mechanics:
Whether fear or no fear, one will still marry except he or she want to be a Reverend father or sister.

It is not compulsory to marry. In other climes, people live together as partners.

I think living as partners should be the ideal thing in Nigeria.

AK481:
Marrying an unemployed lady and at the same time has no degree and skill.

Why would you fear something you can easily see and avoid...

Maybe your real fear is getting "jazzed" into marrying an unemployed lady with no degree and skill.

taylor89:
Another man fvcking my wife


To my future wife out there please and please if u know you'll tag me an animal for laying hands on you don't do these Four below


1. Don't cheat (even if I cheat don't cheat back it's a set up because i go beat u before sending u packing

2. No matter what happens between us don't yell at me outside (u can do to me whatever you wish indoor even beat me I no go talk since na me dey at fault but don't do it outside

3. This one is the most important one, DONT COME BETWEEN ME AND MY PARENTS/SIBLINGS, they all went through hell for me probably when you were busy fvcking another guy(your then boyfriend) so when it's time to reap what they sowed u Better don't try to stop it because I'll stop you first

4. READ THE NO. 3 AGAIN I CAN EVEN KILL FOR NUMBER 3

If she can keep to this three then I'm ready

Lol. Mad man.

Iziquiel:

I knew you were going to say you speak in tongues when you were asked that question.
Does speaking in tongues mean you're filled with the holy ghost?

Read your Bible. What happened at Pentecost? Its says they were filled with the Holy ghost and started speaking in tongues. So yes I speak in tongues because Im filled with the Holy Spirit.

Marrying the wrong woman

Buhari and Yahaya Bello...

nnanyereugo:
Being called upon as the father of the house to kill every snake that enters the house and I hate snakes. I wan relocate go Canada first before I marry cos I won't find snakes crawling into my house there

Lol... Lmao.. Take lalastica number na... That guy get doctors degree for snake mata

AryaSand:
Having babies.
The whole process is Scary and Traumatising. I've seen photos and videos and I don't think I want to go through it. I feel like if I do go through with it, I'm probably going to hate that child
It is like the major reason I sabotage all my relationships, whenever we start getting serious like this, i stop talking to them. I abandon them in the relationship and move on with my life.

Grow up, just grow up.
You can't reason like this, especially for a woman you are... I understand you perfectly, Wish u well!

eni4real:
A spirit filled enthusiastic wife material spotted

Hmmm...see advert��

Geminita1:
Who is this one, pray that i am not your wife because i'll just waste you.

So, you are one of those who can poison the husband?

Mess(fart)
is funny but i noticed that women mess too much.
I had a roomate in skool and the guy no mess reach 10 times all through out our 4 yrs in skool.
But most of the girls i date,it wont be up to 2 months,then don scastter me with mess.
Now imagine marriage.

Nagging, heated arguments and selfishness

BecaciaBarbie:

Ewooooo
Take it easy oooo! That thing called hiv is real and ask yourself what God will feel about your sexual desires? I’d advise you find a true love, get married and have sex day and night!

I'm always strapped.. Don't joke with my condoms. It's God that created me this way so why should i care how he feels. Hopefully i will find a true love soon that loves sex as much as i do. That has been my prayer.
Just finished one round few seconds ago tho..

Jewessgratitude:


Funnily enough, ive never read anybof his books. I'm being real about my spiritual gift.

I believe you, that word "infilling" I encountered it first reading his book "Spirit within and Spirit upon".. it's nice to still see people taking godliness as a lifestyle.. Cheers !

feelmeTy:
I am facing it now oooo, I lost my job, n my wife don born, baby is 1 year plus, I dey get high blood pressure ooo. And wife business crashed too. A times I will wake up enter street of Ibadan looking for where them dey load frozen fish or noodles from truck to warehouse!

Where do you stay?

I have bleeped so so many married women bcus of their big soft ass. I am scared of kama. B4 person go begin Bleep my Wife.
I still don't knw y married women are easier to Bleep dan single ladies. I even Bleep one today. N the husband can never catch a cheating wife.

Geminita1:
Who is this one, pray that i am not your wife because i'll just waste you.

OMG.

Jewessgratitude:


Read your Bible. What happened at Pentecost? Its says they were filled with the Holy ghost and started speaking in tongues. So yes I speak in tongues because Im filled with the Holy Spirit.

But I hope you'd agree that is not the conclusive/only proof of being filled with the Holy Spirit ?

SendAbroad:


Are you from a rich family?

no

eni4real:
Not all that glitter is gold tho
I prefer marrying a woman from the same social class as myself..

A far richer lady is a no no for me!!

You will see

Temptation before the wedding... Loss of loved ones via accidents, job losses, business ruins, fire outbreak.. Currently facing one of these dilemma at the moment barely one month to my wedding

Hamachi:
What's your biggest fear about marriage?

Fear of ending up with a cute face but a dangerous and heartless soul. Men this days scare me, some are monsters.

Ohhh my goodness..the devil has finally penetrated into the culture of this nation...
Damnnn....see comments....

Fear of nairaland mods

Fisher007:
Hmm where do I start from?

Marriage is a scam.

Legacy is the only thing a man needs. As far as you have a child or children (surrogacy, abduction or baby mama). All na pickin, the rest is history.

Most people marry for flimsy, weird, crazy, survival, unfathomable and dumbfounded reason. I will speak for the men. Ladies you can speak your own too below in the comments section

You will marry a woman who's love for you is provisional, transactional and conditional. ( For better for worse statement na scam). If you doubt me try your luck. 95 percent of people in marriages are sad and cheat on each other.
The last 5percent are in a open relationship known to both party. Them just they push through for survival purpose

For men:

Na white knighting and captain save a slut wey dey do most of us. In order words beauty and toto dey too dey deceive us.

You will marry a woman you think you know. But you have no idea actually. She will form submissive, homely, loving until you done put am for house. Gbam the equation will change. Most ladies marry you based on their time don dey reach or based on they need you to provide.

You will now start understanding the famous quotes "my wife has changed. She is not the lady I married".

You see whoever you marry will always change. Change is constant. So don't complain. She will get fat, she will have hormonial imbalance, she will nag you. You will loose your peace, calm and quiet life. Just even forget sex - that one go turn weapon and manipulation tool for her. She will get old before you. Mind game go kill Una for house. It will be a power struggle since most women don't want to play their traditional role in the house. You will just be slaving and suffering for an ungrateful being brought out from your ribs.

To go home after work will be a problem, beer parlour and hangout will be your new base. She go police your life die. Na pure cage you go put yourself. But what do I know. Instead of you to stay single and enjoy your life as man. Nobody is rushing you. You will let stupid societal norms and Disney/ Naija/ Indian/ American movie fool you. Love doesn't exist man. It is only compatibility that exist.

You will hear excuse such as you will die alone. Lol. Did you come to earth with somebody before? Psssh

Qoute me at your peril. I done talk my own. Transformer and river is not far from you. Find the nearest one.

you scored big on this point of yours.. From the way the write up came it look as if you are kinda married...

Ronald1:
Mine is commitment.... Abeg who knows what phobia for love is called

You're Gamaphobic.

making. the sa6mistakes my dad did

Mutemenot:
The fear of unknown character

like seriously,thats also my deepest fear

Fisher007:
Hmm where do I start from?

Marriage is a scam.

Legacy is the only thing a man needs. As far as you have a child or children (surrogacy, abduction or baby mama). All na pickin, the rest is history.

Most people marry for flimsy, weird, crazy, survival, unfathomable and dumbfounded reason. I will speak for the men. Ladies you can speak your own too below in the comments section

You will marry a woman who's love for you is provisional, transactional and conditional. ( For better for worse statement na scam). If you doubt me try your luck. 95 percent of people in marriages are sad and cheat on each other.
The last 5percent are in a open relationship known to both party. Them just they push through for survival purpose

For men:

Na white knighting and captain save a slut wey dey do most of us. In order words beauty and toto dey too dey deceive us.

You will marry a woman you think you know. But you have no idea actually. She will form submissive, homely, loving until you done put am for house. Gbam the equation will change. Most ladies marry you based on their time don dey reach or based on they need you to provide.

You will now start understanding the famous quotes "my wife has changed. She is not the lady I married".

You see whoever you marry will always change. Change is constant. So don't complain. She will get fat, she will have hormonial imbalance, she will nag you. You will loose your peace, calm and quiet life. Just even forget sex - that one go turn weapon and manipulation tool for her. She will get old before you. Mind game go kill Una for house. It will be a power struggle since most women don't want to play their traditional role in the house. You will just be slaving and suffering for an ungrateful being brought out from your ribs.

To go home after work will be a problem, beer parlour and hangout will be your new base. She go police your life die. Na pure cage you go put yourself. But what do I know. Instead of you to stay single and enjoy your life as man. Nobody is rushing you. You will let stupid societal norms and Disney/ Naija/ Indian/ American movie fool you. Love doesn't exist man. It is only compatibility that exist.

You will hear excuse such as you will die alone. Lol. Did you come to earth with somebody before? Psssh

Qoute me at your peril. I done talk my own. Transformer and river is not far from you. Find the nearest one.

I am sure this guy married for the wrong reason