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infogenius:
When I read posts like I wonder if you guys seek the face of God before taking marriage decisions.

From ur post it is obvious ur lady is dating someone else.
I don't know what to say because such a lady can't be trusted.

A person that struggles to make decisions can be a problem.
Use ur head Bro.

You're genius!

That is one thing about Igbo ladies.
Dem too get mind.

An Igbo Lady can abort today just to get married the next day.

You caused it my brother so leave with it. You just drop some part of the story but i can bet you that she doesn't really love or want you, you want her more than she wants you and for you the easy way out is to be transferring money like Santa.
You think monet is all, by the time that money stop coming, she will find other options available.
We know a girl who will cheat from day one but because we always feel we can change things but us in tight situations some years after wedding.

infonet247:
Hello Nairalanders,

I am really in disbelief and in shock hence am writing this here for all to advice me on what to do.

I am a man of 35yrs old and have been dating a lady for three years now and told her this December 2019, my people will come for the traditional marriage having gone for introduction earlier.

After two months of introduction, she became worried and started feeling unease. I told her ok to make things easier and for you to believe I will marry you, I transfered 1.5m into her account for the traditional and white wedding, promising to add more wen we finally draw up the full list.

Then the unexpected happen, we plan going to Aba to get the traditional marriage items last Saturday, which we later purchased but to my utmost disbelief she had accepted another guy by Thursday in case am not serious!

Am shock because during the week of us going to Aba, I had sent 100k into her account by Wednesday to hold for the journey only for her to accept or tell another guy to come. Then by Sunday after the items have been bought, she sent the new guy a txt that she doesn't want again.

My question is, should I continue with her since she could act like this? Should I go ahead with the marriage or call it Off? Pls I need advice.

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1.5m for marriage? please dash me 10k for feeding

infonet247:
Hello Nairalanders,

I am really in disbelief and in shock hence am writing this here for all to advice me on what to do.

I am a man of 35yrs old and have been dating a lady for three years now and told her this December 2019, my people will come for the traditional marriage having gone for introduction earlier.

After two months of introduction, she became worried and started feeling unease. I told her ok to make things easier and for you to believe I will marry you, I transfered 1.5m into her account for the traditional and white wedding, promising to add more wen we finally draw up the full list.

Then the unexpected happen, we plan going to Aba to get the traditional marriage items last Saturday, which we later purchased but to my utmost disbelief she had accepted another guy by Thursday in case am not serious!

Am shock because during the week of us going to Aba, I had sent 100k into her account by Wednesday to hold for the journey only for her to accept or tell another guy to come. Then by Sunday after the items have been bought, she sent the new guy a txt that she doesn't want again.

My question is, should I continue with her since she could act like this? Should I go ahead with the marriage or call it Off? Pls I need advice.

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all she wants is for a man to put a ring on her hand women like that after 3/4 years or more inside marriage are usually not faithful and that is when their true behavior shows

Her tautau has to be exceptionally dericious

tee59:
Is this real or fiction? Your woman is bad oh. Why are you just giving out money to her like that? Are you not suppose to plan together.? You're using money to assure her of your commitment, whereas she was using you as maga. She will only marry you for money and not love, and in marriage, she will use your money to cater for her boyfriends. Better be wise.Only money can't give happiness in marriage.

They insult women but they are the architects of their wahala. Thats the Niggerian mentality that every problem must be sorted with money. From the way he speaks he is not even taking time to imderstand who he is marrying. Cant blame her

infonet247:
Hello Nairalanders,

I am really in disbelief and in shock hence am writing this here for all to advice me on what to do.

I am a man of 35yrs old and have been dating a lady for three years now and told her this December 2019, my people will come for the traditional marriage having gone for introduction earlier.

After two months of introduction, she became worried and started feeling unease. I told her ok to make things easier and for you to believe I will marry you, I transfered 1.5m into her account for the traditional and white wedding, promising to add more wen we finally draw up the full list.

Then the unexpected happen, we plan going to Aba to get the traditional marriage items last Saturday, which we later purchased but to my utmost disbelief she had accepted another guy by Thursday in case am not serious!

Am shock because during the week of us going to Aba, I had sent 100k into her account by Wednesday to hold for the journey only for her to accept or tell another guy to come. Then by Sunday after the items have been bought, she sent the new guy a txt that she doesn't want again.

My question is, should I continue with her since she could act like this? Should I go ahead with the marriage or call it Off? Pls I need advice.

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God forbid bad thing! Op are u mad?

tee59:
Is this real or fiction? Your woman is bad oh. Why are you just giving out money to her like that? Are you not suppose to plan together.? You're using money to assure her of your commitment, whereas she was using you as maga. She will only marry you for money and not love, and in marriage, she will use your money to cater for her boyfriends. Better be wise.Only money can't give happiness in marriage.

sense scatter you there!

Shuo

At 35 u dey loose guard like dis?? which can get my hands on u bruv. So u go chop two hot brain resetting slap

Mumu man

Forgive and move on, that is even a way of life

Woooah it means shes double dating na,which =to cheating, just playing a dice game,which ever side is ready shes ready,she might actually be a good person but she f*ck up,it pays to be loyal.

Once a guy proposes to a lady,other guys will start proposing, thereby confusing the lady.why is it so?..that was exactly what happened to me..

infonet247:
Hello Nairalanders,

I am really in disbelief and in shock hence am writing this here for all to advice me on what to do.

I am a man of 35yrs old and have been dating a lady for three years now and told her this December 2019, my people will come for the traditional marriage having gone for introduction earlier.

After two months of introduction, she became worried and started feeling unease. I told her ok to make things easier and for you to believe I will marry you, I transfered 1.5m into her account for the traditional and white wedding, promising to add more wen we finally draw up the full list.

Then the unexpected happen, we plan going to Aba to get the traditional marriage items last Saturday, which we later purchased but to my utmost disbelief she had accepted another guy by Thursday in case am not serious!

Am shock because during the week of us going to Aba, I had sent 100k into her account by Wednesday to hold for the journey only for her to accept or tell another guy to come. Then by Sunday after the items have been bought, she sent the new guy a txt that she doesn't want again.

My question is, should I continue with her since she could act like this? Should I go ahead with the marriage or call it Off? Pls I need advice.

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What she did, proved that she's not committed to you, mind, body and soul .
Don't do what your heart tells you, DO THE RIGHT THING .

Marry her and hate her for the rest of your life

Hmmm that was because you had a divided emotion. It happened to my ex too. Just like in the Op's story, my ex went after another guy after we had had our introduction. Though she came back begging,I had to dump her ass because I found it very difficult to forget. .

chiomzy86:
Once a guy proposes to a lady,other guys will start proposing, thereby confusing the lady.why is it so?..that was exactly what happened to me..

Where una dey jam all this kind people sef

tee59:
Is this real or fiction? Your woman is bad oh. Why are you just giving out money to her like that? Are you not suppose to plan together.? You're using money to assure her of your commitment, whereas she was using you as maga. She will only marry you for money and not love, and in marriage, she will use your money to cater for her boyfriends. Better be wise.Only money can't give happiness in marriage.

it's shocking, why would he do that? Lol, he better not marry that lady, why is she so desperate to get married?

Is marriage by force please? Advice yourself OP

Forget she not ur fucture wife, if anything happen she wil run away or kill u one day simple

She's simply desperate to marry and must have been under pressure. Don't listen to anyone telling you she's cheating. I guess your Igbo and we do recommendation marriage and i bet the second guy was recommended to her by people who think you are wasting her time.

TheGiftedOne:
This matter strong oo. In isoko boy's voice :"who does that?"

Your fiancee is leaping on two opinions. She's very very unstable.

She's a prostitute. Simple. OP collect your 1.5Million and any other money with her and breakup with her. If you marry her, she would cheat on your. She may even be pregnant for another guy. She is a cheap hoe.

I can't believe this

NICOGRAVITY:
Sir, I humbly plead with you to marry her.
I very much understand the pressure she is in. It's also very challenging for women to make an informed decision when they have more than one suitors. She wants to settle down and doesn't want to miss the opportunities and end up regretting later in life.
Your finance is a very wise woman. Such women make a great home.
Please, kindly continue with your plans.
Nothing has gone wrong here.
You are a CHAMPION. You won the battle.
Rejoice for you are the chosen one.
God bless you greatly in Jesus name amen.

Money cant buy your LOVE ... Money cant secure her, trust me because she's confused.

Her head isnt in one place.... Pray about this issue at hand...

May God shine light on your path and lead you onto the right part as you make your decision.

infonet247:
Hello Nairalanders,

I am really in disbelief and in shock hence am writing this here for all to advice me on what to do.

I am a man of 35yrs old and have been dating a lady for three years now and told her this December 2019, my people will come for the traditional marriage having gone for introduction earlier.

After two months of introduction, she became worried and started feeling unease. I told her ok to make things easier and for you to believe I will marry you, I transfered 1.5m into her account for the traditional and white wedding, promising to add more wen we finally draw up the full list.

Then the unexpected happen, we plan going to Aba to get the traditional marriage items last Saturday, which we later purchased but to my utmost disbelief she had accepted another guy by Thursday in case am not serious!

Am shock because during the week of us going to Aba, I had sent 100k into her account by Wednesday to hold for the journey only for her to accept or tell another guy to come. Then by Sunday after the items have been bought, she sent the new guy a txt that she doesn't want again.

My question is, should I continue with her since she could act like this? Should I go ahead with the marriage or call it Off? Pls I need advice.

Please Front page

infonet247:
Hello Nairalanders,

I am really in disbelief and in shock hence am writing this here for all to advice me on what to do.

I am a man of 35yrs old and have been dating a lady for three years now and told her this December 2019, my people will come for the traditional marriage having gone for introduction earlier.

After two months of introduction, she became worried and started feeling unease. I told her ok to make things easier and for you to believe I will marry you, I transfered 1.5m into her account for the traditional and white wedding, promising to add more wen we finally draw up the full list.

Then the unexpected happen, we plan going to Aba to get the traditional marriage items last Saturday, which we later purchased but to my utmost disbelief she had accepted another guy by Thursday in case am not serious!

Am shock because during the week of us going to Aba, I had sent 100k into her account by Wednesday to hold for the journey only for her to accept or tell another guy to come. Then by Sunday after the items have been bought, she sent the new guy a txt that she doesn't want again.

My question is, should I continue with her since she could act like this? Should I go ahead with the marriage or call it Off? Pls I need advice.

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there are some things you aren't telling us. Why doesn't she think you are serious? How much are you interacting with her?

BTW , I like this girl, nothing is sure until you walk the aisle. Do whatever pleases you.

Marry her and that other guy will father your first child, believe it or yes!

cherriex:
Woooah it means shes double dating na,which =to cheating, just playing a dice game,which ever side is ready shes ready,she might actually be a good person but she f*ck up,it pays to be loyal.

double dating is not cheating

Your fiancée na Judas what else do you want... You re waiting for him to kiss you as a way of leading to your enemies... Na only Bros J understand this.

Jimmyson:
The greatest misfortune of a man is getting married to a girl that cheat, lie and is disrespectful. I don't even know if I will marry...

where did she cheat? Where did she lie? Where was she disrespectful?

Stop menstruating rubbish on this thread?

thunder fire you op for asking childish question, you want to marry corporate olosho in your house



make I no swear for you with this your naivety at 35yrs? please stop embarrassing men

NICOGRAVITY:
Sir, I humbly plead with you to marry her.
I very much understand the pressure she is in. It's also very challenging for women to make an informed decision when they have more than one suitors. She wants to settle down and doesn't want to miss the opportunities and end up regretting later in life.
Your finance is a very wise woman. Such women make a great home.
Please, kindly continue with your plans.
Nothing has gone wrong here.
You are a CHAMPION. You won the battle.
Rejoice for you are the chosen one.
God bless you greatly in Jesus name amen.

YOU HAVE SAID THE GOSPEL TRUTH

infonet247:
Hello Nairalanders,

I am really in disbelief and in shock hence am writing this here for all to advice me on what to do.

I am a man of 35yrs old and have been dating a lady for three years now and told her this December 2019, my people will come for the traditional marriage having gone for introduction earlier.

After two months of introduction, she became worried and started feeling unease. I told her ok to make things easier and for you to believe I will marry you, I transfered 1.5m into her account for the traditional and white wedding, promising to add more wen we finally draw up the full list.

Then the unexpected happen, we plan going to Aba to get the traditional marriage items last Saturday, which we later purchased but to my utmost disbelief she had accepted another guy by Thursday in case am not serious!

Am shock because during the week of us going to Aba, I had sent 100k into her account by Wednesday to hold for the journey only for her to accept or tell another guy to come. Then by Sunday after the items have been bought, she sent the new guy a txt that she doesn't want again.

My question is, should I continue with her since she could act like this? Should I go ahead with the marriage or call it Off? Pls I need advice.

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guy u self Bleep up,were is that one done,transfer 1.5m to woman to hold,so u wnt to tell woman u av money good for u,my advice for u guy,if u marry that girl,she go still Bleep for outside