Smallboy01:
Just be determined, Don't watch pornography or nude photos. See fornication as a destiny killer.

MrHistorian:
Get married to a young lady who's from Jigawa.

You barely need a bride price and money for upkeep daily (for her) won't exceed #300.

lollybizzu:


You are right if you say most... Of course not all.

So are not just that the economic situation of the country is not helping.

Las Las conji na bastard and he go dey alright when hunger want to finish him

OgboAto:
X


And ye shall not lay thine hand upon thyself and perform wonders.

mamajj17:

Really, then reading of BIBLE or QURAN should be of help my dear

Ladylite:


Stop being an hypocrite, there is soapy or in your words... Masturbation.

It has been known to quench it frequently for years even before you were born.

Even being broke but you have money for data means there is a lady out there for you.

Money is not for sex and sex is not always for money.

So get your head right and be an outgoing jovial person and you will find some girl either in your area or church or mosque or school to give a head and have sex with.

Don't make a topic like this, it's Hypocrisy.

Ladylite:


Stop being an hypocrite, there is soapy or in your words... Masturbation.

It has been known to quench it frequently for years even before you were born.

Even being broke but you have money for data means there is a lady out there for you.

Money is not for sex and sex is not always for money.

So get your head right and be an outgoing jovial person and you will find some girl either in your area or church or mosque or school to give a head and have sex with.

You're a real gee because only real gees can reason like this
In fact when next you enter Abia mall Genesis cinemas I will buy a movie ticket for you

Don't make a topic like this, it's Hypocrisy.

Andhominem:


Nope. I am a typical example.

I had nothing when I got married...

lollybizzu:



Hmmm mamajj how will this help

mamajj17:


My dear it does, am a TESTIMONY, when tits are hard, call upon him and make a Bold Step....Not by waiting for a Miracle! Hope you understand dear

Idonweak:
Please advice. No money to carry olosho

Fruitydemola:
By getting a job or work to do

hopexter:
An empty pocket has no right to erection. Ignore your preeq for now and hustle

lexy2014:


Must u spend money b4 u have sex? Must u sleep with a prostitute? Can't u toast a girl without money? U need to work on ur self esteem & ur mindset cos by d time u have money, u will waste it on women even after u get married

trilacos:
what are the things to do?

DameB:

Person wey konji dey catch wey wan lem Dude isn't talking about abstinence

DameB:

Person wey konji dey catch wey wan lem Dude isn't talking about abstinence

lollybizzu:


I very well understand. Thanks
I'm in the middle of that right now. I've decided to take a bold step soon and I pray too.
I want to be a testimony too ... Thanks.

PS... What steps did you take when things were tough?

lollybizzu:


I very well understand. Thanks
I'm in the middle of that right now. I've decided to take a bold step soon and I pray too.
I want to be a testimony too ... Thanks.

PS... What steps did you take when things were tough?

KingAzubuike:

It's difficult to bed a girl without spending a dime. Even tho na recharge card you must spend . If you want to date without spending, she'll only friend zone you or see you as her talk/chat buddy. That's because girls equate financial spendings to love.

kay29000:


"Nothing" get grades. I don't want to believe you were as broke as this OP when you got married. Also, I will like to know what state you are based in and where your wife is from.

mamajj17:

Surely dear with God all things are possible, but mostly being Kind to Others cos Angels sometimes come in form of HUMAN. Be good always dear. Sky is always the Limit . All the very Best.

Andhominem:


I had nothing for real. I was hustling though. No certain steady income. I used to get something every now and then, before I engaged my wife. But as I prepared towards the wedding and few months after, nothing came in. I became completely broke. I spent the little savings I had preparing for the wedding until it got finished. I borrowed...

We were staying in Lagos...

JeffSiberstein:
This is what my guy does. He doesn't have t-shirts or jeans all he has are native clothing. My guy chat girls on Facebook posing as an honourable, u know politicians put on native mostly. He will tell them he has job for them at the council secretariat those who fall for the trick he invites to the Secretariat where he has a guy who interviews them and tells them to keep in touch with my guy and do anything my guy ask them to do. That's how my guy disturbs the lodge every week, one naira non gum am, all he get na the natives wey him take they pose as an honourable. So go advice you to sew many natives and pose as a honourable like excouncillor or aspirant.

lexy2014:


Its a mindset. If that is ur mindset, then u are talking about prostitution which u are implying all ladies are involved in including u. D first thing a guy has is his brain. If he can't use it to toast a girl, then when he gets married, he is going have a very boring home. This is d reason most Nigerian men go out& spend their income on prostitutes and side chicks cos 4 them, relationship is transactional not mutual. As a man, if u think u have spent, another will spend higher than u. So y think that it is by spending money. Spending money 4a girl is no guarantee that she will date, sleep with or love a man. Its prostitutes and their patrons that think that way

lollybizzu:

Thanks so much.