Nanatrendy:
Sex at dawn

What is wrong with that? Or haven't you heard of morning glory?

Ahdunns:
Lacking communication skills and been clueless on what to say and how to act

my brother this one bothers me more. Cos my is good at misinterpreting little things hence pick offence

eni4real:
Church brothers plenty na

Not fake ones o. I mean spirit filled like me.�

That he doesn't wake up one day and say he's no longer interested without doing anything wrong..

Nanatrendy:
Sex at dawn

Heavenly

Simplep:
That he doesn't wake up one day and say he's no longer interested without doing anything wrong..

Awwww...

Jewessgratitude:


Not fake ones o. I mean spirit filled like me.�

Spirit filled .... na so!

to marry and live in Nigeria ..

Jewessgratitude:


Not fake ones o. I mean spirit filled like me.�

How do you know you are spirit filled?

Death. Death of a partner before his or her time

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=dqwpQarrDwk

DCmonster:
I dey tell you ma brother. She dey always day dream about me and how successful I have become. She has kids already. I am trying to avoid fucking her but my weakness is that I never Bleep am before she marry. And the funniest part is that we reside in different states now.

nawao. Married woman o.. It's actually bad bro to eff a married woman. Just be playing along but no reason am.. Make God no give us bad woman. Dem plenty now... Even me get one like that wey dey disturb me. My ex then too she's married now with a kid.

feelmeTy:
I am facing it now oooo, I lost my job, n my wife don born, baby is 1 year plus, I dey get high blood pressure ooo. And wife business crashed too. A times I will wake up enter street of Ibadan looking for where them dey load frozen fish or noodles from truck to warehouse!

God will do a miracle in ur life bro.

Jewessgratitude:


Boss man... You never ready.
When you are willing to put on shock and anger absorber against whatever your spouse might do, then I'll know you're ready but with all that up there, nah...

Madam, he's the man...
He can have all these in marriage depending on how he handles the relationship and again if he's rich.

BTW his no 2 and 3 points are good ones, na only no 3 dey somehow but still normal to me.

To taylor89 ...
Your reply to this post is on point, I will only add 2...
She must not be a snub and she must allow me to have peace of mind.

My biggest fear is winding up with a dirty woman. Life go just tire me.

I haven't been that lucky with girls: they glitter from afar, but on close observation, you go just notice sey na only makeup and cream cover their lack of hygiene.

Some sef, to brush teeth twice a day na fight.

Secondly, a woman that can't cook something nice is a no no...
For someone like me who grew up eating good food, restaurants have never done it for me. If my wife wind up a bad cook, life is going to be miserable for me.

Lastly, someone I can travel out of town and rest assured she is faithful

Jewessgratitude:


Not fake ones o. I mean spirit filled like me.�

Dem dey plenty for church.. You are not just ready

electroTech:
I feel lonely when around people than when alone. Having to live together with someone forever scares the sh!tt outta me. If my future wife would be living on her own and be coming to visit once in a while, then I'll consider getting married someday.

I love kids too but I don't dream of having one. The thought of bringing innocent souls to experience this short and painful existence is still a nightmare I can't afford to bring into reality.

I pity married folks than I envy them. In fact, this whole marriage sh!tt is just overrated

It's like your reasoning is beyond electrotech compound.you reason like a philosophy on the second issue you raised.your submission about husband alone,wife alone coming to receive the thing really amuse me.about the issue of bringing children forth to life.the life is unfair it's real,but shouldn't stop us to recreate even if it's two.

SendAbroad:


What is wrong with that? Or haven't you heard of morning glory?

morning praise not glory sleep is sweetest at dawn that's what's wrong

pocohantas:
1. Losing my spouse or a child.
2. What I will do to my husband if he cheats.

Note, I am not scared of him cheating. Just the repercussions he would face.

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Poco! I swear I won't cheat on you. If I ever cheat on you lemme bleep ngozi my colleague.

Fisher007:
Hmm where do I start from?

Marriage is a scam.

Legacy is the only thing a man needs. As far as you have a child or children (surrogacy, abduction or baby mama). All na pickin, the rest is history.

Most people marry for flimsy, weird, crazy, survival, unfathomable and dumbfounded reason. I will speak for the men. Ladies you can speak your own too below in the comments section

You will marry a woman who's love for you is provisional, transactional and conditional. ( For better for worse statement na scam). If you doubt me try your luck. 95 percent of people in marriages are sad and cheat on each other.
The last 5percent are in a open relationship known to both party. Them just they push through for survival purpose

For men:

Na white knighting and captain save a slut wey dey do most of us. In order words beauty and toto dey too dey deceive us.

You will marry a woman you think you know. But you have no idea actually. She will form submissive, homely, loving until you done put am for house. Gbam the equation will change. Most ladies marry you based on their time don dey reach or based on they need you to provide.

You will now start understanding the famous quotes "my wife has changed. She is not the lady I married".

You see whoever you marry will always change. Change is constant. So don't complain. She will get fat, she will have hormonial imbalance, she will nag you. You will loose your peace, calm and quiet life. Just even forget sex - that one go turn weapon and manipulation tool for her. She will get old before you. Mind game go kill Una for house. It will be a power struggle since most women don't want to play their traditional role in the house. You will just be slaving and suffering for an ungrateful being brought out from your ribs.

To go home after work will be a problem, beer parlour and hangout will be your new base. She go police your life die. Na pure cage you go put yourself. But what do I know. Instead of you to stay single and enjoy your life as man. Nobody is rushing you. You will let stupid societal norms and Disney/ Naija/ Indian/ American movie fool you. Love doesn't exist man. It is only compatibility that exist.

You will hear excuse such as you will die alone. Lol. Did you come to earth with somebody before? Psssh

Qoute me at your peril. I done talk my own. Transformer and river is not far from you. Find the nearest one.

My brother you nailed it I wonder why your comment doesn't have like 100 thousand likes your wiser than Ubunja your too much joor

Jewessgratitude:


Mine is disease and that is why I've decided to remain chaste and wait for a genuine born again bro who fears God. I don't care if people are rubbing it in my face to go and get married. I'm enjoying and maximizing my youth while waiting on God to give me a clean man. Men these days sleep around like dogs not Even minding the dreaded and then boom! Their eyes will now clear. Ain't nobody gat time for such. Until then, enjoyment galore. Marriage is not a do or die affair. I'm even happier than 70% of married people. so?

Moun jaye ori mi lo ninu Jesu Christi.

Listening to Teni Uyo meyo right now. Anyone care to join me.
Can't come and go and kee masef.����

Check your DM maam?

Mood swing by ladies

generationz:


Robert Disney jr. Said the exact same thing you are saying now in an Harpers bazzer io interview.

He said he felt like that even in his first marriage.

Then he met his wife Susan and proposed after six months of dating.

He never felt weird about being together forever again with a woman after he met her. They were like yin yang.

Marriage never felt like a cage for him again.

In fact, it was that cage that led him into drugs at first to escape reality from childhood.

There is a whole lot of explanation as to why this is so in personality typing but you won't understand if I went into the basics.

I presume you are an extrovert (even if you say no, from your write up you are). A sanguine too.

The right partner will know instinctively to give you that space without you asking for it because she will also want it. Them you will want her to be around because life won't be boring after all.

But in case you don't meet that woman you vibe with, I hope you find someone who understands your rules and keeps to them.

He's Lucky then. But I think I'm way different from Robert cos I like people coming and going instead of being around like forever. By the way I'm neither an extrovert nor a sanguine.

My sister's that's it

SendAbroad:


How do you know you are spirit filled?

By His grace I know. I also have the gift of speaking in tongues which is an evidence of the infilling of the Holy Spirit.�

FuckThaMod:
She might run away cos i will destroy her pussy day and night.. I love sex too much and I'm hardly satisfied. Today alone i had 14 rounds with 3 different girls. I'm a sex freak and I've tried so hard to control it but it's very difficult.

You were having different rounds of sex on a Monday abiii? That’s all you did today?

Ronald1:
Mine is commitment.... Abeg who knows what phobia for love is called

Philophobia bro

Kokaine:
Not been in love with her actually. But being with her because of time, age and circumstances.

2. Financial capacity to break out of the middle class cycle if she is not the type to plan with me and sacrifice when needed.

I met a girl I really think I could work with because we think alike financially. But we have different religions and its a major blockade.

3. Why will she want to be with me? Is it because I'm working and appear capable of taking responsibilities? Why do people get married? Especially when love is obviously not the reason.
Especially when someone introduced both of you together because they know you are single, earning a salary and growing older.(32)
Especially when your elder sister has convinced you that if you don't get married now, you may end up like so so and so uncle who is 50years old and his first child is 8.
Especially when your parents are worried on a steady basis
Especially when you know you are lonely but spent a good percentage of your growing years trying to steady your boat.
Especially when time and opportunity didn't really allow you socialise as a young guy but you suddenly raised your head up from the struggle to realise age has approached.
Especially like I said... You are not really in love.
Especially when your dream is to marry a girl who understands life and can bring ideas to the table, if possible, her brothers and parents can influence contracts and other growth strategy.
Especially when you realise that in the real world, those kind of girls are few. And if you have to wait for them, you will wait longer.
Especially when the people you found compatibility with are different from you in tribe and religion and things don't work
Especially when you are confused about who you want in a wife. The career type, or the home maker.
The life of a Nigerian man is no joke bro

l feel you're talking about me... The worst is ending up with a broke lady after all these things person experience...guyyy

I'm not afraid of anything o. I mean it

BabaIbo:


Madam, he's the man...
He can have all these in marriage depending on how he handles the relationship and again if he's rich.

BTW his no 2 and 3 points are good ones, na only no 3 dey somehow but still normal to me.

To taylor89 ...
Your reply to this post is on point, I will only add 2...
She must not be a snub and she must allow me to have peace of mind.

Hehehe���

JoeMaddog:
The fear of being poor and married. This is the root cause of many Marital problems.

You nailed it man.

BarrElChapo:


ehya I want you to know there's a sister horse out there for you

Hope we'd be compatible for marriage..