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Re: My Dilemma: My Girlfriend's Confessions. by ireneidiva(f): 3:27pm On Oct 29, 2019 |
DanXplore:Are you a virgin? |
Re: My Dilemma: My Girlfriend's Confessions. by Nobody: 3:38pm On Oct 29, 2019 |
Ogediluv: continue waiting for nice advice |
Re: My Dilemma: My Girlfriend's Confessions. by golddare: 3:39pm On Oct 29, 2019 |
Forgive her, put her on probation, be sure she's cut all ties with her ex. She loves you. |
Re: My Dilemma: My Girlfriend's Confessions. by Nobody: 3:42pm On Oct 29, 2019 |
ericsmith: yes indeed, all these are stories pity stories does not sell much to me as i have said, she is just confessin to get pity, this is pure emotional blackmail she is 20 and have done all these things, what happens when she is 30 sorry you cant save a hoe, you cant make a hoe to be a good gf 1 Like |
Re: My Dilemma: My Girlfriend's Confessions. by Nobody: 3:42pm On Oct 29, 2019 |
ireneidiva: Of course. Wouldn't I be a hypocrite if I wasn't? |
Re: My Dilemma: My Girlfriend's Confessions. by Nobody: 3:47pm On Oct 29, 2019 |
partnerbizn4: There's no special tactics, i believe them based on the word of their mouth. Virginity is something people who want to go into a serious relationship will not lie about. Most times, It is often very easy to believe them because their chastity reflects in every other aspect of their lives. All the ones I met are usually honest, loyal and hardworking. These are qualities I can kill for. 2 Likes |
Re: My Dilemma: My Girlfriend's Confessions. by omobaba1759: 3:57pm On Oct 29, 2019 |
SOME GIRLS JUST DON'T KNOW HOW TO KEEP QUITE AFTER DICKMITIZED. NOW BABA WILL BE THINKING OF BREAKING UP WITH HER |
Re: My Dilemma: My Girlfriend's Confessions. by iamJ(m): 4:15pm On Oct 29, 2019 |
Every guy man story No be today news |
Re: My Dilemma: My Girlfriend's Confessions. by cutefy: 4:17pm On Oct 29, 2019 |
Logan95: Bros... you've got a golden opportunity at your doorstep. That girl is extraordinary. She is just too perfect to be a wife material because she's a girl with conscience. She's someone you can trust tomorrow and commit your life to. She told you her past so that she can be free with you. And your forgiveness will help liberate her from her past. As a matter of fact, she's ready to commit herself to you in the endless journey called marriage.. Think about this for a while, most girls have done worst, but they will pretend and act angelic all through. These category of girls have their heart sealed and they can sell you, your family, your generation and your unborn generations without blinking an eye. If you know what's good for you, grab her with your life. If not someone else's who understand her value will take it from you. If you need an angel that has never made any mistake in life, wait till you get to heaven brother. Penitence is the key bro... as long as she feels bad about her past and confided in you about it, she's good to grab. 2 Likes |
Re: My Dilemma: My Girlfriend's Confessions. by rossovu: 4:19pm On Oct 29, 2019 |
jclassiq: she did that to her ex and not to him... what if she had kept it to herself. Think about it. Be wise and appreciate those that trust you enough to tell you about their past. 1 Like |
Re: My Dilemma: My Girlfriend's Confessions. by kay29000(m): 4:19pm On Oct 29, 2019 |
Jamiuademola: |
Re: My Dilemma: My Girlfriend's Confessions. by rossovu: 4:23pm On Oct 29, 2019 |
Gazzy88:Oga mi...no vex... thanks for the correction 1 Like |
Re: My Dilemma: My Girlfriend's Confessions. by BatleFox: 4:29pm On Oct 29, 2019 |
UnknownQueen: @the bolded. She's not. But if you want to bet quote me agin. |
Re: My Dilemma: My Girlfriend's Confessions. by Nobody: 4:31pm On Oct 29, 2019 |
please what is body count. Abeg make person clear me |
Re: My Dilemma: My Girlfriend's Confessions. by Nobody: 4:34pm On Oct 29, 2019 |
lilwetdick: How did you pass your O'level English Language? Read first before you comment next time. |
Re: My Dilemma: My Girlfriend's Confessions. by Logan95: 4:39pm On Oct 29, 2019 |
I want to appreciate all your efforts in addressing this situation. I want to state that my last ex I dated long ago was a direct opposite which I detest. She can lie even when caught read handed. To the negative comments, I understand your perception and, experience might have taught you worse. To the positive ones, I thank you immensely. I believe it's a rational choice I have to make and judging from my precedents I have not meet a girl like her. She just texted me that she feels so much guilt, I tried to explain to her that I'm not a Saint too but she interjected that she cares only about my personality not my past. I'm happy she's not interested in Nairaland, if she had read all this she would feel wanted and proud. However, I'll watch her a bit and act like she never said anything. If she hears my past, she'll brighten up immediately because I'm a small devil. Also, I'm ready for the wedding oo. The marriage advice was too much, I hope you'll match the counseling with financial input Thanks guys. 5 Likes |
Re: My Dilemma: My Girlfriend's Confessions. by poshpaul: 4:40pm On Oct 29, 2019 |
Logan95: Forgive and see as it unfolds. If she can expose such to you, it means she has a very good heart and rare to find in this slay mamas. Hold on to her and see if any other thing unfold. Above all, pray! 1 Like |
Re: My Dilemma: My Girlfriend's Confessions. by Nobody: 4:42pm On Oct 29, 2019 |
olasunkanmimart: abeg go sleep.danke |
Re: My Dilemma: My Girlfriend's Confessions. by Macgabe(m): 4:59pm On Oct 29, 2019 |
Logan95: Let me advice you as a brother... 1. If you are capable and have intention of having a serious relationship with her, take her for a test to be sure she can still conceive(if having kid(s) is a priority)and her womb is in good condition. 2. Its her past, we all have past so forgive her and let go. 3. For the mere fact that she confessed without you asking means she has a good "conscience", she's going to make you happy in future. But, if you feel you won't be able to deal with her confession/past in future, kindly let her go. Don't ever use it against her in future. 1 Like |
Re: My Dilemma: My Girlfriend's Confessions. by Legendguru: 5:05pm On Oct 29, 2019 |
Elshaddai |
Re: My Dilemma: My Girlfriend's Confessions. by Analysiscorner: 5:11pm On Oct 29, 2019 |
The fact that she told you before marriage is a sure sign that she loves you and wants you to make your decision with her past open to you. If you are not looking for a virgin, then think about her good qualities. It is still you that will decide whom you want to marry, but don't base your rejection of her on her past if you aren't looking for a virgin. Above all, pray earnestly that the grace of God will reveal to you whom to marry. |
Re: My Dilemma: My Girlfriend's Confessions. by jclassiq(m): 5:26pm On Oct 29, 2019 |
rossovu: Its really none of my business but I believe she still has it in her to repeat it again. |
Re: My Dilemma: My Girlfriend's Confessions. by iamwhat: 5:28pm On Oct 29, 2019 |
Patiently waiting to be the last to comment ..... Guy, you're currently the past me and guess what? you won't yield to the best advice given to you by the right and best person that knows the entire story than yourself (Your Girlfriend)... She already gave you the best advice but I know you'll be stupid and she also knows you'll be stupid that's why she quickly played the game... she told you "You deserve something far better than her" but you won't yield. LEAVE HER NOW! else she'll apologies to you again may be after the 5th abortion. |
Re: My Dilemma: My Girlfriend's Confessions. by mechanics(m): 5:28pm On Oct 29, 2019 |
She truly loves you, if you love her, forgive her after all, Christ's always forgives us of our sins when we call upon Him with a sincere mind. |
Re: My Dilemma: My Girlfriend's Confessions. by sinceraconcept(m): 5:32pm On Oct 29, 2019 |
Logan95:Dont make hell of a mistake Mr Man, even Nate Dogg a gangsta G-Funk west coast California singer said "Ring or no ring, a hoe gonna be a hoe, while you're sleeping,she be creeping at the back door, coming to meet me dying to please me, your wife, my bitch, your love, my trick, gave me your chips, I drove your whips, her mouth,my dick. Never make hell of a mistake in your life. My mum was telling me last night about a lady who left her husband for her ex-boyfriend because the husband doesn't Bleep her as good as the ex-boyfriend, imagine after kids o,i'm sure the husband married her as well because he forgave her past after telling him something similar to what this girl told you. When people say those types of women shouldn't be wifed up, do you think they're joking,even our Prophet Muhammad in Islam said a man should never marry such and such women should only be married to savage men of lowest class, drunkards, amugbos, chronic womanizers |
Re: My Dilemma: My Girlfriend's Confessions. by swaggzo(m): 5:36pm On Oct 29, 2019 |
Logan95: So sad reading these comments on this website. Did you love that girl before her confession? Does she show you genuine love? You will end up with sister Amaka the saint who will in tears tell you she lost her virginity by mistake and you're her second lover ever... But meanwhile, she has had 300 lovers, 83 abortions, and has also eaten poop for free. Guy your girl did the do because she was in school, the brokeness, the pressure, the experience. If she looks genuine, let nothing on this thread or anywhere affect what you felt for her. Nkechi the Jezebel that tells you the näked truth is better than Sister Amaka the saint who'll feed you with the clothed lies that you'll never discover. Bros be a wise man. If she shows signs of waywardness, then she's wayward. But if she shows genuine repentance and love... Oga just use your head. You may lose this and never find what you're looking for. I've learned my lesson. Do you want to end like me? 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: My Dilemma: My Girlfriend's Confessions. by emzynuel1: 5:54pm On Oct 29, 2019 |
do not look at people past |
Re: My Dilemma: My Girlfriend's Confessions. by Fantazy(m): 6:05pm On Oct 29, 2019 |
It'll be hard having that in mind especially whenever u guys are together! Anyway! Serve her what these guests were served on her birthday https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=3RzyvKAodTQ?list=PLc-1L5P5NW1gV7AEPOen34-iW3rEqQ6Rn |
Re: My Dilemma: My Girlfriend's Confessions. by MichaelDaniel10(m): 6:15pm On Oct 29, 2019 |
Bro she told you the truth already if you love her don't let her go but make sure she cut all connections she and that her ex get o e get y. Please stay with her and advice her I believe you're a good man that's y she told you.she'll change for good and don't remind her of her past again o. |
Re: My Dilemma: My Girlfriend's Confessions. by Bukkaty: 6:21pm On Oct 29, 2019 |
She's just trying to know if you truely love her |
Re: My Dilemma: My Girlfriend's Confessions. by placeofallure(f): 6:56pm On Oct 29, 2019 |
Prince4945: Ubunja miseducation student sighted! |
Re: My Dilemma: My Girlfriend's Confessions. by vwede4trips(m): 7:03pm On Oct 29, 2019 |
nuelsam:I've heard about this Okafors Law too much. Do you know any website I can download the movie from? |
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