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femi4:
So, why are you so sure of going before her

Gang90:
Last time I went to hospital, the doctor said I was having gout, in itself gout is not a sickness but mainly as a result of other things, I feel like I'm having kidney issues because, I feel pains on my sides of the stomach, the I fall really sick regular then when I got taking drugs I didn't know I was ulcer prone and I got taking NSAID which got my intestines whole on the damaging part, now i can't take most drugs and I can't get a relief

mysticgal:
Ode, as you dey talk so, you don scratch my own Car as you dey park
How you wan do am? Give me your number or your insurance company name, address and your policy

Gang90:
Last time I went to hospital, the doctor said I was having gout, in itself gout is not a sickness but mainly as a result of other things, I feel like I'm having kidney issues because, I feel pains on my sides of the stomach, the I fall really sick regular then when I got taking drugs I didn't know I was ulcer prone and I got taking NSAID which got my intestines whole on the damaging part, now i can't take most drugs and I can't get a relief

HolyCaligula:
Alright brother, for your sickness you will be healed.

But on this lady, though i don't know you or her and i have never met you nor talk to you before now, but something in me keeps telling me to tell you to leave her, i don't know and This spirit and urge in me have never been wrong.

My brother listen to your family and break up with her.

No mixing of words bro,. She is an ogbanjeeeee

Based on the order of the Peaky blinders.

Gang90:
I want to fight for us but it is complicated, we used to be a family of seven children 4 boys and three girks our, first born married a woman against the family's wish he got living with her and one day they him and the wife had an issue, he got himself drunk got on the car, ran into a truck by accident he didn't survive it, our second born got married and the marriage had been really bad they almost heading for separation after three kids, I'm the only one yet to marry in my house and it complicated because they are being like twice beaten shy to the last

HolyCaligula:
My brother, what i am going to advice you to do is the best for you.
I will advise you to take what i will say to heart.

First of all, are you really sure that this said lady is ready to marry you?

Because it seems that you are the only one that is serious and telling family members about getting married.

Does she in her mind wants to go into a relationship with you and get married to you?

Because what is the purpose of a relationship between two adults, if not marriage?

Now on the issue of her being an ogbanje,

Now hear me well bro, flashing back to many years ago when she told you that she can be with you without affection.

Forget the issue of whether she was afraid of heart break.

Any woman that wants to be with a man without affection, has a skeleton in her cupboard.

And for the fact that she kept rejecting you up to may this year before she gives in, should tell you that there is a reason why she keeps rejecting you.

And for your family members that have never met her to have concluded that she is an ogbanje, and with all that has happened in the past.

With my knowledge of spiritual and empirical understanding of the spiritual, i can bodily tell you that indeed, 'SHE IS AN OGBANJE'

TAKE it or leave it.

And this your illness, when did it start?
Was it after you met her years ago or before you met her?


Whatever your answer, i know you will not die and you will live long.

Forget about her, break up with her, focus on your health, you need GOD to heal you.

Believe and go to a real Church where the power of healing is being demonstrated fresh and raw and with faith you will get your healing.

But my brother, leave the lady, your family is right.

Based on the order of the Peaky blinders.

Gang90:
I had been feeling sick before I met her, there where times during those gap years that we stay for like a year without communicating, yes she's really serious about marriage, we used to talk about number of kids we want, how I will treat her if she gets pregnant, what I will get her if when she's delivers those kind of talks

lilwetdick:
Your family dont want her and you will soon die.

Why waste her time and make her a young widow?

Leave her Alone.

Gang90:
I know you may later find my identity but I don't care becuase I need help.

I have this loving girlfriend, actually I love her so much and she in many occasions proven how much she loves me. I met her in school around 2014, we were good friends though I asked her for a date then and she said we have no future together then later on she told me if I can date her without being affectionate, I thought she will be using me what's love without affection didn't know she was scared of me breaking her heart, I left school and somehow around May this year I kept disturbing her and at last she gave in, she's a Muslim, we don't mind. She is my first real love.

We been really so good that I thought she's the best option for me in marriage, actually I didn't think I wanted kids but she changed my views and now I started thinking about raising a family with her.

When it becomes really so deep I thought I should let my family know, I have known her as a best friend and now as a girlfriend so I already believes we would be good for a couple so to test the dept of the sea with one leg I had to let my mum know, she was fond of her when I spoke with her on phone, she didn't mind that she was a Muslim from another state but on talking about marriage the whole thing took a new turn.

And before hand the talk got to more family members and I'm this kind of guy that people takes so serious in my house becuase before I say things I already done it halve way, now they say marriage is not something one just go into but that they were happy I spoke on that earlier on.

They say they need some spiritual examination I gave them go ahead, I'm 24 years old, planning to marry her in about 2 to three years. Now they came back saying she's an Ogbanje and that anybody who marries her may die Young. Note I don't really believe those but my family does.

My main issue is I had been battling an underlying health condition now and I'm not sure of staying around for so long and if anything happens to me while we are married my family may hold her responsible and I may not be there to stand for her, she will be coming to see me this Xmas and I'm really confused. I don't know what to do She seems to love me so much already.

femi4:
you have HIV?

Gang90:
I know you may later find my identity but I don't care becuase I need help.

I have this loving girlfriend, actually I love her so much and she in many occasions proven how much she loves me. I met her in school around 2014, we were good friends though I asked her for a date then and she said we have no future together then later on she told me if I can date her without being affectionate, I thought she will be using me what's love without affection didn't know she was scared of me breaking her heart, I left school and somehow around May this year I kept disturbing her and at last she gave in, she's a Muslim, we don't mind. She is my first real love.

We been really so good that I thought she's the best option for me in marriage, actually I didn't think I wanted kids but she changed my views and now I started thinking about raising a family with her.

When it becomes really so deep I thought I should let my family know, I have known her as a best friend and now as a girlfriend so I already believes we would be good for a couple so to test the dept of the sea with one leg I had to let my mum know, she was fond of her when I spoke with her on phone, she didn't mind that she was a Muslim from another state but on talking about marriage the whole thing took a new turn.

And before hand the talk got to more family members and I'm this kind of guy that people takes so serious in my house becuase before I say things I already done it halve way, now they say marriage is not something one just go into but that they were happy I spoke on that earlier on.

They say they need some spiritual examination I gave them go ahead, I'm 24 years old, planning to marry her in about 2 to three years. Now they came back saying she's an Ogbanje and that anybody who marries her may die Young. Note I don't really believe those but my family does.

My main issue is I had been battling an underlying health condition now and I'm not sure of staying around for so long and if anything happens to me while we are married my family may hold her responsible and I may not be there to stand for her, she will be coming to see me this Xmas and I'm really confused. I don't know what to do She seems to love me so much already.

Ginaz:
Save her the future predicament then. Kindly let go of her . But your next girlfriend, won’t she still bear the same fate? Open up to your family about your health so they won’t use it to rope your future wife.

Gang90:
Last time I went to hospital, the doctor said I was having gout, in itself[b] gout[/b] is not a sickness but mainly as a result of other things, I feel like I'm having kidney issues because, I feel pains on my sides of the stomach, the I fall really sick regular then when I got taking drugs I didn't know I was [b]ulcer [/b]prone and I got taking NSAID which got my intestines whole on the damaging part, now i can't take most drugs and I can't get a relief

livebyday:
He does obviously

Likely HIV2

Gang90:
I know you may later find my identity but I don't care becuase I need help.

I have this loving girlfriend, actually I love her so much and she in many occasions proven how much she loves me. I met her in school around 2014, we were good friends though I asked her for a date then and she said we have no future together then later on she told me if I can date her without being affectionate, I thought she will be using me what's love without affection didn't know she was scared of me breaking her heart, I left school and somehow around May this year I kept disturbing her and at last she gave in, she's a Muslim, we don't mind. She is my first real love.

We been really so good that I thought she's the best option for me in marriage, actually I didn't think I wanted kids but she changed my views and now I started thinking about raising a family with her.

When it becomes really so deep I thought I should let my family know, I have known her as a best friend and now as a girlfriend so I already believes we would be good for a couple so to test the dept of the sea with one leg I had to let my mum know, she was fond of her when I spoke with her on phone, she didn't mind that she was a Muslim from another state but on talking about marriage the whole thing took a new turn.

And before hand the talk got to more family members and I'm this kind of guy that people takes so serious in my house becuase before I say things I already done it halve way, now they say marriage is not something one just go into but that they were happy I spoke on that earlier on.

They say they need some spiritual examination I gave them go ahead, I'm 24 years old, planning to marry her in about 2 to three years. Now they came back saying she's an Ogbanje and that anybody who marries her may die Young. Note I don't really believe those but my family does.

My main issue is I had been battling an underlying health condition now and I'm not sure of staying around for so long and if anything happens to me while we are married my family may hold her responsible and I may not be there to stand for her, she will be coming to see me this Xmas and I'm really confused. I don't know what to do She seems to love me so much already.