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olabrinks:
I honestly think your wife is suffering from serious depression, she’s not happy deep down inside and they’re some internal issues bothering her. She’s taking it out on you and everyone around her. The problem started once children came into the picture, she’s probably feeling the same regret you are feeling. This is not the time to divorce, this is the time for communication. This is the time for patience. This is the time for understanding. This is the time for wisdom. You are the man of the house, you need to take control of your territory.

If it means her getting help for depression, taking medication such as anti depressants let her do it. If it means going for therapy/counselling, then do it. If it means involving a third party who can transfer wisdom to you, then do it. If it means sitting down and communicating one on one thoroughly then do it. This is not the time to run away from your problems, you will find more problems leaving your wife and children in the long run. Once you cure the root of your problem, you will live peacefully.

U r not really wise ma... I'm sorry to say that.. She is depressed since 2009 and the depression caused inability to cook, inability to be a good house wife, inability to clean the house... Madam, Read well before u comment Pls...

Mrcashman87:
I have texted twice to say we need to talk for her to ignore the text. I am feeling really down dont know what I have done to her to deserve this treatment. I'm going to try talking to her one last time I think and if I dont get any form of positive response then i will call for family meetings and I will have to end marriage.

You deserve to be happy, if she does not yeild,try separation even for a short while. Otherwise, you may deal with this longer than imagined. I hate marriage stress.

Sorry you have to deal with someone like that. If after three children she’s the same way it’s likely that she won’t change. Imagine if you had a child from another woman before marrying her ?

Counseling might help, but she will never change. That’s just her trait sorry to say. Maybe getting out of that marriage is something you should consider. Good luck with whatever decision you make.

ogawisdom:
The way she is hitting her subordinates n inflicting injuries on them, this woman can easily kill u while asleep. Your life is in danger as she has anger issues.

She doesnt have any respect for u, gradually start planning ur exit from this bondage bc ur life is on the line.

Just one poisoned food n u are gone

Another perspective

liberalchick:
I am sorry I know you mean well but depression doesn’t make you a violent person. I have worked with depressed people and I have been depressed myself and depressed people don’t maim children. She is a violent person simple. In fact when you’re depressed you withdraw not attack.

Op, when violence enters a marriage/relationship then a line has been crossed and it’s no longer healthy. Honestly, I am not optimistic about the future of that marriage. You should try a marriage counselor but I am sorry I am not hopeful, people rarely change. I agree with pocohantas observe how your girlfriend/boyfriend act around people that she/he isn’t going to gain anything from/or trying to impress that’s her/his true character.

I never knew u observed her stupid Comment... How can depression caused those things impossible.....


U r wise ma.. She is trying to cover up for the lady as a woman of same character herself.. But u r wise ma

Divorce.

The children will be better served to see at least one parent happy than the constant fights.

Mrcashman87:
I am not new to Nairaland but I have to use this account for my story . I have met her in 2009 she was calm , doesn’t talk much but easily get angry and I also noticed that she wasn’t a good cook but was good in other things ( chores) , it didn’t stopped me from loving her, I didn’t tell any of my people even though I have sisters that are good cook but I decided to take her to catering school to learn how to cook which she went for lessons to practice.

We got married in 2013 , she got pregnant that same month and she became so lazy that I will go to work and come back to found the house very messy with everything’s all over the places , dirty dishes and not dinner yet, and I have to take over cleaning and cooking dinner for us. She claimed she could not longer clean the house , she is tired and need to rest so I have decided to get a house help for her , a small 14 years old, this girl was hard working , very obedient but to my wife she is evil , every single day I comes back from work , this girl is always in tears my wife will beat the hell out of her to the extent of giving her black eye , if I confront her she will start accusing me of sleeping with the girl which is not true, I can never stoop so low to sleep with an underage girl. I have nieces of similar ages what I wouldn’t want another person to do to my nieces and wouldn’t do to another person daughter.

One time I came back from work to found the girl in a pool of blood , that my wife hit her with a wooden chair and she had a deep cut on her head , I got angry with my wife even her reasons didn’t make sense to me , all because she asked the poor girl to warmed up the baby milk and she mistakenly left it for too long , the milk was too hot to give to the crying baby so she got angry at her and hit her . I have told my wife she shouldn’t act like that no matter what and here come again you are sleeping with her and that’s why u are siding with her , we had an heated argument that I have left the house to cool down , I came back after 5 hours and next morning I have send for my brother to take the girl back to her parents , I have given her money 30k to manage that was how the girl left the house.

When our first child was 6 months , we found out she was 2 months pregnant she cried that the baby is too small , she can’t keep the pregnancy , I have begged her to keep that everything will be alright . Our twins were born a girl and boy , having 3 children under 2 wasn’t easy for us and I have to go to work while she staying with the kids all alone and she was depressed , I have decided to bring in a house help 15 years old boy , the same thing repeated again , she was maltreated him the same thing she did with the girl , that boy didn’t even stays with us for 2 months , he run away . I came back to found her crying that the boy has slapped her and run away, I was angry for what he did even swear if I catch him , he will regret the day he was born but the other way I knew that boy did it for self defence .

After the boy left I said no more e help , she will have to manage alone because I couldn’t help her anymore , but my house become dirty that I wouldn’t even want to bring in visitors because of the state of the house , dirty plates can stay in the sink for 3 -4 days , laundry she has a washing machine but she couldn’t bother to do , cooking we eats take away every single night , imagine I comes back home 9pm due to my job and Lagos traffic , at that time I’m even exhausted but I have to started cleaning , one time I got pissed with her that she didn’t wash the eldest daughter school uniform and all her uniform 5 sets of uniform were dirty and she had no clean one to put on in the morning , I have to wash them at 10pm and for her she didn’t see anything wrong with that.

When the twins were 1 years she told me she is tired of staying at home that she wanted to go to work , I have told her to wait at least for them to be a year and 6 months to start school before she can pursue her career but she disagreed with me, so I gave her money for business , she opened a shop . We had an agreement that she should be closing down her shop at 7pm so she could be home with the kids and take care of the house , she was ok and I got a elderly woman as a help , she doesn’t lives with us , she comes at 6 am and closes at 8pm and I also brought 2 of my nieces 18 and 11 to the house. Every since she started working she has never get home on time , sometimes she stays until 10pm , if I talk she get angry and will start raining insults on me , we haven’t make love in a long time , she always complains of being tired , her stomach is paining her etc etc. I have decided to leave her alone and not bother her about sex anymore , and it doesn’t bother too. She acts as im a nobody to her. So it happened in July I came back home to found my niece 11 years old with a deep cut and blood on her eyebrows and my wife did it just because the girl broke a plate so she hit the girl with the broken plate , first all I had to rush her to the hospital and she had 11 stitches and went back home, all I wanted to sit with her and to talk sense with her but she wasn’t even interested all she could do was shouting at me , accusing me of sleeping with both my nieces and the elderly house help , was so angry that I have beaten her badly which I later regretted and apologise to her.

That was the first time I have lay my hand on her something I vow not to do to the woman I love but she pushed me so bad and I have been remorseful but she refuse to forgive me . It’s now 4 months we don’t talk , we don’t sleep in the same room , she just do her own and come home anytime she pleases. I just don’t know what to do anymore , I love my wife and children but her attitudes isn’t right. We have 3 beautiful children 5and twins are 4. Sometime i want to divorce her but when I think about my children I just don’t feel like going ahead with divorce but I’m also a human and can’t stop living like this .

Please my brothers and sisters help me with your advices

OP, Does your wife beat your kids?

Your wife can kill you.

Mrcashman87:
I am not new to Nairaland but I have to use this account for my story . I have met her in 2009 she was calm , doesn’t talk much but easily get angry and I also noticed that she wasn’t a good cook but was good in other things ( chores) , it didn’t stopped me from loving her, I didn’t tell any of my people even though I have sisters that are good cook but I decided to take her to catering school to learn how to cook which she went for lessons to practice.

We got married in 2013 , she got pregnant that same month and she became so lazy that I will go to work and come back to found the house very messy with everything’s all over the places , dirty dishes and not dinner yet, and I have to take over cleaning and cooking dinner for us. She claimed she could not longer clean the house , she is tired and need to rest so I have decided to get a house help for her , a small 14 years old, this girl was hard working , very obedient but to my wife she is evil , every single day I comes back from work , this girl is always in tears my wife will beat the hell out of her to the extent of giving her black eye , if I confront her she will start accusing me of sleeping with the girl which is not true, I can never stoop so low to sleep with an underage girl. I have nieces of similar ages what I wouldn’t want another person to do to my nieces and wouldn’t do to another person daughter.

One time I came back from work to found the girl in a pool of blood , that my wife hit her with a wooden chair and she had a deep cut on her head , I got angry with my wife even her reasons didn’t make sense to me , all because she asked the poor girl to warmed up the baby milk and she mistakenly left it for too long , the milk was too hot to give to the crying baby so she got angry at her and hit her . I have told my wife she shouldn’t act like that no matter what and here come again you are sleeping with her and that’s why u are siding with her , we had an heated argument that I have left the house to cool down , I came back after 5 hours and next morning I have send for my brother to take the girl back to her parents , I have given her money 30k to manage that was how the girl left the house.

When our first child was 6 months , we found out she was 2 months pregnant she cried that the baby is too small , she can’t keep the pregnancy , I have begged her to keep that everything will be alright . Our twins were born a girl and boy , having 3 children under 2 wasn’t easy for us and I have to go to work while she staying with the kids all alone and she was depressed , I have decided to bring in a house help 15 years old boy , the same thing repeated again , she was maltreated him the same thing she did with the girl , that boy didn’t even stays with us for 2 months , he run away . I came back to found her crying that the boy has slapped her and run away, I was angry for what he did even swear if I catch him , he will regret the day he was born but the other way I knew that boy did it for self defence .

After the boy left I said no more e help , she will have to manage alone because I couldn’t help her anymore , but my house become dirty that I wouldn’t even want to bring in visitors because of the state of the house , dirty plates can stay in the sink for 3 -4 days , laundry she has a washing machine but she couldn’t bother to do , cooking we eats take away every single night , imagine I comes back home 9pm due to my job and Lagos traffic , at that time I’m even exhausted but I have to started cleaning , one time I got pissed with her that she didn’t wash the eldest daughter school uniform and all her uniform 5 sets of uniform were dirty and she had no clean one to put on in the morning , I have to wash them at 10pm and for her she didn’t see anything wrong with that.

When the twins were 1 years she told me she is tired of staying at home that she wanted to go to work , I have told her to wait at least for them to be a year and 6 months to start school before she can pursue her career but she disagreed with me, so I gave her money for business , she opened a shop . We had an agreement that she should be closing down her shop at 7pm so she could be home with the kids and take care of the house , she was ok and I got a elderly woman as a help , she doesn’t lives with us , she comes at 6 am and closes at 8pm and I also brought 2 of my nieces 18 and 11 to the house. Every since she started working she has never get home on time , sometimes she stays until 10pm , if I talk she get angry and will start raining insults on me , we haven’t make love in a long time , she always complains of being tired , her stomach is paining her etc etc. I have decided to leave her alone and not bother her about sex anymore , and it doesn’t bother too. She acts as im a nobody to her. So it happened in July I came back home to found my niece 11 years old with a deep cut and blood on her eyebrows and my wife did it just because the girl broke a plate so she hit the girl with the broken plate , first all I had to rush her to the hospital and she had 11 stitches and went back home, all I wanted to sit with her and to talk sense with her but she wasn’t even interested all she could do was shouting at me , accusing me of sleeping with both my nieces and the elderly house help , was so angry that I have beaten her badly which I later regretted and apologise to her.

That was the first time I have lay my hand on her something I vow not to do to the woman I love but she pushed me so bad and I have been remorseful but she refuse to forgive me . It’s now 4 months we don’t talk , we don’t sleep in the same room , she just do her own and come home anytime she pleases. I just don’t know what to do anymore , I love my wife and children but her attitudes isn’t right. We have 3 beautiful children 5and twins are 4. Sometime i want to divorce her but when I think about my children I just don’t feel like going ahead with divorce but I’m also a human and can’t stop living like this .

Please my brothers and sisters help me with your advices

midnighter:
Depression presents in different ways in different people and there are different kinds. Paranoia is a symptom of psychotic depression. Depression can cause aggressiveness in some people

Depression doesn't just mean somebody feels sad or wants to commit suicide.

I agree with you that she needs psychiatric intervention but I don't accept that just because she is exhibiting extreme behaviours, it must mean she is suffering from some fantabulous condition

She may just be somebody whose symptoms got out of control on top of not being a nice person in the first place

Pls be attentive n listen to the lady, this isn't depression Okay.. Stop supporting an evil woman jarr

Mrcashman87:
I am not new to Nairaland but I have to use this account for my story . I have met her in 2009 she was calm , doesn’t talk much but easily get angry and I also noticed that she wasn’t a good cook but was good in other things ( chores) , it didn’t stopped me from loving her, I didn’t tell any of my people even though I have sisters that are good cook but I decided to take her to catering school to learn how to cook which she went for lessons to practice.

We got married in 2013 , she got pregnant that same month and she became so lazy that I will go to work and come back to found the house very messy with everything’s all over the places , dirty dishes and not dinner yet, and I have to take over cleaning and cooking dinner for us. She claimed she could not longer clean the house , she is tired and need to rest so I have decided to get a house help for her , a small 14 years old, this girl was hard working , very obedient but to my wife she is evil , every single day I comes back from work , this girl is always in tears my wife will beat the hell out of her to the extent of giving her black eye , if I confront her she will start accusing me of sleeping with the girl which is not true, I can never stoop so low to sleep with an underage girl. I have nieces of similar ages what I wouldn’t want another person to do to my nieces and wouldn’t do to another person daughter.

One time I came back from work to found the girl in a pool of blood , that my wife hit her with a wooden chair and she had a deep cut on her head , I got angry with my wife even her reasons didn’t make sense to me , all because she asked the poor girl to warmed up the baby milk and she mistakenly left it for too long , the milk was too hot to give to the crying baby so she got angry at her and hit her . I have told my wife she shouldn’t act like that no matter what and here come again you are sleeping with her and that’s why u are siding with her , we had an heated argument that I have left the house to cool down , I came back after 5 hours and next morning I have send for my brother to take the girl back to her parents , I have given her money 30k to manage that was how the girl left the house.

When our first child was 6 months , we found out she was 2 months pregnant she cried that the baby is too small , she can’t keep the pregnancy , I have begged her to keep that everything will be alright . Our twins were born a girl and boy , having 3 children under 2 wasn’t easy for us and I have to go to work while she staying with the kids all alone and she was depressed , I have decided to bring in a house help 15 years old boy , the same thing repeated again , she was maltreated him the same thing she did with the girl , that boy didn’t even stays with us for 2 months , he run away . I came back to found her crying that the boy has slapped her and run away, I was angry for what he did even swear if I catch him , he will regret the day he was born but the other way I knew that boy did it for self defence .

After the boy left I said no more e help , she will have to manage alone because I couldn’t help her anymore , but my house become dirty that I wouldn’t even want to bring in visitors because of the state of the house , dirty plates can stay in the sink for 3 -4 days , laundry she has a washing machine but she couldn’t bother to do , cooking we eats take away every single night , imagine I comes back home 9pm due to my job and Lagos traffic , at that time I’m even exhausted but I have to started cleaning , one time I got pissed with her that she didn’t wash the eldest daughter school uniform and all her uniform 5 sets of uniform were dirty and she had no clean one to put on in the morning , I have to wash them at 10pm and for her she didn’t see anything wrong with that.

When the twins were 1 years she told me she is tired of staying at home that she wanted to go to work , I have told her to wait at least for them to be a year and 6 months to start school before she can pursue her career but she disagreed with me, so I gave her money for business , she opened a shop . We had an agreement that she should be closing down her shop at 7pm so she could be home with the kids and take care of the house , she was ok and I got a elderly woman as a help , she doesn’t lives with us , she comes at 6 am and closes at 8pm and I also brought 2 of my nieces 18 and 11 to the house. Every since she started working she has never get home on time , sometimes she stays until 10pm , if I talk she get angry and will start raining insults on me , we haven’t make love in a long time , she always complains of being tired , her stomach is paining her etc etc. I have decided to leave her alone and not bother her about sex anymore , and it doesn’t bother too. She acts as im a nobody to her. So it happened in July I came back home to found my niece 11 years old with a deep cut and blood on her eyebrows and my wife did it just because the girl broke a plate so she hit the girl with the broken plate , first all I had to rush her to the hospital and she had 11 stitches and went back home, all I wanted to sit with her and to talk sense with her but she wasn’t even interested all she could do was shouting at me , accusing me of sleeping with both my nieces and the elderly house help , was so angry that I have beaten her badly which I later regretted and apologise to her.

That was the first time I have lay my hand on her something I vow not to do to the woman I love but she pushed me so bad and I have been remorseful but she refuse to forgive me . It’s now 4 months we don’t talk , we don’t sleep in the same room , she just do her own and come home anytime she pleases. I just don’t know what to do anymore , I love my wife and children but her attitudes isn’t right. We have 3 beautiful children 5and twins are 4. Sometime i want to divorce her but when I think about my children I just don’t feel like going ahead with divorce but I’m also a human and can’t stop living like this .

Please my brothers and sisters help me with your advices

Divorce her.

midnighter:
Lol.

Yeah that's my point. She may be all those things but still, there may also be something wrong with the her. You can be wicked with added mental problems. For her to beat somebody kids without minding the consequence shows both an evil and mentally unstable person

I am not arguing that she is definitely depressed, I just don't agree with people saying that just because she is wicked, she can't be depressed. What she is doing could be a sign of a particularly severe form of depression, coupled with her own bad character. So we need to tackle all of them together

As you so funnily put it, OP still loves her so we should try to look at the situation objectively without projecting our own anger at her behaviour onto our advice

And yes, men can be strange and put up with all kinds of bad women. But if he can get her rubbish down to a manageable level then the two of them may be able to save their home

I'm not saying she's not a bad person but we just don't have to be so quick to write it off without exhausting all avenues and intervention

Honestly I know why I'm saying this. If you know somebody is extremely crazy but still the man loves her, then they need help on how to make her craze manageable instead of just throwing the whole thing away without trying

The man needs an advice because he doesn't want the home to break up, he is not tired of her yet.

After the first and second children were nearly sent to their graves he still went ahead and brought his own blood family again. He needs practical advice on how to curb her excesses

The both of them should be jailed taking drop of bloods from innocent children bcox they are poor abi

DenreleDave:
Pls be attentive n listen to the lady, this isn't depression Okay.. Stop supporting an evil woman jarr

I am not supporting anything.

Do you know what depression is? Do you know all the symptoms?

Why dont you read the post like I have instead of quoting people unnecessarily because obviously you have no idea what you are saying.

Run for your life bro... YOLO... You are living with a psychotic partner. It's either you take her to a rehab or you run for your dear life. A WORD THEY SAY IS ENOUGH FOR THE WISE. CHEERS.

Finally. Sense.

Mrcashman87:
I have texted twice to say we need to talk for her to ignore the text. I am feeling really down dont know what I have done to her to deserve this treatment. I'm going to try talking to her one last time I think and if I dont get any form of positive response then i will call for family meetings and I will have to end marriage.

My dear if you love your life, run before it's too late. this kind of women kill their husband. For your information, a woman don't need poison, gun, knife etc to kill her husband. Just her bad attitude will drive the man to go and commit suicide or drive recklessly and get accident and die. For your peace, pack n leave that house before you loose your life. If it's your personal house, take away all the house papers, get yourself a new house and live peacefully. No amount of begging should bring back to the that house. Sorry to say but you married a devil. Your life is more important than that useless marriage, sorry to say.

pocohantas:
She was calm to you.

Did you ever take out time to find out how she was to every other person? People she considered defenseless and below her? People she wanted nothing from?

No campaign after election, be like na her real character she dey show now.

I saw the part you hit her and you are obviously sorry for it. Considering her history of doing same to kids, isn't she being hypocritical here? People can't take what they dish out sha.

All I see is a woman trying to emotionally blackmail you with silence, make you do her bidding, while she continues breaking heads.

Abeg, do what gives you peace.

You said it all.

The only peace thing I see her is separation if this story isn't one sided.

It takes mental and emotional stability to train kids of which both of you are presenting lacking due to current situation.

So dont use your kids as an excuse to be sad forever. They will understand when they grow.

hmmm hmmm no comment o beg pass me some bitters make I take wash pains joor. Oga u ate on your own , na u marry am no be me so enjoy ur problems after all if she smile tomorrow na u go climb go plant another seed to make them 4.

Jezebel in flesh. Something must kill a man. You are dieing slowing you don't just know. Eeya pale. This ia what happened when you dont take charge.

Oyindidi:
It is well

It's not well oooh....... This one is strong!

midnighter:
I am not supporting anything.

Do you know what depression is? Do you know all the symptoms?

Why dont you read the post like I have instead of quoting people unnecessarily because obviously you have no idea what you are saying.

U don't have any idea of what you are saying.. U r simply supporting that evil woman.


She is nice to her own family and kids but hate his husband family and other people's kids...

The husband, the wife, and you are supposed to be jailed.. I swear...

Obviously u don't av an idea of what depression means at all.

midnighter:
I am not supporting anything.

Do you know what depression is? Do you know all the symptoms?

Why dont you read the post like I have instead of quoting people unnecessarily because obviously you have no idea what you are saying.

.


Since when did this depression start Pls stop supporting evil.


That woman isn't depressed! She doesn't even care about her kids from dirty uniforms to coming home late.

She is a self centered devil's agent

Dear Sir,

You are a real definition of a man. You have tolerated and behaved. How long will you continue to live in this shit with her? This life is too short to regret. My advice to you is divorce her and take your kids away from her.

Kindly follow @domesticviolenceng on Instagram and reach out for help.

OlawaleBammie:
I dont knw why people paint u controversial, den if i see ur coment i would just scroll up tinkin u hav notin to say but controversy in d sense of takin unduely sides.

But lately av bn readin ur coments and all i always sees is sense, equilibrum and insights.

a no knw if wat av seen in d past about u is fictional sha or wat am tinkin, anyways, good input.

Not only her..
Many ladies' opinions on this topic impress me...
There is hope for marriage in this Country afterall...
Everyone supports wholesome marriage without manipulation.. Lovely

Chikaazuonwu:
Dear Sir,

You are a real definition of a man. You have tolerated and behaved. How long will you continue to live in this shit with her? This life is too short to regret. My advice to you is divorce her and take your kids away from her.

Kindly follow @domesticviolenceng on Instagram and reach out for help.

The man really needs all the help he can get. Jeez

euromilion:
Am sorry but your wife is a witch,she has all the traits of the evil witches.

To be honest I will be gone from such an evil person,one day she will kill you.

She doesn't love you one bit.

Even the kids. Im sure if op pay more attention, he will find out she hate the kids too.

Im sure her problem started way before you guys met. But please dont be the one to bear the burden. If you must help her, do it from a distance.

mistyebby:
. Since when did this depression start Pls stop supporting evil.

That woman isn't depressed! She doesn't even care about her kids from dirty uniforms to coming home late.

She is a self centered devil's agent

No need to quote me, you dont know what you are saying.

Go back and read the post I was replying to instead of jumping into my mentions over nothing

Its you who supports evil

Catchfirez:
Jezebel in flesh. Something must kill a man. You are dieing slowing you don't just know. Eeya pale. This ia what happened when you dont take charge.

Wicked comments

Ladycewhy....

Your attention is needed here..

I have not seen your comment on this topic o

DenreleDave:
U don't have any idea of what you are saying.. U r simply supporting that evil woman.

She is nice to her own family and kids but hate his husband family and other people's kids...

The husband, the wife, and you are supposed to be jailed.. I swear...

Obviously u don't av an idea of what depression means at all.

You dont know anything. What do those things have to do with depressive symptoms?

Its possible for a bad person to be ill, dont you know that?

Its not only nice people who get mentally ill

You can go to jail yourself, it seems like the place where you belong.

Mrcashman87:
No I haven’t involved anyone from both of our families because I don’t like involving a third party in our marriage but now that I have had enough of her , I’m thinking about calling her parents for a meeting soon

They are aware of this her problem im sure. The moment you married her, they bid her farewell to bad rubbish.

Op, return her back to them. If this was spiritual, they could have taken her for deliverance.

If this was about manners and training, they would have showed her the way to grow

If this was about depression, they should have cared more.

Its not your fault, you don try.

midnighter:
You dont know anything. What do those things have to do with depressive symptoms?

Its possible for a bad person to be ill, dont you know that?

Its not only nice people who get mentally ill

You can go to jail yourself, it seems like the place where you belong.

Hear ursef, does depression makes u treat ur won family well and treat others as trash... U shud think na.. Don't be too quick for ftc thereby typing nonsense.

How can depression make u despise ur husband family and outsider but u treat ur own family as gold... Stop it dear

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luminouz:
He is soft yeah.
He should have curbed her excesses ages ago. She knew she could do shit and get away with it.
I wish I traded places with the OP for just a week. His wife would either run away or become a lamb.

Nothing turns me off worse than a bad attitude in women.

Honestly

midnighter:
No need to quote me, you dont know what you are saying.

Go back and read the post I was replying to instead of jumping into my mentions over nothing

Its you who supports evil

Likeminds....I know people twist the word evil to suit them.

E.g Op's wife thinks everyother person is evil asides her, so I get your pain


Truth is nobody will understand this your thought process. So dont bother defending it.