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Fisher007:
I used the word MOST (husband, wife, ladies,men), meaning there are exceptions. But it seems your and some few people 's reading comprehension is messed up.

Learn to read Oga.

Jeezuzpick:
The OP is assuming everyone sleeps around.
I married in my 30s and I was a virgin.
My wife had a child, but so what? I loved her, and still do, even with kids among whom are now in secondary school!
That's my experience, and it goes to show you how wrong you are, unless you're trying to say marriages between couples over 30 are ALL based on lies and doomed from the start.
There are couples who married in their 20s and are divorced today, so....what exactly are you trying to say here?

Fountainofyouth:
You are so stupid it's unbelievable, a man, being a virgin, should not marry a non virgin woman but a virgin woman should marry a promiscuous, empty headed man who has diicked his destiny away right? Your stupid brain thinks pussy makes a marriage work abi? How old are you sef?

MrHistorian:
You married a single mother (not a widow) as a virgin??

OMG!!!

Fisher007:
I never said that. Please read to understand. I asked a question which you in your head derived your answer.

But your dumbass and dumbfvcked brain couldn't understand. Simple.

Fountainofyouth:
God have mercy, see who is calling someone blissful ignorance, dead

Fisher007:
You also have reading.comprehension Mr white Knight in.shinning garment.

I never said all. I said MOST, but it seems your wife's case seems to be confusing you. You married at 30 as a Virgin. Was your wife one too?

Cause if she was not a virgin like you, she saw you as a male provider, after all her own experience with various men. I can purely see she has you under her control with the number one manipulation tool of men ( Toto). You can not just beleive the pure truth.

She took you at the beginning of your prime years all in the name of love and marriage. While her prime years were over. She gave you her emotional trauma's and garbage which you must have been noticing silently at home. But you are here claiming Captain save a hoe.

Well done Sir, your case too might have been an exception indeed

Fisher007:
Pained bitter truth but you cant just accept it.. Please don't involve God in this. If you feel am wrong and don't have any valued points no problem, when your sons bring a Lady in her 30's or late 30's to marry gladly accept her. Simple.

Fountainofyouth:
Mister man, show us where you put MOST pls, ode.

Fisher007:
The bride body is a container for various sperms, which has been proven scientifically that the DNA of such men stay in her body till death. This is the reason why most women are emotionally unstable.

Fountainofyouth:
I would gladly accept her 100%, your own promiscuous daughter will marry in her 20s, and the marriage wouldn't even last one month, simple.

Fisher007:
Madam intelligent, go to your browser setting and look for search or find in page. Search for the word MOST.

You will get your answer. Please learn to use your brain for other things appart from commenting in nairaland's romance section.

queenitee:
Bless you. I don’t agree with the op one bit. All he wrote up there has nothing to do with age.

Fisher007:
Gbam anger management madam. You are being too emotional here. Well am not surprised, you were not created as a logical creature.

MrMacinterchi1:
You are just running around a tree believing that you are passing a vital message to people whom the secret of your message was hidden from.

so, as all singles 30 and above are were promiscuous huh

Fountainofyouth:
LMAO, he quickly went to modify his stupid write up adding MOST there cos the heat and insults are getting too much, what a fvcking dead brain.

Sleevia:
You are just stupid but you don't know it. When you are grown, you will understand the world is beyond marriage.

Dumb forks like you is why the country is so fvked up with overpopulation.

Fisher007:
You also have reading.comprehension Mr white Knight in.shinning garment.

I never said all. I said MOST, but it seems your wife's case seems to be confusing you. You married at 30 as a Virgin. Was your wife one too?

Cause if she was not a virgin like you, she saw you as a male provider, after all her own experience with various men. I can purely see she has you under her control with the number one manipulation tool of men ( Toto). You can not just beleive the pure truth.

She took you at the beginning of your prime years all in the name of love and marriage. While her prime years were over. She gave you her emotional trauma's and garbage which you must have been noticing silently at home. But you are here claiming Captain save a hoe.

Well done Sir, your case too might have been an exception indeed

bro don't reply that fool abeg , he will learn later on, give him time

Fisher007:
You also have reading.comprehension Mr white Knight in.shinning garment.

I never said all. I said MOST, but it seems your wife's case seems to be confusing you. You married at 30 as a Virgin. Was your wife one too?

Cause if she was not a virgin like you, she saw you as a male provider, after all her own experience with various men. I can purely see she has you under her control with the number one manipulation tool of men ( Toto). You can not just beleive the pure truth.

She took you at the beginning of your prime years all in the name of love and marriage. While her prime years were over. She gave you her emotional trauma's and garbage which you must have been noticing silently at home. But you are here claiming Captain save a hoe.

Well done Sir, your case too might have been an exception indeed

Quality20:
d truth is dat ppl are now so corrupt and spoilt fro teenage yrs with few or nobody to tell them. sexual promiscuity is just too much...IThe op mentioned 30 as a late age for marriage, but here in hausaland many ppl or most would never marry a lady 25 and above,but even that is not fool proof, cos many of their teenage girls are now getting bad because of numerous senseless and immoral datings n hookup/hawking. what I hate d most is to see ladies who have been sleeping wit rich elderly men to come down and hook up young promising men for marriage. How can dat kind of marriage last and what respect/admiration/blessing can men married to these sluts get?

blueflower:
Are you married


If you are not...
Don't make silly conclusions like your write up above

Marriage is more that at that you wrote up there.
Marriage is a different world on it own.

Fisher007:
You realised how dumb you are. Please check those who qouted me. It is still the same write up with the same grammatical errors.

MrHistorian:
You married a single mother (not a widow) as a virgin??

OMG!!!

Fountainofyouth:
Even an idiot knows you're too stupid to put MOST at first.

Fisher007:
Hmm where do I start from?

This is a subject matter that most of us avoid because the truth of the whole matter is too bitter. It is like a big elephant no one talks about.
We all act calm and cold cause this matter brings out the rotten decay worms or spiders from our personal cupboards.

For ladies above 30:

Every wedding I attend, I observe the same thing which is the ladies are happy for the bride, knowing in most cases she as caught a slave, a big mumu to accept her despite her slutty past. But she has not been saved from her slutty behaviours. She is now off the sexual market place for the moment and have found security. Until the husband looses what he can provide in all aspects of life ( money, security, care, job, attention, sex, family etc). ( I didn't mention love cause it literally doesn't exist at this age). Then she will divorce him if he is lucky. If he is unlucky she will enter back into the sexual market place codedly with her exlovers, boyfriend, uncles etc. She might even cook meals with money collected from such men for her husband (marital curse don enter).

We all know women who have had more than 2-3 sexual partners can never bond with their husbands. In most cases the wife sexual partners and escapades are always more than the husband. She might just lie to rub on the man's ego. The bride body is a container for various sperms, which has been proven scientifically that the DNA of such men stay in her body till death. This is the reason why most women are emotionally unstable.

We know that most ladies have been sexually active and have had multiple sexual partners from age 16yr to 30yr and can never be satisfied with one. No matter how you lie to yourself. She has gone through the hoe phase and her bodycounts will digust you as a man if she really tells you the truth at age 30. She was used and enjoyed at her sexual peak. Her body starts given up from 30 above and that is why most mothers rush them to marry. Because they know the truth, they will say because of children but the truth is they know she will soon become an expired milk.


For men above 30:

The men are quite looking at the groom like only if we could tell you that you just caged yourself and turn yourself into a full time slave. In most cases some men at the venue have slept with your so called bride. Some uncles that sponsored too have used her inside out. Some former boyfriends imagining the amount of sex and abortions, they both committed and are saying you just saved a hoe.

The man's ex girlfriend too are present. All they see is the useless sex manaic, demented weak guy, abortion specialist is fooling himself and his getting married. Some see him as a prize they never had but are ready planning how they will cheat with him even next week or months to come. And that the wedding is just a show.

Most husbands hit their sexual peak just after wedding. That is why in most cases they can never stay committed. From age 35yrs to 60yrs is when most men are stable. They have attained wealth in some cases meaning younger ladies will flock them like bees. The wife will see this and know because she was once like those young ladies before chasing men with Money, looks and status.

So at the end all I always see is two damaged goods getting married. The bride who feels she needs to retire into her husband house. And the groom who is just about to fully start is sexual escapade and slavery because the wife will definitely never give him her best years.

Fisher007:
Ok I have heard you. My attention for you and your senseless comments end here.

Fisher007:
Hmm where do I start from?

This is a subject matter that most of us avoid because the truth of the whole matter is too bitter. It is like a big elephant no one talks about.
We all act calm and cold cause this matter brings out the rotten decay worms or spiders from our personal cupboards.

For ladies above 30:

Every wedding I attend, I observe the same thing which is the ladies are happy for the bride, knowing in most cases she as caught a slave, a big mumu to accept her despite her slutty past. But she has not been saved from her slutty behaviours. She is now off the sexual market place for the moment and have found security. Until the husband looses what he can provide in all aspects of life ( money, security, care, job, attention, sex, family etc). ( I didn't mention love cause it literally doesn't exist at this age). Then she will divorce him if he is lucky. If he is unlucky she will enter back into the sexual market place codedly with her exlovers, boyfriend, uncles etc. She might even cook meals with money collected from such men for her husband (marital curse don enter).

We all know women who have had more than 2-3 sexual partners can never bond with their husbands. In most cases the wife sexual partners and escapades are always more than the husband. She might just lie to rub on the man's ego. The bride body is a container for various sperms, which has been proven scientifically that the DNA of such men stay in her body till death. This is the reason why most women are emotionally unstable.

We know that most ladies have been sexually active and have had multiple sexual partners from age 16yr to 30yr and can never be satisfied with one. No matter how you lie to yourself. She has gone through the hoe phase and her bodycounts will digust you as a man if she really tells you the truth at age 30. She was used and enjoyed at her sexual peak. Her body starts given up from 30 above and that is why most mothers rush them to marry. Because they know the truth, they will say because of children but the truth is they know she will soon become an expired milk.


For men above 30:

The men are quite looking at the groom like only if we could tell you that you just caged yourself and turn yourself into a full time slave. In most cases some men at the venue have slept with your so called bride. Some uncles that sponsored too have used her inside out. Some former boyfriends imagining the amount of sex and abortions, they both committed and are saying you just saved a hoe.

The man's ex girlfriend too are present. All they see is the useless sex manaic, demented weak guy, abortion specialist is fooling himself and his getting married. Some see him as a prize they never had but are ready planning how they will cheat with him even next week or months to come. And that the wedding is just a show.

Most husbands hit their sexual peak just after wedding. That is why in most cases they can never stay committed. From age 35yrs to 60yrs is when most men are stable. They have attained wealth in some cases meaning younger ladies will flock them like bees. The wife will see this and know because she was once like those young ladies before chasing men with Money, looks and status.

So at the end all I always see is two damaged goods getting married. The bride who feels she needs to retire into her husband house. And the groom who is just about to fully start is sexual escapade and slavery because the wife will definitely never give him her best years.

SBL28:
What a load of crap. I can't believe someone took time to write this nonsense.

Fisher007:
Thank you. The reason most parents try to get their daughters married at an early age is because of this. The mistake is feminism has sold them a big lie.

They want to act and they believe they are equal to men. The big errors is that biologically, physically, mentally and financially, we are not the same.

Women have certain advantages that we don't have. So do we men have certain advantages that don't have. Simple

But time always reveal the truth to them. That is why they always end up bitter and miserable.

sainttwist1:
most people will not be happy with you bro......

Designerdollars:
bro don't reply that fool abeg , he will learn later on, give him time