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Re: Why Do We Justify The Actions Of Philandering Men? by LilMissFavvy(f): 9:48am On Oct 22, 2019 |
Is this an advice or what? Why should any woman worry because of a cheating husband? Even if the man is taking care of the kids/wife, cheating should not be condoned by black women. As far as am concerned, it is better to divorce such a man, and live as a single mother. Like I mentioned before, culture/other vices is what stops the black woman from making such bold steps. However, many African women are gradually waking up.i have always held the opinion that children are the main gains women should look out for if they marry African men, except she sees nothing wrong with his cheating nature, or she's the type that wants to cheat back. unbitchable: |
Re: Why Do We Justify The Actions Of Philandering Men? by LilMissFavvy(f): 9:51am On Oct 22, 2019 |
I disagree with you. You are aware that the reason many women cheat, is to pay back their cheating partners. So if a man is faithful, there is a greater chance for his partner to respect him, and stick to him alone. MNDY: 1 Like |
Re: Why Do We Justify The Actions Of Philandering Men? by Nobody: 10:02am On Oct 22, 2019 |
crackhaus:We are at the moment of truth so we are spilling it out truthfully U know, our men love to brag too much. They brag with everything including sex. How they are tigers in bed, 50 mins, 2 rounds plus mouth action, all join They start off with a fake pace, couldn't maintain as time goes on. Woman will brag to her friends that her guy is machine abi engine. U gat to save face na. Also forgeting that our lifestyle has its toll on men's sexual prowess so instead of your woman telling you face to face( some actually do) that u dont satisfy them again with the pace u set,they look elsewhere. Also, if not for the money which men use to hold majority of the women down, some would have gone without looking back. Some of u have the scariest looking prikks. Some are bend south west and south east Some are so small, pls don't let me start. U see,our women knew all these things and have been managing yet u guys are shoving it on their faces everyday that u are men and can do as you want. Woman wey dey manage small prikk or bent one or 2 seconds prikks? That's why I said women too know how to chop and clean mouth. Your attitudes made women to start using plan b. If not for some cultural and religious reasons, most of these women would have exposed your sorry ass That's why I sometime laugh when these small boys start bragging up and down. When a woman chose a man, she is ready to take in the good and the bad about the man. But after giving birth to your child with torn and stitched pusssy, the thank u she get is that Olympus has fallen or pusssy is too wide. And cheating. I mean, common, so heartless. So women has learnt to perch without flying bro |
Re: Why Do We Justify The Actions Of Philandering Men? by LilMissFavvy(f): 10:09am On Oct 22, 2019 |
They will grow to understand what? Besides don't you think it's immature to hold the opinion that it is right for African men to cheat on their partners? The western world is riddled with what? Your inputs are funny, so you think the black woman is happier in her her marriage with a cheating husband, than her foreign counterparts, who is a free single mother? You need to think again. Don't you think intimacy gadgets are no different from a husband with a public diiick? To me the former is even better, because there wouldn't be any emotional problems to stress a single mother. How many divorced women have regrets or have died after divorce? They are still alive and life goes on, especially if she was able get her kids along with her. Personally I hate cheating, I would not wish to do it to my partner, bit I would hate a cheating husband with disgust. Toks2008: 2 Likes |
Re: Why Do We Justify The Actions Of Philandering Men? by JMCsporo(m): 10:46am On Oct 22, 2019 |
There's no why. Na so e just be. In the end we are who we are. 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: Why Do We Justify The Actions Of Philandering Men? by JMCsporo(m): 11:08am On Oct 22, 2019 |
A man doesn't cheat becos the society makes it ok. A man doesn't cheat becos he hates his wife A man doesn't cheat becos he is irresponsible; He does cos of his irrepressible and controllable desire He does cos he doesn't fear God. I am a man and there are lots of horrible things i could do if I disregard God, if I have no control. If I can't keep my desires in check. |
Re: Why Do We Justify The Actions Of Philandering Men? by MNDY(m): 12:08pm On Oct 22, 2019 |
LilMissFavvy: Stooooory |
Re: Why Do We Justify The Actions Of Philandering Men? by zakkxx: 12:32pm On Oct 22, 2019 |
C me c Wahala who are the men cheating with? Kwat!!! It takes two to tangle. Men are foolish cheater easier to catch but women, can cheat on a man for ten years without a trace. I hail una oo |
Re: Why Do We Justify The Actions Of Philandering Men? by Nobody: 12:44pm On Oct 22, 2019 |
MrBrownJay1: This right here +1000 |
Re: Why Do We Justify The Actions Of Philandering Men? by Nobody: 3:08pm On Oct 22, 2019 |
crackhaus: You said everybody should cheat and let us rest... Will you rest when your lover cheats on you and brings you back diseases and children who aren't yours... Will you rest and find peace? 1 Like |
Re: Why Do We Justify The Actions Of Philandering Men? by bukatyne(f): 3:13pm On Oct 22, 2019 |
ifyalways: @bold: It would have been OK if it was jobless and lazy women who stayed. You would be shocked that some of these wives feed the cheats and their runs. @Topic: the more you look, the less you see. The wives are fine with it, what should we do? 1 Like |
Re: Why Do We Justify The Actions Of Philandering Men? by bukatyne(f): 3:31pm On Oct 22, 2019 |
crackhaus: You would be shocked. Someone has asked me if I went to hell and saw people there for adultery. Well, I Para and mellowed. 1. He is an older relative with about 13yrs and I went to visit him 2. His wife was not supporting me. I look critically at couples whose husbands cheat with impunity and 1. The wives are deep down convinced all men cheat and they did not look out for faithfulness as a quality 2. The husbands know that the wives would do nothing if they cheat and they carry go. 3. They met in very strange circumstances aka clubs, side chics upgraded to main etc. The couple above were on and off fvckmates and a gentleman close to the husband was dying for the babe for years and would have done all he could to make her happy. 4. They believe all men cheat and grooved wella in school. I know how many of my course mates 'pitied' me that I wasted my youth and stuck to my husband. To them, I ought to have grooved aka slept with different guys, partied etc. because after marriage was prison. 5. Some of the wives have stopped sleeping with their husbands (alpha bleeps, beta bucks) and are fine with them sorting themselves outside. 6. Some wives see their husbands as saving them from the clutches of eternal spinsterhood and so any price is fine. I know a man who said his wife would take almost any shit from him including leave her job if he asks after initial gra gra. He then looked us in the eye and told us that if he cheated, he would be lucky to leave the marriage alive. Cc: AmazonTopaz 2 Likes |
Re: Why Do We Justify The Actions Of Philandering Men? by AmazonTopaz(f): 3:38pm On Oct 22, 2019 |
Hmmm, insightful. Don't mind those men on this thread that are trying to force women into believing that men cheating is okay and that women must accept that silly reality. Some men cheat because they know they will get away with it if not they would think twice. You just expantiated that point. Thanks for your contribution. bukatyne: |
Re: Why Do We Justify The Actions Of Philandering Men? by bukatyne(f): 3:38pm On Oct 22, 2019 |
MrBrownJay1: @1st paragraph. I share your passion however, the value is lost on the very women you are trying to fight for. There is someone still asking us how to fight for her man. They are not married and he practically has another babe. |
Re: Why Do We Justify The Actions Of Philandering Men? by bukatyne(f): 3:45pm On Oct 22, 2019 |
Acidosis: Hahahaha You people will not kill me! |
Re: Why Do We Justify The Actions Of Philandering Men? by bukatyne(f): 3:46pm On Oct 22, 2019 |
Jaggz07: Please leave the Bible out of it. |
Re: Why Do We Justify The Actions Of Philandering Men? by Nobody: 3:52pm On Oct 22, 2019 |
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Re: Why Do We Justify The Actions Of Philandering Men? by bukatyne(f): 3:54pm On Oct 22, 2019 |
sassysure: You read things and one is amazed. A research done some years back said Nigerian women in their 50s are the major customers of dildos. Whatever makes anyone satisfied. |
Re: Why Do We Justify The Actions Of Philandering Men? by bukatyne(f): 4:00pm On Oct 22, 2019 |
AmazonTopaz: My dear, NO man can force you to accept anything. With all the campaigns and surulere stories, my sisters are still looking for the elusive rich men to marry. If men can't influence their taste in wealth, why should they influence their test in faithfulness? |
Re: Why Do We Justify The Actions Of Philandering Men? by crackhaus: 5:19pm On Oct 22, 2019 |
bukatyne:Reading your comments was one of the things I missed during my short time away At least you agree the situation is at a deadlock when women themselves are willing participants in the game Even most of your sisters on this thread raising dust have been (or will be) counted among the statistics of women that condone their cheating husbands, noise sampling is really just the modus operandi on this forum. No be Nigerian women again? Like I said before, women should also start cheating too and brag about it as well. Let the game be fair, at least they will stop crying. Nigerian men are not ready to stop anytime soon when puccy as a commodity is readily available. 4 Likes |
Re: Why Do We Justify The Actions Of Philandering Men? by DannyAsa: 5:45pm On Oct 22, 2019 |
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Re: Why Do We Justify The Actions Of Philandering Men? by crackhaus: 5:49pm On Oct 22, 2019 |
sassysure:So let everyone cheat and enyoy (in Akwa-Ibom tongue) |
Re: Why Do We Justify The Actions Of Philandering Men? by crackhaus: 5:52pm On Oct 22, 2019 |
Guest007:Honeybee, this ain't something I ever worry myself about. It's certainly not a determinant of my rest and peace. |
Re: Why Do We Justify The Actions Of Philandering Men? by Nobody: 6:35pm On Oct 22, 2019 |
crackhaus:Gbam Don't spit fire o |
Re: Why Do We Justify The Actions Of Philandering Men? by crackhaus: 6:42pm On Oct 22, 2019 |
sassysure:Lol... You have this unyielding resolve that it bothers me, I wonder why. |
Re: Why Do We Justify The Actions Of Philandering Men? by Nobody: 7:20pm On Oct 22, 2019 |
crackhaus: Then stop running your mouth and advocating it for others... If you don't want it then others don't need it... 1 Like |
Re: Why Do We Justify The Actions Of Philandering Men? by Nobody: 7:50pm On Oct 22, 2019 |
crackhaus:Cos u are a man It's natural. The way labour bothers women. Deal |
Re: Why Do We Justify The Actions Of Philandering Men? by MrBrownJay1(m): 8:44pm On Oct 22, 2019 |
Hipsofagoddess: EDUCATE yourself on your holy book, so we dont have to do it for you: there certainly wasnt polygamy openly allowed in biblical times but there was MANY instances of highly respected men of that holy book having countless of concubines, baby mamas and mistresses.... just to name a few: King Solomon, King David, Abraham.... the only one that was remotely viewed as a sinner was when one of them went for a "married" woman... but as for any of them openly bedding multiple women and having children with women that were NOT their wives, it was NEVER viewed as a sin by that same holy book. |
Re: Why Do We Justify The Actions Of Philandering Men? by crackhaus: 8:48pm On Oct 22, 2019 |
Guest007:You're all over the place Layla and may just have to read that comment again to understand it Where did I say I don't want it, and what am I advocating? You girls don't like double standards regarding infidelity, and it is not stopping anytime soon. So saying you all should level up and play the game also, upsets you? Shouldn't you be happy? "What I don't worry myself about" in layman term means no woman is smart enough to pass another man's child as mine... you can take this to the bank. |
Re: Why Do We Justify The Actions Of Philandering Men? by crackhaus: 9:05pm On Oct 22, 2019 |
sassysure:It does not bother me, you have to believe me. When you know exactly where you stand with the person you're with, surprises can't be sprung on you because you're always prepared. This is how I live. 2 Likes |
Re: Why Do We Justify The Actions Of Philandering Men? by Nobody: 9:07pm On Oct 22, 2019 |
MrBrownJay1: It was never viewed as a sin? You know, I like to give people my view on things. But you, I won't even waste my time because your brain is incapable of thinking. You're not a thinker, and you sound pathetic. |
Re: Why Do We Justify The Actions Of Philandering Men? by MrBrownJay1(m): 9:15pm On Oct 22, 2019 |
Hipsofagoddess: yes you better be quiet, as your holy book is a mountain of contradicting BS... these respected men had countless of mistresses, baby mamas and concubines (some even to the number of 700) and were NEVER punished for it (or viewed as sinner) by that holy book, so long as the babes were unmarried. [img]https://media1./images/8733f405a485f62c17bb556500037c43/tenor.gif[/img] |
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