pocohantas:
Just poison him...
Problem solved

Husband killer located, guys run for ur life!!

imitateMe:
Who moved this poo to FP?

Until women start bearing all the financial responsibilities in the house, men will cheat on you and feel it's okay to do so. It's simple: work, earn, and be EQUALLY responsible for the financial expenses in the home; that way, no husband would dare cheat on you and brag about it.

By the way, if you too want to cheat and brag about it as a woman, feel free na.

Women are often moved and influenced by what people say or think about them. Men don't care!! That's why we ask you out even in BRT buses
We gat ballzzz!! Ya'll puzzies

@amazontopaz ... this is the perfect answer...

pls dont let anyone decieve you with unrealistic responses ...

Men can't shoulder all responsibilities of the family and then a woman feels she has just as much freedom to cheat as a man.

It's crystal clear that in every home where a woman is promiscuous and still stays with her husband, it's the woman carrying the responsibilities in the house...

Thus if any woman wants same freedom to cheat as her husband, she shld shoulder all responsibilities and render her husband incapable

AmazonTopaz:

The usylual nonsense they spit out when they fail to be logical. Yes the world is mainly patriarchal but it does not change the fact that humans are becoming nore exposed and wiser. I believe this world is big for everyone and it is our world for now maybe when we move to mars it woukd be entirely for women but for now it is our world and when women stand up for themselves support themselves and stop taking bullshit from men such rubbish will stop regardless of whether na man world or not

Na you sabi.. Women cheat too.
If they don't want us to cheat then they should be the one toasting us, buying us gifts and paying groom price. You can't eat your cake and have it always

anochuko01:
I once heard my uncle say "its the duty of a man to ask, and it's the duty of a woman to accept or decline"

And I say to my female friends "You don't blame a goat for eating your yam, you blame yourself for keeping the yam at the goats reach"

Abi o, who are the men cheating with?

Women reserve the right to accept or decline sexual advances made at them. Why then is society making it seem like the man is at fault when the woman also likes and gives in?

If the resistance increases, the demand will reduce. How? The answer is in raising and becoming an independent woman.

pocohanta spost=83342638:
Just poison him...

Problem solved

Sis,this is strong ooo.

ifyalways:
The society is riddled with:
Lazy and jobless ladies who will accept and live with anything so long as their bills are paid and they are addressed as Mrs.

Failed Parents of the ladies above.

Retired guymen masquerading as Pastors/marriage counsellors who tell wives of cheating husbands to go on 21 days fasting .

Can I hug you over the phone?

MrBrownJay1:


but bro, you know that society has a lot to do with this issue.... a society that brainwash women into accepting whatever rubbish under marriage, THEN that same society sees nothing wrong with men cheating while looking down on women who do... but, the main issue is that we are not answering the right question here: is it right to cheat?! and if it is, then why these cheating people dont say openly to their wives/husband that they are going to get their groove on with someone else?

Believe me, I'm with you on all this. No one actually believes cheating is okay, not even the people who partake in it.

So going by the crux of the topic, what do you suggest as a solution?

emonis88:

Husband killer located, guys run for ur life!!

Any man cheating on his wife can kill her. So, I rather take him out first.

crackhaus:
Over flogged issue.

You women should damn the consequences and begin cheating as well, what is stopping you?
Isn't this the equality you SJWs fight for endlessly? Double standards, the smart-by-half ones call it.

Please start cheating too let everybody rest.

Many wives actually cheat secretly but society makes them better at hiding it.

crackhaus:

Believe me, I'm with you on all this. No one actually believes cheating is okay, not even the people who partake in it.

So going by the crux of the topic, what do you suggest as a solution?

the solution is very simple: A) we need to brainwash women back to SANITY (anyway we can), in order to make them understand that they are NOT worthless in African society, they do have value (other than cooking, cleaning and womb carrying) but until THEY value themselves 1st, nobody will. marriage, at the end of the day, is just a useless piece of paper.

B) any testicles carrying man out there should be proud of who they are, and do what they believe in... OPENLY. thus walking up to his woman and tell her:"i am an African man and its in my DNA to have multiple women... you can either accept me as such, or bust a vein on the matter, but at the end of the day, i will still desire (and go after) other women to sexually satisfy me"

...in that sense, you remove cheating from the equation, and everybody know what time it is. the minute you tell a women that you are going to go after other women as your African rights, thats not cheating any longer.

as for all the other weakling men out there, who call themselves MEN but cant even face their women and tell her exactly what time it is, they are no better that pussycats....loud with the boys, but when facing their women, quiet as a snail.

AmazonTopaz:
Why does society make it seem ok for men to cheat? Why do we lie under the guise of men are polygamous in nature and that it is natural for men to cheat? Men should be held accountable for their irresponsible actions and should not be condoned.

If the tables are turned I bet you that a lot of men will not be able to take in the nonsense they dish out to women because they know that in their subconcious it is wrong.

Why the excuses such as that a man who cheats loves his wife but wants to explore and give stupid reasons as to why men do that I don't understand the logic behind that .

To the men who philander have you for once thought about the women in your lives how they would feel or have you for once sat down to ask yourself if it was you and how you would feel?

Why does society make it okay for men to cheat and chastise women for doing same why? Why condition women into believing that it is okay and normal for a man to cheat on committed partners or spouses.

I don't believe it is okay it kills the self esteem of the woman and it is an insult to her self respect.

How can you conciously disrespect someone who you claim to love and vowed to be faithful to?

If you give the woman disease nkor what about your kids? I don't get it

I blame society for feeding men with that crappy notion that it is okay to behave like an irresponsible dickhead and get away with it.

I also blame women for allowing themselves to be manipulated into thinking that it is okay for a man to cheat on you. It just goes to show how we train our daughters with little self worth into thinking that it is okay to get disrespected by a man and their life begins and ends with men and marriage. If daughters are trained with some level of swlf esteem, love, independence and are boys are thought right they will think twice before cheating and our ladies will not condone such from them.

In a nutshell, we teach our girls to take poo and our boys to dish out poo.

No faithful partner deserves a cheating partner.

Advice your daughters all you want, except she doesn't fall inlove with any guy, cos once she does, your advice flies through the windows with imidiate effect. Women are naturally wired to fall for a man's charm. Even feminists will attest to this!

joe4christ:

Advice your daughters all you want, except she doesn't fall inlove with any guy, cos once she does, your advice flies through the windows with imidiate effect. Women are naturally wired to fall for a man's charm. Even feminists will attest to this!

if you raise your daughters PROPERLY, they wouldnt value a man for his sweet talking words, but instead she will value him for his CHARACTER as a man.

generationz:


Many wives actually cheat secretly but society makes them better at hiding it.

Exactly, so there's no need for complaints from women. Everyone should continue cheating abeg.

The code is "Do Not Get Caught".

crackhaus:

Exactly, so there's no need for complains from women. Everyone should continue cheating abeg.

The code is "Do Not Get Caught".

And if you get caught get ready for whatever comes your way.

Men especially the African ones cheat because most of their women are almost useless to them using them as a (beast of burden) beyond the bed so they don't even know the difference between a wife and the side chick.

emonis88:

And remember it is the woman who most times kill her husband sef when she is cheating. Cus she il want him out the way to marry the new guy

More reason he has to be taken out for another man...life continues.

It is not your business if i cheat or not... it is mine... my life also with my spouse .. i can decide to marry 39 women at once "traditionally"... I have not broken any law.


It is okay to keep a VOW... but if you can't keep keep one woman dont keep any Vow.


Do as many women as you want... it is your life and it is their choice.

Enough of this Self impose doctrines.

MrBrownJay1:


the solution is very simple: A) we need to brainwash women back to SANITY (anyway we can), in order to make them understand that they are NOT worthless in African society, they do have value (other than cooking, cleaning and womb carrying) but until THEY value themselves 1st, nobody will. marriage, at the end of the day, is just a useless piece of paper.

B) any testicles carrying man out there should be proud of who they are, and do what they believe in... OPENLY. thus walking up to his woman and tell her:"i am an African man and its in my DNA to have multiple women... you can either accept me as such, or bust a vein on the matter, but at the end of the day, i will still desire (and go after) other women to sexually satisfy me"

And we are back to the point of my first comment:
Society cannot legislate (control) 'perception'.

But still, good luck to anyone who wants to dedicate their lives to achieving A & B. May the force be with them.

Some of us don't justify the actions of the men
Don't mind those men. They no well
Na ojukojoro dey worry them

MrBrownJay1:
the issue is very simple:
until Nigerian women themselves are gonna rise up as a unit and say NO MORE, then Nigerian men will continue hiding under the pretense that it is natural for an African man to have multiple partner bla bla bla. i solely blame women for this nonsense, because A) the majority are blackmailed into accepting this rubbish thanks to Nigerian society`s view on marriage (aka do or die). so, many of these women accept cheating to keep the peace and stay miserably married (or dating) at all cost. B) isn't it women that are gladly sleeping with these cheating men? some women out there have absolutely no morals/problem with sleeping with a married/taken man, so long as she can "profit" from it. this is due to POVERTY, GREED and IGNORANCE... but funny enough these same women will now complain when they become wifey and hubby is cheating.

last but not least, C) if ANY man thinks it is ok to have multiple partner, then that´s ok but he should be fully honest with his partner and let her know exactly what kind of man he is from the get go, so that she can she decide if she wants to be in this relationship and/or have a few lovers of her own too. sadly, we all know that such philandering state of mind is only accepted in Nigeria when MEN do it, and if a woman does the same, SOCIETY will shame her for it... aka HYPOCRISY at the highest level.

Hmmm
Especially that B

generationz:



And if you get caught get ready for whatever comes your way.

There you go

LesbianBoy:
It's our right to cheat as men. Any man that doesn't cheat is a mumu

With all due respect, you no well sir

That time is now

Ebonygirl1:
A time is coming when more and more women will realize they don't need these men in their lives to feel fulfilled.

Damn girl, why you so mean?

pocohantas:
Just poison him...

Problem solved

Ebonygirl1:
A time is coming when more and more women will realize they don't need these men in their lives to feel fulfilled.

We are waiting for that time o

pocohantas:


Any man cheating on his wife can kill her. So, I rather take him out first.

And y would a man who can catch it hot kill his wife? When he knows he can take a second wife.

what if it doesnt work hun?! wetin we never chop

pocohantas:
Just poison him...

Problem solved

crackhaus:

And we are back to the point of my first comment:
Society cannot legislate (control) 'perception'.

But still, good luck to anyone who wants to dedicate their lives to achieving A & B. May the force be with them.

we all have to dedicate our lives to such important issues because cheating in marriage/dating has a deadly effect on families all over the world (thanks to the deadly diseases that are brought home as" take away" )... furthermore, if you have a daughter, sister, niece, aunt etc who is soon gonna enter the dating (and possibly marriage) world, you have to try to make such world a better place for their sake.

when you are with your friends at the boozer, and one of them is bragging about a new shorty he got, while wifey is unknowingly at home thinking she has a good man, tell this man to shut the fukc up with his cheap aasss BS, and look him straight in his eyes and tell him that if he was indeed a "real man" he wouldnt crawl at the dead of night like a RAT, scared of his woman!

UnknownQueen:


How many guys out there give in to the demands of these girls...

If you check around you now, ull notice the demands of those girls have been put in check in other words, it has reduced drastically, women are now waking up to reality, we are no longer being parasites, symbiotic relationship is the order of the day now for us, except for some few leeches here and there...
Don't worry we are getting there.

Don't say 'we'
Say 'some of us'

AmazonTopaz:

Men get raped and I believe men can be sexually abused.

Back to ur question...
If someone opens ur padlock with any key, will you be happy with that? No

But how do u feel when your own personal key can open any padlock you wana open? Happy abi

That's how it is

Women are padlock and should be open with just a particular key

While men are master key that should open any padlock he wants to open


Final answer

pocohantas:


Any man cheating on his wife can kill her. So, I rather take him out first.

And remember it is the woman who most times kill her husband sef when she is cheating. Cus she il want him out the way to marry the new guy