blinking001:
I'm very good at reciprocating things. If I'm treated nicely I'll surely reciprocate but if you dare treat me badly I'll visit your sorry ass with fire and brimstone. I love and hate with the force of a volcano. Btw whatever I decide to loose automatically has no value to me whatsoever.

MissJoy29:
Very true. One of the reasons people are suffering in their marriages; they were too careless and stupid to lose who they should have held tight.

degamemaster:



It seems you're going through a difficult time in a relationship. No worry, everything will be fine, ok?

greggng:



Common I am not done with you yet...I am about to start...don't walk away yet....is that what your man has been telling you?

prizlezzlalasky:
You just spoke to me at the right time. Thanks for this post @ Op

seniorgozman:
Actually they know your value but they will never believe that you will leave them thus their attitude.

binarymachine:
In life, the availability and presence of something everywhere lowers its value and makes it cheap. This makes it easy for people to play with it, use it as careless as they please and even waste it. Lets take PMS( petrol) for example, people only realise how important it is when there is scarcity of it. They queue up, fight, curse at the government and beg to get it. When they eventually do, they use it wisely and judiciously. This is the same liquid they run their generating sets with till dawn when it was available.

In relationships however, you have no choice but to make yourself available, since you need to be physically present to show them you love and care for them. Besides, Love grows well with physical presence. As you play, laugh, cry, talk, build intimacy and spend quality time together, the bond gets stronger and the affection thicker.

The problem comes when one partner begins to underappreciate the presence of the other in their life. You have made yourself available, put in your whole heart to the growth of the relationship. You have loved, worked, sacrificed, provided, fended for, tended to, cooked, cleaned, washed, spent money, even quarrelled and waded off friends and family all because of them and still your good is not enough! They don’t seem to see what you are doing for them, infact any person could have easily done so. They rarely thank you for your sacrifices and instead deny or belittle the ones you have done in the past. Its time to make your self scarce like petrol in their life!

Put the whole relationship on suspension, separate yourself from them, let them miss and yearn for you for a while and even as long as possible. They are taking you for granted because they think you are too cheap and weak to walk away. Let them find another person to do all the things you do for them, tolerate their rubbish and still not be appreciated, that is when they will realise that they have made a big mistake, that they had gold in their hands and failed to recognise it.

People do not know the value of what they have until they loose it or it feels as if they have lost it. It will be hard for you, you love them so much but for your self worth and dignity, take that walk and give them time alone as long as possible. If possible give them a little of the treatment they gave you before walking.

If they realise their mistakes on time and come to ask for your forgiveness genuinely, accept and give your favourable terms before going back. If they are too blind to realise your worth in their life, you were probably worth nothing to them all these while, good you left. Start afresh and build your life again this time making sure you correct the mistakes you did in the previous one.

Source: https://flipmemes.com/2019/09/30/they-wont-know-your-value-untill-they-loose-you/

Beautiful write up

franchasng:
There is someone for everyone that have sense and uses their wisdom without being unrealistic

Yuneehk:
Very apt! If I'm in, I am fully. If I'm out, nothing brings me back. That's because I'd have tried to make things work. Very wrong to stay where you're not wanted. You know your value and know you deserve better than you're getting so you leave to see better things ahead. Now, when you eventually realise my worth, I'd have been long gone. Who goes back to their vomit anyways?

sirBLUNT:
happy new month

praz001:
I thought all was gone... until I realised I wasn't the only one to have had such experience.

After so much care financially, academically together with her siblings....

prepare meal and take it to her work place only for her to tell me it isnt so tasty and I should have fried it deep and add enough seasoning even when every other person who tasted it were like this good is really tasty.... huuuuun!!!

I never knew I was just wasting my time and she want even satisfied until I got the greatest surprise of my life on 15th March 2019.....

But guys! now, I have extra peace of mind after she got pregnant for another guy... My data sharing is saved, my cash and even gift to her siblings , calling for airtime is saved...

she will always flash me daily..

****Let's always read the signs. Those who never appreciate little things you do for them and who will always have one financial problem or another are terrible

SAMTOBIJU:
Nice contribution. That is the way it should be. I must also add that you are very beautiful.

praz001:
I thought all was gone... until I realised I wasn't the only one to have had such experience.

After so much care financially, academically together with her siblings....

prepare meal and take it to her work place only for her to tell me it isnt so tasty and I should have fried it deep and add enough seasoning even when every other person who tasted it were like this good is really tasty.... huuuuun!!!

I never knew I was just wasting my time and she want even satisfied until I got the greatest surprise of my life on 15th March 2019.....

But guys! now, I have extra peace of mind after she got pregnant for another guy... My data sharing is saved, my cash and even gift to her siblings , calling for airtime is saved...

she will always flash me daily..

****Let's always read the signs. Those who never appreciate little things you do for them and who will always have one financial problem or another are terrible

MissJoy29:

It's not yet a new month in this part of the world.

praz001:
I thought all was gone... until I realised I wasn't the only one to have had such experience.

After so much care financially, academically together with her siblings....

prepare meal and take it to her work place only for her to tell me it isnt so tasty and I should have fried it deep and add enough seasoning even when every other person who tasted it were like this good is really tasty.... huuuuun!!!

I never knew I was just wasting my time and she want even satisfied until I got the greatest surprise of my life on 15th March 2019.....

But guys! now, I have extra peace of mind after she got pregnant for another guy... My data sharing is saved, my cash and even gift to her siblings , calling for airtime is saved...

she will always flash me daily..

****Let's always read the signs. Those who never appreciate little things you do for them and who will always have one financial problem or another are terrible

kessler53:
God bless you for this post,my fiance is taking me for granted, but I thank God as we never tie the knots.I will surprise her.

KevMitnick:

Be nice

Lucid1:

You probably didn't understand the write-up.

MissJoy29:

Am/was i not?

KevMitnick:

Nope, a simple reply of "Happy new month to you too" won't harm you na. , instead of that answer you gave.