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Alexaonfleek:
Ive noticed that guys who tend to be aggressive towards women are all broke ass niggas.why is this so?and for some weird reason ladies who date violent and aggressive guys don't want to leave them.why?

Alexaonfleek:
Ive noticed that guys who tend to be aggressive towards women are all broke ass niggas.why is this so?and for some weird reason ladies who date violent and aggressive guys don't want to leave them.why?

truthsayer009:
Because the DlCK is so good, that's why.

Alexaonfleek:
at the bolded.i know that some women get turned on by BDSM,but BDSM is consensual.both the lady and the guy are in agreemet,and besides there is also the safe word too.but what about women who aren't into BDSM but still stay in abusive relationships?

Alexaonfleek:
is that really a good reason for a lady to stay in an abusive relationship?all because of penis

midnighter:
Violence and (excess) aggression is a turn-on for some women. It means "love" to them. Some women respect them more.

Some women grew up with this kind of person at home so they take it as a good thing

Aggression is a desirable male trait if it is expressed correctly. Most men express some form of aggression to an extent due to their high testosterone level

Being broke is a source of frustration...the guy will be aggressive to everyone but will have a perception that a woman will disrespect him (as some women would) for his low financial status. So they start acting up

In fact they dont have to be broke...if some certain guys perceive that you are superior to them in any way they can become very nasty to try to overcompensate

You see that a lot even in this forum

midnighter:
Violence and (excess) aggression is a turn-on for some women. It means "love" to them. Some women respect them more.

Some women grew up with this kind of person at home so they take it as a good thing

Aggression is a desirable male trait if it is expressed correctly. Most men express some form of aggression to an extent due to their high testosterone level

Being broke is a source of frustration...the guy will be aggressive to everyone but will have a perception that a woman will disrespect him (as some women would) for his low financial status. So they start acting up

In fact they dont have to be broke...if some certain guys perceive that you are superior to them in any way they can become very nasty to try to overcompensate

You see that a lot even in this forum

midnighter:
Some women feel like beating means that the guy loves them and takes them seriously.

Depressed101:
I've met people like this, they believe a boyfriend who doesn't beat them once in a while, doesn't trully love them..

midnighter:
Yeah, exactly. Its like a warped kind of affection to them. If he doesnt beat her she thinks hes no longer interested

Some girls sha

Depressed101:
This is peculiar with girls without father figures all through their growing up.

Depressed101:
you are a smart axx you are a smart axx

midnighter:
When I said a "turn-on", I wasnt necessarily talking about BDSM but you're right, thats one part of it and it will probably be consensual. I meant more that some women take an violent man to be more "manly" or "able to handle himself"

There are many reasons for women staying in (violently) abusive relationships. Social, psychological, emotional

Some women feel like beating means that the guy loves them and takes them seriously. In fact some purposely annoy their man just to see if he will get angry and beat her. They get some satisfaction out of being able to stir that kind of emotion in him

Some women dont have the self-confidence to leave or rely on the abusive partner for finances or some social status

Some just love the guy and choose to overlook the violent part of his character