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lavylilly:
smh

midnighter:
Nso mfem

IyaTola:
Abadiye

lavylilly:
Invest in your woman!
There is no beautiful garden without a committed gardener. The reason why she is beginning to look less attractive to you is because you're allowing the weeds outgrow her roses. Pluck them off and see if she won't match up to the other women you're admiring.

Don't be quiet when she's carrying her hair undone for weeks. It should bother you if she's been wearing those same torn shoes for months, when she visits you in those shoes uncle how do you feel escorting her to the bus? Stop by the store if she's not smelling nice, the Nivea roll-on and body spray package is not more than two thousand naira, and encourage her to be spraying it fuuufuuufuuu with the fear of God so that it will last.

Teach her to be diligent and honest.
Teach her the principles of purpose discovery.
Teach her about investment and saving.
Teach her the importance of walking with God.
Help her develop a new skill.
Give her a helping hands when she is weary.
Not just to be doing boo and bae everywhere.
And disturbing everyone
Chinny Nwafor

themaestro08:
It seems you are oblivious of the fact that you can't change anyone unless they actually want to. And regarding all this things you mentioned you forget that relationship is a two way street. And more importantly only special women deserve special treatment.

addictiv:
Guys b4 you invest in any woman, and ensure she's worth the effort.....else u re better off buying a goat that gets pregnant and births kids that you can sell for returns.

lavylilly:

Martinez39:
Don't mind the op. Let her tell that to those that trained their girlfriends in school thinking they were going to marry her after everything only to be dumped cold for a higher bidder. Let her tell that to the husbands who trained their wives in school, furthered the education of their wives, got them high paying jobs only for the husband to go broke and reap insults, nagging, and cruelty in return. These husbands get insulted and are constantly reminded by their wives at the slightest provocation that they are worthless and that if not for the wives' money, they wouldn't survive. Any money they borrow from their wives is a loan that must be returned or else they are nagged and fought to repay. It does not matter what good these husbands have done for their wives in the past.

excessmon:
When will we have people that can actually read.... he never said you should train them in school he only said you should bring her up to the taste you want In A woman so you [wont be opening your opolo eyes to disturb the ones we have groomed....Biko
quote author=Martinez39 post=84449889] Don't mind the op. Let her tell that to those that trained their girlfriends in school thinking they were going to marry her after everything only to be dumped cold for a higher bidder. Let her tell that to the husbands who trained their wives in school, furthered the education of their wives, got them high paying jobs only for the husband to go broke and reap insults, nagging, and cruelty in return. These husbands get insulted and are constantly reminded by their wives at the slightest provocation that they are worthless and that if not for the wives' money, they wouldn't survive. Any money they borrow from their wives is a loan that must be returned or else they are nagged and fought to repay. It does not matter what good these husbands have done for their wives in the past.

excessmon:
When will we have people that can actually read.... he never said you should train them in school he only said you should bring her up to the taste you want In A woman so you wont be opening your opolo eyes to disturb the ones we have groomed....Biko

lilwetdick:
what is toxic here?

if a woman has a brain, two eyes, two nose, two legs and everything necessary to be a complete and mature woman

is it my job to tell the woman that she needs to get her hair done?
is it my job to tell the woman that she needs to take her bath or smell nice?
or is it my job to tell her how to be a responsible woman?

as long as she is not an invalid and disable, she can think for herself.

Martinez39:
Lol. You typed this from a place of emotion instead of reason. So if a man's taste is for his wife to be educated nko? You don't think those men that trained their wives in school had the taste for an educated woman? Beside, why can't the lady improve herself? Why does she need to be spoon-fed like a child in kindergarten? Next time when you are replying, leave your emotions out of it.

Martinez39:
Lol. You typed this from a place of emotion instead of reason. So if a man's taste is for his wife to be educated nko? You don't think those men that trained their wives in school had the taste for an educated woman? Beside, why can't the lady improve herself? Why does she need to be spoon-fed like a child in kindergarten? Next time when you are replying, leave your emotions out of it.

lavylilly:
na wa

lavylilly:
wht kind of analogy is this?

lavylilly:
You are not even man enough

excessmon:
So sorry I am not emotional at all
However my choice is that if you take care of your woman she will take care of you twice......
Don’t train her groom her to ur taste
That’s my word

Let her tell that to those that trained their girlfriends in school thinking they were going to marry her after everything only to be dumped cold for a higher bidder. Let her tell that to the husbands who trained their wives in school, furthered the education of their wives, got them high paying jobs only for the husband to go broke and reap insults, nagging, and cruelty in return. These husbands get insulted and are constantly reminded by their wives at the slightest provocation that they are worthless and that if not for the wives' money, they wouldn't survive. Any money they borrow from their wives is a loan that must be returned or else they are nagged and fought to repay. It does not matter what good these husbands have done for their wives in the past.

When will we have people that can actually read.... he never said you should train them in school he only said you should bring her up to the taste you want In A woman so you wont be opening your opolo eyes to disturb the ones we have groomed....Biko

excessmon:
if you take care of your woman she will take care of you twice.

CAPSLOCKED:
BULLSHĮT.

SAY THAT TO THE UNCONTROLLABLY WAILING MEN WHO CATERED FOR, SPONSORED THROUGH SCHOOL/CAREER, CHERISHED AND PROVIDED FOR THEIR WOMEN.... WHO LATER TURNED AROUND AND ELOPED WITH INSTAGRAM BOYS.

excessmon:
Pls try to read and understand
I don’t mean train her through life I mean groom her to ur level
Baba abeg learn to read properly

excessmon:
Pls try to read and understand
I don’t mean train her through life I mean groom her to ur level
Baba abeg learn to read properly

lavylilly:
why are you so toxic?

rukell:
yes oo.i beg tel dem..INVEST IN UR WOMAN O..we nid d investment more dan d investor jare.