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Re: In Pains. Help Me With Advice On This. by Angelacruz: 5:42am On Nov 05, 2019
Best way is to stop picking her calls
adult91:
she's still in the guys place she's still in the guys place . I just need advice on how to leave her. mods pls help me
Re: In Pains. Help Me With Advice On This. by adult91: 6:13am On Nov 05, 2019
Angelacruz:
Best way is to stop picking her calls
she would come to my house. my mom likes her so much
Re: In Pains. Help Me With Advice On This. by Sonfethopia: 6:40am On Nov 05, 2019
adult91:
she's still in the guys place she's still in the guys place . I just need advice on how to leave her. mods pls help me

You are weak. You no need advise here. If u marry this babe na people pikin she go carry give u say na ur own.
Re: In Pains. Help Me With Advice On This. by Rosay15(f): 6:44am On Nov 05, 2019
Offpoint:
Re-write in Yoruba...

I'm too dull to comprehend what you wrote.
. I swear you no well cheesy
I no know maybe op go die if he tell the babe he no Dey do again
Re: In Pains. Help Me With Advice On This. by Yinibixema: 8:05am On Nov 05, 2019
adult91:
she would come to my house. my mom likes her so much
You wanna hear the truth? You are really really weak

In life, you have to be strong and consider yourself first and be selfish. If you can be these things, then you won’t be thinking of taking a cheating girl friend back
Re: In Pains. Help Me With Advice On This. by Offpoint: 8:41am On Nov 05, 2019
Rosay15:
. I swear you no well cheesy I no know maybe op go die if he tell the babe he no Dey do again
Dear I cannot come and go and kill myself die for nairaland guys matter

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Re: In Pains. Help Me With Advice On This. by bigl: 9:16am On Nov 05, 2019
adult91:
Yesterday my gf left for school ABSU precisely saying she wanted to know what to do on using matric number wrongly in her IT. I don't even understand that. Being a gal I want to marry and my people know her, I had a little assurance that she would behave or respect me in my absence. But I was worried cos she finally shaved her pubic region after refusing to do that for so long for fear of rashes.To my greatest surprise, I called her and she told me she was in a friend's house and it happened he is a guy bestie. (Video call revelation). Her excuses was that only final years were allowed in the hostel for now and all her friends had gone to see their boyfriends, hence why she stayed with the guy. fast forward on that, after denying for so long was that she admitted having sex with him. I pretended to be fine that she said the truth as I was not going to be with her if she goes back fully. I know it's the wrong time to hold on to her but we have even gone for fertility tests together. What's the best way to part with her because I know I cannot live with it if I continue with her. Advice needed cos I want to do it like Joseph but I fear she might go pleading in various ways thereby making our matter known publicly. I don't want this dirty linen washed in the sight of people who know me. Thanks

Stop being sentimental bro!

Relationship decisions need to be taken with all seriousness.

You are simply bothered she will call your family members to come beg u or something and that is bullshit!

If she could cheat on you this way, she will do it again!

She knew what she was doing and she took u for granted cos "she knew u loved her deeply and trully".

So, don't play with fire bro! She will do it again and again.

Call it quit and damn the consequence!
Re: In Pains. Help Me With Advice On This. by Oriyomin25(m): 10:43am On Nov 05, 2019
adult91:
like I said I want to put her away like Joseph wanted to put away Mary when he discovered she is pregnant. I don't want it to get to the ears of people that knows us and some will laugh at it. Want the best way to put her away but I fear she might come pleading even publicly. I want to avoid that
Baba let people laugh at u atleast u know in ur mind u made d right decision. get out of the relationship if u can't forgive and forget, if u continue only to be knacking her thinking u will discharge her when u are ready to settle down it may be too late. from experience
Re: In Pains. Help Me With Advice On This. by DenreleDave(m): 10:59am On Nov 05, 2019
adult91:
she's still in the guys place she's still in the guys place . I just need advice on how to leave her. mods pls help me

If this make front page, I will leave nairaland for good


With the way u scatter the whole sentence sef...
Re: In Pains. Help Me With Advice On This. by DenreleDave(m): 11:00am On Nov 05, 2019
Offpoint:
Re-write in Yoruba...
I'm too dull to comprehend what you wrote.

The sentence fear me ooo.. I no even understand
Re: In Pains. Help Me With Advice On This. by DenreleDave(m): 11:01am On Nov 05, 2019
adult91:
like I said I want to put her away like Joseph wanted to put away Mary when he discovered she is pregnant. I don't want it to get to the ears of people that knows us and some will laugh at it. Want the best way to put her away but I fear she might come pleading even publicly. I want to avoid that


Be looking for Joseph mumu.. Put her away, na her shame... If it goes public, no be ur problem Bro.. Na her shame
Re: In Pains. Help Me With Advice On This. by DenreleDave(m): 11:01am On Nov 05, 2019
LadySarah:
Dirty threadby a confused op.Eeew!

Honestly thread is not straightforward at all
Re: In Pains. Help Me With Advice On This. by DenreleDave(m): 11:04am On Nov 05, 2019
Once an Igbo girl enter university, adulterous life starts
Re: In Pains. Help Me With Advice On This. by Oreofepeters: 11:14am On Nov 05, 2019
Don't break up with her yet. Pretend as if you don't know a thing, call her to give her the last fvck and dump her sorry ass.

Make sure you fvck her with your lasting energy and strength then trash her out.
Re: In Pains. Help Me With Advice On This. by Sundaybukkie(m): 11:17am On Nov 05, 2019
Mumu guys
Re: In Pains. Help Me With Advice On This. by Oreofepeters: 11:18am On Nov 05, 2019
DenreleDave:
Once an Igbo girl enter university, adulterous life starts

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Re: In Pains. Help Me With Advice On This. by nuelsam: 11:34am On Nov 05, 2019
Upon all the bullshits Nigerians are facing, A girl thats obvuously cheating on u without remorse is what u worrying about.....
Alaye jor jor jor...... Dash her red flag..... Chop red pill
case closed!
Re: In Pains. Help Me With Advice On This. by chigoizie7(m): 11:39am On Nov 05, 2019
Op, go fucck her younger sister. Mm


Then fucck her the last time.


Then tell her that you thought cheating on her with her younger sister will make you forgive her, but you couldn’t.


Then tell her that you need more space to clear your head. Let it be the last time you will ever speak to her again. Jakpa
Re: In Pains. Help Me With Advice On This. by IceColdVeins(m): 11:58am On Nov 05, 2019
I understand mate!!
Its hard to withdraw when emotions have been wrongly invested but a man's gotta do what he's gotta do.
Be strong and dont ever settle for less, You deserve better!!!!!!!!!
adult91:
U really understand the pains. I've even wooed and gotten phone numberd of 4 gals today but I still remember her now I'm alone

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Re: In Pains. Help Me With Advice On This. by CosmicJames(m): 12:40pm On Nov 05, 2019
adult91:
she would come to my house. my mom likes her so much
What kind of person are you?
How the hell she will come back from a cheating journey to your house?
Even your mum will stop to like her the moment she knows her daughter in-law to be is sleeping around.

It is all your fault. You cause your girlfriend to cheat with ease. You make it so easy for her. You've been over soft with her regarding such matters.

She know you are extremely weak! And that there is nothing you will do even if she cheat. And here you are, proving her right.

How I wish you were like me.
She wouldn't have try it in the first place.
Not to talk of coming to my house after the deal have been done.

For a girl I want to marry? Never! Not on this planet.
For me, I don't have any problem with her cheating. Since is her decision and what she wants, no problem.

Is her life. But let her not think of coming back to me again if not I will get problem with her.
Re: In Pains. Help Me With Advice On This. by adult91: 1:18pm On Nov 05, 2019
CosmicJames:

What kind of person are you?
How the hell she will come back from a cheating journey to your house?
Even your mum will stop to like her the moment she knows her daughter in-law to be is sleeping around.

It is all your fault. You cause your girlfriend to cheat with ease. You make it so easy for her. You've been over soft with her regarding such matters.

She know you are extremely weak! And that there is nothing you will do even if she cheat. And here you are, proving her right.

How I wish you were like me.
She wouldn't have try it in the first place.
Not to talk of coming to my house after the deal have been done.

For a girl I want to marry? Never! Not on this planet.
For me, I don't have any problem with her cheating. Since is her decision and what she wants, no problem.

Is her life. But let her not think of coming back to me again if not I will get problem with her.
love made me weak. I loved and gave all bcoz marriage is for lifetime. but thank goodness I didn't enter

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Re: In Pains. Help Me With Advice On This. by adult91: 1:19pm On Nov 05, 2019
IceColdVeins:
I understand mate!!
Its hard to withdraw when emotions have been wrongly invested but a man's gotta do what he's gotta do.
Be strong and dont ever settle for less, You deserve better!!!!!!!!!

thanks a million. I feel lot better today with my guys around. But alone at night, I know worries will return
Re: In Pains. Help Me With Advice On This. by Nobody: 1:29pm On Nov 05, 2019
adult91:
like I said I want to put her away like Joseph wanted to put away Mary when he discovered she is pregnant. I don't want it to get to the ears of people that knows us and some will laugh at it. Want the best way to put her away but I fear she might come pleading even publicly. I want to avoid that
Who told u Joseph put away Mary?
Re: In Pains. Help Me With Advice On This. by CosmicJames(m): 2:18pm On Nov 05, 2019
adult91:


thanks a million. I feel lot better today with my guys around. But alone at night, I know worries will return
You were very happy that you've found your soul mate. Plus you were deeply involved. The depth of your involvement and excitement is determining your level of worry. But relax, you will be fine. It just a matter of time

Just know that ur reason for worrying about it is because you have truly loved her. And that your worry is normal as long as you don't take it to another level (Killing yourself)

Now, to stop worrying about it,
Also know that you have to stop loving her because she betrayed you and your love. She take your love forgranted. She looked down on you. She say in her heart: who tha Bleep is he (you)

Why worry about someone like that?
I mean who worry about a person like that?
She's probably not on the same page with you. So stop the worry man.
Instead, be happy and thankful that you have been saved from a future disaster.

Ask yourself this question:
What if it was after your marriage?
You see. This is somebody you trusted. But she doesn't care much. She have successfully destroyed the trust and everything.

Instead of worrying, be happy. Yes, you have every reason to be happy that it happens now.
Re: In Pains. Help Me With Advice On This. by CosmicJames(m): 2:30pm On Nov 05, 2019
adult91:

love made me weak. I loved and gave all bcoz marriage is for lifetime. but thank goodness I didn't enter
I understand. But this is your lesson. Next time, don't be weak in love. You will just destroy the relationship by being weak.
I insist that you are the reason for your girl behavior.
Right now I'm in a blissful relationship. A girl I want to marry as well. I love her to the moon and back.
But trust me, she knows her boundaries. I refuse to be weak.
If she try any shiit with me, I will wish her good luck
Re: In Pains. Help Me With Advice On This. by MedicH: 2:31pm On Nov 05, 2019
GrabHisBalls:
Your gf is cohabiting with the guy. The story about the hostels being given to final year students is a lie. Even if the school made it compulsory which is very unlikely, there will still be space for other students. Stop generalizing. I naturally tend to go closer to guys than my fellow girls and the reasons for that are countless. Most guys value friendship which is something you rarely find in girls. I prefer having meaningful conversation than gossip. If I have to get into the head of a guy, I'll need a guy to, not a girl. The more closer I'm with a guy, the less unlikely for us to bleep. They may have those feelings, but I never do and I don't betray friendship.

I've 3 very close friends who are guys and just a female. I've never bleeped any of them but 2 out of the three at a point wanted us to date. That we can't date has never changed our friendship.


Whoever thats going to marry this person, as you can see, the odds are 3 to 1. Permute and combine before u pay that bride price.
Re: In Pains. Help Me With Advice On This. by CosmicJames(m): 2:37pm On Nov 05, 2019
AwkaetitiBabe:
Who told u Joseph put away Mary?
Is like OP is looking for an angel to appear to him in a dream and tell him not to put her girl away because she's a virgin
Re: In Pains. Help Me With Advice On This. by LadyGCrueDKilaB(f): 8:11pm On Nov 05, 2019
hello sugar
MedicH:



Whoever thats going to marry this person, as you can see, the odds are 3 to 1. Permute and combine before u pay that bride price.
Re: In Pains. Help Me With Advice On This. by MedicH: 8:19pm On Nov 05, 2019
LadyGCrueDKilaB:
hello sugar

Lol oh come on!!!!
Re: In Pains. Help Me With Advice On This. by Nobody: 8:21pm On Nov 05, 2019
all these girls giving u guys heart attack are always the girls u guys want to marry cheesy.just imagine the type of girl u want to marry..she had to shave her pubis on the day u were traveling grin grin grin.better ditch the girl if u dont want to die early cheesy.
Re: In Pains. Help Me With Advice On This. by LadyGCrueDKilaB(f): 8:21pm On Nov 05, 2019
yeah, come on baby kiss kiss kiss
missed me hun?
MedicH:


Lol oh come on!!!!
Re: In Pains. Help Me With Advice On This. by maya007: 9:28pm On Nov 05, 2019
Duno what to say cause I dont understand your post what exactly is the problem now?

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