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Dudes What Would You Do If You Were In My Shoes? by Ekeletu: 8:20am On Dec 14, 2019
Happy weekend my beautiful people. Please there's something bothering me and I think I should share it here.
I will be very brief.

In 2012 I met a girl and we started dating. One year later, she cheated with a guy and got pregnant. Gave birth to a still child. Because of the love I had for her I forgave her and we continue dating.

In 2015 she cheated again and got pregnant for a guy and aborted it. I called her one day and told her that I can't continue with a cheating partner so we broke up.

After breaking up I became bitter towards women and vow never to be in a relationship again.
During this time of breakup with my ex, we continue communicating and we were just friends. She got into a new relationship which she told me and she advice me to find a girl and love not to stay single and I told her I can't.

After a while we spoke and I asked her about her man she told me that she is with a new guy that the old one left. I asked her why he left she said there was no problem. they just decided to end it.

I added her ex on facebook and chated. I asked him why he broke up with his woman, if she cheated. He told me she didn't, that he has a serious relationship with his hometown girl and his parents want him to marry that his hometown girl, so instead of wasting this other girl's time he had to end it. He began telling me how good this girl was during their time together.

This my ex, since breakup we have been good friends. We seek for advice from one another and help.
She is always coming to me for monetary assistance and when I have I do help. Sometime ago, I lend her 200k to setup a business and when I discovered that the business wasn't moving well I told her not to bother about refund.

Last month I when to visit my people so I branch her shop. Getting there I saw her using a phone and it seems the phone was giving her issues so last week I ordered 52k phone and send to her. She was very happy.

Three days ago she sent me a text that she want us to date again and she vowed she will never cheat again.
I still like this girl but my mind is numb for a relationship. I told her I can't date again that even if I do, I won't love that person like I should.

She keeps on begging me. Today her message woke me up.

Now I don't know why she wants to return back. Is it the goodies she has been getting from me or is it love?
I don't trust women again.

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Re: Dudes What Would You Do If You Were In My Shoes? by General0847: 8:27am On Dec 14, 2019
You need 30 lashes of the koboko and 10 hard knocks on your forehead for the disgrace you have brought to manhood.
You must receive sense by force.

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Re: Dudes What Would You Do If You Were In My Shoes? by luiginho2xl(m): 8:30am On Dec 14, 2019
I love fictions.
You can write anything you imagine. No boundaries.
Op, please don't stop here, add more flavors and spices.
I'm in the mood for reading this early Saturday morning.

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Re: Dudes What Would You Do If You Were In My Shoes? by blesskewe(f): 8:31am On Dec 14, 2019
Bros y na
Re: Dudes What Would You Do If You Were In My Shoes? by Spman: 8:37am On Dec 14, 2019
It seems that lady have jazz dx man. Probably putting him inside bottle

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Re: Dudes What Would You Do If You Were In My Shoes? by Charleys: 8:37am On Dec 14, 2019
You bought 52K phone for her
Re: Dudes What Would You Do If You Were In My Shoes? by horpigee1(m): 8:44am On Dec 14, 2019
he his saying the truth... I was there when he transferred the #2million to his gf.

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Re: Dudes What Would You Do If You Were In My Shoes? by Dshocker(m): 8:49am On Dec 14, 2019
Ekeletu:
Happy weekend my beautiful people. Please there's something bothering me and I think I should share it here.
I will be very brief.

In 2012 I met a girl and we started dating. One year later, she cheated with a guy and got pregnant. Gave birth to a still child. Because of the love I had for her I forgave her and we continue dating.

In 2015 she cheated again and got pregnant for a guy and aborted it. I called her one day and told her that I can't continue with a cheating partner so we broke up.

After breaking up I became bitter towards women and vow never to be in a relationship again.
During this time of breakup with my ex, we continue communicating and we were just friends. She got into a new relationship which she told me and she advice me to find a girl and love not to stay single and I told her I can't.

After a while we spoke and I asked her about her man she told me that she is with a new guy that the old one left. I asked her why he left she said there was no problem. they just decided to end it.

I added her ex on facebook and chated. I asked him why he broke up with his woman, if she cheated. He told me she didn't, that he has a serious relationship with his hometown girl and his parents want him to marry that his hometown girl, so instead of wasting this other girl's time he had to end it. He began telling me how good this girl was during their time together.

This my ex, since breakup we have been good friends. We seek for advice from one another and help.
She is always coming to me for monetary assistance and when I have I do help. Sometime ago, I lend her 200k to setup a business and when I discovered that the business wasn't moving well I told her not to bother about refund.

Last month I when to visit my people so I branch her shop. Getting there I saw her using a phone and it seems the phone was giving her issues so last week I ordered 52k phone and send to her. She was very happy.

Three days ago she sent me a text that she want us to date again and she vowed she will never cheat again.
I still like this girl but my mind is numb for a relationship. I told her I can't date again that even if I do, I won't love that person like I should.

She keeps on begging me. Today her message woke me up.

Now I don't know why she wants to return back. Is it the goodies she has been getting from me or is it love?
I don't trust women again.

Them suppose shade you for showglass,come sell you like doughnut

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Re: Dudes What Would You Do If You Were In My Shoes? by MEGA4BILLION(m): 8:49am On Dec 14, 2019
Inferiority complex and low self esteem has killed this one. Abi them swear for you?

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Re: Dudes What Would You Do If You Were In My Shoes? by uboma(m): 8:55am On Dec 14, 2019
General0847:
You need 30 lashes of the koboko and 10 hard knocks on your forehead for the disgrace you have brought to manhood.
You must receive sense by force.


Lol.

The op don form mugu

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Re: Dudes What Would You Do If You Were In My Shoes? by yomi007k(m): 8:59am On Dec 14, 2019
She wants you for your money. No true love bro.

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Re: Dudes What Would You Do If You Were In My Shoes? by Ekeletu: 9:06am On Dec 14, 2019
luiginho2xl:
I love fictions.
You can write anything you imagine. No boundaries.
Op, please don't stop here, add more flavors and spices.
I'm in the mood for reading this early Saturday morning.

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Re: Dudes What Would You Do If You Were In My Shoes? by Ekeletu: 9:08am On Dec 14, 2019
yomi007k:
She wants you for your money. No true love bro.
My thought.

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Re: Dudes What Would You Do If You Were In My Shoes? by Nobody: 9:08am On Dec 14, 2019
See broda...

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Re: Dudes What Would You Do If You Were In My Shoes? by Ekeletu: 9:09am On Dec 14, 2019
Spman:
It seems that lady have jazz dx man.
Probably putting him inside bottle
lol
Re: Dudes What Would You Do If You Were In My Shoes? by Riele(f): 9:09am On Dec 14, 2019
What would i do if i were in your shoes ??

I would remove your shoe .

Btw

It's like you have too much money to throw around .

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Re: Dudes What Would You Do If You Were In My Shoes? by Fash20: 9:13am On Dec 14, 2019
Wetin musa no go see for gate... Kai
Re: Dudes What Would You Do If You Were In My Shoes? by Nobody: 9:14am On Dec 14, 2019
That’s some real bad azz pvssy....some women just have it.......the OP is hooked....

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Re: Dudes What Would You Do If You Were In My Shoes? by Ekeletu: 9:20am On Dec 14, 2019
Charleys:
You bought 52K phone for her
Wanted to prove a point. The day we broke up I told her no man would ever spent on her the way I do.
Re: Dudes What Would You Do If You Were In My Shoes? by Ekeletu: 9:24am On Dec 14, 2019
Riele:
What would i do if i were in your shoes ??

I would remove your shoe .

Btw

It's like you too much have money to throw around .
remove shoes how?
Re: Dudes What Would You Do If You Were In My Shoes? by Riele(f): 9:27am On Dec 14, 2019
Ekeletu:
remove shoes how?
By staying far from her .
Re: Dudes What Would You Do If You Were In My Shoes? by SUPERPACK: 9:29am On Dec 14, 2019
If love is blind, then marriage is an eye-opener.
Re: Dudes What Would You Do If You Were In My Shoes? by Ab025(m): 9:39am On Dec 14, 2019
Chai....this bros fall hand!

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Re: Dudes What Would You Do If You Were In My Shoes? by Nobody: 10:07am On Dec 14, 2019
Ekeletu:
Wanted to prove a point. The day we broke up I told her no man would ever spent on her the way I do.
really??
You sir, simply wasted your money to impress a soldier ant.. You just don't know it yet, until it bites you..

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Re: Dudes What Would You Do If You Were In My Shoes? by Lightangel65: 10:09am On Dec 14, 2019
You deserved to be Cain 100 strikes.nif this story is real, how could you even still be talking to an ex that hurt you like that.

2 pregnancies didn't open your eyes lol, go and date her again since you are stupid, this time she would have kids for your brother, uncles, dad and cousins. You have low self esteem you are a second hand she is using for cash.

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Re: Dudes What Would You Do If You Were In My Shoes? by Odunolumide(m): 10:13am On Dec 14, 2019
omokoginimi:
See broda...

Wey mumu

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Re: Dudes What Would You Do If You Were In My Shoes? by MOORCHMOORE(m): 10:31am On Dec 14, 2019
horpigee1:
he his saying the truth... I was there when he transferred the #2million to his gf.
You see ur laif, na dis kain thing make my neighbor enta Kirikiri wen the real suspect nefa smell police cell. grin grin grin cheesy

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Re: Dudes What Would You Do If You Were In My Shoes? by drezzyx(m): 10:33am On Dec 14, 2019
My friend run for your life...
Did I just said run infact fly for your life the same thing is bound to happen again..
An if you refused to take this advice and it happens that means you will be owing me 10k...
It is a bet.
Re: Dudes What Would You Do If You Were In My Shoes? by Godsonjolly: 10:38am On Dec 14, 2019
Is this real or an imaginary essay. Well thank goodness we don't use same size of show. I'm size 45 guess urs is 39 lol. Bro leave that girl, she cheated twice and even got pregnant. Oga change ur shoe and jappa

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Re: Dudes What Would You Do If You Were In My Shoes? by Godsonjolly: 10:40am On Dec 14, 2019
Lightangel65:
You deserved to be Cain 100 strikes.nif this story is real, how could you even still be talking to an ex that hurt you like that.

2 pregnancies didn't open your eyes lol, go and date her again since you are stupid, this time she would have kids for your brother, uncles, dad and cousins. You have low self esteem you are a second hand she is using for cash.

So annoying. Even a child won't think like this. I wonder how some so called guys claiming to be men think oo. He should sit down and weigh the bad the girl has done and run

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Re: Dudes What Would You Do If You Were In My Shoes? by vincentjk(m): 10:59am On Dec 14, 2019
If this story na true make I bend. Who u wan decieve for here?

There's an ongoing thread about a nice guy whose gf gave the cake he's been reserving to another guy inside the house he paid for. Lmao u ehn

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