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Re: Why Do We Justify The Actions Of Philandering Men? by Nobody: 1:45am On Oct 22, 2019
Jaggz07:
Men and women are not equal,If u people like kill urself till tomorrow it's never going to change. All religions that I'm aware of rates d man ahead of the woman and not as equals. There was polygamy in d bible,Islam supports it so where una come dey get una defense from? That's why they don't stay in marriages anymore,if is to pay bills now they will be shouting are u not the man

Was there polygamy in the time of Jesus? Did Isaac marry two wives? Did Abraham marry two wives?

Israel married two by mistake and he paid the price as he could not control his children. They ended up killing people at will and even sold their brother to slavery.

David did it, and his son ended up sleeping with his wives on the rooftop. Solomon did polygamy, and gave birth to an idiot that began the destruction of his empire.

When God created Adam, he created only one woman for him which is Eve. If God made men to be polygamous, he would have given Adam two women. Jesus was so much against adultery that he made it the sole reason to approve divorce.

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Re: Why Do We Justify The Actions Of Philandering Men? by Nobody: 1:50am On Oct 22, 2019
HazzanTazzan:


@amazontopaz ... this is the perfect answer...

pls dont let anyone decieve you with unrealistic responses ...

Men can't shoulder all responsibilities of the family and then a woman feels she has just as much freedom to cheat as a man.

It's crystal clear that in every home where a woman is promiscuous and still stays with her husband, it's the woman carrying the responsibilities in the house...

Thus if any woman wants same freedom to cheat as her husband, she shld shoulder all responsibilities and render her husband incapable

The way you guys talk I wonder if you ever step out of your house.
Re: Why Do We Justify The Actions Of Philandering Men? by Nobody: 2:53am On Oct 22, 2019
crackhaus:

No woman on earth, as in NONE, can pass another man's child as mine...no be mouth I dey make.

But like I noted before, everyone should go ahead with their cheating. Just don't get caught because if you do, anything wey you see, you carry. cheesy
It's painful, isn't it?
See as your blood pressure don rise cheesy

I saw one publication one time that said Nigerian women carry first position for cheating grin

So let's continue cheating kiss

U hardly catch them, remember?
So, how will.u know?
Child may resemble mother.
DNA? Wish you luck cheesy kiss
Re: Why Do We Justify The Actions Of Philandering Men? by LilMissFavvy(f): 3:00am On Oct 22, 2019
The men are rushing in to vindicate themselves with claims that men are polygamous in nature, infact even impotent men, sexually weak men, etc, are all inclusive according to them.......pathetic. How come only African/Nigerian men have this mindset?

The African man in his selfishness shoved women to the background many centuries ago, enacted oppressive laws called CULTURES all with the aim of oppressing, afflicting and dominating the female gender. So the root cause of the matter lies solely on the African cultures.


Apart from culture, The average Nigerian woman finds it difficult to divorce a cheating husband for fear of how her kids would cope, unlike her foreign counterparts who have laws to protect her/kids if she takes such actions.

Unfortunately, men's polygamous nature has pushed some sincere women to join in playing dirty games, it doesn't look like things would get better, but can only get worse.
Re: Why Do We Justify The Actions Of Philandering Men? by MNDY(m): 3:21am On Oct 22, 2019
1Sharon:


You as a married man is supposed to know better.

Your wife made the marriage vows with you not the other lady.

My point is, whether in marriage or not, the society always accuses the man while making the woman the victim, even in cases where the woman is meant to be accused. Not only husbands cheat.

I hope you are not trying to say women respect marriage vows than men.....because most married women still want that spark they had before the marriage and want to be desired by others (as it was) which leads to other things (especially as beauty fades too).

Playing the victim has always been with women even now that they boldly go for a man without any move made by the man first. You may want to blame men for their higher libido for sex but surveys have shown that women enjoy sex more.
Re: Why Do We Justify The Actions Of Philandering Men? by Nobody: 3:22am On Oct 22, 2019
Draught:
Men have at least 8 times more testosterone levels than women..Need I say more


Deal with it or fight it!
U know, this post made me laugh so hard cheesy

It seems u are still a teen.
Hormones are still strong and u feel on top of the world cheesy
Reality starts when in a few yrs( they no dey even reach 30yrs again), u that used too go second round will be struggling to finish round one with minimal time frame cheesy

When u see the look on your woman's face, u rush out to look for shekpe, buruntashi, alcohol, viagra,name them to save face grin
I am yet to read women not liking sex or taking drugs in naija because she has low sex energy. Here, there are so many complaint from boys, not men over their inability to sustain it, not to talk of satisfy their women.
Na u dey run up and down to satisfy her. All she has to do is spread her legs, she may be charting on her phone while u are sweating profusely to maintain your pride.
As she is, she can take 5 men in a day and that doesn't remove any sweat from her.

Una never see anything cheesy
Cry cry babies cheesy
Re: Why Do We Justify The Actions Of Philandering Men? by MNDY(m): 3:28am On Oct 22, 2019
LilMissFavvy:
The men are rushing in to vindicate themselves with claims that men are polygamous in nature, infact even impotent men, sexually weak men, etc, are all inclusive according to them.......pathetic. How come only African/Nigerian men have this mindset?

The African man in his selfishness shoved women to the background many centuries ago, enacted oppressive laws called CULTURES all with the aim of oppressing, afflicting and dominating the female gender. So the root cause of the matter lies solely on the African cultures.


Apart from culture, The average Nigerian woman finds it difficult to divorce a cheating husband for fear of how her kids would cope, unlike her foreign counterparts who have laws to protect her/kids if she takes such actions.

Unfortunately, men's polygamous nature has pushed some sincere women to join in playing dirty games, it doesn't look like things would get better, but can only get worse.

Women always playing the victim. You've been wired that way naturally. Not only husbands cheat. Wives also still want that spark they had before marriage and want to be desired by men as it was, leading them to even cheat more.
Re: Why Do We Justify The Actions Of Philandering Men? by Nobody: 3:34am On Oct 22, 2019
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Re: Why Do We Justify The Actions Of Philandering Men? by Nobody: 3:39am On Oct 22, 2019

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Re: Why Do We Justify The Actions Of Philandering Men? by 1Sharon(f): 5:41am On Oct 22, 2019
MNDY:


My point is, whether in marriage or not, the society always accuses the man while making the woman the victim, even in cases where the woman is meant to be accused. Not only husbands cheat.

I hope you are not trying to say women respect marriage vows than men.....because most married women still want that spark they had before the marriage and want to be desired by others (as it was) which leads to other things (especially as beauty fades too).

Playing the victim has always been with women even now that they boldly go for a man without any move made by the man first. You may want to blame men for their higher libido for sex but surveys have shown that women enjoy sex more.

Yes not only married men cheat but this topic isn't about that
Re: Why Do We Justify The Actions Of Philandering Men? by MNDY(m): 6:34am On Oct 22, 2019
1Sharon:


Yes not only married men cheat but this topic isn't about that

The topic is useless and it is what I was indirectly saying in my comment among other things.

The OP belongs to those who support women playing the victim, an avenue for wrongdoings.
Re: Why Do We Justify The Actions Of Philandering Men? by AmazonTopaz(f): 6:34am On Oct 22, 2019
Toks2008:


I pity you.

I dey tell you truth you dey attack me
..is this about me or the reality?

No level of beauty can stop a man who wants to cheat from.ding so. My advise for you is to remain single if you know you don't have the nerves to withstand infidelity.

A word is enough for the reasonable. I will stop here so believe whatever you like if it will make you sleep well at night.
Pity yourself first how you choose to be irresponsible with your third leg is your business. What reality? Nah we experience different things so oir reality cannot be the same there are faithful and cheating men. Not all men cheat soTake your poo along with you. I don't need it the men sleep with themselves abi? Infidelity happens to who chooses to take poo not me. If I decide I want a faithful partner you have nothing to change that narrative as far as I am concerned.
Mtcheww. Just keep your nonsense to yourself control your dick before they cut it for you.
Re: Why Do We Justify The Actions Of Philandering Men? by AmazonTopaz(f): 6:38am On Oct 22, 2019
unbitchable:

That's your own problem. Come and hold our D if you can. Like i told you face your kids and allow man enjoy nature.
sleep on that.
Nah you sleep on your stupidity and don't take it to my world
Re: Why Do We Justify The Actions Of Philandering Men? by crackhaus: 6:41am On Oct 22, 2019
sassysure:

It's painful, isn't it?
See as your blood pressure don rise cheesy

I saw one publication one time that said Nigerian women carry first position for cheating grin

So let's continue cheating kiss

U hardly catch them, remember?
So, how will.u know?
Child may resemble mother.
DNA? Wish you luck cheesy kiss
It's certainly painful for those men who were stupid enough not to have known they were raising another man's child, me I'm good. cheesy
As for my blood pressure, lol. My blood pressure cannot rise on top woman matter, you're yet to know me anyway so it's fine.

But believe me when I tell you, I'm not one who can lose good sleep over the possibility of my wife cheating on me simply because of my personality. I already have my checks & balances, very few things can escape my notice, that's just me...no be mouth I dey make.

So yes, you all should continue cheating as much you can. It just means more "married, matured, no strings attached" puccy to go round for those niggas into that sort of thing. grin

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Re: Why Do We Justify The Actions Of Philandering Men? by AmazonTopaz(f): 6:43am On Oct 22, 2019
Guest007:


I don't know lil sis... kiss

You are the hope and the dream that will change this narrative kiss kiss kiss


Thank you for being you wink
Same here thank you kiss kiss kiss
Re: Why Do We Justify The Actions Of Philandering Men? by Toks2008(m): 6:56am On Oct 22, 2019
AmazonTopaz:
Pity yourself first how you choose to be irresponsible with your third leg is your business. What reality? Nah we experience different things so oir reality cannot be the same there are faithful and cheating men. Not all men cheat soTake your poo along with you. I don't need it the men sleep with themselves abi? Infidelity happens to who chooses to take poo not me. If I decide I want a faithful partner you have nothing to change that narrative as far as I am concerned.
Mtcheww. Just keep your nonsense to yourself control your dick before they cut it for you.

I need to apologize to you and every other truly mature man and woman reading this for ever wasting my time, energy and intellect to ever engage you in this pendulous arguement.

Obviously you are either a teenager,immature or suffering from delusion.

And if you have ever slept with more than a man in your life or if you are unmarried and no more a virgin then you are the most foolish human on earth to ever expect faithfulness from any man.

I rest my case...
Re: Why Do We Justify The Actions Of Philandering Men? by AmazonTopaz(f): 6:58am On Oct 22, 2019
Toks2008:


I need to apologize to you and every other truly mature man and woman reading this for ever wasting my time, energy and intellect to ever engage you in this pendulous arguement.

Obviously you are either a teenager,immature or suffering from delusion.

I rest my case...
I apologise too for engaging with a myopic entity. Take the hint and move on.
Re: Why Do We Justify The Actions Of Philandering Men? by crackhaus: 6:59am On Oct 22, 2019
sassysure:

U know, this post made me laugh so hard cheesy

It seems u are still a teen.
Hormones are still strong and u feel on top of the world cheesy
Reality starts when in a few yrs( they no dey even reach 30yrs again), u that used too go second round will be struggling to finish round one with minimal time frame cheesy

When u see the look on your woman's face, u rush out to look for shekpe, buruntashi, alcohol, viagra,name them to save face grin
I am yet to read women not liking sex or taking drugs in naija because she has low sex energy. Here, there are so many complaint from boys, not men over their inability to sustain it, not to talk of satisfy their women.
Na u dey run up and down to satisfy her. All she has to do is spread her legs, she may be charting on her phone while u are sweating profusely to maintain your pride.
As she is, she can take 5 men in a day and that doesn't remove any sweat from her.


Una never see anything cheesy
Cry cry babies cheesy

This was funny to read because it is something I have personally had to discuss with some of my closest friends regarding the silliness of men who want to move heaven & earth to satisfy a woman in bed cheesy
We usually sit and make fun of a certain friend of ours constantly, because sex to him is like a do or die affair. Old boy wey no gree get sense. grin

Like I always tell any G who cares to listen - do what you can and go to sleep, that shit is not your calling in life. If one round is all your strength can manage, bros go sleep. You can't kill a woman with sex o, instead you will die well on top of her. People wey dey bleed every month and can bring out a baby with head the size of a FIFA ball from down there na you wan kill? With what dîck? grin
Fvcking a woman multiple rounds and making her squirt multiple times is NOT what stops women from cheating. cheesy

You sef be honest, which woman will see a man who makes her puccy wet & throb with excitement and she will start thinking of the last good sex she had where she was vibrating and squirting uncontrollably? cheesy
All she will be thinking then and there is the feeling of this untested man inside her, nothing else. It does not matter whether her husband at home is the tornado.

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Re: Why Do We Justify The Actions Of Philandering Men? by bluefilm: 7:01am On Oct 22, 2019
crackhaus:
Over flogged issue.

You women should damn the consequences and begin cheating as well, what is stopping you?
Isn't this the equality you SJWs fight for endlessly? Double standards, the smart-by-half ones call it.

Please start cheating too let everybody rest.

I taya.

As if the men are cheating with themselves and not with their fellow women.

While lambasting men for philandering, also remember to lambast the women who are willingly conspiring with the men.

In fact, tell these women to outrightly reject the advances of those philandering men, make we see how market go be.

Nonsense. angry
Re: Why Do We Justify The Actions Of Philandering Men? by unbitchable(m): 7:06am On Oct 22, 2019
AmazonTopaz:

Nah you sleep on your stupidity and don't take it to my world
It's a man's world, you can't be wiser than nature, nature has given us the rights to women, to you and your womenfolks as an heritage as much as we desire at a given time. You'd better don't kill yourself.
Re: Why Do We Justify The Actions Of Philandering Men? by crackhaus: 7:15am On Oct 22, 2019
bluefilm:


I taya.

As if the men are cheating with themselves and not with their fellow women.

While lambasting men for philandering, also remember to lambast the women who are willingly conspiring with the men.

In fact, tell these women to outrightly reject the advances of those philandering men, make we see how market go be.

Nonsense. angry
You want them to lose their major sources of disposable income?

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Re: Why Do We Justify The Actions Of Philandering Men? by crackhaus: 7:16am On Oct 22, 2019
Guest007:


Will you rest? undecided
You want me to stop?
Re: Why Do We Justify The Actions Of Philandering Men? by AmazonTopaz(f): 7:17am On Oct 22, 2019
unbitchable:

It's a man's world, you can't be wiser than nature, nature has given us the rights to women, to you and your womenfolks as an heritage as much as we desire at a given time. You'd better don't kill yourself.
There is nothing natural about stupidity. Stop selling us that narrative that it is a blah blah world. You must be living in the stone age don't worry wake up and smell the coffee l know I am exchanging worlds with a myopic person but I will manage undecided
Nah you better maintain your dick so that it doesn't get cut off.
Re: Why Do We Justify The Actions Of Philandering Men? by crackhaus: 7:17am On Oct 22, 2019
King44:
they are always looking for excuses to cheat

one of the excuse is this thread

plus when men cheat they cheat for fun
when women cheat they cheat with affection
and in most cases becomes a threat to their husband existence

make I run for my dear life before them break bottle for my head
cheesy
Re: Why Do We Justify The Actions Of Philandering Men? by unbitchable(m): 7:30am On Oct 22, 2019
LilMissFavvy:
The men are rushing in to vindicate themselves with claims that men are polygamous in nature, infact even impotent men, sexually weak men, etc, are all inclusive according to them....pathetic. How come only African/Nigerian men have this mindset?
The African man in his selfishness shoved. So the root cause of the matter lies solely on the African cultures.
Apart from culture, The average Nigerian woman finds it difficult to divorce a cheating husband for fear of how her kids would cope, unlike her foreign counterparts who have laws to protect her/kids if she takes such actions. Unfortunately, men's polygamous nature has pushed some sincere women to join in playing dirty games, it doesn't look like things would get better, but can only get worse.
You want to kill yourself because some woman wants to lick from the soup you enjoy. Y'all are a bunch of very pathetic selfish beings. Face your kids and be humble as long as the man is taking care of you. You dig?
Re: Why Do We Justify The Actions Of Philandering Men? by unbitchable(m): 7:40am On Oct 22, 2019
AmazonTopaz:

There is nothing natural about stupidity. Stop selling us that narrative that it is a blah blah world. You must be living in the stone age don't worry wake up and smell the coffee l know I am exchanging worlds with a myopic person but I will manage undecided
Nah you better maintain your dick so that it doesn't get cut off.
The D is never in short supply, it will surely go round. You can Never stop us the women we are entitled to or how we decide to choose from the bunch, that's our choice to make.
Re: Why Do We Justify The Actions Of Philandering Men? by bluefilm: 7:51am On Oct 22, 2019
crackhaus:

You want them to lose their major sources of disposable income?

So why are they complaining na?
Re: Why Do We Justify The Actions Of Philandering Men? by crackhaus: 7:52am On Oct 22, 2019
bluefilm:


So why are they complaining na?

Ask dem oo my brother.

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Re: Why Do We Justify The Actions Of Philandering Men? by lalopeto: 7:53am On Oct 22, 2019
''NO FAITHFUL PARTNER DESERVES A CHEATING PARTNER'' Now how do you explain a situation whereby the wife constantly deny her husband sex? Do you think she is faithful and committed to her marriage vows?

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Re: Why Do We Justify The Actions Of Philandering Men? by Toks2008(m): 7:54am On Oct 22, 2019
unbitchable:

You want to kill yourself because some woman wants to lick from the soup you enjoy. Y'all are a bunch of very pathetic selfish beings. Face your kids and be humble as long as the man is taking care of you. You dig

Bro please let this matter die. Don't waste your energy trying to talk sense into kids...they will grow to understand.

The western world they are talking about is riddled with single mothers who are frustrated and lonely with many having intimacy gadgets as husbands.

Having a faithful guy is not impossible but extremely difficult hence trying your lick to find one will be the most foolish thing any lady will ever imagine.

Laslas they will choose to either be a single mum and be intimacy gadget in the hands of ever willing Bleep boys, remain in solitude and take solace in sex gadgets or just remain miserable and lonely till their old age.

The irony is that many of these ladies clamouring for a faithful man are so sexually loosed and some of them can't even remember their body count.

Only a lady who got married as a virgin deserves a faithful man.

Bunch of silly immature ladies.

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Re: Why Do We Justify The Actions Of Philandering Men? by unbitchable(m): 8:24am On Oct 22, 2019
Toks2008:


Bro please let this matter die. Don't waste your energy trying to talk sense into kids...they will grow to understand.

The western world they are talking about is riddled with single mothers who are frustrated and lonely with many having intimacy gadgets as husbands.

Having a faithful guy is not impossible but extremely difficult hence trying your lick to find one will be the most foolish thing any lady will ever imagine.

Laslas they will choose to either be a single mum and be intimacy gadget in the hands of ever willing Bleep boys, remain in solitude and take solace in sex gadgets or just remain miserable and lonely till their old age.

The irony is that many of these ladies clamouring for a faithful man are so sexually loosed and some of them can't even remember their body count.

Only a lady who got married as a virgin deserves a faithful man.

Bunch of silly immature ladies.
Right on point. Sex gadgets are in crazy demands yet men ain't complaining
Re: Why Do We Justify The Actions Of Philandering Men? by HazzanTazzan(m): 8:52am On Oct 22, 2019
Hipsofagoddess:


The way you guys talk I wonder if you ever step out of your house.

Ode...
That's the simple truth

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