This the main problem we face in today's Christian kingdom: ' people dont do what God says anymore but go according to social standard ' sister, you did the right thing.The easy thing to do is give him what he wants and may be get him to marry u.But u started with a wrong foundation 'sin'.
Human cannot pay your need -God only use human beings to give u what u need.
Is a good way to know who is capable of loving u unconditionally.Hence foundation of true love is SACRIFICES. GOD will bring your husband.

NwaAmaikpe2nd:
You won't understand how i labour to keep this relationship,you will never understand cos you re not in my shoe.

madam labour wetin you do to keep the relationship abi you just tie the guy to be sponsoring your brother education.

ericsmith:



honestly i wish i could hear or understand her context of labour. i don't knw her or even knw if these is her real story buh i just pitied her frm d 1st moment i saw her seeking advice frm all these NL sissy & gurls that are upto no good.

All of them are now happy she's back to square one . Now , She never knows what play boy Is . Na now she go know wetin dey sup for guyz corner. She was lucky to have fallen into a nice guy hand but she thought all guyz are always mugus . By the time her next bf begin dey demand for recharge card from her and ask of sex the 2nd month they met, she go know wetin she don loose. Now. The thing still dey shook her dey form virgin. Who virgin EPP.?

slimanyd:


All of them at happy she's back to square one . Now , She never knows what play boy Is . Na now she go know wetin dey sup for guyz corner. She was lucky to have fallen into a nice guy hand but she thought all guyz are way mugus . By the time her next bf begin dey demand for recharge card from her . she go know wetin she don loose. Now. The thing still dey shook her dey form virgin. Who virgin EPP.?

Women wil never give one another gud advice, the miserable ones are alway in the position to advice the fortunate ones just as the single ladies with countless failed r/ship are alway the ones tellin there married friends what to do in marriage.. funny world

dubezra:
This the main problem we face in today's Christian kingdom: ' people dont do what God says anymore but go according to social standard ' sister, you did the right thing.The easy thing to do is give him what he wants and may be get him to marry u.But u started with a wrong foundation 'sin'.
Human cannot pay your need -God only use human beings to give u what u need.
Is a good way to know who is capable of loving u unconditionally.Hence foundation of true love is SACRIFICES. GOD will bring your husband.

I guess your definition of God's made husband for her is one that will listen n play according to her terms & condition

Bia, nwanyi... better stop distracting this young man from seeing better kpekus marry keep for house...there are so many men looking for virgin to marry. Go n look for them.



As if being a virgin will make you a good wife,a good cook,a sexually satisfying wife in marriage n a fertile woman.... nonsense n virgin

ericsmith:





I guess your definition of God's made husband for her is one that will listen n play according to her terms & condition

Not her terms and conditions but God's terms and conditions

NwaAmaikpe2nd:
Happy first sunday of this month to you all.

Today suppose to be a happy day for me as it coincide with my mum's birthday which we have planned to celebrate.

But it turn out to be a dissapointment because my fiance broke up with me 6 hours ago.

I don't know where i wrong him o.

My only pain in this breakup is that he may withdraw his support financially in regards to my sibling schooling,which we now be my priority.

I have never fallen in love with a man before except him but he decided to break my heart.

I don't think i will ever love a man again for a very long time because it seems they are all same.

You don't know where you have wronged him, but you denied him sex for 2 years? That man deserves an award for man of the year. Most guys go don ja after 2 months.

Your only pain in this breakup is that he may withdraw his support financially in regards to my sibling schooling ,which is your priority.

You are a very selfish person. The poor guy is sponsoring your whole family and what have you given him in return? Nothing. Ordinary sex, you can't even give him, as if that is worth much. God saved the poor brother. I am sure your family would have bankrupt him with dowery and wedding demands if he had gone ahead with the wedding.

You say you have never fallen in love with a man before except him, but you just said your family is your priority. You love only what you get from him. Would you have still been claiming love if he is not sponsoring your family? You think he has no family member that needs sponsoring to school?

I pray you find a man you can dictate how and when he can have sex to and at the same time control how he spends his money.

One advice, sex before or after marriage has never guaranteed a successful marriage. So many other factors ensures a successful marriage.

dubezra:
Not her terms and conditions but God's terms and conditions

Then she should wait for God to bring men according to his terms. There are numerous women on God's list for such men, and such men prepared to wait on God's terms are very few. Even pastors will not follow God's terms and conditions.

wirinet:


You don't know where you have wronged him, but you denied him sex for 2 years? That man deserves an award for man of the year. Most guys go don ja after 2 months.

Your only pain in this breakup is that he may withdraw his support financially in regards to my sibling schooling ,which is your priority.

You are a very selfish person. The poor guy is sponsoring your whole family and what have you given him in return? Nothing. Ordinary sex, you can't even give him, as if that is worth much. God saved the poor brother. I am sure your family would have bankrupt him with dowery and wedding demands if he had gone ahead with the wedding.

You say you have never fallen in love with a man before except him, but you just said your family is your priority. You love only what you get from him. Would you have still been claiming love if he is not sponsoring your family? You think he has no family member that needs sponsoring to school?

I pray you find a man you can dictate how and when he can have sex to and at the same time control how he spends his money.

One advice, sex before or after marriage has never guaranteed a successful marriage. So many other factors unsures a successful marriage.

I just pity the girl. She has these kinda bossing attitude from her comment here. She go dey alright las las .

slimanyd:


I just pity the girl. She has these kinda bossing attitude from her comment here. She go dey alright las las .

I am not bossing,my ex attitude just show the kind of species men are.
There brain ard wired for sex,they think with their dicks and not their brains.

I am devastated that he left me because i gave my love to him but i am happy that he left because he is not right man for me.

I will wait for the right man that will take me for who i am and not what he get through me via sex.

Relationship should not be about sex but it should be driven by love while sex is just an addictive.

wirinet:


You don't know where you have wronged him, but you denied him sex for 2 years? That man deserves an award for man of the year. Most guys go don ja after 2 months.

Your only pain in this breakup is that he may withdraw his support financially in regards to my sibling schooling ,which is your priority.

You are a very selfish person. The poor guy is sponsoring your whole family and what have you given him in return? Nothing. Ordinary sex, you can't even give him, as if that is worth much. God saved the poor brother. I am sure your family would have bankrupt him with dowery and wedding demands if he had gone ahead with the wedding.

You say you have never fallen in love with a man before except him, but you just said your family is your priority. You love only what you get from him. Would you have still been claiming love if he is not sponsoring your family? You think he has no family member that needs sponsoring to school?

I pray you find a man you can dictate how and when he can have sex to and at the same time control how he spends his money.

One advice, sex before or after marriage has never guaranteed a successful marriage. So many other factors ensures a successful marriage.

Lies from hell pit.

Your comment shows that you are pained that you lost your virginity in a mistake that is why you said such.

Mary the mother of Jesus christ is exalted among women today because she was chosen by God to bear Jesus christ which was only made possible because of her virginity.

Mind you,there are other women during her time but she was chosen for her piousness,piety and immaculate personality.

Pre-marital sex is wrong and i will never indulge in what is wrong and an abberation before God and man.

dubezra:
Not her terms and conditions but God's terms and conditions

Thank you dubezra,God's terms and conditions that is move by the fear of God.

slimanyd:


All of them are now happy she's back to square one . Now , She never knows what play boy Is . Na now she go know wetin dey sup for guyz corner. She was lucky to have fallen into a nice guy hand but she thought all guyz are always mugus . By the time her next bf begin dey demand for recharge card from her and ask of sex the 2nd month they met, she go know wetin she don loose. Now. The thing still dey shook her dey form virgin. Who virgin EPP.?

Virgin may not be something that you value anymore because you are not.
But know that those who have lost theres mistakenly or via rape are praying and wishing it never happen because they know that virgins are rare and scarce these days as Gold which has value and worth.

The right man will come my way that is worth billions and not driven by sex and sexxxx.

dubezra:
This the main problem we face in today's Christian kingdom: ' people dont do what God says anymore but go according to social standard ' sister, you did the right thing.The easy thing to do is give him what he wants and may be get him to marry u.But u started with a wrong foundation 'sin'.
Human cannot pay your need -God only use human beings to give u what u need.
Is a good way to know who is capable of loving u unconditionally.Hence foundation of true love is SACRIFICES. GOD will bring your husband.

Thank you dubezra once again.

Most comments that are full of criticisms and in some way supporting what my ex did is from men or boys here which agree with the fact that most men are attracted to women and girls because of sex.

I don't know if true love exist in their dictionary and this is peculiar to nigerian men and boys.

NwaAmaikpe2nd:
Lies from hell pit.

Your comment shows that you are pained that you lost your virginity in a mistake that is why you said such.

FYI I am a guy. Guys don't lose their virginity, they take virginity. Guys don't issue out blood during first time sexual encounters and having first time is no big deal as far as guys is concerned.

As a guy, virginity was not even one of my criteria, when I choose a wife. Apart from beauty and strong physical characteristics that I wanted my children to possess, I emphasised intelligence and strong will, or before I forget, good sex was of utmost importance. I can stand dead woods.

Only a woman who lacks self worth elevates virginity to the status of a Nobel price.

Mary the mother of Jesus christ is exalted among women today because she was chosen by God to bear Jesus christ which was only made possible because of her virginity.

Mind you,there are other women during her time but she was chosen for her piousness,piety and immaculate personality.

Even if we were to believe Jewish sorry roman folklore, Mary was a very young girl in her early teens. Most girls of that age was expected to be virgins, then and even now.
If she was a Virgin before giving birth to Jesus and marriage to Joseph, what about after, ,did she remain a perpetual Virgin. You mean she never reached orgasm.

Pre-marital sex is wrong and i will never indulge in what is wrong and an abberation before God and man.

Good for you. Pre marital sponsorship of families of supposed girlfriend is also wrong, it is also morally wrong before God and man. I wish you luck in the search for a man who would wait sex after marriage.
Just one advice, a beautiful flower has relatively short time to attract bees and insects to help it's pollination, it starts to wither soon after the height of its blossom. After which no insect would even take a look at it.

NwaAmaikpe2nd:
Lies from hell pit.

Your comment shows that you are pained that you lost your virginity in a mistake that is why you said such.

Mary the mother of Jesus christ is exalted among women today because she was chosen by God to bear Jesus christ which was only made possible because of her virginity.

Mind you,there are other women during her time but she was chosen for her piousness,piety and immaculate personality.

Pre-marital sex is wrong and i will never indulge in what is wrong and an abberation before God and man.

premarital sex involves kissing. I don't want you to feel embarrassed though. But Do, you know with that, If you were called home that DAY you kissed him. You would have found your self in hell . God is just a merciful God. We human pretends to be holy in front of him whereas we at the most filthy thing who never worth to be in his presence but we are all saved by grace. If you have never seen. Proof me wrong . Or Do you think its until you have sex with a guy that you become a smelling odour to tour creator . Go and read you bible well. peace. Stop calling anybody a sinner here and never you talk that you are holy . Imagine comparing yourself to Mary . lol. You are far far from biblical standard.
Do you know its even a sin to have a boyfriend behind your pastor consent ?
Do you know its a sin do visiting your boyfriend in his house without getting married to him.

If we are been judged by our iniquities ,No man will escape God's Judgment but we are been save by his GRace.

Sister you do well jare
Do not compromise oooo
God will send you a helper keep yourself let heaven be your target
You can reach me for any help
Regards

slimanyd:
Do you know its even a sin to have a boyfriend behind your pastor consent ?
Do you know its a sin do visiting your boyfriend in his house without getting married to him.

Those are not sins. They are not sins at all.

Bola146:
Men I'm here to read comments

What are you saying?

midnighter:

Those are not sins. They are not sins at all.

Thank you sis for this.

NwaAmaikpe2nd:

Virgin may not be something that you value anymore because you are not.
But know that those who have lost theres mistakenly or via rape are praying and wishing it never happen because they know that virgins are rare and scarce these days as Gold which has value and worth.
The right man will come my way that is [b]worth billions[/b]and not driven by sex and sexxxx.

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See these arm robber. "Relationship should not be about sex but it should be driven by love while sex is just an addictive" ... buh u want billions
if its God standard not to av premarital sex how is it God standard to be a premarital liability to men. its now obvious ur virginity is just to hold men to ransom. what u nid is a foolish man becos even a right man wil see u thru you.

anslem04:
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See these arm robber. "Relationship should not be about sex but it should be driven by love while sex is just an addictive" ... buh u want billions
if its God standard not to av premarital sex how is it God standard to be a premarital liability to men. its now obvious ur virginity is just to hold men to ransom. what u nid is a foolish man becos even a right man wil see u thru you.

You called me an armed robber because of my stand.
Are you nuts,it seems you are sick and need a doctor as soon as possible.

NwaAmaikpe2nd:

You called me an armed robber because of my stand.
Are you nuts,it seems you are sick and need a doctor as soon as possible.

that won't b necessary his blood runs in me, gud tinz in life as a price, you want a man that wil spend fortune on you, buh what do you av to give, "lazy thief" why not take ur virginity to the bank or stock market n lets see hw much interest it wil yield after decades.u beta stop aspiring to be a rich man wife, aspire to be somebody ursef.u no wan dick buh u want men money ..ole

anslem04:



that won't b necessary his blood runs in me, gud tinz in life as a price, you want a man that wil spend fortune on you, buh what do you av to give, "lazy thief" why not take ur virginity to the bank or stock market n lets see hw much interest it wil yield after decades.u beta stop aspiring to be a rich man wife, aspire to be somebody ursef.u no wan dick buh u want men money ..ole

Lol. U don make the poor girl deactivate her account now. She's feeling the heat already . something tells me she will go back to the guy after she don see say real men dey scarce for market . I just hope say the guy would not have gotten another lady b4 her virgin eye open .

My only pain in this breakup is that he may withdraw his support financially in regards to my sibling schooling,which we now be my priority.

can u imagine. u and ur family are ripping him off and u are now sad because he will withdraw his support. u are not angry because of the love u both share. pls go to maiduguri, take a 30# camel ride to HELL. i pray against meeting ppl like u everyday

nuban07:
Like u said the man means a lot to u and he is supportive financially also, not only to u but also ur family. Give him what he wanted now

Sex or no sex man that will not marry u, will not

U just said the koko......d guy has moved on to marry that lady who knows how to use her tools to get what she want

anslem04:



that won't b necessary his blood runs in me, gud tinz in life as a price, you want a man that wil spend fortune on you, buh what do you av to give, "lazy thief" why not take ur virginity to the bank or stock market n lets see hw much interest it wil yield after decades.u beta stop aspiring to be a rich man wife, aspire to be somebody ursef.u no wan dick buh u want men money ..ole

Nigga easy oh laugh won kill person

Thank God you didn't go far with him. You're not meant to be together.

slimanyd:


The girl still have a long way to learn . she never too old for relationship market. By the time ,she starts counting 3 to 7 boyfriends. She go realized wetin she don loose

slimanyd:


The girl still have a long way to learn . she never too old for relationship market. By the time ,she starts counting 3 to 7 boyfriends. She go realized wetin she don loose

If you guys were not able to agree on something as serious as having a child outside wedlock, then your marriage would have been trouble filled with disagreements.

I think you did the right thing not going the route of being pregnant outside wedlock. How many of the people advising her to get pregnant outside wedlock will be happy to have a pregnant sister outside wedlock?

Op, if you need support for your brother's schooling send me a message, I will give whatever support I can muster.

Thank you sis for this.

Np