there few times when we re out and we need to buy drinks,snacks, fruits or something for mostly herself & myself rarely,that I ask her for cash within d range of #1-5k.

In a day or two,she will calculate all d monies she spent,including as little as #100-500,asking me to refund her.

She has been doing this in d last two years and it is getting worse and it irritates me and I don't want to confront her to avoid a quarrel,but it still shocks me that she could be so inconsiderate.

Infact,whenever she goes out with my car with fuel in it,she will cruise around town with d car till d fuel guage is on red and don't bother to even buy fuel of #1k.

There was a day d car went off in d middle of d road after she consumed fuel of #5k.

Most times if she exhaust fuel of #3-5k and I ask her to kindly buy #1-2k to top it,she will insist and torment my life until I return d #1-2k to her.

Last Sunday,we went to a resort and I was short of #1,300 of d cash with me to pay d bill of #5,300 as their pos was having network issues and I asked her for d #1,300.

Till this moment,she is asking for the refund of #1,300.,Habaaa!!!!

This is a girl I support with #50k upkeep every month.

My brothers and sisters,this is a girl of 25 I want to marry

I ve just been thinking if her type can make a good wife or even stand by me If in marriage I go broke.

Even to cook is a challenge.

Always a champion of Cold Stone,Kilimanjaro,Tantalizer and so on that she takes pleasure in displaying on her WhatsApp status for d whole world to know what she eats.

And not that she is from a rich home.
They are just managing to survive in their family but she is always running an Audio life on social media with an iPhone x I bought for her.

I am just tired and confused b'cos I love her.

What do I do?

imaginary girl friend

I smell lies

Alexaonfleek:
with ur face like nairaland emoji

Lol , I'll send an email , you will send me your whatsap number , no disrespect just friends ,I dont want it to be public ...........

tobby20:
Lol , I'll send an email , you will send me your whatsap number , no disrespect just friends ,I dont want it to be public ...........

hmmm
Ok ooo

Alexaonfleek:
hmmm
Ok ooo