I think I'll just stay away from her for some months so I can get my woman back

blaise26abj:
Atimes women put themselves under unnecessary pressure.pressure to have a man, pressure for the man to propose , Pressure to get married , Pressure to have the first child, pressure to have a second child, pressure to have a male child. Even pressure cookers don’t work that much.

You have to let her be. Reassure her if need be but don’t let it stress you. The anxiety of conception atimes adds to it. As a man, it is not all things that frets your wife you allow to get to you. Atimes ignore and just be happy. She might realize that you are not bothered and follow suit.

PS. Don’t stop the gbenshing. It is your lawful right.

falcon01:
I heard there are kind of sex styles that guarantees pregnancy

Kelvin30286063:
My wife and I got married almost a year ago. Last November. Before that we dated for about 6 years before we got married and we were always very happy. We do everything together and everything was just perfect.
Now after our marriage, the first 5 months was blissful until she started expecting pregnancy. At first she was not worried, neither was I.

I have actually never been worried cuz I know it's definitely early and we have all the time in the world (she's only 25)
Now she's going into a state of depression. Every month she will be so expectant that she will start looking out for all pregnancy symptoms as if her life depends on it. Then once she sees her menstrual cycle, she comes very depressed and sad.
I hate to see her sad. Infact it gives me so much pain when I see her sitting alone looking so moody and unhappy and I have tried so many times to speak to her, convince her that she needs to be patient. Though she always lighten up whenever I do but that happiness is only short lived cuz as soon as she see her MP again, the sad face comes bad.

On the pregnancy front, we've done some tests are different hospitals and they told us that we are both medically okay. The doctors advice we take things slow and not worry about it but she's not listening to any of that.
The most annoying part is nobody is pressuring her. My parents are very understanding people and they have not even mentioned it at all since we got married. So what the heck is wrong with her!
I understand that over the years, she must have noticed my obsession with babies and she's really eager to make me happy but at this point, I'm ready to give that up as long as she is happy.

She just saw her menstrual cycle today, she's been moody all day and that mood is gradually killing me.
I think I'll just stay away from her for some months so I can get my woman back. At least she will be happy if she's not expecting any positive result at the end of the month.

What do you guys think I can do to make her take her mind off this pregnancy ish?

bukatyne:


Out of curiosity, I went to your profile and I stumbled on a thread about your wife, dog and pregnancy.

While it seems there is nobody pressuring your wife overtly, I believe there are covert pressures else why would your mother take her to a pastor who is seeing vision about dog blocking pregnancy?

You should understand your wife's dilemma:

She wants to please your mother by discarding the dog. The presence of that dog in your house tells your mother that your wife is not ready to get pregnant and/or she doesn't know what it takes to get what she wants from you.

I also read you have done several tests and you both are fine. You think it is a reassurance, it isn't. It is the reason why your wife would belive that the goat ten streets away is responsible for the delay.

If the doctors saw something, it makes more sense. You have hope that when you address that circumstance, you will have kids.

When the doctors say there is nothing wrong and pregnancy is not forthcoming despite constant sex, then it calls for a lot of concern because it becomes a case of what is wrong?

When you see people who do not want to get pregnant easily do having sex the same way you are, then you wonder why you.

The first thing is to get rid of the dog: some posters suggested dropping her at the vet for a while or keeping her with a trusted family member.

Next, go to a fertility clinic for hormonal tests especially PCOS and endo (causing heavy flow and painful periods) . Your both organs might be fine however her hormones might need to be regulated or the shape of her uterus might be inverted naturally or something else that would require your guys using a little assistance.

Also, keep reassuring your wife that she needs to relax else getting pregnant becomes more difficult.

I like the cake and icing analogy, keep using it, hopefully she gets it.

Sometimes you have plans in your head and delayed conception throws it away.

It is well.

Kelvin30286063:

Thank you. The dog issue has been resolved. Though the dog is still with out but she doesn't stay indoor anymore. Now has a cage outside in the compound even though she's an indoor pet dog.

ogawisdom:
Both of u should be concerned about this and visit a hospital to be sure everything is fine.

How can u be fuking a woman of 25 yrs for almost a year and no sign of pregnancy haba

Both of u should go on your knees and pray to God for fruit of the womb, barrenness is not your portion in Jesus name

Cwhyte:
does she ovulates?
if you are not sure, go to a pharmacy and ask for drugs that enhances ovulation. Thank me later

Kelvin30286063 Thats how mine kept telling me everything was ok and no one was pressuring me until he got another lady pregnant.
It is normal for your wife to feel that way, I felt same way each time I see my period. She knows her home is secured when she has a child.
You can never trust a man that says I don't care about kids you have me. I am talking from experience.
The next thing is another woman is pregnant and the family tells you, you know the child is our blood we can not reject the baby.
Your wife needs all the support she can get. Her worries will alter how her body works.
I hope and pray you hold her hands all through and both of you walk together in conquering it.
She will surely get pregnant. But I must say that the period of waiting is not an easy one.
God help you both.

post6:
My wife and I got married almost a year ago. Last November. Before that we dated for about 6 years before we got married and we were always very happy. We do everything together and everything was just perfect.
Now after our marriage, the first 5 months was blissful until she started expecting pregnancy. At first she was not worried, neither was I.

I have actually never been worried cuz I know it's definitely early and we have all the time in the world (she's only 25)
Now she's going into a state of depression. Every month she will be so expectant that she will start looking out for all pregnancy symptoms as if her life depends on it. Then once she sees her menstrual cycle, she comes very depressed and sad.
I hate to see her sad. Infact it gives me so much pain when I see her sitting alone looking so moody and unhappy and I have tried so many times to speak to her, convince her that she needs to be patient. Though she always lighten up whenever I do but that happiness is only short lived cuz as soon as she see her MP again, the sad face comes bad.

On the pregnancy front, we've done some tests are different hospitals and they told us that we are both medically okay. The doctors advice we take things slow and not worry about it but she's not listening to any of that.
The most annoying part is nobody is pressuring her. My parents are very understanding people and they have not even mentioned it at all since we got married. So what the heck is wrong with her!
I understand that over the years, she must have noticed my obsession with babies and she's really eager to make me happy but at this point, I'm ready to give that up as long as she is happy.

She just saw her menstrual cycle today, she's been moody all day and that mood is gradually killing me.
I think I'll just stay away from her for some months so I can get my woman back. At least she will be happy if she's not expecting any positive result at the end of the month?

sassysure:
Why won't she be worried when in 10 yrs time, children will start popping out from all corners.

Don't ever trust a man who tell u to chill when they are looking for the fruit of the womb.

And u want to stay away from her

U always show her u love kids and now u want her to chill.


Stories that touch will soon follow

Rayes3:



Exactly.
I believed all the sweet talk myself not until a child popped up from another lady.
You can never trust anyone.
I pray God answers her soon. Because I understand exactly what the woman is going through emotionally.

OlawaleBammie:

Guy u fall my hand.
how person go take menstruate if she didnt ovulate ??
without ovulation there shouldnt b menstruation.

Anonymous29:


menstruation can occur without ovulation.

Kelvin30286063:
My wife and I got married almost a year ago. Last November. Before that we dated for about 6 years before we got married and we were always very happy. We do everything together and everything was just perfect.
Now after our marriage, the first 5 months was blissful until she started expecting pregnancy. At first she was not worried, neither was I.

I have actually never been worried cuz I know it's definitely early and we have all the time in the world (she's only 25)
Now she's going into a state of depression. Every month she will be so expectant that she will start looking out for all pregnancy symptoms as if her life depends on it. Then once she sees her menstrual cycle, she comes very depressed and sad.
I hate to see her sad. Infact it gives me so much pain when I see her sitting alone looking so moody and unhappy and I have tried so many times to speak to her, convince her that she needs to be patient. Though she always lighten up whenever I do but that happiness is only short lived cuz as soon as she see her MP again, the sad face comes bad.

On the pregnancy front, we've done some tests are different hospitals and they told us that we are both medically okay. The doctors advice we take things slow and not worry about it but she's not listening to any of that.
The most annoying part is nobody is pressuring her. My parents are very understanding people and they have not even mentioned it at all since we got married. So what the heck is wrong with her!
I understand that over the years, she must have noticed my obsession with babies and she's really eager to make me happy but at this point, I'm ready to give that up as long as she is happy.

She just saw her menstrual cycle today, she's been moody all day and that mood is gradually killing me.
I think I'll just stay away from her for some months so I can get my woman back. At least she will be happy if she's not expecting any positive result at the end of the month.

What do you guys think I can do to make her take her mind off this pregnancy ish?

falcon01:
I heard there are kind of sex styles that guarantees pregnancy

OlawaleBammie:


Shooo !!!! Pleass i need a lecture on dis, am serious, just to add to my knowledge abt it.