Viking07:
[s][/s] Please shut up abeg. What nonsense. Since when did you become God's P.A? Issuing warnings? It's fake criminally minded pastors scammers like you that give Christianity bad names. Rubbish.

babtoundey:
I think it is time our law take drastic steps towards aborting whoever aborts pregnancy willingly for whatever reason. What nonsense, he was even hammering on we "are going to get rid of this too" as if he was expecting to win some medals or reward for doing so.

Kylekent59:
[s]All I noted is that you both ain't matured.

So a full grown adults who are married can't control their sexual urge. [/s]

deebrain:
The best planning for you Sir is to abstain


Better still, practice releasing outside her.

Family planning medications IS NOT 100% FULL PROOF. 90% and 100% are not the same.


I salute your scoring abilities, sir.

tunnamaniah:
thank you oo, nations are already legalizing abortions. We need to start seeing the bigger picture in this country. Dont father children you cant train.

gabazin080:
Always read before you comment

Swargu:
See the way you said "she went to clear the mess", you killed a baby and called it a mess, no worry... You don't want kids you know what to do.

midnighter:
I dont think he called the pregnancy a mess

I think he called the situation of having an unwanted pregnancy despite doing family planning, a "mess", because truly, it is a mess.

There is a difference...I dont see why that should be a source of insult...

gabazin080:
My wife and I don't like condom and we are both very sexually active. to avoid stories that touch we did family planning but it failed in May and my twin girls are just a year old then, so we decided that we can't keep the pregnancy.

After clearing that mess she went back to the hospital to complain and was given another injection and some drugs that she should come back for the injection every 6 months.

Now she is pregnant again after just 4 months. family planning has failed again, what can we do to prevent another pregnancy because we are not going to keep this also and we planned not to have kids again till maybe after 10 years.


Please help with any local or natural method of family planning.

Viking07:
Nigerians and their hypocritical self righteous B.S. Thank God, God is not a Nigerian. You asked God to forgive and also "destroy" them all in one sentence. Haha.

Starz825:
Why not seek for spiritual family planning?? mtcheew
You wey be say u be ingrate

You and ur wife dey here dey born like say na ur family members dey in charge of baby production for heaven...

U no gree thank God...u still dey go ahead go abort pregnancy wey some pple dey pray,fast and cry day and night to get....

Why don't u guys adopt the use of condom instead of wasting the gift of lives God gave to u and spare me that BS that u don't like condom...but u use it for other girls out there...

Na ur wife I pity...she dey compare herself with u wey be say ur own na to release Pamm..u don stand up....all pains na she go go Tru amm....

What am saying in essence is Abortion is dangerous to ur wife's health......

Adopt the use of condom and stop deceiving yourself......or do the withdrawal method

Do u know aw many babies u will get to abort within that 10 yrs (of ur decision to suspend making babies) if u keep doing it raw....

Na your wife I pity....na she go hear am pass...

gabazin080:
My wife and I don't like condom and we are both very sexually active. to avoid stories that touch we did family planning but it failed in May and my twin girls are just a year old then, so we decided that we can't keep the pregnancy.

After clearing that mess she went back to the hospital to complain and was given another injection and some drugs that she should come back for the injection every 6 months.

Now she is pregnant again after just 4 months. family planning has failed again, what can we do to prevent another pregnancy because we are not going to keep this also and we planned not to have kids again till maybe after 10 years.


Please help with any local or natural method of family planning.

samuelson06:


How do you determine when it's safe period please?

gabazin080:
aunty you wicked o. what if I want to born again after 10 years

sinaj:
Truth is, its difficult to get a good contraceptive and it depends on her body too.

What works for another lady might not work for her. Even the IUCD is a silent killer, pills comes with its wahala too.

Op should just study his wife's cycle so he can tell when she is on her safe period or when she is ovulating so as to know when to use condom and when not to.

Kylekent59:
All I noted is that you both ain't matured.

So a full grown adults who are married can't control their sexual urge.

From my view, you are the problem. Who knows, you could have been the one that insisted on raw sex. When you were releasing / ejaculating inside her, you didn't know you were about to form a baby.


The deed had been done, endure it so that next time you are about to release inside her, you would remember your past mistakes.


If you are waiting for Nairalanders to advise you to get the pregnancy aborted , you are wasting your time.

Madeu:

Vasectomy reduces male sexual performance. You want the wife to look for an alternate virile man outside?

RedCreme21:
hope it wouldnt damage her kidney?

tunnamaniah:
what are you people saying, "abstain: from having sex with your wife?

gabazin080:
what's the essence of family planning if one can't enjoy it raw

sinaj:
You can as well undergo a vasectomy coz its the safest and most reliable.