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Good evening nairalanders

Pls help me, how is the best way to address this or fight back this useless empty head called my Ex.

It's been months we broked up, and after then she went on fucking two of my course mates, thinking they were my friends as retaliation, because we took pictures together. Her excuse for the break up, was she came to my place and met a lady shoe at the door, so she turned back for leave notifying me of the breakup.

We met recently, about two months ago, then she confessed her terrible acts, and started pleading to make things work back, I told her Immediately, what I shared with her was just a thing, not that serious to call it love, that I hold noting against her, and we started getting in tough with each other.

So fast forward to yesterday, I uploaded a picture on whatsapp, showing myself and a lady, only for this my Ex to download the picture and post it on her Instagram page tagging it RIP.

A friend of mine saw it, and immediately call me if am alright, he was shocked and sent me the screenshot.
I don't have her as friend on my Instagram and Facebook because of the kind of nature of being she is on hearing this, I rushed to view her page, and I noticed she has taken it down because a friend have seen it.

I plan to respond to this, as this is not her first time of wishing me death, she once threatened 2 of my Ex via her social handle.

She used to be a very nice person during my tenure in school, so caring and always feeling insucure despite her beauty. but this her anger issue always get me in check till I lose my total interest on her.

Pls I need matured or better still legal advice to address this. I don't want to drag in the mud with a pig.
This is a lady I have her nude on my phone, sent to me herself many months ago, someone said I should reply her post with her nude, others said i shouldn't but handle this legally.

:oGeez. Which kind of heartless human being is that one na?

Or is that one part of healing during a breakup too?

She's expecting you to react so ignore her let her be disappointed

Dont post her nude. She still isn't over you and wants to flirt with u but I advise u don't accept she might set u up with rape or so.

Ignore her completely.

logohaven1:
:oGeez. Which kind of heartless human being is that one na?

Or is that one part of healing during a breakup too?

so you still believe some of the fables posted here on nairaland?

Keep the evidence then ignore her. That's exactly what she wants, your reaction. If she continues then send her the nude then don't reply anything she say after

She is in severe pains, ignore her!

Kaeboy:
......If she continues then send her the nude then ......

.........ask..... do you really want to trend?

logohaven1:
:oGeez. Which kind of heartless human being is that one na?

Or is that one part of healing during a breakup too?

This is serious bro, you may want to view this

Guys stop dating psychos

Offpoint:
Guys stop dating psychos

How would one know they are psychos until you date one?

Are you not resting in peace after the breakup?

setobaba:
How would one know they are psychos until you date one?

Test them... they can't hide it forever.

Whatever you did to that girl to be so bitter by doing such. I am so sorry to say but she deserved it

setobaba:
Good evening nairalanders

Pls help me, how is the best way to address this or fight back this useless empty head called my Ex.

It's been months we broked up, and after then she went on fucking two of my course mates, thinking they were my friends as retaliation, because we took pictures together. Her excuse for the break up, was she came to my place and met a lady shoe at the door, so she turned back for leave notifying me of the breakup.

We met recently, about two months ago, then she confessed her terrible acts, and started pleading to make things work back, I told her Immediately, what I shared with her was just a thing, not that serious to call it love, that I hold noting against her, and we started getting in tough with each other.

So fast forward to yesterday, I uploaded a picture on whatsapp, showing myself and a lady, only for this my Ex to download the picture and post it on her Instagram page tagging it RIP.

A friend of mine saw it, and immediately call me if am alright, he was shocked and sent me the screenshot.
I don't have her as friend on my Instagram and Facebook because of the kind of nature of being she is on hearing this, I rushed to view her page, and I noticed she has taken it down because a friend have seen it.

I plan to respond to this, as this is not her first time of wishing me death, she once threatened 2 of my Ex via her social handle.

She used to be a very nice person during my tenure in school, so caring and always feeling insucure despite her beauty. but this her anger issue always get me in check till I lose my total interest on her.

Pls I need matured or better still legal advice to address this. I don't want to drag in the mud with a pig.
This is a lady I have her nude on my phone, sent to me herself many months ago, someone said I should reply her post with her nude, others said i shouldn't but handle this legally.


Pls lalasticalala help on this.

Mumu men with their wailings and boring posts!

Whatever stopped you from uploading her own on IG and tagging RIP. Do you really need to create a thread asking what to do?

This is sincerely becoming irritating of the men here!

''She once threatened two of my ex via social media''.

Dude stop living this kinda careless lifestyle it doesn't pay, anyway experience will teach you in a hard way if you don't get yourself together.

Guy, just ignore, she'll probably die from lack of attention.

Two of ur exes?..a student ....
Go to court...justice will also become ur ex....
A smart lawyer will argue that she didn't say rest in peace dead man
Bydway, see the kind of cocoanut head ur dealing with..see what she's writing ..."what a great lost"...mtchewww....o' boy focus on ur studies..engage in some huzzles, make some cash and ameliorate the heavy burdens for ur parents who are struggling day and night, starving themselves to train u in this peculiar country with horrible economic atmospheric temperature..

Send her the "rip pics" just to let her know you saw it and don't say another word.
Be wary of that girl, she may wanna hurt you real bad someday. Watch your back and make sure you keep tabs on her for now.

wait till she's engage and is ready for marriage, then create a fake account, message her with her nude and tell her to pay a certain amount of money or else you will release it to her prospective groom and his family and if she doesn't u then release it publicly and Tag all her Facebook friends along

EmptyCoconutHead:
wait till she's engage and is ready for marriage, then create a fake account, message her with her nude and tell her to pay a certain amount of money or else you will release it to her prospective groom and his family and if she doesn't u then release it publicly and Tag all her Facebook friends along

You are a wicked brother

Maturity is when you can be the bigger person. Let it go but just send her a message that you wouldn't tolerate such again.
The worst thing that can happen to anyone in a relationship is to be with a bitter and insecure person. It's a terrible experience which I have once experienced. Never hesitate to break up with such a person. Negative energy abounds in such relationships which is very unhealthy for the sane person.

If the story is true, send her a message telling her that if she tries it again you'll upload her nude everywhere online. Tell her your eyes are on her.

I feel pity for her tho, she's hurting.


By the way, move away from where she can trace you o cos there is possibility that she can harm you.

"Course mate?" This wan Na children gist. Abeg who can direct me to the family section?

You dated someone who spells loss as lost

Go n carry ur cross alone abeg.only u with ex,exe,and exes na wa for u ooo.

Attempted murder and intent












But I feel there are two sides to this story

This is a lady I have her nude on my phone, sent to me herself many months ago, someone said I should reply her post with her nude, others said i shouldn't but handle this legally.

Firstly,
Whatever you do, never post her nude pic or ever use it against her AT ALL.
It's now an offence that carries jail term!
Be guided.

Bb