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Re: An Ex Posted My Picture Tagging It RIP Pls I Need A Legal Or Best Advice by ikwedim(m): 12:05pm On Oct 28, 2019
Just go and do HIV test. If you are free, then send me her number to chop her too

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Re: An Ex Posted My Picture Tagging It RIP Pls I Need A Legal Or Best Advice by Saintmary(f): 12:07pm On Oct 28, 2019
Elvis778:
@Setobaba
Don't ignore her, get her arrested and make her write an undertaking,
ladies like this can be dangerous,

if u doubt me, try watching the movie "ACRIMONY"......
am sure u'll understand why she needs to be arrested after.
The lady in Acrimony invested nothing less than 20 years of her life, plus her money. This lady has invested only 2 months. They are two different cases.
Re: An Ex Posted My Picture Tagging It RIP Pls I Need A Legal Or Best Advice by dominique(f): 12:11pm On Oct 28, 2019
Before anybody goes forming e-detective and snooping into her instagram to post her photos here. Remember forum rule 10, violating it comes with a ban too

10. Don't violate the privacy of any people e.g. by posting their private pics, info, or chats without permission

The OP deliberately exposed her social media handle so that people can go to her page to troll her. If you decide to post her photos or other personal info here, you'll have no one but yourself to blame
Re: An Ex Posted My Picture Tagging It RIP Pls I Need A Legal Or Best Advice by ireneidiva(f): 12:16pm On Oct 28, 2019
generationz:
You dated someone who spells loss as lost undecided
See his own English na.
Re: An Ex Posted My Picture Tagging It RIP Pls I Need A Legal Or Best Advice by beautyhound(m): 12:38pm On Oct 28, 2019
Rednaxelot:
so you still believe some of the fables posted here on nairaland?

he was bin sarcastic oo
Re: An Ex Posted My Picture Tagging It RIP Pls I Need A Legal Or Best Advice by Nobody: 12:43pm On Oct 28, 2019
setobaba:
Good evening nairalanders

Pls help me, how is the be mist way to address this or fight back this useless empty head called my Ex.

It's been months we broked up, and after then she went on fucking two of my course mates, thinking they were my friends as retaliation, because we took pictures together. Her excuse for the break up, was she came to my place and met a lady shoe at the door, so she turned back for leave notifying me of the breakup.

We met recently, about two months ago, then she confessed her terrible acts, and started pleading to make things work back, I told her Immediately, what I shared with her was just a thing, not that serious to call it love, that I hold noting against her, and we started getting in tough with each other.

So fast forward to yesterday, I uploaded a picture on whatsapp, showing myself and a lady, only for this my Ex to download the picture and post it on her Instagram page tagging it RIP.

A friend of mine saw it, and immediately call me if am alright, he was shocked and sent me the screenshot.
I don't have her as friend on my Instagram and Facebook because of the kind of nature of being she is on hearing this, I rushed to view her page, and I noticed she has taken it down because a friend have seen it.

I plan to respond to this, as this is not her first time of wishing me death, she once threatened 2 of my Ex via her social handle.

She used to be a very nice person during my tenure in school, so caring and always feeling insucure despite her beauty. but this her anger issue always get me in check till I lose my total interest on her.

Pls I need matured or better still legal advice to address this. I don't want to drag in the mud with a pig.
This is a lady I have her nude on my phone, sent to me herself many months ago, someone said I should reply her post with her nude, others said i shouldn't but handle this legally.



Is this all the problems you have on earth ?
Re: An Ex Posted My Picture Tagging It RIP Pls I Need A Legal Or Best Advice by Unie30: 12:46pm On Oct 28, 2019
Fear women. Run from them if you can.
Re: An Ex Posted My Picture Tagging It RIP Pls I Need A Legal Or Best Advice by Unie30: 12:47pm On Oct 28, 2019
ikwedim:
Just go and do HIV test. If you are free, then send me her number to chop her too
Chop?
Re: An Ex Posted My Picture Tagging It RIP Pls I Need A Legal Or Best Advice by Anextin(f): 12:48pm On Oct 28, 2019
EmptyCoconutHead:
wait till she's engage and is ready for marriage, then create a fake account, message her with her nude and tell her to pay a certain amount of money or else you will release it to her prospective groom and his family and if she doesn't u then release it publicly and Tag all her Facebook friends along
Do you realise he will be behind bars if he dares to post her nudes without her consent?? Police are looking for such people to make example of them
Re: An Ex Posted My Picture Tagging It RIP Pls I Need A Legal Or Best Advice by TakeItOrLeaveIt: 1:01pm On Oct 28, 2019
Lolz that means she might come hunting you soon, its a threat. Br careful




Let's repair your faulty laptop
Re: An Ex Posted My Picture Tagging It RIP Pls I Need A Legal Or Best Advice by faorex(m): 1:03pm On Oct 28, 2019
generationz:
You dated someone who spells loss as lost undecided

If this were to be twitter....


Says someone that spells generations as generationz. cool
Re: An Ex Posted My Picture Tagging It RIP Pls I Need A Legal Or Best Advice by EmptyCoconutHead(m): 1:09pm On Oct 28, 2019
Anextin:

Do you realise he will be behind bars if he dares to post her nudes without her consent?? Police are looking for such people to make example of them
that's why I said he should create a fake account.
it's obvious the lady has been sending nudes to other guys and won't know the identity.
well I can see u support the girl, keep sending nudes to men, the day I come across it I'll use u to enlarge the money in my account
Re: An Ex Posted My Picture Tagging It RIP Pls I Need A Legal Or Best Advice by jimb(m): 1:10pm On Oct 28, 2019
can I see the nude viz.
Re: An Ex Posted My Picture Tagging It RIP Pls I Need A Legal Or Best Advice by EmptyCoconutHead(m): 1:16pm On Oct 28, 2019
fortune1968:
That will be a serious blackmail .You don't need to pull anybody down in life . Always consider the spiritual implications of any action before taking it because karma will be waiting for you whatever your motive .
shut up there my friend.
when she posted that nonsense there was no karma, now that the guy wants to revenge you're calling karma.
you quite sound like an idiot
Re: An Ex Posted My Picture Tagging It RIP Pls I Need A Legal Or Best Advice by EmptyCoconutHead(m): 1:17pm On Oct 28, 2019
CACjide:
OP don't attempt this, else you end up in police cell if not jail
I can see that u lack sense
Re: An Ex Posted My Picture Tagging It RIP Pls I Need A Legal Or Best Advice by generationz(f): 1:17pm On Oct 28, 2019
faorex:

If this were to be twitter....


Says someone that spells generations as generationz. cool

In your mind now you've made sense.


It never occurred to you that that was deliberate because nairaland refused generations when I tried opening an account with it.

You see your life. grin grin grin

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Re: An Ex Posted My Picture Tagging It RIP Pls I Need A Legal Or Best Advice by EmptyCoconutHead(m): 1:20pm On Oct 28, 2019
teemy:

Blackmail carries a jail term
in ur biafra constitution abi? what nonsense
Re: An Ex Posted My Picture Tagging It RIP Pls I Need A Legal Or Best Advice by controlaltdeleat: 1:44pm On Oct 28, 2019
Go and do something meaningful with your life people are calling lawyers for murder, fraud and serious issues .....you are here ranting about facebook update ..... nonsense. I pity the girl that dates small boy like you no wonder some girls prefer mature older guys .
Re: An Ex Posted My Picture Tagging It RIP Pls I Need A Legal Or Best Advice by Daisy17: 2:36pm On Oct 28, 2019
setobaba:
Good evening nairalanders

Pls help me, how is the best way to address this or fight back this useless empty head called my Ex.

It's been months we broked up, and after then she went on fucking two of my course mates, thinking they were my friends as retaliation, because we took pictures together. Her excuse for the break up, was she came to my place and met a lady shoe at the door, so she turned back for leave notifying me of the breakup.

We met recently, about two months ago, then she confessed her terrible acts, and started pleading to make things work back, I told her Immediately, what I shared with her was just a thing, not that serious to call it love, that I hold noting against her, and we started getting in tough with each other.

So fast forward to yesterday, I uploaded a picture on whatsapp, showing myself and a lady, only for this my Ex to download the picture and post it on her Instagram page tagging it RIP.

A friend of mine saw it, and immediately call me if am alright, he was shocked and sent me the screenshot.
I don't have her as friend on my Instagram and Facebook because of the kind of nature of being she is on hearing this, I rushed to view her page, and I noticed she has taken it down because a friend have seen it.

I plan to respond to this, as this is not her first time of wishing me death, she once threatened 2 of my Ex via her social handle.

She used to be a very nice person during my tenure in school, so caring and always feeling insucure despite her beauty. but this her anger issue always get me in check till I lose my total interest on her.

Pls I need matured or better still legal advice to address this. I don't want to drag in the mud with a pig.
This is a lady I have her nude on my phone, sent to me herself many months ago, someone said I should reply her post with her nude, others said i shouldn't but handle this legally.



The best option for you is to block her on all social media and just move on. You are alive and healthy so why would someone posting your picture and writing RIP be such a big deal? I think Africans are too superstitious. Please delete her nude picture, you should not even think of posting it anywhere. That's gross violation of privacy.
Re: An Ex Posted My Picture Tagging It RIP Pls I Need A Legal Or Best Advice by Sparkle777(f): 2:48pm On Oct 28, 2019
Pls ignore her but let her receive a call from the police. Yes, make it official by reporting to the police but never call or msg her. By the time she writes a report in the station and knows that she will be liable if anything happens to u, she will stay off.
Don't feel too bad,most of us sometimes wishes death on some of our ex. I just hope u didn't do her so wrong.
Re: An Ex Posted My Picture Tagging It RIP Pls I Need A Legal Or Best Advice by Nobody: 2:58pm On Oct 28, 2019
ikwedim:
Just go and do HIV test. If you are free, then send me her number to chop her too

Nna,a visit to her IG will irritate you.She is not worth going out with.
Re: An Ex Posted My Picture Tagging It RIP Pls I Need A Legal Or Best Advice by CCC2(m): 3:38pm On Oct 28, 2019
Nigga relax. I have been in same shoes before. Some ladies or let me say girls are very bad at handling emotional issue. Mine was constantly sending terrible messages to me on whatsapp late nights just to make sure she spoils my day daily. She even told me i will never have a child and my life will be miserable. Guy, I have 3kids now and just like LG, life is good.

After 3months of ignoring her, she came begging again and claiming she is loosing her sanity.
Ignore her bro, she go dey alright las las

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Re: An Ex Posted My Picture Tagging It RIP Pls I Need A Legal Or Best Advice by kikelomojessy(f): 4:00pm On Oct 28, 2019
Bro must you take everything serious? RIP means Revenge Is Pointless, just give it another meaning and feel good about it all joor. She just post small tin and she has succeeded in giving you sleepless nights.

Learn to ignore.

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Re: An Ex Posted My Picture Tagging It RIP Pls I Need A Legal Or Best Advice by faorex(m): 4:05pm On Oct 28, 2019
generationz:


In your mind now you've made sense.


It never occurred to you that that was deliberate because nairaland refused generations when I tried opening an account with it.

You see your life. grin grin grin

There are 1001 monikers you could have gone with Sis..
Don't throw stones if you live in a glass house.
Re: An Ex Posted My Picture Tagging It RIP Pls I Need A Legal Or Best Advice by generationz(f): 4:21pm On Oct 28, 2019
faorex:


There are 1001 monikers you could have gone with Sis..
Don't throw stones if you live in a glass house.

I'm sure Faorex means something in English.
Re: An Ex Posted My Picture Tagging It RIP Pls I Need A Legal Or Best Advice by Nobody: 4:25pm On Oct 28, 2019
EmptyCoconutHead:
wait till she's engage and is ready for marriage, then create a fake account, message her with her nude and tell her to pay a certain amount of money or else you will release it to her prospective groom and his family and if she doesn't u then release it publicly and Tag all her Facebook friends along
Bros, dis na blackmail na...would make the op and the floozie the same same type of homosapiens.

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Re: An Ex Posted My Picture Tagging It RIP Pls I Need A Legal Or Best Advice by onyeka3131: 5:10pm On Oct 28, 2019
You have too much EX.....pause joor
Re: An Ex Posted My Picture Tagging It RIP Pls I Need A Legal Or Best Advice by matkid(m): 5:22pm On Oct 28, 2019
;Dhahahahaha u Neva die but dem wan force u enter grave ;Dhahahahaha u Neva die but dem wan force u enter grave
Re: An Ex Posted My Picture Tagging It RIP Pls I Need A Legal Or Best Advice by LiftedMan: 5:40pm On Oct 28, 2019
All this strange folks people have sex with in the name of dating, na was oooo
Re: An Ex Posted My Picture Tagging It RIP Pls I Need A Legal Or Best Advice by rickdaking(m): 6:00pm On Oct 28, 2019
EmptyCoconutHead:
wait till she's engage and is ready for marriage, then create a fake account, message her with her nude and tell her to pay a certain amount of money or else you will release it to her prospective groom and his family and if she doesn't u then release it publicly and Tag all her Facebook friends along
I like this guy.. no homo intended
Re: An Ex Posted My Picture Tagging It RIP Pls I Need A Legal Or Best Advice by ridwanlawal: 6:16pm On Oct 28, 2019
EmptyCoconutHead:
wait till she's engage and is ready for marriage, then create a fake account, message her with her nude and tell her to pay a certain amount of money or else you will release it to her prospective groom and his family and if she doesn't u then release it publicly and Tag all her Facebook friends along
You get mouth

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