KIkiofure:
Hi All.. I called my BF and told him that I want to keep the child he said if I want to then I am on my own so he blocked me..
I don't wanna say anything but this isn't what he said when the going was good

What an asshole. I wish I can have his number so I can give him a brief history of his accursed lineage

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Fountainofyouth:
Pls do D and C, cos it seems you are not ready to have a child, don't bring a kid to the world to suffer, protection could have prevented this.

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KIkiofure:
Hi All.. I called my BF and told him that I want to keep the child he said if I want to then I am on my own so he blocked me..
I don't wanna say anything but this isn't what he said when the going was good

My dear men are always different when the going is good

KIkiofure:
Hi All.. I called my BF and told him that I want to keep the child he said if I want to then I am on my own so he blocked me..
I don't wanna say anything but this isn't what he said when the going was good

Ofure bodiayé?

See I'll be honest with you, there's a saying that 'person wey dey find party rice to chop no dey run from dance when music start.'
What I'm about to tell you is what I will tell my sister or daughter(s) should one decide to embarrass me like this.

What you're going through is nothing new, as a matter of fact if you're not careful, you will take in for that same guy again or even another guy...so it's time to have some introspection and understand the part you played in all this - assuming a victim stance and demonizing the guy will NOT do you any good now or even in the long run because most of the time, children will still go looking for their lost fathers when they reach a certain point in their lives.
You had sex, pre-marital sex...and as if that was not enough, you let yourself get pregnant. Yes I said you let it because while the responsibility for having sex with another person willingly is 50% on the woman, the responsibility for getting pregnant is 100% on her - she is the one that can decide whether to get pregnant or not, unless she is a child. And if she (you) still considers yourself misled into getting pregnant, then perhaps you are really a child that shouldn't be having sex in the first place.
That is the party rice (enjoyment) you wanted.

Now on to the dancing part:
The guy has decided to run from dancing to the music, he has made his own choice and honestly you will not be able to force him. Perhaps you can get a court to make him pay child support but despite the nobility in this effort by courts, I personally find it awkward given that it's the same women seeking for child support that usually complain about husbands who think raising a child is all about providing money instead of being present and being a father to the child.
Either way, it is your turn to make a choice between dancing or not dancing.

I don't buy into the "stubborn child I am carrying" narrative which you're echoing here, I've heard this a lot - it's probably a Nigerian way of referring to an unborn child as special, refusing to go away. Well it's superstition, that's what I think. For now, you just stop pumping yourself full of abortion drugs. Just because you haven't seen blood does not mean it has not worked - it could very well have, or maybe you didn't administer the drugs accurately, or perhaps you were never even pregnant in the first place and got a false positive result (this can happen)...too many probabilities.
Look for a trusted pharmacist or doctor friend (note this, he/she has to be a friend of yours) because I saw where someone advised you to go to a hospital - that is just ridiculous because the NMA considers abortion illegal. Talk to either of those professionals I recommended to discuss options, meanwhile do another test and do a scan to actually be sure something is in there. This is only if you don't want to keep the pregnancy.

My purpose here is not to help you decide what to do.
If you decide to keep it, then it's time to inform those who need to know - your family. They will be very disappointed, but if your tribe is what I suspect it is, they will accept you and the pregnancy at the end of the day. Raising a child will not be easy so your family will be the support you need.

crackhaus:

Ofure bodiayé?

See I'll be honest with you, there's a saying that 'person wey dey find party rice to chop no dey run from dance when music start.'
What I'm about to tell you is what I will tell my sister or daughter(s) should one decide to embarrass me like this.

What you're going through is nothing new, as a matter of fact if you're not careful, you will take in for that same guy again or even another guy...so it's time to have some introspection and understand the part you played in all this - assuming a victim stance and demonizing the guy will NOT do you any good now or even in the long run because most of the time, children will still go looking for their lost fathers when they reach a certain point in their lives.
You had sex, pre-marital sex...and as if that was not enough, you let yourself get pregnant. Yes I said you let it because while the responsibility for having sex with another person willingly is 50% on the woman, the responsibility for getting pregnant is 100% on her - she is the one that can decide whether to get pregnant or not, unless she is a child. And if she (you) still considers yourself misled into getting pregnant, then perhaps you are really a child that shouldn't be having sex in the first place.
That is the party rice (enjoyment) you wanted.

Now on to the dancing part:
The guy has decided to run from dancing to the music, he has made his own choice and honestly you will not be able to force him. Perhaps you can get a court to make him pay child support but despite the nobility in this effort by courts, I personally find it awkward given that it's the same women seeking for child support that usually complain about husbands who think raising a child is all about providing money instead of being present and being a father to the child.
Either way, it is your turn to make a choice between dancing or not dancing.

I don't buy into the "stubborn child I am carrying" narrative which you're echoing here, I've heard this a lot - it's probably a Nigerian way of referring to an unborn child as special, refusing to go away. Well it's superstition, that's what I think. For now, you just stop pumping yourself full of abortion drugs. Just because you haven't seen blood does not mean it has not worked - it could very well have, or maybe you didn't administer the drugs accurately, or perhaps you were never even pregnant in the first place and got a false positive result (this can happen)...too many probabilities.
Look for a trusted pharmacist or doctor friend (note this, he/she has to be a friend of yours) because I saw where someone advised you to go to a hospital - that is just ridiculous because the NMA considers abortion illegal. Talk to either of those professionals I recommended to discuss options, meanwhile do another test and do a scan to actually be sure something is in there. This is only if you don't want to keep the pregnancy.

My purpose here is not to help you decide what to do.
If you decide to keep it, then it's time to inform those who need to know - your family. They will be very disappointed, but if your tribe is what I suspect it is, they will accept you and the pregnancy at the end of the day. Raising a child will not be easy so your family will be the support you need.

TBH sir I didn't get pregnant on purpose..Like I said I was very careful about it and him too but that day I guess he Came inside me but forgot because I kept asking him and he kept saying no he didn't.. We argued and he blocked me yesterday but I will tell my mum but not now,i am thinking when the pregnancy is about 4/5 months because I have a flat tummy..Concerning the abortion I have tried all kinds of medication noting worked o.. I will bear the shame and carry my Cross

Ifyy25:
My dear men are always different when the going is good

I was surprised despite the lovey dovey

Ishilove:

What an asshole. I wish I can have his number so I can give him a brief history of his accursed lineage

I will drop his number soon.. Karma will surely follow him

KIkiofure:
TBH sir I didn't get pregnant on purpose..Like I said I was very careful about it and him too but that day I guess he Came inside me but forgot because I kept asking him and he kept saying no he didn't.. We argued and he blocked me yesterday but I will tell my mum but not now,i am thinking when the pregnancy is about 4/5 months because I have a flat tummy..Concerning the abortion I have tried all kinds of medication noting worked o.. I will bear the shame and carry my Cross

You didn't get me, did you? I didn't say you got pregnant on purpose.

I'm not trying to make jest, but that bit in bold is funny.

Tell your mum now.

crackhaus:

You didn't get me, did you? I didn't say you got pregnant on purpose.

I'm not trying to make jest, but that bit in bold is funny.

Tell your mum now.

Ye I am scared o.. I guess I will go tell my pastor(She is a female) so that she can follow me to meet my mum

KIkiofure:
Hi All.. I called my BF and told him that I want to keep the child he said if I want to then I am on my own so he blocked me..
I don't wanna say anything but this isn't what he said when the going was good

Very stupid guy. Watch him come back after 6 years to lay claims on the child.

KIkiofure:
Ye I am scared o.. I guess I will go tell my pastor(She is a female) so that she can follow me to meet my mum

Good idea

You might later give birth to a deformed or disable child as a result of all the nonsense you have used. Close your legs and concentrate on your books, no you won't. Use condom, no you won't. You are now finding a way to kill an innocent baby.

crackhaus:

Ofure bodiayé?

You had sex, pre-marital sex...and as if that was not enough, you let yourself get pregnant. Yes I said you let it because while the responsibility for having sex with another person willingly is 50% on the woman, the responsibility for getting pregnant is 100% on her

So the guy that poured inside doesn't have any responsibility in the pregnancy, abi? What happened to condoms?? Don't let me summon the spirit of whitlow to locate the fingers you used in typing this

Ishilove:

So the guy that poured inside doesn't have any responsibility in the pregnancy, abi? What happened to condoms?? Don't let me summon the spirit of whitlow to locate the fingers you used in typing this

I've never had whitlow before, but you can try summoning the spirit. I want to check something

On to seriousness anyway, Ishilove you can hyperventilate all you want, you can try to be as idealistic as much as you want, but at the end of the day, real people know exactly that when it comes to pregnancy, a grown woman who does not want to get pregnant WILL NOT get pregnant.
This is not even about gender bias as I suppose you're assuming, it is about common sense.

If you Ishilove at your stage in life will allow any man you are not married to and don't want to get pregnant for, have sex with you without a condom, then my dear we suppose send you back to boarding school.
Even if for some reason, since we are being realistic here, you end up doing it without protection, and afterwards you continue asking and requesting confirmation from the man on the possibility that he released inside you, because you just don't know how to detect if sperm is inside you after a round of sex, then we suppose return you to nursery school.

KIkiofure:
Hi All.. I called my BF and told him that I want to keep the child he said if I want to then I am on my own so he blocked me..
I don't wanna say anything but this isn't what he said when the going was good

Do you have a job? Are you educated or running a business? What is your qualification?

Please face your life and keep living big. Karma will catch up with him and he will look for you to beg for forgiveness in future . I pray God help the child to be great in life.
Remember the story of Regina Daniels?

Tell ur mother now,u cannot be able to abort for now,take the police to arrest that stupid fucker to pay u damage u will use to take care of yourself b4 i call u next year

You can use condoms, it will still tear, bam you are pregnant. Even if it doesn’t, there’s still a possibility of pregnancy.
You can be on birth control pills, you can still get pregnant
You can take the morning after pill aka postinor and still get pregnant. This is not the matter of allowing yourself to get pregnant or not, the truth is that biology will always take its place faster than man made products no matter what anybody does. The only way to ensure you will never get pregnant is abstinence, which 90% of young adults cannot do. So no, you’re wrong. Pregnancy is not strictly controlled by the woman. The man and the woman who lie down together are equally responsible for the reproduction of a child if they decide to have sex.

crackhaus:

I've never had whitlow before, but you can try summoning the spirit. I want to check something

On to seriousness anyway, Ishilove you can hyperventilate all you want, you can try to be as idealistic as much as you want, but at the end of the day, real people know exactly that when it comes to pregnancy, a grown woman who does not want to get pregnant WILL NOT get pregnant.
This one is not even about gender bias as I suppose you're assuming, it is about common sense.

If you Ishilove at your stage in life will allow any man you are not married to and don't want to get pregnant for, have sex with you without a condom, then my dear we suppose send you back to boarding school.
Even if for some reason, since we are being realistic here, you end up doing it without protection, and afterwards you continue asking and requesting confirmation from the man on the possibility that he released inside you, because you just don't know how to detect if sperm is inside you after a round of sex, then we suppose return you to nursery school.

olabrinks:
You can use condoms, it will still tear, bam you are pregnant. Even if it doesn’t, there’s still a possibility of pregnancy.
You can be on birth control pills, you can still get pregnant
You can take the morning after pill aka postinor and still get pregnant. This is not the matter of allowing yourself to get pregnant or not, the truth is that biology will always take its place faster than man made products no matter what anybody does. The only way to ensure you will never get pregnant is abstinence, which 90% of young adults cannot do. So no, you’re wrong. Pregnancy is not strictly controlled by the woman. The man and the woman who lie down together are equally responsible for the reproduction of a child if they decide to have sex.

Stay there and be trying to prove who is wrong and who is right when the reality is that millions of women all over the world have had to and still have to endure pregnancies that irresponsible men want nothing to do with. I've never heard or seen a situation where the man got pregnant and it was the woman who said she wants nothing to do with it.

Is this not enough to let anyone with common sense know that it is always the person with most to lose in any venture that is burdened with more responsibility to protect their interests?

Like I said, stay there and be trying to prove wrongness and rightness, espousing idealism, when the facts are clear for anyone with two eyes and a sweat gland to see.
Using rare minute cases of accidental pregnancies which are allowed to get to full term despite observing all the known preventive measures, really does nothing to lift the overall burden of responsibility from women - at most, you have only pushed the responsibility to a higher power, the kind of power that made Virgin Mary conceive without even so much as kissing a man.
Miracle pregnancy.

This is not about who is right or wrong, I’m simply correcting your statement that the responsibility of falling pregnant falls solely on the woman. Of course we know that the man can simply walk away if he wants, because biology doesn’t allow a man to carry the pregnancy. How can a woman leave her pregnancy, when she’s carrying it everywhere she goes? Biologically she’s unable to do that na, c’mon we are not kids here. This doesn’t negate the fact that both adults were equally responsible for producing that child during conception. And there’s nothing rare about getting pregnant with condoms, birth control pills, postinor or using all methods of contraception. My husband and I still got pregnant using two methods of contraception. Are we now going to say it’s solely my fault for getting pregnant, when both of us decided to lay down which we knew had consequences? and It happens on a daily basis. Like I said, man made products can not defeat nature. If you have sex, you can get pregnant no matter what. And that’s what I’m simply correcting you on. The only way a woman can prevent herself from getting pregnant wholeheartedly is by abstinence, and In that sense your argument would be more valid. You would be surprised how many women have gone through abortions, after failed methods of contraceptions. It’s more common that you think.

crackhaus:

Stay there and be trying to prove who is wrong and who is right when the reality is that millions of women all over the world have had to and still have to endure pregnancies that irresponsible men want nothing to do with. I've never heard or seen a situation where the man got pregnant and it was the woman who said she wants nothing to do with it.

Is this not enough to let anyone with common sense know that it is always the person with most to lose in any venture that is burdened with more responsibility to protect their interests?

Like I said, stay there and be trying to prove wrongness and rightness, espousing idealism, when the facts are clear for anyone with two eyes and a sweat gland to see.
Using rare minute cases of accidental pregnancies which get to full term despite observing all the known preventive measures, really does nothing to lift the overall burden of responsibility from women - at most, you have only pushed the responsibility to a higher power, the kind of power that made Virgin Mary conceive without even so much as kissing a man.
Miracle pregnancy.

Ishilove:

So the guy that poured inside doesn't have any responsibility in the pregnancy, abi? What happened to condoms?? Don't let me summon the spirit of whitlow to locate the fingers you used in typing this

Ishilove, i have always called you out for your "2 Faced" Attitude. I think at this point i need to call you to order again and warn you of impending danger if you don't desist from being at the forefront whenever the "Male Man" is mentioned for destruction. If you continue like this, you will destroy yourself instead.

I am yet to see any woman address this issue truthfully. Indeed Women are the problem of themselves.



At a point, we have to blame this young lady for making a very grave mistake. I was hoping we would do this after she had updated the thread that she has aborted the Foetus or agreed to keep it.

From the way she sounded at the beginning one with a discerning spirit would know that the person behind the veil is a young girl in her 20's and so is the Young man that deposited the sperm in her. Unfortunately in Nigeria, Young men within that age bracket are afraid of taking responsibility. Infact most of them are not yet adults.

She is not pregnant today because the young boy RAPED HER! It was consensual and the act has been going on for sometime. So why blame the man alone?

Let us stop being emotional and SAY THE RAW TRUTH!

If you study the biological configuration of a man, you will know that it is our duty to deposit the sperm but it is your duty as a woman to offer your VAGINA.

You talked about CONDOMS, come on woman stop being hypocritical. Condoms and contraceptives are the responsibility of both Adults. If the man decides to go in raw, she could have said "NO" and insisted he gets a condom. Believe me, he wouldn't rape her but run out with full speed to find the nearest pharmacy or patent store and buy one.



In a bid to destroy the man you are busy making derogatory remarks about him and trying so hard to paint him in a bad light. Forgetting so fast that this is just a young boy that still has life ahead of him. He is still finding his place in this world but as usual, that process doesn't deprive them the ability to indulge in sexual acts (Its biological). Just as the financial state, height, weight of a young girl doesn't determine when she will grow breasts.

WHAT IF THIS LADY IN QUESTION THAT YOU ARE TRYING SO HARD TO DEFEND WAS PRO "SKIN to SKIN"!

Read her post again, you will see that she has been indulging in frequent sex without condoms.

Let us call a spade a spade please.

Before you attack me, i have given her the best advice i would give my daughters should any decide to bring me this SHAME. You can find that in page 2.

KingSatan:


Ishilove, i have always called you out for your "2 Faced" Attitude. I think at this point i need to call you to order again and warn you of impending danger if you don't desist from being at the forefront whenever the "Male Man" is mentioned for destruction. If you continue like this, you will destroy yourself instead.

I am yet to see any woman address this issue truthfully. Indeed Women are the problem of themselves.

At a point, we have to blame this young lady for making a very grave mistake. I was hoping we would do this after she had updated the thread that she has aborted the Foetus or agreed to keep it.

From the way she sounded at the beginning one with a discerning spirit would know that the person behind the veil is a young girl in her 20's and so is the Young man that deposited the sperm in her. Unfortunately in Nigeria, Young men within that age bracket are afraid of taking responsibility. Infact most of them are not yet adults.

She is not pregnant today because the young boy RAPED HER! It was consensual and the act has been going on for sometime. So why blame the man alone?

Let us stop being emotional and SAY THE RAW TRUTH!

If you study the biological configuration of a man, you will know that it is our duty to deposit the sperm but it is your duty as a woman to offer your VAGINA.

You talked about CONDOMS, come on woman stop being hypocritical. Condoms and contraceptives are the responsibility of both Adults. If the man decides to go in raw, she could have said "NO" and insisted she gets a condom. Believe me, he wouldn't rape her but run out with full speed to find the nearest pharmacy or patent store and buy one.



In a bid to destroy the man you are busy making derogatory remarks about him and trying so hard to paint him in a bad light. Forgetting so fast that this is just a young boy that still has life ahead of him. He is still finding his place in this world but as usual, that process doesn't deprive them the ability to indulge in sexual acts (Its biological). Just as the financial state, height, weight of a young girl doesn't determine when she will grow breasts.

WHAT IF THIS LADY IN QUESTION THAT YOU ARE TRYING SO HARD TO DEFEND WAS PRO "SKIN to SKIN"!

Read her post again, you will see that she has been having frequent sex without condoms.

Let us call a spade a spade please.

Before you attack me, i have given her the best advice i would give my daughters should any decide to bring me this SHAME. You can find that in page 2.

Ese o. Ekufe. Minister of Fvck matters.
I kuku don't have your time this evening.

olabrinks:
This is not about who is right or wrong, I’m simply correcting your statement that the responsibility of falling pregnant falls solely on the woman. Of course we know that the man can simply walk away if he wants, because biology doesn’t allow a man to carry the pregnancy. This doesn’t negate the fact that both adults were equally responsible for producing that child during conception. And there’s nothing rare about getting pregnant with condoms, birth control pills, postinor or using all methods of contraception. My husband and I still got pregnant using two methods of contraception. Are we now going to say it’s solely my fault for getting pregnant, when both of us decided to lay down which we knew had consequences? and It happens on a daily basis. Like I said, man made products can not defeat nature. If you have sex, you can get pregnant no matter what. And that’s what I’m simply correcting you on. The only way a woman can prevent herself from getting pregnant wholeheartedly is by abstinence, and In that sense your argument would be more valid. You would be surprised how many women have gone through abortions, after failed methods of contraceptions. It’s more common that you think.

Please expand on this, so the sexually active readers will know about these two methods of contraception that failed you, and then make sure to add at least two more methods to avoid a pregnancy.

Thank you in advance.

olabrinks:
This is not about who is right or wrong, I’m simply correcting your statement that the responsibility of falling pregnant falls solely on the woman. Of course we know that the man can simply walk away if he wants, because biology doesn’t allow a man to carry the pregnancy. How can a woman leave her pregnancy, when she’s carrying it everywhere she goes? Biologically she’s unable to do that na, c’mon we are not kids here. This doesn’t negate the fact that both adults were equally responsible for producing that child during conception. And there’s nothing rare about getting pregnant with condoms, birth control pills, postinor or using all methods of contraception.My husband and I still got pregnant using two methods of contraception. Are we now going to say it’s solely my fault for getting pregnant, when both of us decided to lay down which we knew had consequences? and It happens on a daily basis. Like I said, man made products can not defeat nature. If you have sex, you can get pregnant no matter what. And that’s what I’m simply correcting you on. The only way a woman can prevent herself from getting pregnant wholeheartedly is by abstinence, and In that sense your argument would be more valid. You would be surprised how many women have gone through abortions, after failed methods of contraceptions. It’s more common that you think.

@ bolded

Let me guess, coitus interruptus (almost guaranteed to lead to pregnancy) and what else? Rhythm method which also ensures it?

Since that’s the only thing you got from everything I wrote, it’s clear that your argument is void and invalid. Two people lie down to have sex, there’s a possiblity that pregnancy will be formed by these two people. Whether the man decides to walk out and leave doesn’t negate the input he had in creating that child. If it’s up to the woman who decides to get herself pregnant or not, then please why can’t she get pregnant on her own? Why cant the egg fertilise without sperm? Contraception or not, sex= pregnancy. Your argument would’ve been better if you told women to abstain from sex, that is the only way she will have 100% responsibility and control over her body. That is the only preventative measure to ensure no pregnancy at all. It’s as simple as abc.

crackhaus:

Please expand on this, so the sexually active readers will know about these two methods of contraception that failed you, and then make sure to add at least two more methods to avoid a pregnancy.

Thank you in advance.

olabrinks:
Since that’s the only thing you got from everything I wrote, it’s clear that your argument is void and invalid. Two people lie down to have sex, there’s a possiblity that pregnancy will be formed by these two people. Whether the man decides to walk out and leave doesn’t negate the input he had in creating that child. If it’s up to the woman who decides to get herself pregnant or not, then please why can’t she get pregnant on her own? Why cant the egg fertilise without sperm? Contraception or not, sex= pregnancy. Your argument would’ve been better if you told women to abstain from sex, that is the only way she will have 100% responsibility and control over her body. It’s as simple as abc.

Abeg move from my front jor and stick your assessment of my argument in your savings account.
Just tell people what methods of contraception failed you, it could serve as a learning curve for some, but no you're deflecting.

What exactly is my business with what an olabrinks thinks about my argument? Should I lose sleep over it?

I used my case as an example as it related to topic. You’re the one deflecting as you seem excited and amused, trying so hard to deliberate on that one sentence when it was simply a reference. If you don’t want to be challenged on ignorant comments posted on nairaland, then don’t comment all. Simple as that.

crackhaus:

Abeg move from my front jor and stick your assessment of my argument in your savings account.
Just tell people what methods of contraception failed you, it could serve as a learning curve for some, but of course you're deflecting.

What exactly is supposed to be my business with what an olabrinks thinks about my argument?

olabrinks:
I used my case as an example as it related to topic. You’re the one deflecting as you seem excited and amused, trying so hard to deliberate on that one sentence when it was simply a reference. If you don’t want to be challenged on ignorant comments posted on nairaland, then don’t comment all. Simple as that.

Lmao... Does crackhaus look like someone who has ever been weary of being challenged on nairaland?
Now you are just confirming what I already knew - carried over animosity is what you're manifesting here.

See this is what always happens when you don't like a person - you keep coming into their mentions to fault their argument but consistently leaving large gaping holes because your motivation is animosity towards the poster and not the logic of the message...then when you are obliged and given a simple task to sandfill these holes, you start the rigmarole and unsolicited explanations.
This is not your first time and I will just keep on typing what I want to type on nairaland, whether it upsets you or your group of entitled-never-want-to-read-the-cold-truth nitwits.

I mean come on, by now you should have realized this guy does not have 1shekel weight of silver fvck to give regarding what you think na, so I wonder why you keep trying to impress me when you know for a fact that I'm NEVER EVER trying to impress you or any woman here with the way my comments are designed.

Move aside Natasha

crackhaus:

I've never had whitlow before, but you can try summoning the spirit. I want to check something

On to seriousness anyway, Ishilove you can hyperventilate all you want, you can try to be as idealistic as much as you want, but at the end of the day, real people know exactly that when it comes to pregnancy, a grown woman who does not want to get pregnant WILL NOT get pregnant.
This is not even about gender bias as I suppose you're assuming, it is about common sense.

If you Ishilove at your stage in life will allow any man you are not married to and don't want to get pregnant for, have sex with you without a condom, then my dear we suppose send you back to boarding school.
Even if for some reason, since we are being realistic here, you end up doing it without protection, and afterwards you continue asking and requesting confirmation from the man on the possibility that he released inside you, because you just don't know how to detect if sperm is inside you after a round of sex, then we suppose return you to nursery school.

Is there a particular way to detect if there is sperm inside one?

Ishilove:

Is there a particular way to detect if there is sperm inside one?

You a woman asking a man this?

How do you want me to explain it to you, like you want me to tell you what experienced women who rush into the bathroom immediately after sex do in there to make sure/confirm there is no sperm inside them?

Are you tugging my bootstraps?

Good evening all..
So the update is I finally told my mum but she has been crying non stop and she said she doesn't wanna see me for now so I am currently not home.
She asked of the guy and called him and immediately he heard her voice he hunged up..
Like right now he is saying I should do my worst he even said I should curse if I want to even mocking me..
So my resolution is I will just anyhow bear the shame but my mum said I can't stay home so I might just go stay with a family for now but I am sorry to say this I will go extra mile I swear to make sure he suffer..
He impregnated me on purpose because i asked him severally he said he didn't cum in me..
He will beg for food but won't see I promise

STENON:
Do you have a job? Are you educated or running a business? What is your qualification?

Please face your life and keep living big. Karma will catch up with him and he will look for you to beg for forgiveness in future . I pray God help the child to be great in life.
Remember the story of Regina Daniels?

Currently working and schooling