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The most important thing right now is to be open to her about your ailments..... Let her decide if she wants to marry you irrespective of your conditions. After that, you can start discussing family acceptability

divineappo:
underlying health condition, Lol

Latest format in town

Bros, weldone

What's funny about that, what do you mean by well done?

shogsman:
Wake up it's 2019,HIV is not really a terminal disease.

HIV 1 & 2 aren't' obviously

But AIDS is a different story

delerx:
This is deep ooo. I wish you long life bro in whatever you are going thru. Kindly check my signature

He's dying and you want him to migrate to Scotland to study.

[quote author=eni4real post=84848778]This case dey one kind...

Leave that girl.. Let her go to a guy that will not complicate her life!!!

Your family has started the process of complicating her love life with their spurious claim of ogbanje Nollywood

Your health, which sound terminal, will further complicate things...
(What kind of terminal disease do a 24 year old guy has sef?? )

If you truly love her, please lose her...

Let her go

Concentrate on your main issue first, which is your health challenge. You need to be alive for both of you.

Our parents are priceless gifts to us, trust me nobody can ever love you more than your parents "your mum especially". Most times they mean well so just try talking to them. You just may talk them into liking her you know.

Trust me you don't want to get married to a spouse that your parents don't like. It's not sweet.

First and foremost take care of your health.

eni4real:
Beautiful dp..
Someone like you should contest for Mrs Universe!!
A paragon

Thank you

Gang90:
Last time I went to hospital, the doctor said I was having gout, in itself gout is not a sickness but mainly as a result of other things, I feel like I'm having kidney issues because, I feel pains on my sides of the stomach, the I fall really sick regular then when I got taking drugs I didn't know I was ulcer prone and I got taking NSAID which got my intestines whole on the damaging part, now i can't take most drugs and I can't get a relief

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lilwetdick:
Your family dont want her and you will soon die.

Why waste her time and make her a young widow?

Leave her Alone.

Just sighted a crudely dumb ass here....

Gang90:
As for the prayers we pray together sometimes but Islam and Christian prayers are quite different and for me coming ftom a family of diversified religious view, I lack a strong hold in any religion, I'm a Catholic my Grandma was a Muslim, one of my brother is a deeper life pastor, one of my brother is apologetic to tradition, as for my girlfriend being a Muslim, sometimes we have different views of forces. For example while she don't touch the Islamic Holly book while on her period I understood but I still tell her to pray in her mind as those forces don't care if you are on your period to strike, we pray together but we had never attended any religious program together

See bro, for the religion part, I have been a victim b4 and I took a bold step to quit d relationship. Right now, that decision has been one of the best decision for me.

Different religion view shouldn't be coming into a serious relationship. Something I will never do again.

It has a vr negative impact on the children and the family in the long run.

@ OP are your family even aware of this said health issue you're battling with? If your family(especially your parents) are aware of your health issue then they are in the right position to tell you the truth about your relationship with that girl friend of yours. What an elder sees while sitting, the young can't see while on a roof top

I invite you to attend our ongoing Holy Ghost congress @The Redeemed Christian Church of God, km 46 Lagos - Ibadan express way, or stream online. you'll definitely going to see a GREAT TURNAROUND in your life, only believe. God's been doing great miracles there and He's still doing it. Please don't miss tomorrow's evening session commencing from 7pm. stay blessed.
Shalom.

if Your family still believe on the agbanje spirit, and they tel you and you don't hear them,they will use their hand to kill you and claims its your wife,I don't believe a woman who loves you so much will kill you,but then what is your genotype?
what is your girl genotype?
from there,it might help you break up with her.
and also ask about the opinion of her parent's marrying a non Muslim.

Gang90:
Last time I went to hospital, the doctor said I was having gout, in itself gout is not a sickness but mainly as a result of other things, I feel like I'm having kidney issues because, I feel pains on my sides of the stomach, the I fall really sick regular then when I got taking drugs I didn't know I was ulcer prone and I got taking NSAID which got my intestines whole on the damaging part, now i can't take most drugs and I can't get a relief

Sorry about your situation, but pleaseeee
If u know u truly have a life threatening health condition, u better end that relationship right now, think of your unborn children, think about the girl. Why do u want to ruin her chances. I am glad u are a man, it will be more easier for u to do this, every man must not get married, just let her go. Do not bother explaining to her, sooner than u think she will forget u ever existed.

Why dont you go ahead and ruin it.after all e no concern me.

you sound faithless
STOP FORNICATING WITH THE GIRL.
GIVE YOUR LIFE TO CHRIST.
BOTH OF YOU SHOULD BE DEVOTED TO GODSWORK ANE PRAY TOGETHER & WATCH THOSE PROBLEMS BECOME NOTHING .

There is no long topic in this. You have accepted your fate that you will die young. There is no coming back from it as there is power in the mouth. So it's up to you to start changing your narrative and live long.
So much superstitious belief in your family. Are you sure your family isn't the one that need the prayer more?
Anyway what ever you do, be guided and vigilant.

Dude, am of the opinion you bring ur intending wife up to speed about your current state of health if you truly love her as you claim...
Since, your major dilemma in regards to the issue of dying young if you marry her is centred on your health issue, just come open up.
Hence, she has decided to stay with you, don't be scared...
You really have to be brave. Come out and explain to her. you never can tell, she might accepts to be with you just as you are.
Also, let your people know what your health challenges are.
Life is way too short to be wasted.
There is no wound true love cannot heal.
You have a choice to be very happy, make use of it wisely...

godstime88:
I invite you to attend our ongoing Holy Ghost congress @The Redeemed Christian Church of God, km 46 Lagos - Ibadan express way, or stream online. you'll definitely going to see a GREAT TURNAROUND in your life, only believe. God's been doing great miracles there and He's still doing it. Please don't miss tomorrow's evening session commencing from 7pm. stay blessed.
Shalom.

and what we redeem do.
Redeem is owned by that yoruba muslim scammer,claiming he is a pastor.
Comtinue enriching the jujuju man you hear.

I'd advise on the underlying health issues, stop all medications, change your diet from acidic to completely Akaline, drink spring water only (gossy) consume Akaline fruits, get herbs rich in iron like.
Sarsaparilla
Irish moss
Bladderwack
Burdock
Nettle
Chaparral
There's a legit page on Facebook "fast on herb (SA)" they are in southafrica but it can be shipped down, nature is the only way to heal your body. Peace.

Olude193:
Please concentrate on your health.


Revert back to being friends


God will provide yours.. It's someone who is alive that will marry

God bless u sir
Instead of concentrating on his health, he is talking about marriage. I don't understand the way we reason, so much suffering in the world already, if u don't trust your health, why bring in more people to the world to suffer? Who will take care of them? Live your life to the fullest, take care of health & forget about marriage!

I will advise you to read Efuru by Flora Nwapa

The answer lies therein

I rest my case

Nah you Sabi jawe

Gang90:
I want to fight for us but it is complicated, we used to be a family of seven children 4 boys and three girks our, first born married a woman against the family's wish he got living with her and one day they him and the wife had an issue, he got himself drunk got on the car, ran into a truck by accident he didn't survive it, our second born got married and the marriage had been really bad they almost heading for separation after three kids, I'm the only one yet to marry in my house and it complicated because they are being like twice beaten shy to the last

Young man, you are too young for this now

Why not concentrate on your health for now and probably grow yourself in your chosen career/business.

Marriage! Marriage!! Marriage!!!

He won't die. His student health insurance will help him get solution to his problem

shogsman:
He's dying and you want him to migrate to Scotland to study.

Lwkmd....abeg what kind 0f health condition are you facing?
please i think you have to let an innocent girl run for her life than going to make her a widow at an early age please
Meanwhile next chapter please....

Share ur ordeal wix her...if she stays fine...if she decides to go don't stop her....no use ur own affect DAT innocent girl

karnap:
if Your family still believe on the agbanje spirit, and they tel you and you don't hear them,they will use their hand to kill you and claims its your wife,I don't believe a woman who loves you so much will kill you,but then what is your genotype?
what is your girl genotype?
from there,it might help you break up with her.
and also ask about the opinion of her parent's marrying a non Muslim.

Don't mind his family..

They are already killing him slowly, they are saying an innocent girl is an ogbanje. Nigerian families with their holier than thou attitude.
His two elder brothers, the same family have ruined their homes.

Anyways Op, it seems your family has an ancestral curse on the men.

The only way out for you is Christ. Go to a vibrant church like MFM or you can come to my church Divine appointment ministry international, any curse or illness following you will disappear within a month of drinking our holy communion.

So many have testified about being delivered and healed. A Lil boy of four years Old has always been falling sick since the day he was born til he was four years,every two weeks the dad spends 16K on drugs until he got to 4years old and heard about my Church. His dad brought him to our church, after giving the boy holy communion for like a month, all the illness vanished. He's no longer sick, the dad has stopped buying drugs for his son.

So no matter the illness God can still save you and prolong your life.

Then about your gf, she's Muslim. So forget about Marrying her. That's the only thing I can say about her. Marry a woman of same faith with you, because of the children both of you will later have.

Gang90 you won't die young in Jesus name Amen.

delerx:
He won't die. His student health insurance will help him get solution to his problem

Yeah how savvy of you,you say it like you know what his health problem is.

Gang90:
I'm not implicating her my main issue is marrying against your family's wish, what if you won't be there, would they let her take the kids, would they give her full right and recognition to take care of your ventures and the kids if you are not there, these things can ruin her life if she's denied access to her kids or her kids are brainwashed against her like I said I don't believe those things but people still does

Yes u want to implicate her
U really sound very selfish right now
Why do u want to ruin this girl future? & u claim u love her? What kind of future are u planning for her? Why not die alone? U already stated u are the last child, meaning your elder ones have kids, why do u want to bring this girl and your unborn children into suffering when u can avert it? & to think your family is against her and u still want to go ahead to ruin this girl future is not right at all. If only I can get access to this girl. She will never forgive u if u do this to her, please end the relationship and let her go, put yourself in her shoes. What kind of humans are we God!