Logan95:

She's quite a young girl at 20. I don't know why she made these mistakes

which means that was not the way she was brought up. Any child that has home training & starts misbehaving as an adult will definetly go back cos her mind will trouble her always. She wants to change her ways. Secondly she loves you I mean true LOVE. If I were you I will take & be her garud. She has realized that. That way is hell & am so happy that she turned back very early.am happy for her. Most times its only our mistakes that will tell us that the words of the elders are the way

I'm sure you are one of billions of people in the world who dislike bad habits , don't you ? Well then DUMP HER " WELL ENDOWED " BEHIND LIKE ONE ! And oh , go for the BIG TEST in a goverment hospital .God help us all .

safarigirl:


Sense.

Sense is very important in every relationship.

The issue is not sleeping around, the issue is her reason. Very stupid reason to sleep around, it would have even been better if she was using the money to buy handbags and shoes for herself, than to dash money she smashed for, to one yeye boy.

Doesn't he have dick? Is it not his mates that are servicing sugar mummies? Why will she use her pussy and womb to elevate one useless fowl, that went on to throw her away.

I bind senselessness in my life, God gave everybody private parts, I cannot be using my own to work for somebody's son.

how are we sure she did it because of a man, was she working for a love-vendor.... that 20 years old girl know what she is doing, no man forced her, she slept with men for cash to fund her lifestyle of buying iphones.

the girl is just an emotional black mailer, looking for a weak man to tell pity stories.

Emaprince:
Please dont believe that crappy story. She never slept around to sponsor the guy. NEVER!!! She only told the lie to make OP see her as a supportive woman. Forget story

She probably was sleeping round for money to buy material stuffs..just like millions of girls do in this country. But the thing is, Naija girls like fine boys alot. And these fine boys are usually lazy to hustle. And they know girls dey rush them...so they use what the have to get what they want - Eat your pussy.y and still talk you into giving them money. The dont care how you got the money.

You will see a small girl using gadgets worth hundreds of thousand, yet her known boyfriend is one small boy in his early 20s. We know say no be the boy dey buy those stuffs. These babes wants the best of both worlds. Enjoy reach men money...and also keep one fine boy on the side. Later, the fine boys who are usually play boys will move unto the next babe.


She was promiscous and wanted to enjoy life. Saying she did it under the pretext of providing for a boyfriend is a barefaced lie.

Nice perspective...

Bros I for like make we compare notes o....because the girl wey I dey date now na d same story she tell me o.....and na undergraduate too....abeg na which school ur girl dey?

Logan95:
Good day house.

I meet my girlfriend recently in school, she's an undergraduate student while I'm a post graduate student.

She is a very beautiful girl and well endowed. For the few months we've dated she's one of a kind. She has a good heart, buys me stuffs even though I'm not poor, cleans my house and relates well with my sister to mention a few.

However she told me about her ex, she loved him and supported him financially because he was a student and broke.

We have been going smooth until this night she decided to tell me her past without me asking. She said I am too special but I have to know who she truly is.

She started by saying she's had two abortions for her ex, that she slept with many guys for money which she eventually spent on her ex. I was dumbfounded and I'm in a dilemma now. She just said I should forgive her that I don't deserve her.

I don't know how to tackle this majorly because she confessed without me asking and she did all these before I meet her.

Logan95:
Good day house.

I meet my girlfriend recently in school, she's an undergraduate student while I'm a post graduate student.

She is a very beautiful girl and well endowed. For the few months we've dated she's one of a kind. She has a good heart, buys me stuffs even though I'm not poor, cleans my house and relates well with my sister to mention a few.

However she told me about her ex, she loved him and supported him financially because he was a student and broke.

We have been going smooth until this night she decided to tell me her past without me asking. She said I am too special but I have to know who she truly is.

She started by saying she's had two abortions for her ex, that she slept with many guys for money which she eventually spent on her ex. I was dumbfounded and I'm in a dilemma now. She just said I should forgive her that I don't deserve her.

I don't know how to tackle this majorly because she confessed without me asking and she did all these before I meet her.

Guy, the fact that she opened her mouth to tell you about her ugly past means she wants to change and stick with you. I see a girl that wants to be loyal. You can dump her if you can't get over it. But I will give you 1 guarantee, the next girl you date will have a higher body count, won't tell you shit about her past, and will continue the runs on top your head.

You have a girl that wants to be loyal, leave the past where it is.

Oh and OP, most sexually active girls these days have done at least 1 abortion

naijadrivablog:


Forget,las las, your wife was someone's ex. Give and take, I like bad gals that have DECIDED to change and get married. How do you know? redpill won't teach you that.

yes my wife was somebody ex does not mean my wife was a hoe and going about doing abortion and sleeping with all men for money

pocohantas:


Lmao. Very senseless. Ironically she thinks it is love- but that guy thinks she is very stupid. Even the ones that give without hoeing, they call fish brain. Come be the one wey use her vagina dey sponsor one eleribu guy. Dude is probably somewhere looking for the most decent woman to marry.

I remember having a conversation with a friend and he said I look like someone that can't compromise. I said if it is sensible, I will. He said it mustn't be sensible. Told him I don't do senseless things. No disrespect to LOVE and people "in love" - but anything that won't make SENSE to me in few years time or make me live in regrets, I would never do such in the name of love. Girls should be using their heads biko..

only God knows where she is getting the money she is using to buy thos current boyfriend his own gifts too.

20-year old undergraduate, which work she dey do wey she dey buy current boyfriend gifts? Abi is it her former customers that are still assisting her financially?

I don't trust she has gathered sense since she left her ex. Na small pikin make her dey even tell her current guy about her atrocities in the last relationship, she has obviously not attained sense.

I hope uncle was also nice enough to tell her of his own sexual history, before somebody will come knocking on the door with a child he knew nothing of.

Ladies, we talk too much.. Chai !!!

Logan95:
Good day house.

I meet my girlfriend recently in school, she's an undergraduate student while I'm a post graduate student.

She is a very beautiful girl and well endowed. For the few months we've dated she's one of a kind. She has a good heart, buys me stuffs even though I'm not poor, cleans my house and relates well with my sister to mention a few.

However she told me about her ex, she loved him and supported him financially because he was a student and broke.

We have been going smooth until this night she decided to tell me her past without me asking. She said I am too special but I have to know who she truly is.

She started by saying she's had two abortions for her ex, that she slept with many guys for money which she eventually spent on her ex. I was dumbfounded and I'm in a dilemma now. She just said I should forgive her that I don't deserve her.

I don't know how to tackle this majorly because she confessed without me asking and she did all these before I meet her.

She appreciates you a lot to tell you the truth. She and your sister relates well(which is not common).

Dude, she's into you.

All that is past bro and does not count anymore we all have past let what is past be past move on.If you like her continue the relationship

Xano:


She appreciates you a lot to tell you the truth. She and your sister relates well(which is not common).

Dude, she's into you.

which into you, when does telling someone your past means love??

everybody got pasts, if i tell an gf my past does it means i love her

rossovu:


Bros if she's changed, straight 100% and her love for you is real...forgive her past and keep her... if we check ourselves kpata kpata nobody innocent.

God will not allow a female to manipulate me thus.

When they want to eat their cake and have it they come with that guilt tripping tale of let the saint cast the first stone.

Guy, if the confession does not sit well with you, bail out. Conception issues due to multiple abortions is a real issue. Forgiveness is different from foolhardiness.

Thing is, for those saying she was honest enough to tell him and should be appreciated, if she deceived him, it will come out one way or the other, and it will be worse then.

Euegene100001:
All that is past bro and does not count anymore we all have past let what is past be past move on.If you like her continue the relationship

past determines future stability

Logan95:

She's quite a young girl at 20. I don't know why she made these mistakes

Abort !!! 123 abort!!!

Her opening up might be saving you from unknown. She might have slept with ritualists.

A hoe will always see hoeing as a way to rescue situations in future if things go south.

It takes a lot of courage to start going to diff men's homes, sleep over night and have sex.

I'm sure she is into juju also.

So many ppl marry them and things became great for them. But you might not be lucky.

DanXplore:


Naa, stop being naive. She might be playing on his psychology thinking that being forthright would either earn her pity love, his compassion or trust to the end that she wins his love. She might also be trying to dampen the effect of his reaction should he find out about her past. You just could never tell.

The rule of thumb is to always know what you want and have a set of principles you stand by.
For me, I cannot see myself marrying a girl that is not a virgin or someone I am not 100% sure lost hers to rape talkless of the lady in your case. That's one of my core criteria for anything near marriage.I have been heavily criticised for it but I don't care. As orthodox as it may sound, I still stand by it. My reason is that I have observed overtime that Okafor's law is rarely false. Secondly, how would a non-virgin mom with premarital s*x exploits train the standard of kids I want to raise should I decide to have one? The non-virgins might hate me for saying this but deep within, they know it is true.



@OP, the fact that you brought this here shows you are not comfortable with her. If you aren't now, you likely might never be. If you try to manage me now, it will likely suffice in future with an even more devastating effect. For me, you just have one option now and you must act quiclky. It is wickedness to waste a girl's time or increase her vagina's odometer if you know you will not marry her.

How do you intend to find those virgins please?

Logan95:
Good day house.

I meet my girlfriend recently in school, she's an undergraduate student while I'm a post graduate student.

She is a very beautiful girl and well endowed. For the few months we've dated she's one of a kind. She has a good heart, buys me stuffs even though I'm not poor, cleans my house and relates well with my sister to mention a few.

However she told me about her ex, she loved him and supported him financially because he was a student and broke.

We have been going smooth until this night she decided to tell me her past without me asking. She said I am too special but I have to know who she truly is.

She started by saying she's had two abortions for her ex, that she slept with many guys for money which she eventually spent on her ex. I was dumbfounded and I'm in a dilemma now. She just said I should forgive her that I don't deserve her.

I don't know how to tackle this majorly because she confessed without me asking and she did all these before I meet her.

.. Bros if she has all those good attributes as u claim stick with her.. After all is not like u ur self is a virgin.. She has told you her own past u self tell her ur own make una move on.. Nobody holy pass

Logan95:

She's quite a young girl at 20. I don't know why she made these mistakes

Children messing up everywhere. This one have started straving before she even see her first menses.

Sir, a lady that sleeps with men for money is call.................?

You can't turn a hore to a wife, never.
Did you say abortion? Sampling around without protection in Lagos of all places?
No way, this is an open sepulchre, flee.

It's the mercy of God that speaks for you.

Bro 1 point I picked is that she told u without you evening asking bro if she decided to tel u her secret Bro she's good for you because a lot of ladies out there are cooperate olosho but for her to come out straight to you Bro she knows what's he wants and she's ready for a real relationship don't let her go because if you do am sorry for you to get another honest lady like that an ultimate search let it go u sef Don knack plenty pussy so u are no different from her so let the past be the past and build a future together if u feel she's the right one and don't u ever for once insult her with her past because if you do u will regret it for the rest f your life no perfect woman or man out there we all have our dirty past and secret

lilwetdick:
you boys are funny ooh

what do you expect after buying lot of stuff for your broke ass or did you think it was free

everything was a game from start, a game to control your manhood..funny enough she is 20 years and still buying gifts for you, where is she getting the money from??

best will be to stop collecting gifts and use your brain

where did the op say her age?

partnerbizn4:


How do you intend to find those virgins please?

Ask am oh...

rossovu:


Bros if she's changed, straight 100% and her love for you is real...forgive her past and keep her... if we check ourselves kpata kpata nobody innocent.

me no go mind that kind babe sha.

UnknownQueen:


Sincerely, I can only imagine what would have been running thru my hubby's head if he didn't marry me as one too..
Cos I guess for some partners who didn't meet their other half as one will be having issues with trust...
As much as my hubby and I sometimes argue and fight over issues like financial responsibilitlies, child raising, home commitment amongst, he doesn't for once have any doubt about my fidelity to him unlike others, and that feeling alone is heavenly....

Happy for you. It was worth the wait.

But, did you date persons before you met him? And how did you manage the pressure of sex all through?

partnerbizn4:


How do you intend to find those virgins please?

I've met two overseas (one brit, one pakistani), a few in Nigeria and i met one recently on nairaland...as she claims though. I think people with standards still exist.

safarigirl:
even me o

Today is not the day I empathize with anybody. I cannot relate. As old as I am, I have never done abortion, never even had sex, so, I cannot empathize because I cannot understand why someone who is 20 will be sleeping around to fund a man's lifestyle, not even a relation. That is some high level of mind fuckery

I have been making money for the last three years and helping myself without sleeping with anybody. I cannot relate, I have self respect and dignity, but most importantly, I have sense, even at 20 I had sense.

Today is not the day I empathize, certainly on another day, with an older person, that has a more valid reason for sleeping around.

Please, If I have ever quoted you wrongly..or said anything that might be directly or indirectly disrespectful to you, I deeply regret it.....and hope you forgive me.


For this store though. Its hard for me to fall for it. It looks like manipulation. ...maybe because I have witnessed something not really similar to this though.

That one na my female friends cousin who had a fiance that wanted to come and meet her parent. Meanwhile, she also had a boyfriend in the same town where her parents lives. She was in confusion and asked my friend what she should do because the boyfriend she had over there is well known by all her family members and even partly sponsored her through University. The guy also was prepping to marry her too...but she liked the new guy whom she met during her NYSC more.

Her cousin told her to come clean to the new guy so that if any problem erupts, it wont be news to him...I know she must have lied and spiced up her story to make it believable to the knew guy...that dude agreed to everything she said. Dude must be feeling he met a very honest babe who came clean without him asking.

Now, in this story, its possible someone threatened the babe with a revelation of her past to OP ..that she had to do the confession herself to quench the imminent fire.

If she's truely repented you can forge ahead bro...
But i will advice you run a test to make sure her womb is still in tact

hopefulLandlord:


Why do you hold the opinion that a virgin will tear his life wide open?

Becuase the virgin will start by not being a virgin in the firest place. Chances are he will never find a better woman than that one he thinks is an olosho now.


Signed BIGCOWHORN

DanXplore:


I've met two overseas (one brit, one pakistani), a few in Nigeria and i met one recently on nairaland...as she claims though. I think people with standards still exist.

Only you?

Is it that you advertise for virgins?

A post graduate student writing like this? Can someone fax him a "mopol" slap please!

I believe you are confused! What do you really want?

Logan95:
Good day house.

I meet my girlfriend recently in school, she's an undergraduate student while I'm a post graduate student.

You shall know the truth and the truth shall set you free.

You need also to be truthful to yourself
1. Is your problem the fact that she told you the truth OR she is not a wife material?
2. If she hadn't told you, would you have preferred it that way?
3. Would you tell your wife to be your past or keep secrets about your example?

1. She wants a relationship based on the truth and not lies: she's free now
2. She knows the risk of telling you but love compelled her.
3. She made mistake of the past with a hard guy who pretended to love her.
4. She has probably turned a new leaf: don't break faith with her.

rossovu:


Bros if she's changed, straight 100% and her love for you is real...forgive her past and keep her... if we check ourselves kpata kpata nobody innocent.

help me tell am oo