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Re: How Can I Stop Loving This Other Man. by UyaiIncomparabl(f): 2:38pm On Dec 11, 2019

crackhaus:


SHUT YOUR TRAP!

What in Christopher Columbus compass is my business with knowing that a simple 'I love you' can penetrate deep into a woman's heart, so much so that it will now be better for me because I know it? Better how? cheesy
I resemble who dey live life based off women's approval?

Come, no let me tear you slap wey dey make cow fall.

Yen yen yen yen yen....I love you, I love you. grin

You that is busy looking for a rich Igbo man to marry, why did you not include that he must be telling you 'I love you' in addition to his money?

Nonsense & confusion.

You're just a clown.

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Re: How Can I Stop Loving This Other Man. by UyaiIncomparabl(f): 3:06pm On Dec 11, 2019
crackhaus:

Kai...

She actually told me that 'I love you' penetrates deep into a woman's heart and it's better for me if I know it.
Damn, that stvpid line burst my head grin

Of all the very important things to be known in life, it's now what will penetrate a woman's heart that any sensible person should be concerned with.

You better learn to be romantic now, else you'll fall into the same dilemma if not your wife go cheat on you turn turn without mercy. Be concerned with it now. No say I no tell you.

May God not allow me encounter misogynists like you in my life.

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Re: How Can I Stop Loving This Other Man. by crackhaus: 3:17pm On Dec 11, 2019
bukatyne:


You don't care what makes your woman happy?

You missed the point by a mile at least. Of course I do what I must to make MY woman, not any woman.
Now that you got your answer, I am not the subject of discussion here.

Moving on:
That 'I love you' can penetrate a woman's heart is NOT the eagerly anticipated cure to cancer which I or anyone else needs to know.
It's that same line that has turned many of your sisters into baby mamas/single mothers, because one guy kept telling them 'I love you' and the knuckleheaded fish brains fell for it.
Most of the SJWs on this forum can't even keep a steady relationship after countless breakups with men who shout 'I love you', yet somehow I'm supposed to learn that 'I love you' can penetrate a woman's heart. It's HERESY. grin

You've spoken a lot about how you married your first love, can the same be said of your sisters here?
Majority are not married to the first, second, third, fourth, or even fifth guy who always told them 'I love you' repeatedly...yet somehow, 'I love you' is the magic word that penetrates a woman's heart - yeah it penetrates it just to make most of them stvpid obviously.


This OP has a husband who is paying for her education, is a great father to his kids, and makes sure she is not lacking, yet the ingrate is going about talking about her emotional needs like a whiny sloth and on top of all that, still justifying having an emotional affair with a stranger. The nerve!
And of course, the resident daughters of Belial on family section are busy speaking grammar & clapping for her.
Re: How Can I Stop Loving This Other Man. by crackhaus: 3:19pm On Dec 11, 2019
UyaiIncomparabl:


You better learn to be romantic now, else you'll fall into the same dilemma if not your wife go cheat on you turn turn without mercy. Be concerned with it now. No say I no tell you.

May God not allow me encounter misogynists like you in my life.

Oh I'm very romantic to the one person it concerns and when it most matters, worry about yourself darling.

AMEN to your prayers. cheesy
Re: How Can I Stop Loving This Other Man. by crackhaus: 3:29pm On Dec 11, 2019
UyaiIncomparabl:



You're just a clown.


Better a clown who can entertain than a buffoon who must undergo therapy.
Re: How Can I Stop Loving This Other Man. by UyaiIncomparabl(f): 3:35pm On Dec 11, 2019
crackhaus:

Oh I'm very romantic to the one person it concerns and when it most matters, worry about yourself darling.

AMEN to your prayers. cheesy

You need medical help, and with alacrity. I fear that you may go bunkers soon.

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Re: How Can I Stop Loving This Other Man. by UyaiIncomparabl(f): 3:36pm On Dec 11, 2019
crackhaus:

Better a clown who can entertain than a buffoon who must undergo therapy.

Can you say this to my face?

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Re: How Can I Stop Loving This Other Man. by UyaiIncomparabl(f): 3:43pm On Dec 11, 2019
crackhaus:

You missed the point by a mile at least. Of course I do what I must to make MY woman, not any woman.
Now that you got your answer, I am not the subject of discussion here.

Moving on:
That 'I love you' can penetrate a woman's heart is NOT the eagerly anticipated cure to cancer which I or anyone else needs to know.
It's that same line that has turned many of your sisters into baby mamas/single mothers, because one guy kept telling them 'I love you' and the knuckleheaded fish brains fell for it.
Most of the SJWs on this forum can't even keep a steady relationship after countless breakups with men who shout 'I love you', yet somehow I'm supposed to learn that 'I love you' can penetrate a woman's heart. It's HERESY. grin

You've spoken a lot about how you married your first love, can the same be said of your sisters here?
Majority are not married to the first, second, third, fourth, or even fifth guy who always told them 'I love you' repeatedly...yet somehow, 'I love you' is the magic word that penetrates a woman's heart - yeah it penetrates it just to make most of them stvpid obviously.


This OP has a husband who is paying for her education, is a great father to his kids, and makes sure she is not lacking, yet the ingrate is going about talking about her emotional needs like a whiny sloth and on top of all that, still justifying having an emotional affair with a stranger. The nerve!
And of course, the resident daughters of Belial on family section are busy speaking grammar & clapping for her.

I no know why that my comment just dey pain you.

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Re: How Can I Stop Loving This Other Man. by crackhaus: 3:43pm On Dec 11, 2019
UyaiIncomparabl:


You need medical help, and with alacrity. I fear that you may go bunkers soon.
Medical help for saying AMEN to your prayers to never meet a hunk like me in your life? cheesy

It's your prayer na, I only answered for you.
Maybe you're the one who needs help.

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Re: How Can I Stop Loving This Other Man. by crackhaus: 3:44pm On Dec 11, 2019
UyaiIncomparabl:


Can you say this to my face?
Absolutely, after you call me a clown to my face.
Re: How Can I Stop Loving This Other Man. by UyaiIncomparabl(f): 3:45pm On Dec 11, 2019
crackhaus:

Medical help for saying AMEN to your prayers to never meet a hunk like me in your life? cheesy

It's your prayer na, I only answered for you.
Maybe you're the one who needs help.

Keep replying me word for word. You go tire.

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Re: How Can I Stop Loving This Other Man. by crackhaus: 3:46pm On Dec 11, 2019
UyaiIncomparabl:


I no know why that my comment just dey pain you.
The utter stvpidity of the comment hurt my senses, that's the pain I felt.
Re: How Can I Stop Loving This Other Man. by UyaiIncomparabl(f): 3:46pm On Dec 11, 2019
crackhaus:

Absolutely, after you call me a clown to my face.

Yes na. Why are you offended?

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Re: How Can I Stop Loving This Other Man. by UyaiIncomparabl(f): 3:46pm On Dec 11, 2019
crackhaus:

The utter stvpidity of the comment hurt my senses, that's the pain I felt.

Lol. grin

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Re: How Can I Stop Loving This Other Man. by crackhaus: 3:47pm On Dec 11, 2019
UyaiIncomparabl:


Yes na. Why are you offended?
You think I'm offended because I called you a buffoon in response? cheesy

Was I supposed to roll over and kiss your feet grin
Re: How Can I Stop Loving This Other Man. by UyaiIncomparabl(f): 3:48pm On Dec 11, 2019
crackhaus:

You think I'm offended because I called you a buffoon in response? cheesy

Was I supposed to roll over and kiss your feet grin

Yes, you were.

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Re: How Can I Stop Loving This Other Man. by crackhaus: 3:50pm On Dec 11, 2019
UyaiIncomparabl:


Keep replying me word for word. You go tire.
Like you're not happy you have my full attention
Re: How Can I Stop Loving This Other Man. by UyaiIncomparabl(f): 3:53pm On Dec 11, 2019
crackhaus:

Like you're not happy you have my full attention

WTF are you that I should happy for your attention?

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Re: How Can I Stop Loving This Other Man. by crackhaus: 3:54pm On Dec 11, 2019
UyaiIncomparabl:


Yes, you were.

Yea maybe if you called me a clown while completely naked and oiled up in front of me, I might consider rolling over. No guarantees still.

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Re: How Can I Stop Loving This Other Man. by crackhaus: 3:55pm On Dec 11, 2019
UyaiIncomparabl:


WTF are you that I should happy for your attention?
Who the brown fvck are you that I should be rolling over & kissing your feet?
Re: How Can I Stop Loving This Other Man. by bukatyne(f): 5:45pm On Dec 11, 2019
crackhaus:

You missed the point by a mile at least. Of course I do what I must to make MY woman, not any woman.
Now that you got your answer, I am not the subject of discussion here.

Moving on:
That 'I love you' can penetrate a woman's heart is NOT the eagerly anticipated cure to cancer which I or anyone else needs to know.
It's that same line that has turned many of your sisters into baby mamas/single mothers, because one guy kept telling them 'I love you' and the knuckleheaded fish brains fell for it.
Most of the SJWs on this forum can't even keep a steady relationship after countless breakups with men who shout 'I love you', yet somehow I'm supposed to learn that 'I love you' can penetrate a woman's heart. It's HERESY. grin

You've spoken a lot about how you married your first love, can the same be said of your sisters here?
Majority are not married to the first, second, third, fourth, or even fifth guy who always told them 'I love you' repeatedly...yet somehow, 'I love you' is the magic word that penetrates a woman's heart - yeah it penetrates it just to make most of them stvpid obviously.


This OP has a husband who is paying for her education, is a great father to his kids, and makes sure she is not lacking, yet the ingrate is going about talking about her emotional needs like a whiny sloth and on top of all that, still justifying having an emotional affair with a stranger. The nerve!
And of course, the resident daughters of Belial on family section are busy speaking grammar & clapping for her.

@Bold: True, I should have seen that

'I love you' is one of the most cheaply thrown phrases and if not backed it actions (not sex) and/or uttered at the person's lowest points, it is freaking empty and means nothing. undecided

The OP should indeed do better.
Re: How Can I Stop Loving This Other Man. by bukatyne(f): 5:46pm On Dec 11, 2019
UyaiIncomparabl:


You better learn to be romantic now, else you'll fall into the same dilemma if not your wife go cheat on you turn turn without mercy. Be concerned with it now. No say I no tell you.

May God not allow me encounter misogynists like you in my life.


This is a joke right? undecided
Re: How Can I Stop Loving This Other Man. by UyaiIncomparabl(f): 7:37pm On Dec 11, 2019
bukatyne:


@Bold: True, I should have seen that

'I love you' is one of the most cheaply thrown phrases and if not backed it actions (not sex) and/or uttered at the person's lowest points, it is freaking empty and means nothing. undecided

The OP should indeed do better.

You're two-faced.

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Re: How Can I Stop Loving This Other Man. by UyaiIncomparabl(f): 7:37pm On Dec 11, 2019
bukatyne:


This is a joke right? undecided

I'm not sure.

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Re: How Can I Stop Loving This Other Man. by Nobody: 7:50pm On Dec 11, 2019
crackhaus:

You missed the point by a mile at least. Of course I do what I must to make MY woman, not any woman.
Now that you got your answer, I am not the subject of discussion here.

Moving on:
That 'I love you' can penetrate a woman's heart is NOT the eagerly anticipated cure to cancer which I or anyone else needs to know.
It's that same line that has turned many of your sisters into baby mamas/single mothers, because one guy kept telling them 'I love you' and the knuckleheaded fish brains fell for it.
Most of the SJWs on this forum can't even keep a steady relationship after countless breakups with men who shout 'I love you', yet somehow I'm supposed to learn that 'I love you' can penetrate a woman's heart. It's HERESY. grin

You've spoken a lot about how you married your first love, can the same be said of your sisters here?
Majority are not married to the first, second, third, fourth, or even fifth guy who always told them 'I love you' repeatedly...yet somehow, 'I love you' is the magic word that penetrates a woman's heart - yeah it penetrates it just to make most of them stvpid obviously.


This OP has a husband who is paying for her education, is a great father to his kids, and makes sure she is not lacking, yet the ingrate is going about talking about her emotional needs like a whiny sloth and on top of all that, still justifying having an emotional affair with a stranger. The nerve!
And of course, the resident daughters of Belial on family section are busy speaking grammar & clapping for her.

On I love you I love you, I agree with u here. Who I love you eep tongue cheesy
Has been misleading women for ages. I can't live without u, I love you,bla bla bla.
Real men got no time for sermon cheesy
Access them by their actions. Infact, if u come with I love you, I will run without looking back.
I love you means your pant for ground. We never learn.

I learnt this from what I love you did to babes around me, the thing dey scatter their brain and they keep on making mistakes until their eyes go clear.
Our girls read too much romance novels cheesy

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Re: How Can I Stop Loving This Other Man. by bukatyne(f): 8:02pm On Dec 11, 2019
UyaiIncomparabl:


You're two-faced.

Interesting.

How? undecided
Re: How Can I Stop Loving This Other Man. by crackhaus: 8:47pm On Dec 11, 2019
bukatyne:


@Bold: True, I should have seen that

'I love you' is one of the most cheaply thrown phrases and if not backed it actions (not sex) and/or uttered at the person's lowest points, it is freaking empty and means nothing. undecided

The OP should indeed do better.
And this is what I have been all about here.
Perhaps I was a little harsh in my delivery, but I can't suffer nincompoops even if I tried.
Re: How Can I Stop Loving This Other Man. by crackhaus: 9:10pm On Dec 11, 2019
sassysure:


On I love you I love you, I agree with u here. Who I love you eep tongue cheesy
Has been misleading women for ages. I can't live without u, I love you,bla bla bla.
Real men got no time for sermon cheesy
Access them by their actions. Infact, if u come with I love you, I will run without looking back.
I love you means your pant for ground. We never learn.

I learnt this from what I love you did to babes around me, the thing dey scatter their brain and they keep on making mistakes until their eyes go clear.
Our girls read too much romance novels cheesy
To be honest, this kind of woman in the OP is exactly the type of married woman sharp guys are looking for. Very needy, emotionally unstable, and easy to fvck silly. I know her type, dem plenty for Lekki-Epe and environs. grin
They are even ready to start spending husband's money on guys who won't mind shouting all the 'I love you' they want to hear while destroying the punáni without mercy. Some of them will tell you their husband is cheating, so why can't they... Ode.

This one dey find 'I love you' like university student according to lilmax grin
If a man is still showing concern towards the financial affairs and education of his wife even after 5years and multiple births, then its because there is love and genuine care there.
Re: How Can I Stop Loving This Other Man. by UyaiIncomparabl(f): 9:15pm On Dec 11, 2019
crackhaus:

To be honest, this kind of woman in the OP is exactly the type of married woman sharp guys are looking for. Very needy, emotionally unstable, and easy to fvck silly. I know her type, dem plenty for Lekki-Epe and environs. grin
They are even ready to start spending husband's money on guys who won't mind shouting all the 'I love you' they want to hear while destroying the punáni without mercy. Some of them will tell you their husband is cheating, so why can't they... Ode.

This one dey find 'I love you' like university student according to lilmax grin
If a man is still showing concern towards the financial affairs and education of his wife even after 5years and multiple births, then its because there is love and genuine care there.

You don see person wey don support your silly antics. Now, see you giggling all over.

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Re: How Can I Stop Loving This Other Man. by crackhaus: 9:19pm On Dec 11, 2019
UyaiIncomparabl:


You don see person wey don support your silly antics. Now, see you giggling all over.
Carry your naked body soaked in scented coconut oil come this side abeg and watch me roll over to kiss your feet.

I no dey for all this your plenty talks
Re: How Can I Stop Loving This Other Man. by emmaodet: 1:13pm On Dec 12, 2019
crackhaus:

Then this is what you ladies should be helping her develop - satisfaction and nothing else. Encouraging her desires will only validate her feelings for the Telegram guy, which is a very good idea if the end goal is to ensure she cheats on her husband.
My dear Ujujoan2 is even telling her to threaten the husband...husband oo, not boyfriend. Nothing I no go read for family section. grin

I'm sure even after the man starts providing this emotional whatnot, the next request will be for him to start helping with the house chores, because some women have convinced themselves they are Princesses with no Kingdom.

I can't mehn...

Woman did not kill my grandfathers and woman has not killed my father, it is impossible for a woman to kill me.

My broda, u sef see am.
Is it not cheaper, better and more rest of mind to avoid marriage and just be doing pump and dump?
It looks as if marriage will self destruct itself from tooooo much demand from women, it will loose it's appetite.
They will tell you to go and make money that you are broke - then you make the money, then they go further that money is not everything that the average nigerian man does not know any other thing except money, they even mock you that remove money and a nigerian man is useless in a relationship - then you add caring to the it.
The insatiable cheat will still come up with, yes you have money and he is a caring man but
no time
He is getting obese - needs to be running up and down like a crazy dog on the street every morning on top looking for money stress.
Why these lazy ingrates are as useless and lazy like a bag of potatoes.
I hardly see any woman jog in the morning in my street yet they want you to kill yourself.
The list of excuse for a cheat keeps growing, growing and growing.
Then at a point - You ask yourself, does it really worth it? All for what? Sexx? Is that all?
Mehnnnnnnn e no worth am abeg.
A no do again abeg kari ur dirty smelling toto go front.
It is same thing with employees - they keep pushing, pushing there luck until they run out of it.
Employees complain about salary from 50k to 100k, causing strike and so on and after granting them 2 yrs later they are back for 200k that economy is bad, inflation, devaluation blah blah blah.
They need health insurance, house and car loan and the list keeps growing with lesser responsibilities until the company starts thinking if the investment really worth it?

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Re: How Can I Stop Loving This Other Man. by emmaodet: 1:29pm On Dec 12, 2019
CAPTIVATOR:


Thank you. African man mentality most times is that money is all, While women also make mistake getting married for Money whereas their heart is somewhere else. This things causes issues big tyme

Plsssss sir, don't let ladies shy away from taking responsibilities for their decisions.
Why will you say a grown up lady marry a rich man by mistake? Abeg it Greediness.
There is no other name to call it than Greediness.
Even if they marry their heart desired person, a cheat will still cheat because there is a long list of excuse to cheat - not doing well financially, he is not having enough time for her, he is not firing well as required etc

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