A Word On Shît Testing.

If a beautiful girl that you're totally crazy for says something totally crazy, like:

"The sun rises from the South",

do you:
(A) Keep quiet to keep the peace?
(B) Agree with her to stay in her good graces?
(C) Disagree, set her straight, most likely angering her and getting yourself rejected?

THE BEST VERSION OF YOURSELF.
If you choose A or B YOU LOSE. These are a weak man's choices. A desperate man's selections. You present the best version of yourself by choosing C.

That's how you showcase your manliness: By disagreeing and standing for the truth that you know.

Choosing A or B makes you a Nice Guy who tells women what they want to hear. You can't be trusted.

But a manly man is not afraid to say it like it is. He's ever-truthful with a woman: "No, the sun rises from the East".

Your ability to stand for what you believe at the risk of offending, upsetting or losing a girl sets you apart as a genuine man of principle who can't be swayed by beauty or pussy. It makes you desirable to a female to stand for unpopular truth because it shows balls.

If you tell a girl the truth and you lose her it's OK because losing a girl by having balls is far better than winning a girl by having no balls because the girl you win by having no balls first of all DOES NOT RESPECT YOU.

THE VALUE OF RESPECT.
A woman is allowed not to love you.

Women have no love to give, except to their children. A woman will die 100 times for her child but never for the father of her child. Love from a woman is a miracle. But what a woman must give her man, what is non-negotiable, is RESPECT.

Your duty as a man is to retain your woman's respect at all times. That's critical.

Respect doesn't guarantee faithfulness, but there's a difference between how a woman who respects you will cross you vs how a woman who doesn't respect you will cross you:

A woman who doesn't respect you will cheat on you in your house, on your bed, with her lover eating your food, drinking your beer and watching your internet TV. But a woman who respects you will conduct her affairs discreetly and far from home; at no financial cost to you and in a way that won't cause you public embarrassment. Both women crossed you. But there's a world of difference between how they crossed you.

HOW TO STAND FOR THE TRUTH THAT YOU KNOW.
When your woman is wrong in private, correct her. True Love corrects, punishes and rewards. A woman will respect this.

BUT, when your woman is wrong in public, defend her, no matter how wrong she is. Always have her back. It's called LOYALTY. Loyalty means: "If you're wrong I'll be wrong with you."
Your girl will love you for it. And people will respect you for it. Never correct your woman in public, you embarrass her. Instead, later on, when the both of you are alone, confront her on her errors and Punish her accordingly. She must know every lapse in judgement on her part will be followed by punishment. Hold her accountable. For by embarrassing herself she embarrasses you.

LETTING WOMEN GET AWAY WITH BAD BEHAVIOR.
If a woman acts badly or breaks one of your rules call her out and punish her. Never let bad behavior go unpunished. Even in arguments when it's tempting to give in even when you know she's wrong DON'T DO IT. Stand firm.

A woman who gets her way everytime begins to wonder: "if this guy can't put me in my place' but allow me to jump all over him, how will he put those bigger than me in their place when they seek to jump all over me , his woman? If i outsmart him so easily how can he outsmart other men out there and win bread for his family? Can this guy even stand up to his boss to negotiate a better salary so the family does not starve? Can he even stand up to the Land Lord and stop him from throwing us to the streets to be homeless? Can this guy even challenge robbers at night and protect the children?'

Such questions fill a woman's head when you always let her get away with stuff, When you always let her win arguments that she knows very well she must not be winning. And once your woman starts asking herself these questions, you have a problem on your hands, whether you know it or not.

THE MOST POWERFUL WORD YOU CAN USE AGAINST A WOMAN.
No man must be in a relationship who has not learned to say NO to a woman.

Just as no woman must be in a relationship who has a problem saying YES to a man.

Couples will enjoy greater happiness if men increase their NO rate and women increase their YES rate. Men say YES a lot to women's sometimes crazy demands to the detriment of relationships while Women say NO a lot to men's usually reasonable demands to the detriment of relationships. Women say No constantly because they assume men want to use or exploit them, while men say Yes constantly because they assume women will stop loving them if they are not agreeable.

STAND UP FOR YOURSELF AND YOUR TRUTH.
A woman soon hates a man who doesn't stand up for himself in arguments, quarrels and
misunderstandings.
In your mind you're telling yourself you're going soft and easy on her because you love her, but in her mind she's telling herself you're going soft and easy on her because you're soft and easy. A Wimp of a Simp without a backbone.

She's asking herself: "If you fear me how will you save me from the things I myself am afraid of, since you are my Protector? If you're always apologizing to
me for doing no wrong how will you bend rules at work to make sure your family doesn't go to bed hungry? Remember you are older and stronger than me. why do I keep kicking your butt so easily? Are you really this weak? How are we supposed to make strong babies that will rule the world if you cant rule this little girl in your arms
that is afraid of spiders?"

And once your girl starts asking herself these questions, your days with her are numbered.

THE BIGGER PICTURE.
Women have an expiry date. Time is their bitterest enemy.

Because a woman has only one womb she can make use of only once a year with beauty that will start to fade at 25 and a womb that will be dead at 45 she must make every year with a man count.

So even if her man is rich or educated, a woman is always Testing him to confirm he is the right man to be investing her limited time and resources on. And so she'll test and re-test her man. evaluate and re-evaluate his manliness. she will vet and review him often. double-checking and re-affirming his manliness.

SHÎT TESTING

WHY A WOMAN SHÎT TESTS YOU.
A woman is going to say and do a lot of dumb shît, but not because she is dumb but because that shît is a test: DO YOU HAVE THE BALLS TO PUT HER IN HER PLACE or are you a weakling, too afraid to go against a girl barely older than your young sister.

When you've the balls to stand up to a woman when she's wrong or disrespectful, she knows you've the balls to stand up to ANYONE when they are wrong or disrespectful to protect her. That's the summary of Shît Testing.

If a woman can boss you around she knows ANYONE can boss you around.

That's what it's all about.

You may think letting a woman get away with wrong doing (e.g she's always late) shows you're not petty and you don't sweat the small stuff, but in her eyes you're powerless.

A Shît Test is a woman testing your ability to defend yourself from her actions as a way of determining your ability to defend her from other people.

In the Old World our forefathers proved themselves by challenging each other to stick fights or by heroic acts during war. Having proved their worth, the Community gave them wives. Cowards died wifeless and childless.

That World is largely gone. In the New World women are on her own in proving a man's worth and testing his manliness. There are no stick fights and no tribal wars to separate the Heroes from the Cowards and because even a coward with money or an education can be mistaken for a hero, women have a tough job separating the Wheat from the Chaff. They have to test you themselves.

Imagine you're looking for a job as a Body Guard. You meet a potential client but first he needs to assess your fighting skills to make sure you're the man for the job. So he tries to kick, punch and stab you. How you defend yourself against HIS attacks tells him if you can perform the protection duties or not. Shît Tests ARE EXACTLY LIKE THAT. A woman assesses your manliness BY ATTACKING YOU HERSELF, only she's using WORDS and DRAMA not kicks, punches and knives: She takes your calls late, she dresses funny infront of your friends, she's loud in public and throws temper tantrums when she doesn't get her way.... All these are tests. Correct her. Or lose her respect.

And just as you fail the body guard test by allowing your client to kick your ass, you also fail shît tests by allowing a woman to win.

But these tests begin as soon as you meet a girl. While you're shooting your shot she's already testing you...

HOW A WOMAN SHÎT TESTS YOU BEFORE MAKING YOU HER BOYFRIEND.
The trickiest things a girl will say to you are probably: Are you a Player? because I don't date Players , How many girls have you had before me? , Are you single?

Let's answer these 3 questions one at a time...

(1) "Are you a Player?":
Wrong Answers: "NO I'm not" "I hate Players" "I'm a Good Guy".

Correct Answers: "Only because I haven't met the right girl" "Aren't all men Players? ". Etc. (answers that show you get lots of women)

She is NOT asking because she hates Players.

A woman desires a man other women desire. She doesn't want a man no woman wants. That's why if you are single no woman wants you. But if you get a GF, women will suddenly have time for you. Have a busload of women coming to you, and other women will start wondering: "what is he giving these women that is making them flock to him? He must be good at what he does!".

But if no woman wants you, other women wonder: "there must be something wrong with him. Why is it that no woman wants him??"

A woman desires the best man and if other women want you it's the proof she needs that she chose well. A woman feels so special when lots of women want you, but you choose her. That way she feels like she won you.

A woman doesn't want a man WHO FEELS LUCKY to have her. It's a turn off.
She wants a man SHE FEELS LUCKY to have. It's a turn on. Because a woman doesn't want you, she wants to WIN YOU. From other women. If you are single no woman wants you. But have a GF and women will have time for you.

Go on a date with your woman and keep looking at other women, she gets pissed. But go out with her and OTHER WOMEN keep looking at YOU, she gets pleased. She'll love you even more. When other women want you, She FEELS LUCKY to have you.

In asking "Are you a Player BECAUSE I DON'T DATE PLAYERS" a woman is playing a trick on you. "Because I don't players" is meant as a trap to catch the simping Nice Guys who think being agreeable with a woman gets them a woman. "Because I don't date players" is an empty threat. Ignore that phrase. Women love Players. Because they wish to tame them and get bragging rights.

(2) "Are you single?"
Wrong Answers: " Yes" "Of course. I want the next girl I date to be my wife" "I have been keeping myself for you" "definitely, I want to get my life in order first" etc.

Correct Answers: "It's complicated", "

Women abhor and detest single men. They want a man with a woman because that way he's "tried and tested" by another woman.
Show you have a woman but mention things are not going great between you and her. You show her you're involved with a woman but you also show her you're Not cheating on anyone.
Never be single. Because being single is for losers who can't get a girl.

(3) "How many girls have you had before me?"
Wrong Answers: "Not many." "you're actually my first". "I'm still a Virgin" etc.

Correct Answers: "I have lost count" "I'm trying to slow down lately" "You mean this year alone?" etc.

You may think appearing chaste by having no past GFs scores you points with a girl. But it's the opposite. It makes you a loser who can't get a girl and who's taking his chance with her.

The fewer the girls you have dealt with, a girl knows the less capable you are of dealing with women. That works against you on so many levels. The girl knows not only aren't you experienced in dealing with female drama you're probably whack in the sack. For the less girls you have had the less you have fvcked and the less you can fvck.

There is no market or demand for male virgins. That's why a Dick comes with no Hymen and no primitive deity has ever demanded a male virgin as a sacrifice. Male virgins are useless.

In answering questions that probe your body count, faithfulness or relationship status: always present yourself as getting your fair share of women and rarely loyal to any one woman. Cast yourself as a Player.

Women must think you're always having sex. No matter how much they act disappointed or disgusted. EVEN IF for real they're disappointed and disgusted. Always cast yourself as a Player: When was the last time you saw women fight over a Chaste Man? Or a male Virgin? But I bet you know lots of women who came to blows over a Player! Or some Bad Boy!

#TheRedPill
#MGTOW

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Wow, I didn't know I was getting things wrong too. Anyway, we learn everyday.
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Great piece. I agree 100 percent with everything in the write up. In a nutshell, what my great brother is saying is that you treat a woman the same way you treat your fellow men. What you won't take or do for a man like yourself, shouldn't be done for a woman. Just the same way men earn their respect from you, is the way a woman should earn your love (attention). Don't sell yourself cheap. Stop enabling toxic behaviors. When you allow her get away with those shii, she gets bolder and more courageous to do that to other men.
Please even if you don't want to have sense, for our sake and for the sake of your male generation, STOP BEING A PUSSSYY.

An example of shit test is when a girl tells you she's a virgin and instead of you to say "no be only virgin, na Mary", you actually believed her.
My brother, you just failed woefully. No pus#y for you

Another example of shiiii testing below �

Rekhina:
Where is warrior Amatarasha ?
pls come my sister dis agafu is doing it again!

i think you should be on eyeness' thread instead, she has good content, but can be difficult to swallow. You being here is merely feeding the males with attention .

Ubunja, good to have you around. Nice write-up, as usual and expected

Rekhina:
Where is warrior Amatarasha ?
pls come my sister dis agafu is doing it again!

are you pained? why calling him agafu?

Rekhina:
Funmisticqueen( u are always on the make a hell of a saboteur)

Wait first ,feeding men with attention ?

Eyeness thread ?

And who is difficult to swallow omoteme?

U spoke in parable are u now a goddess ?

lol

Mekenz:
are you pained? why calling him agafu?

Because she can't counter his write-up. So, what do you expect other than name calling?

Great to have u back UBUNJA.


I really missed ur miseducations.

haweezii:
Great to have u back UBUNJA.


I really missed ur miseducations.

Fake comment smh

Good job Ubunja.

To add to that, no man should be in a relationship where he is not respected. A man can not feel loved if his partner does not respect him. Also, a woman can never love a man she does not respect. When a woman loves you, it means she respects you, and if she loses her respect, she loses her love. Respect should be treated as indispensable, unnegotiable, and perpetual. Men need respect, women need love. A woman cannot love a man in the way men understand love.

A woman's love is to receive, a man's love is to give. A man's love for a woman is greater, it will make him protect her, provide and sacrifice for her, a display of love that is untypical to the feminine. Even the bible requires men to love their women but requires women to respect their men (Ephesians 5:22-25).

About shit testing, the surest way you to pass it is not to respond to it, and in anything you do, do not sell yourself short. A shit test is a way women separate boys from men. Also, women generally are not consciously aware they are shit testing, it is an evolutionary trait that they do unconsciously. 3rd and 4th wave Feminism is an example of shit testing on a massive scale allied with political power and corporate backing, and men have fallen for it, leading to the emasculation of men.

Little to no surprise lots of western men travel to Asia for wives, and their women go to Jamaica with masculine men for sexual adventure. Giving in to shit testing will seem like it will yield desirable outcomes, but the opposite is true. If you give way to shit testing, you will continuously be squeezed inside a box, until you become worthless, a direction western men are becoming to their women, which will only get worse.

Ubunja, we've missed you. Promise you'll never leave us again

This is a great piece.
UBUNJA is undoubtedly a sound writer.
Truly, we keep learning everyday

I think Dangote shld come and read this. I heard he is single and searching for a wife.

You have done a very great work here @ Ubunja. Keep dishing out the raw truth because its only the truth that can save man.

Ubunja, thanks for the piece, patience and devotion. You're highly appreciated!

Nice write-up. @ ubunja, how do you punish a woman?

Every modifications is always a hit. Keep on dishing out the raw truth. Quick question, is it also a shit test to be completely ignored by one's babe and how does one respond to this?

What a masterpiece!!!

Following you bumper to bumper

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They say experience is the best teacher nd with this post of urs I concur with that saying more because experience has to do with a true story.... To God who made me I met a girl towards middle of Sep b4 my phone get spoilt around early Oct after my phone get spoilt, I was forced to my hotline inside my side chick phn to get in touch with since she's a new a catch. to make my story not to be boring my side chick is S and the new chick is N Lol.... During my attacking period I called her we should meet in my hood and she agreed to come that once she's through with what she's doing she gonna call me to pick her up at my street juncture luckily for me I didn't meet up as we agreed (don't 4gt I didn't av a phn just kept my sim inside S phone) bcus I 4gt to take my S phone along with me when I went out that same day unluckily for N, S picked up my call when N called immediately she heard a feminine voice she just has to hang up and canceled d meeting. when I gt home I was actually vexing she didn't call not knowing she has called earlier and S didn't tell me... I called her 3days later to rebuke her why she didn't turn up that day to rebook another day with her surprisingly S agreed to come but with a condition which amazed me that if my side chick, sis, or my girlfriend pick up my calls again she would cancel the meeting again... fast forward to that day(meeting day) I just challenged her what did she mean by my sis, side chick or girlfriend she's using to threaten me on phone to my surprise she opened up that most time she calls me a girl pick it up and she do hear a female voice underneath which proves am a PLAYER I tried to change the topic b4 she tried the shit testing question on me "r u a player" I denied it initially b4 making amendment that am a womanizer bcus girls with me presently are not up to the task I placed on them Omo wish u fit see the caring caring attitude she dey pose on me she wan turn me to Mr Nicest Guy "mo ya look away"

keep deceiving yourself. male virgins are not useless

ubunja the man

TrollKiller:
keep deceiving yourself.
male virgins are not useless

Off course they are not totally useless as u pictured it at least they are useful with their hard earned penny being spent on Girls who don't deserve a kobo...

Gaspardd:
I think Dangote shld come and read this. I heard he is single and searching for a wife.

Dangote has had his fun.

haweezii:
Great to have u back UBUNJA.


I really missed ur miseducations.

nice to be back Bros. Thanks for the welcome back.