Hello Nairalanders..
I had to create this account to conceal my identity..

I have been through rough times in life and have been very careful of sex. After I got disvirgned I stayed away from sex, stayed celibate and concentrated on my work and school till I met a guy.. So we talked and we're into each other we had sex, anytime we hadsex I make sure I am careful of been pregnant but that day after sex I didn't take anything because he swore he didnt come in me(Greatest mistake of my life) now I missed my period went for scan and blood test and tested Positive.

I told him but his response wasn't welcoming, I have tried all medication I know to abort this baby but the baby is too stubborn, the child doesn't wanna come out.. I haven't told anyone yet..
I have let my mum down and myself, this wasn't what I ever wanted for my life.

Now since this child is stubborn Pls advise me, I'm not sure the guy wanna be involved in this child life ...
How will I break the new to my mum? How will the society see me? I have let God and my mum down despite my stance on premarital sex Is there any NGO that can assist me?
Please Royalroy front Page ..i need advise.

I would have advised you to go for a D&C.....but I'm not pro-abortion

You have to brace up for what is ahead of you.I hope you have some financial support to get you through.It's a tough journey as a single mother.

Give your mom hints before you eventually break it to her You won't be the first to find yourself in this situation.You will weather the storm.

By the way,how many weeks since you missed your period.

thorpido:
Hmm

Please advice me

I had to create this account to reply this thread.

You are pregnant, so? Make sure you and your mother can take care of the child because that guy will come after a few years. Now you’ve shown you’re an adult, start searching for jobs you can use to make ends meet after your ‘maternity leave’. Your mother will feel bad but wetin she wan do? There’s no option but to see the pregnancy through.

Good luck with child birth. The greater luck is needed in survival way later.

thorpido:
Hmm

Hmm.

meobizy:
I had to create this account to reply this thread.

You are pregnant, so? Make sure you and your mother can take care of the child because that guy will come after a few years. Now you’ve shown you’re an adult, start searching for jobs you can use to make ends meet after your ‘maternity leave’. Your mother will feel bad but wetin she wan do? There’s no option but to see the pregnancy through.

Good luck with child birth. The greater luck is needed in survival way later.

Thank you

meobizy:

Hmm.

Oro pesi je,oro di hmm.

leave it if you want or do d&c if you don't want

ladies and pretence you stand against pre-marital in public but engaging in sex in private

I'm never one to support an abortion and I'm also not going to be a hypocrite.

Everybody has messed up once in a while but then, come on. How old are you?
Clearly you're still a student, do you intend to bring a child into this world with hard luck on the side of you or your mother because of your carelessness?
Do you want an innocent child to come and suffer for what you selfishly did in the past? Come on, step up your thinking game. You're in major crossroads now but you've got to act smart.
Weigh your options, think of what's right and what's going to favour you and that innocent child you're bringing to the world.

Your post says you've tried several methods to abort the child. I want you to be aware that you have probably damaged the foetus. Get ready to give birth to an invalid.
I've seen cases similar to this.

And as for the immature boy you been fucking with?
On God, he's really lucky you're not my sister. Of course he knows the kind of girls he would do shit with and go scott-free!

Sorry my sister, but I’m speechless.

Please go for a D and C..

Don't let anyone decieve you that God won't forgive you.. He will only be angry at you if you still go ahead to bring in a child into this world to let he or she suffer

Hmmmm

The op sounds male, I could be wrong.

The forum has been slower of recent, hence the "breaking news".

I make sure I am careful of been pregnant

You certainly do.

Kindly tell us who you really are then we can continue from there. we can't be advising all them gals. If u know u know.

Because you have tried several drugs to abort the pregnancy, you must complete it now or have a deformed child.
My girlfriend then used misoprostone and some others sha. Within a week, things balance but she added a lot of weight.

KIkiofure:
Hello Nairalanders..
I had to create this account to conceal my identity..

I have been through rough times in life and have been very careful of sex. After I got disvirgned I stayed away from sex, stayed celibate and concentrated on my work and school till I met a guy.. So we talked and we're into each other we had sex, anytime we hadsex I make sure I am careful of been pregnant but that day after sex I didn't take anything because he swore he didnt come in me(Greatest mistake of my life) now I missed my period went for scan and blood test and tested Positive.

I told him but his response wasn't welcoming, I have tried all medication I know to abort this baby but the baby is too stubborn, the child doesn't wanna come out.. I haven't told anyone yet..
I have let my mum down and myself, this wasn't what I ever wanted for my life.

Now since this child is stubborn Pls advise me, I'm not sure the guy wanna be involved in this child life ...
How will I break the new to my mum? How will the society see me? I have let God and my mum down despite my stance on premarital sex Is there any NGO that can assist me?
Please Royalroy front Page ..i need advise.

Another troll post on Nairaland again? Please you pipu should stop creating new usernames to conceal you clown identity.

meobizy:
I had to create this account to reply this thread.

Fvcking sarcasm BRO

The reward for wenching is unwanted pregnancy, carry your cross we guys have enough on our plates.

Pls do D and C, cos it seems you are not ready to have a child, don't bring a kid to the world to suffer, protection could have prevented this.

meobizy:
I had to create this account to reply this thread.

You are pregnant, so? Make sure you and your mother can take care of the child because that guy will come after a few years. Now you’ve shown you’re an adult, start searching for jobs you can use to make ends meet after your ‘maternity leave’. Your mother will feel bad but wetin she wan do? There’s no option but to see the pregnancy through.

Good luck with child birth. The greater luck is needed in survival way later.

That’s a lie. Your account is at least 1yr old.

baby124:

That’s a lie. Your account is at least 1yr old.

Your point is?

Child stubborn indeed. Looks like you want the baby and can afford a baby. Congrats.

meobizy:

Your point is?

You are a liar

baby124:

You are a liar

Ok. Have you received your medal yet?

KIkiofure:
Hello Nairalanders..
I had to create this account to conceal my identity..

I have been through rough times in life and have been very careful of sex. After I got disvirgned I stayed away from sex, stayed celibate and concentrated on my work and school till I met a guy.. So we talked and we're into each other we had sex, anytime we hadsex I make sure I am careful of been pregnant but that day after sex I didn't take anything because he swore he didnt come in me(Greatest mistake of my life) now I missed my period went for scan and blood test and tested Positive.

I told him but his response wasn't welcoming, I have tried all medication I know to abort this baby but the baby is too stubborn, the child doesn't wanna come out.. I haven't told anyone yet..
I have let my mum down and myself, this wasn't what I ever wanted for my life.

Now since this child is stubborn Pls advise me, I'm not sure the guy wanna be involved in this child life ...
How will I break the new to my mum? How will the society see me? I have let God and my mum down despite my stance on premarital sex Is there any NGO that can assist me?
Please Royalroy front Page ..i need advise.

Run away from abortion. You might be temporarily free now. But you sure don't want the generational consequences. Many have lost their lives becos of abortion straight to hell, others their womb, and suffered the pains of childlessness for life. The deal is done. Move forward. Two wrongs can't make it right. You might have no plans for the baby but God does. He will take care of him. Am not saying it will be easy. But aborting is harder with generational consequences.

Who cares, no be we dey shine your congo abeg.

Aren't you and your guy mature and old enough to raise a child? Why do people reject pregnancies? Fear of being a single mother? Well it's completely up to your guy to own up and face his responsibilities. Sleeping with someone you cannot marry is f00lishness.

A NGO assist you in doing what? You are a full blown adult who is fully aware that sex can also lead to pregnancy.

Let your family know about it and if you know the guy's family, your family should engage his. I am hoping that baby will not be born with congenital malformations going by the medications you have taken.

Don't kill this innocent baby oo oh, remember, u will be like a killer on a highway who will kill people, God is watching your every move.
Good day!!!

Give it up for adoption

KIkiofure:
Hello Nairalanders..
I had to create this account to conceal my identity..

I have been through rough times in life and have been very careful of sex. After I got disvirgned I stayed away from sex, stayed celibate and concentrated on my work and school till I met a guy.. So we talked and we're into each other we had sex, anytime we hadsex I make sure I am careful of been pregnant but that day after sex I didn't take anything because he swore he didnt come in me(Greatest mistake of my life) now I missed my period went for scan and blood test and tested Positive.

I told him but his response wasn't welcoming, I have tried all medication I know to abort this baby but the baby is too stubborn, the child doesn't wanna come out.. I haven't told anyone yet..
I have let my mum down and myself, this wasn't what I ever wanted for my life.

Now since this child is stubborn Pls advise me, I'm not sure the guy wanna be involved in this child life ...
How will I break the new to my mum? How will the society see me? I have let God and my mum down despite my stance on premarital sex Is there any NGO that can assist me?
Please Royalroy front Page ..i need advise.

Dear KIkiofure,
please stop trying to abort without medical assistance. You put your health at risk and the baby's too.
I am sorry you find yourself in this situation. It is tough. I can only imagine how terrible it feels.

You said that the guy's response wasn't welcoming. What exactly does it mean? Some men will react reluctantly in the initial stages of the shock but their conscience will not let them ignore the pregnancy and the baby once it is born. Talk to him again. Ask him what he thinks you guys can do. Discuss your options together, make a plan. It is his child too. You shouldn't be left alone. You can't force him to take responsibility so I hope he is a responsible person with a conscience and will explore different options regarding the care of the baby with you and the finances.

Whatever the guy decides to do or not do, you will have to inform your family. I know this will be the hardest part. I know you don't want to be a disappointment to your parents and how scared you must be but after the initial shock and anger and sadness your mum's compassion will kick in and she will (I pray) understand that you need all the support you can get. Talk to her from woman to woman. And before you do it remember that in a few years, maybe months, from now on, the love she will have for her sweet grandchild will make up for the way she felt when she received the news. Don't put it off. The sooner your family knows the better. They need time to adjust too.

We all make mistakes so don't let the comments on this thread get to you. I know that in this kind of a situation you blame yourself enough. Please consider that many women before you have found themselves in the same situation and what seemed to be a punishment turned out to be a blessing because the love you will have for your child will not resemble anything you have experienced before. I wish you all the best. Stay strong.