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Re: My Dilemma: My Girlfriend's Confessions. by Logan95: 4:24am On Oct 29, 2019
AwkaetitiBabe:
Lolz.... Smooth breakup tactics so you wouldn't seem like d villian... You don't deserve me, you deserve better cheesy

We done use this line wella that year.
Exactly what I taught, but she has been begging me not to leave because of her past. We are just few months in and she let out this. I'm surprised at the level of sincerity because I can't boast of it myself.

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Re: My Dilemma: My Girlfriend's Confessions. by Logan95: 4:44am On Oct 29, 2019
Prince4945:
Youre more like her Retirement Plan ,like I mean after shes through experiencing all the "flexing" there is to life with her body (I'm in no way judging her actions of sleeping for money) she then finally decides well there's nothing more new to experience let me tie one "good boy" down.

Well , I feel , her not telling you about her past from inception of the relationship, and decides to tell you no what that you've invested your love is more like Emotional Blackmail

And she's also going further to play Reverse Psychology on you with the "you don't deserve me" line. .

Well at the end of the day Its your call bro , to stay with her and start afresh? Or otherwise..

Use your HEAD to decide
I don't know what she sees in me because honestly I'm not a good person but I have a calm personality.

She told me initially when she started developing feelings for me that she's had one abortion for her ex, I guess she was testing waters before the bombshell. I forgave her instantly because I did not ask and I am also guilty of endorsing abortion with my previous relationships.

She surprisingly volunteers information willingly which I never seen in a girl.

In my head, I know her body count is small compared to mine but I don't know why I'm still pained.

I've asked her if she regrets it and is willing to change with or without me and she replied in affirmation. However, I'll give it time and watch things unfold.

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Re: My Dilemma: My Girlfriend's Confessions. by femi4: 5:43am On Oct 29, 2019
Logan95:
Good day house.

I meet my girlfriend recently in school, she's an undergraduate student while I'm a post graduate student.

She is a very beautiful girl and well endowed. For the few months we've dated she's one of a kind. She has a good heart, buys me stuffs even though I'm not poor, cleans my house and relates well with my sister to mention a few.

However she told me about her ex, she loved him and supported him financially because he was a student and broke.

We have been going smooth until this night she decided to tell me her past without me asking. She said I am too special but I have to know who she truly is.

She started by saying she's had two abortions for her ex, that she slept with many guys for money which she eventually spent on her ex. I was dumbfounded and I'm in a dilemma now. She just said I should forgive her that I don't deserve her.

I don't know how to tackle this majorly because she confessed without me asking and she did all these before I meet her.
A hoe with a good heart. Whenever you are not around .....you can't vouch for her

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Re: My Dilemma: My Girlfriend's Confessions. by ArticleBeast: 5:57am On Oct 29, 2019
edimolu3:
You mean your gf is a hôe with a good heart?, like she's a bonafide member on instamessage and codedruns?

I'm sure many comrades in the beer parlour must have done quite a number on her.
Na the same with you wey sleep with them o... Many insta chicks don do numbers on you too. Ashewo na ashewo

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Re: My Dilemma: My Girlfriend's Confessions. by greatbrian(m): 6:18am On Oct 29, 2019
Logan95:
Good day house.

I meet my girlfriend recently in school, she's an undergraduate student while I'm a post graduate student.

She is a very beautiful girl and well endowed. For the few months we've dated she's one of a kind. She has a good heart, buys me stuffs even though I'm not poor, cleans my house and relates well with my sister to mention a few.

However she told me about her ex, she loved him and supported him financially because he was a student and broke.

We have been going smooth until this night she decided to tell me her past without me asking. She said I am too special but I have to know who she truly is.

She started by saying she's had two abortions for her ex, that she slept with many guys for money which she eventually spent on her ex. I was dumbfounded and I'm in a dilemma now. She just said I should forgive her that I don't deserve her.

I don't know how to tackle this majorly because she confessed without me asking and she did all these before I meet her.

Seriously I feel the ball his in your court. You should do what you won't regret later on in life. If you guys end up and you realise she's having issues giving birth, I hope you won't become hostile towards her. I met a teenage love of mine few months ago and I try rekindling the love. We spoke about our past even though i have little to no past. she's a graduate now and am not one yet. And when I asked her about her baggage,she's t0ld me she had 3 abortions all for the same guy. (So the guy is trying to leave her for me after enjoying everything. Kolewerk) I was shocked and I asked her what she will do if a pregnancy comes now, she told me the baby still have to go. (Obviously she still needs some church). I knew her baggage is too big for me to handle so I just find a way and end whatever we are trying to build. am not mature enough to marry her and be waiting for kids. CoZ I will always feel insecure that her past his catching up with her.


My point z this, if you really think she's a changed person, and you can make do with her baggage without rubbing it off on her somedays should in case you guys have delay in childbirth (dz if you end up) well, hug her and work something out. But if you feel your mind z too noisy like mine and you can't make do with it, just let her go instead of allowing stories that touches the heart. Moreover, she came clean to you on her own. And if am you, that ex and her should be totally separated coz a wise man once said if you are trying to avoid and forget your past, don't keep friends with shovel

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Re: My Dilemma: My Girlfriend's Confessions. by Nobody: 7:10am On Oct 29, 2019
Logan95:

Exactly what I taught, but she has been begging me not to leave because of her past. We are just few months in and she let out this. I'm surprised at the level of sincerity because I can't boast of it myself.
She has no reason to beg you. It's her past, you either accept it or leave.

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Re: My Dilemma: My Girlfriend's Confessions. by Nobody: 7:13am On Oct 29, 2019
lilwetdick:


20 years old girl with 2 abortion and lot of body count.... it seems you are with a hoe

better go find yourself a good girl...anyway it is up to you.i personally cant cope with her.



what is this one saying sef, where are the gud gurls or you mean d ones that pretend, act all gud whereas they are sumtinelse.
its so rare to see a gurl that will tell u her dirt past... don't u read what most these gurls claim here.

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Re: My Dilemma: My Girlfriend's Confessions. by Nobody: 7:30am On Oct 29, 2019
ericsmith:




what is this one saying sef, where are the gud gurls or you mean d ones that pretend, act all gud whereas they are sumtinelse.
its so rare to see a gurl that will tell u her dirt past... don't u read what most these gurls claim here.
Re: My Dilemma: My Girlfriend's Confessions. by Nobody: 7:32am On Oct 29, 2019
Logan95:

Exactly what I taught, but she has been begging me not to leave because of her past. We are just few months in and she let out this. I'm surprised at the level of sincerity because I can't boast of it myself.



Bro i wana believe yu are acting up a bit jus to make are remorseful shuldnt go beyond. its so rare 4 a gurl to tell a BF are dirt past, i think in her mind she as settled for you & she as also co nsider wat d outcome might be, buh she is trusting ur depth of understanding ... we all av a dirt past, my own past even dey smell grin take her but make it clear u accept her for who she is tryin 2 be n not for what she was.
you can also do a test later to check her womb is intact.

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Re: My Dilemma: My Girlfriend's Confessions. by trilobite: 7:41am On Oct 29, 2019
As long as the past remains the past, it doesn't matter.
Only when it becomes your present or future should you abandon ship.

Wipe the slate clean and continue the relationship. Don't tell anyone what she told you and love her like nothing was said.

I'd however she decides to continue in her past ways then you run.

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Re: My Dilemma: My Girlfriend's Confessions. by edimolu3: 7:45am On Oct 29, 2019
ArticleBeast:

Na the same with you wey sleep with them o... Many insta chicks don do numbers on you too. Ashewo na ashewo
grin grin
Re: My Dilemma: My Girlfriend's Confessions. by Adrian98(m): 8:01am On Oct 29, 2019
Samsung Galaxy S7 for sale 20k. Blank screen. Dm
Re: My Dilemma: My Girlfriend's Confessions. by SmellingAnus(m): 8:05am On Oct 29, 2019
Logan95:

She's quite a young girl at 20. I don't know why she made these mistakes
she has done only 2 abortions? My brother na saint she be sef... Nobody is perfect. . If I were in your shoes I will accept her because I am not a saint, I have probably done worse things than her, many girls are technically or directly into runs and have done more than 4 abortions... She is better than some persons I have accepted in my past...

If you feel you can't accept her just free her...

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Re: My Dilemma: My Girlfriend's Confessions. by Viqtour(m): 8:06am On Oct 29, 2019
ericsmith:




Bro i wana believe yu are acting up a bit jus to make are remorseful shuldnt go beyond. its so rare 4 a gurl to tell a BF are dirt past, i think in her mind she as settled for you & she as also co nsider wat d outcome might be, buh she is trusting ur depth of understanding ... we all av a dirt past, my own past even dey smell grin take her but make it clear u accept her for who she is tryin 2 be n not for what she was.
you can also do a test later to check her womb is intact.

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Re: My Dilemma: My Girlfriend's Confessions. by generationz(f): 8:25am On Oct 29, 2019
HarunaWest:

Why is she even apologizing for telling the truth sef...is it cos she told yah,u sef come dey form saint no. If she kept shut,heaven won't fall @ all....The fact that she confessed,you should respect her the more....The last time I remembered my body count was year 2016...And it was exactly 52...between then and now,I can't count.

My brother I tire.

I wish men too in this part of the world confessed body counts with tears and apology grin grin

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Re: My Dilemma: My Girlfriend's Confessions. by ArticleBeast: 8:26am On Oct 29, 2019
Adrian98:
Samsung Galaxy S7 for sale 20k. Blank screen. Dm
Baba troway this thing or carry am go meet repairer make them give you 5k. S7 screen na almost 40k-60k...Who wan buy debt.

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Re: My Dilemma: My Girlfriend's Confessions. by generationz(f): 8:27am On Oct 29, 2019
Logan95:
Good day house.

I meet my girlfriend recently in school, she's an undergraduate student while I'm a post graduate student.

She is a very beautiful girl and well endowed. For the few months we've dated she's one of a kind. She has a good heart, buys me stuffs even though I'm not poor, cleans my house and relates well with my sister to mention a few.

However she told me about her ex, she loved him and supported him financially because he was a student and broke.

We have been going smooth until this night she decided to tell me her past without me asking. She said I am too special but I have to know who she truly is.

She started by saying she's had two abortions for her ex, that she slept with many guys for money which she eventually spent on her ex. I was dumbfounded and I'm in a dilemma now. She just said I should forgive her that I don't deserve her.

I don't know how to tackle this majorly because she confessed without me asking and she did all these before I meet her.

I'm even surprised she told you because most of these current and former runs girls have grade A in lying. Some even top it up with stealing sef. grin grin

Well, for me I choose honesty and trustworthiness over anything.

Just check to be sure that she isn't manipulating you.

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Re: My Dilemma: My Girlfriend's Confessions. by Nobody: 8:28am On Oct 29, 2019
HarunaWest:

Why is she even apologizing for telling the truth sef...is it cos she told yah,u sef come dey form saint no. If she kept shut,heaven won't fall @ all....The fact that she confessed,you should respect her the more....The last time I remembered my body count was year 2016...And it was exactly 52...between then and now,I can't count.
Men don't have body count. We were born virgin and will die as virgin. Sex does not disvirgin a man. Only death does

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Re: My Dilemma: My Girlfriend's Confessions. by generationz(f): 8:30am On Oct 29, 2019
The girl said she slept with other men to provide for her ex.

I hope men on this forum can see that when a woman loves you, she will do anything to make you comfortable WITHIN HER POWER. This was a broke student girl who still found a means to help her ex.


Some of you don't even receive calls from your baes. grin grin

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Re: My Dilemma: My Girlfriend's Confessions. by Prince4945(m): 9:08am On Oct 29, 2019
generationz:
The girl said she slept with other men to provide for her ex.

I hope men on this forum can see that when a woman loves you, she will do anything to make you comfortable WITHIN HER POWER. This was a broke student girl who still found a means to help her ex.


Some of you don't even receive calls from your baes. grin grin


Sorry to say this but any girl that sleeps around for money to provide for another man is PATHOLOGICALLY AND PSYCHOLOGICALLY STUPID...

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Re: My Dilemma: My Girlfriend's Confessions. by generationz(f): 9:28am On Oct 29, 2019
Prince4945:



Sorry to say this but any girl that sleeps around for money to provide for another man is PATHOLOGICALLY AND PSYCHOLOGICALLY STUPID...

Very.

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Re: My Dilemma: My Girlfriend's Confessions. by Nobody: 9:31am On Oct 29, 2019
AstroG:





Rubbish as Usual

the combine IQ of your family and even future generation to come is not up to 1/10th of my IQ.. dont be jealous grin grin
Re: My Dilemma: My Girlfriend's Confessions. by Neddstark: 9:33am On Oct 29, 2019
She's telling you this so you guys break up. So then breakup
Re: My Dilemma: My Girlfriend's Confessions. by MoIbrahim: 9:35am On Oct 29, 2019
Just screen for HIV and hepatitis B. If negative, continue with her with one mind. Unless, if you think there is a lie anywhere now or later.


Logan95:
Good day house.

I meet my girlfriend recently in school, she's an undergraduate student while I'm a post graduate student.

She is a very beautiful girl and well endowed. For the few months we've dated she's one of a kind. She has a good heart, buys me stuffs even though I'm not poor, cleans my house and relates well with my sister to mention a few.

However she told me about her ex, she loved him and supported him financially because he was a student and broke.

We have been going smooth until this night she decided to tell me her past without me asking. She said I am too special but I have to know who she truly is.

She started by saying she's had two abortions for her ex, that she slept with many guys for money which she eventually spent on her ex. I was dumbfounded and I'm in a dilemma now. She just said I should forgive her that I don't deserve her.

I don't know how to tackle this majorly because she confessed without me asking and she did all these before I meet her.

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Re: My Dilemma: My Girlfriend's Confessions. by Thonee(m): 9:36am On Oct 29, 2019
Bros, the past has gone, she told you the truth out of a heart of love. So accept her and forgive her past cos urs might be the ugliest.
Re: My Dilemma: My Girlfriend's Confessions. by ednut1(m): 9:36am On Oct 29, 2019
She told you before you found out. Be wise

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Re: My Dilemma: My Girlfriend's Confessions. by Exponental(m): 9:36am On Oct 29, 2019
rossovu:


Bros if she's changed, straight 100% and her love for you is real...forgive her past and keep her... if we check ourselves kpata kpata nobody innocent.
Abi... Nobody Innocent, cos IDIbia matters can konjilise us, our past have 2face, some are more than 2. But, I think it's a test sha!!!

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Re: My Dilemma: My Girlfriend's Confessions. by Jlow2: 9:36am On Oct 29, 2019
For coming out to say the truth alone is enuf to marry her
Re: My Dilemma: My Girlfriend's Confessions. by Nobody: 9:36am On Oct 29, 2019
when a woman loves a man ehn.... shout out to all genuine women out there. I celebrate you

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Re: My Dilemma: My Girlfriend's Confessions. by naijadrivablog: 9:37am On Oct 29, 2019
Logan95:
Good day house.

I meet my girlfriend recently in school, she's an undergraduate student while I'm a post graduate student.

She is a very beautiful girl and well endowed. For the few months we've dated she's one of a kind. She has a good heart, buys me stuffs even though I'm not poor, cleans my house and relates well with my sister to mention a few.

However she told me about her ex, she loved him and supported him financially because he was a student and broke.

We have been going smooth until this night she decided to tell me her past without me asking. She said I am too special but I have to know who she truly is.

She started by saying she's had two abortions for her ex, that she slept with many guys for money which she eventually spent on her ex. I was dumbfounded and I'm in a dilemma now. She just said I should forgive her that I don't deserve her.

I don't know how to tackle this majorly because she confessed without me asking and she did all these before I meet her.

Wife her!!! For her to tell you, which you should tell her about you too, is enough.

in courtship, even if you have been a robber, tell your spouse. He or she should know everything about you, so no surprises in future.

But PRAY to God before proposing to her o.

I am married, so I know.

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Re: My Dilemma: My Girlfriend's Confessions. by Emily22(m): 9:37am On Oct 29, 2019
MoIbrahim:
Just screen for HIV and hepatitis B. If negative, continue with her with one mind. Unless, if you think there is a lie anywhere now or later.



U sure op never kpansh her raw....u know after begging and pleading in relationship,sex follows to calm the atmosphere......

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Re: My Dilemma: My Girlfriend's Confessions. by DenreleDave(m): 9:37am On Oct 29, 2019
It's very pathetic.
I don't know what kinda mistake a 20 years old lady wud have done to have done abortion twice and slept with so many different men for money..

Imagine 20 years old, just 20 years old


But it's op to u sha, u too no be saint but he even good for u as a man but as a woman, chai.. Its bad


20 years, 2 abortions, and like 20 to 30 body counts..

God knows I can't marry such lady, for me oo

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