cassyrooy:
Uncle please don't scatter my head this morning o.

AK481:
Marrying an unemployed lady and at the same time has no degree and skill.

tchidi066:
Fear of getting married to a thug, i don't tolerate physical abuse in any way
Fear of having to face crazy and un-cooperative in-laws, i don't need presence of third party
Fear of being bankrupt, when there is financial buoyancy, less fights n verbal abuse
All in all the most important thing is marrying someone you are compatible with, i don't believe in love, it's a scam (my opinion )

cassyrooy:
Well I don't know if I captured what you intended to put out here but I made my own piece of view known.

Your attached shot is very much true. Me and Ifeanyi go drag that aspect die.

lefulefu:

makydebbie:


Lmao

I no dey joke with that book oo, na my guide..

Fisher007:
Hmm where do I start from?

Marriage is a scam.

Legacy is the only thing a man needs. As far as you have a child or children (surrogacy, abduction or baby mama). All na pickin, the rest is history.

Most people marry for flimsy, weird, crazy, survival, unfathomable and dumbfounded reason. I will speak for the men. Ladies you can speak your own too below in the comments section

You will marry a woman who's love for you is provisional, transactional and conditional. ( For better for worse statement na scam). If you doubt me try your luck. 95 percent of people in marriages are sad and cheat on each other.
The last 5percent are in a open relationship known to both party. Them just they push through for survival purpose

For men:

Na white knighting and captain save a slut wey dey do most of us. In order words beauty and toto dey too dey deceive us.

You will marry a woman you think you know. But you have no idea actually. She will form submissive, homely, loving until you done put am for house. Gbam the equation will change. Most ladies marry you based on their time don dey reach or based on they need you to provide.

You will now start understanding the famous quotes "my wife has changed. She is not the lady I married".

You see whoever you marry will always change. Change is constant. So don't complain. She will get fat, she will have hormonial imbalance, she will nag you. You will loose your peace, calm and quiet life. Just even forget sex - that one go turn weapon and manipulation tool for her. She will get old before you. Mind game go kill Una for house. It will be a power struggle since most women don't want to play their traditional role in the house. You will just be slaving and suffering for an ungrateful being brought out from your ribs.

To go home after work will be a problem, beer parlour and hangout will be your new base. She go police your life die. Na pure cage you go put yourself. But what do I know. Instead of you to stay single and enjoy your life as man. Nobody is rushing you. You will let stupid societal norms and Disney/ Naija/ Indian/ American movie fool you. Love doesn't exist man. It is only compatibility that exist.

You will hear excuse such as you will die alone. Lol. Did you come to earth with somebody before? Psssh

Qoute me at your peril. I done talk my own. Transformer and river is not far from you. Find the nearest one.



Lol the redpill

Humility017:


love your responses so far...
please keep it up...
the expectation of the righteous shall never be cut short....


please know that you don't argue the truth... you rather preach the truth...leave folks with their beliefs...

cassyrooy:
You're welcome.

Please note that Gamaphobia is the fear for marriage, while Philophobia is the fear of love/attraction.

Help?

You just have to do it scared.

Something I witnessed in March, two couples I respected very well and I share a close relationship with had a serious fight and I was caught between settling them, holding three kids from the horrible scene and all the hysteria, I just did my best while still scared of the outcome.

The man later called me and encouraged me to go ahead and get married (even though my head was screaming at me to run completely).

I'm developing an emotional shock absorber for that phase of life. We just have to grow up and get fuçked a little. Dare to see your fear roar it face.

cassyrooy:
Care to share? I don't wanna get tired of an ass or breast so easily, if you understand what I mean?

storm001:
Getting married to a feminist who want the man to be the wife.

YorubaPrince:
Make pesin no go marry Ijebu chic wey no go sabi cook Ikokore…

Rich4god:
Information confidentiality...

But one thing I have come to realize is that a good number of ladies don't marry who they actually love, reason been that the person they love is probably not ready or financially buoyant for marriage. So they end up with another man who is ready.

makydebbie:


LOL, the book is titled Dickmatics. I don't know if it's in Nigeria but I got it here, at a bookstore.

I prefer you read it lol.

Fisher007:
Hmm where do I start from?

Marriage is a scam.

Legacy is the only thing a man needs. As far as you have a child or children (surrogacy, abduction or baby mama). All na pickin, the rest is history.

Most people marry for flimsy, weird, crazy, survival, unfathomable and dumbfounded reason. I will speak for the men. Ladies you can speak your own too below in the comments section

You will marry a woman who's love for you is provisional, transactional and conditional. ( For better for worse statement na scam). If you doubt me try your luck. 95 percent of people in marriages are sad and cheat on each other.
The last 5percent are in a open relationship known to both party. Them just they push through for survival purpose

For men:

Na white knighting and captain save a slut wey dey do most of us. In order words beauty and toto dey too dey deceive us.

You will marry a woman you think you know. But you have no idea actually. She will form submissive, homely, loving until you done put am for house. Gbam the equation will change. Most ladies marry you based on their time don dey reach or based on they need you to provide.

You will now start understanding the famous quotes "my wife has changed. She is not the lady I married".

You see whoever you marry will always change. Change is constant. So don't complain. She will get fat, she will have hormonial imbalance, she will nag you. You will loose your peace, calm and quiet life. Just even forget sex - that one go turn weapon and manipulation tool for her. She will get old before you. Mind game go kill Una for house. It will be a power struggle since most women don't want to play their traditional role in the house. You will just be slaving and suffering for an ungrateful being brought out from your ribs.

To go home after work will be a problem, beer parlour and hangout will be your new base. She go police your life die. Na pure cage you go put yourself. But what do I know. Instead of you to stay single and enjoy your life as man. Nobody is rushing you. You will let stupid societal norms and Disney/ Naija/ Indian/ American movie fool you. Love doesn't exist man. It is only compatibility that exist.

You will hear excuse such as you will die alone. Lol. Did you come to earth with somebody before? Psssh

Qoute me at your peril. I done talk my own. Transformer and river is not far from you. Find the nearest one.

degamemaster:



You're too stupid with this kind of mentality. Spit on your useless face.

momove4real25:
omo anare riwo wa

pocohantas:
1. Losing my spouse or a child.
2. What I will do to my husband if he cheats.

Note, I am not scared of him cheating. Just the repercussions he would face.

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Any other thing I didn't write are things he would be smart enough to figure out. I don't like to talk too much, especially when dealing with adults.

AwkaetitiBabe:
Expanded kini due to childbirth and no longer feeling it Monotonous routines ne and getting fat

electroTech:
I feel lonely when around people than when alone. Having to live together with someone forever scares the sh!tt outta me. If my future wife would be living on her own and be coming to visit once in a while, then I'll consider getting married someday.

I love kids too but I don't dream of having one. The thought of bringing innocent souls to experience this short and painful existence is still a nightmare I can't afford to bring into reality.

I pity married folks than I envy them. In fact, this whole marriage sh!tt is just overrated