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Re: Why Do We Justify The Actions Of Philandering Men? by Nobody: 1:45am On Oct 22, 2019 |
Jaggz07: Was there polygamy in the time of Jesus? Did Isaac marry two wives? Did Abraham marry two wives? Israel married two by mistake and he paid the price as he could not control his children. They ended up killing people at will and even sold their brother to slavery. David did it, and his son ended up sleeping with his wives on the rooftop. Solomon did polygamy, and gave birth to an idiot that began the destruction of his empire. When God created Adam, he created only one woman for him which is Eve. If God made men to be polygamous, he would have given Adam two women. Jesus was so much against adultery that he made it the sole reason to approve divorce. 1 Like |
Re: Why Do We Justify The Actions Of Philandering Men? by Nobody: 1:50am On Oct 22, 2019 |
HazzanTazzan: The way you guys talk I wonder if you ever step out of your house. |
Re: Why Do We Justify The Actions Of Philandering Men? by Nobody: 2:53am On Oct 22, 2019 |
crackhaus:It's painful, isn't it? See as your blood pressure don rise I saw one publication one time that said Nigerian women carry first position for cheating So let's continue cheating U hardly catch them, remember? So, how will.u know? Child may resemble mother. DNA? Wish you luck |
Re: Why Do We Justify The Actions Of Philandering Men? by LilMissFavvy(f): 3:00am On Oct 22, 2019 |
The men are rushing in to vindicate themselves with claims that men are polygamous in nature, infact even impotent men, sexually weak men, etc, are all inclusive according to them.......pathetic. How come only African/Nigerian men have this mindset? The African man in his selfishness shoved women to the background many centuries ago, enacted oppressive laws called CULTURES all with the aim of oppressing, afflicting and dominating the female gender. So the root cause of the matter lies solely on the African cultures. Apart from culture, The average Nigerian woman finds it difficult to divorce a cheating husband for fear of how her kids would cope, unlike her foreign counterparts who have laws to protect her/kids if she takes such actions. Unfortunately, men's polygamous nature has pushed some sincere women to join in playing dirty games, it doesn't look like things would get better, but can only get worse. |
Re: Why Do We Justify The Actions Of Philandering Men? by MNDY(m): 3:21am On Oct 22, 2019 |
1Sharon: My point is, whether in marriage or not, the society always accuses the man while making the woman the victim, even in cases where the woman is meant to be accused. Not only husbands cheat. I hope you are not trying to say women respect marriage vows than men.....because most married women still want that spark they had before the marriage and want to be desired by others (as it was) which leads to other things (especially as beauty fades too). Playing the victim has always been with women even now that they boldly go for a man without any move made by the man first. You may want to blame men for their higher libido for sex but surveys have shown that women enjoy sex more. |
Re: Why Do We Justify The Actions Of Philandering Men? by Nobody: 3:22am On Oct 22, 2019 |
Draught:U know, this post made me laugh so hard It seems u are still a teen. Hormones are still strong and u feel on top of the world Reality starts when in a few yrs( they no dey even reach 30yrs again), u that used too go second round will be struggling to finish round one with minimal time frame When u see the look on your woman's face, u rush out to look for shekpe, buruntashi, alcohol, viagra,name them to save face I am yet to read women not liking sex or taking drugs in naija because she has low sex energy. Here, there are so many complaint from boys, not men over their inability to sustain it, not to talk of satisfy their women. Na u dey run up and down to satisfy her. All she has to do is spread her legs, she may be charting on her phone while u are sweating profusely to maintain your pride. As she is, she can take 5 men in a day and that doesn't remove any sweat from her. Una never see anything Cry cry babies |
Re: Why Do We Justify The Actions Of Philandering Men? by MNDY(m): 3:28am On Oct 22, 2019 |
LilMissFavvy: Women always playing the victim. You've been wired that way naturally. Not only husbands cheat. Wives also still want that spark they had before marriage and want to be desired by men as it was, leading them to even cheat more. |
Re: Why Do We Justify The Actions Of Philandering Men? by Nobody: 3:34am On Oct 22, 2019 |
Re: Why Do We Justify The Actions Of Philandering Men? by Nobody: 3:39am On Oct 22, 2019 |
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Re: Why Do We Justify The Actions Of Philandering Men? by 1Sharon(f): 5:41am On Oct 22, 2019 |
MNDY: Yes not only married men cheat but this topic isn't about that |
Re: Why Do We Justify The Actions Of Philandering Men? by MNDY(m): 6:34am On Oct 22, 2019 |
1Sharon: The topic is useless and it is what I was indirectly saying in my comment among other things. The OP belongs to those who support women playing the victim, an avenue for wrongdoings. |
Re: Why Do We Justify The Actions Of Philandering Men? by AmazonTopaz(f): 6:34am On Oct 22, 2019 |
Toks2008:Pity yourself first how you choose to be irresponsible with your third leg is your business. What reality? Nah we experience different things so oir reality cannot be the same there are faithful and cheating men. Not all men cheat soTake your poo along with you. I don't need it the men sleep with themselves abi? Infidelity happens to who chooses to take poo not me. If I decide I want a faithful partner you have nothing to change that narrative as far as I am concerned. Mtcheww. Just keep your nonsense to yourself control your dick before they cut it for you. |
Re: Why Do We Justify The Actions Of Philandering Men? by AmazonTopaz(f): 6:38am On Oct 22, 2019 |
unbitchable:Nah you sleep on your stupidity and don't take it to my world |
Re: Why Do We Justify The Actions Of Philandering Men? by crackhaus: 6:41am On Oct 22, 2019 |
sassysure:It's certainly painful for those men who were stupid enough not to have known they were raising another man's child, me I'm good. As for my blood pressure, lol. My blood pressure cannot rise on top woman matter, you're yet to know me anyway so it's fine. But believe me when I tell you, I'm not one who can lose good sleep over the possibility of my wife cheating on me simply because of my personality. I already have my checks & balances, very few things can escape my notice, that's just me...no be mouth I dey make. So yes, you all should continue cheating as much you can. It just means more "married, matured, no strings attached" puccy to go round for those niggas into that sort of thing. 4 Likes |
Re: Why Do We Justify The Actions Of Philandering Men? by AmazonTopaz(f): 6:43am On Oct 22, 2019 |
Guest007:Same here thank you |
Re: Why Do We Justify The Actions Of Philandering Men? by Toks2008(m): 6:56am On Oct 22, 2019 |
AmazonTopaz: I need to apologize to you and every other truly mature man and woman reading this for ever wasting my time, energy and intellect to ever engage you in this pendulous arguement. Obviously you are either a teenager,immature or suffering from delusion. And if you have ever slept with more than a man in your life or if you are unmarried and no more a virgin then you are the most foolish human on earth to ever expect faithfulness from any man. I rest my case... |
Re: Why Do We Justify The Actions Of Philandering Men? by AmazonTopaz(f): 6:58am On Oct 22, 2019 |
Toks2008:I apologise too for engaging with a myopic entity. Take the hint and move on. |
Re: Why Do We Justify The Actions Of Philandering Men? by crackhaus: 6:59am On Oct 22, 2019 |
sassysure:This was funny to read because it is something I have personally had to discuss with some of my closest friends regarding the silliness of men who want to move heaven & earth to satisfy a woman in bed We usually sit and make fun of a certain friend of ours constantly, because sex to him is like a do or die affair. Old boy wey no gree get sense. Like I always tell any G who cares to listen - do what you can and go to sleep, that shit is not your calling in life. If one round is all your strength can manage, bros go sleep. You can't kill a woman with sex o, instead you will die well on top of her. People wey dey bleed every month and can bring out a baby with head the size of a FIFA ball from down there na you wan kill? With what dîck? Fvcking a woman multiple rounds and making her squirt multiple times is NOT what stops women from cheating. You sef be honest, which woman will see a man who makes her puccy wet & throb with excitement and she will start thinking of the last good sex she had where she was vibrating and squirting uncontrollably? All she will be thinking then and there is the feeling of this untested man inside her, nothing else. It does not matter whether her husband at home is the tornado. 4 Likes |
Re: Why Do We Justify The Actions Of Philandering Men? by bluefilm: 7:01am On Oct 22, 2019 |
crackhaus: I taya. As if the men are cheating with themselves and not with their fellow women. While lambasting men for philandering, also remember to lambast the women who are willingly conspiring with the men. In fact, tell these women to outrightly reject the advances of those philandering men, make we see how market go be. Nonsense. |
Re: Why Do We Justify The Actions Of Philandering Men? by unbitchable(m): 7:06am On Oct 22, 2019 |
AmazonTopaz:It's a man's world, you can't be wiser than nature, nature has given us the rights to women, to you and your womenfolks as an heritage as much as we desire at a given time. You'd better don't kill yourself. |
Re: Why Do We Justify The Actions Of Philandering Men? by crackhaus: 7:15am On Oct 22, 2019 |
bluefilm:You want them to lose their major sources of disposable income? 3 Likes |
Re: Why Do We Justify The Actions Of Philandering Men? by crackhaus: 7:16am On Oct 22, 2019 |
Guest007:You want me to stop? |
Re: Why Do We Justify The Actions Of Philandering Men? by AmazonTopaz(f): 7:17am On Oct 22, 2019 |
unbitchable:There is nothing natural about stupidity. Stop selling us that narrative that it is a blah blah world. You must be living in the stone age don't worry wake up and smell the coffee l know I am exchanging worlds with a myopic person but I will manage Nah you better maintain your dick so that it doesn't get cut off. |
Re: Why Do We Justify The Actions Of Philandering Men? by crackhaus: 7:17am On Oct 22, 2019 |
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Re: Why Do We Justify The Actions Of Philandering Men? by unbitchable(m): 7:30am On Oct 22, 2019 |
LilMissFavvy:You want to kill yourself because some woman wants to lick from the soup you enjoy. Y'all are a bunch of very pathetic selfish beings. Face your kids and be humble as long as the man is taking care of you. You dig? |
Re: Why Do We Justify The Actions Of Philandering Men? by unbitchable(m): 7:40am On Oct 22, 2019 |
AmazonTopaz:The D is never in short supply, it will surely go round. You can Never stop us the women we are entitled to or how we decide to choose from the bunch, that's our choice to make. |
Re: Why Do We Justify The Actions Of Philandering Men? by bluefilm: 7:51am On Oct 22, 2019 |
crackhaus: So why are they complaining na? |
Re: Why Do We Justify The Actions Of Philandering Men? by crackhaus: 7:52am On Oct 22, 2019 |
bluefilm:Ask dem oo my brother. 2 Likes |
Re: Why Do We Justify The Actions Of Philandering Men? by lalopeto: 7:53am On Oct 22, 2019 |
''NO FAITHFUL PARTNER DESERVES A CHEATING PARTNER'' Now how do you explain a situation whereby the wife constantly deny her husband sex? Do you think she is faithful and committed to her marriage vows? 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: Why Do We Justify The Actions Of Philandering Men? by Toks2008(m): 7:54am On Oct 22, 2019 |
unbitchable: Bro please let this matter die. Don't waste your energy trying to talk sense into kids...they will grow to understand. The western world they are talking about is riddled with single mothers who are frustrated and lonely with many having intimacy gadgets as husbands. Having a faithful guy is not impossible but extremely difficult hence trying your lick to find one will be the most foolish thing any lady will ever imagine. Laslas they will choose to either be a single mum and be intimacy gadget in the hands of ever willing Bleep boys, remain in solitude and take solace in sex gadgets or just remain miserable and lonely till their old age. The irony is that many of these ladies clamouring for a faithful man are so sexually loosed and some of them can't even remember their body count. Only a lady who got married as a virgin deserves a faithful man. Bunch of silly immature ladies. 1 Like |
Re: Why Do We Justify The Actions Of Philandering Men? by unbitchable(m): 8:24am On Oct 22, 2019 |
Toks2008:Right on point. Sex gadgets are in crazy demands yet men ain't complaining |
Re: Why Do We Justify The Actions Of Philandering Men? by HazzanTazzan(m): 8:52am On Oct 22, 2019 |
Hipsofagoddess: Ode... That's the simple truth |
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